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Jerry & Jodi Lempka
April 14, 2025
My husband (Retired Air Force MasterSergeant) & I just visited Snohomish for the very first time, here to celebrate our 36th wedding anniversary last week. As we parked we noticed the huge mural so we walked over to pay our respects and saw Jeffery´s lone name under Iraq. We paused for a moment of silence and when we got home from our trip I looked up his name & read all the articles so I could put a face to the stories. I´m so so sorry for your loss & I grieve for you in his memory. Thank you is NOT ENOUGH tho I have no other words to give you for this ultimate sacrifice. May you take comfort in all the memories made & know he is NOT FORGOTTEN. We were blessed to come across him in this memorial & we hold his name sacred & will HONOR him as we do every year with all the others, on Memorial Day as we participate in "Taps Across America". God bless you always, in His healing grace. Jerry & Jodi Lempka
Christopher Boyd
October 21, 2022
I still think of this Marine, who gave his life in service of his Country. His words, 'leaving his mark' for our freedoms, as those who have before him, will stay with me the rest of my life. Godspeed Jeffery Starr! You are not forgotten!
Peggy Childers
May 30, 2011
To the family and friends of Cpl. Jeffrey B. Starr:
Please accept my remembrance of Jeffrey on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
~ In Remembrance Of A Young Hero ~
Garnet Jenkins
September 22, 2010
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Peggy Childers
May 30, 2010
To the family and friends of Cpl. Jeffrey B. Starr:
Remembering Jeffrey on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
May 30, 2010
Jeff, on this Memorial Day weekend 2010, we Thank You for the sacrifice you gave for our freedom. You are a true American Hero!
Kenna Larra
June 24, 2009
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Sincerely and Respectfully,
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Peggy Childers
May 31, 2009
To the family of Cpl. Jeffrey B. Starr:
Jeffrey gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Karyn Zielasko-Weingarden
November 8, 2008
It has been 2 years since my grandson Johnathan Wolfer returned from the 3/4 US Marine Corp. after three tours in Iraq. His sister Hope Carrasco is now serving in the 257th AZ Transportation Bat. in Iraq and has been there several month. They both had the honor to share a newpaper with your son Jeffrey. More days then I can count I think of Jeffrey and wish my grandson John and grandaughter Hope would have had the honor to have met him. Both John and Hope graduated from Snohomish High school. My prayers and thoughts are still with you daily. I cannot think of the war without thinking of Jeffrey. I signed this guest book before but just want you to know he is still in my thoughts and thank you for your sacrifice.
Alex Brown
June 30, 2008
You know, it seems not too many days can go by with out me googling your name and finding something new... Its amazing really... after all this time, you still inspire me... Anyway, Thank you Jeff... I hope where you are you understand the difference you made for so many of us, speaking as a brother from the corps and as someone from your hometown... Thank You... Your in my prayers Jeff
LCPL BROWN, ALEXANDER
3rd MARINE DIVISION
The Neal family
June 15, 2008
To the family of Cpl. Starr,
Please know that just as your loved one will remain in your hearts and minds, his sacrifice and that of your family, will remain with the people he died defending. Words cannot express the gratitude we feel for his bravery and selflessness, or the heartache we feel for your loss. God grant you the peace that passes all understanding.
In Memory of Jeffrey ~ (Debra Estep)
May 30, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Jeffrey, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
Visit this link to hear the song.
The Other Side –
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom and MIL
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
John Breazeale
May 28, 2008
You are a courageous and dedicated hero of the highest caliber, you will forever be honored as just that. Rest well Corporal Starr, you have earned it.
May 4, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Cpl Starr!
August 14, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
July 18, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Cpl Starr and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Aunt of a Marine deploying soon
Garnet Jenkins
May 29, 2007
In Remembrance of your Fine Young Marine, Cpl. Jeffrey B. Starr, with so much gratitude for his Courage, Dedication and Service to our Country and for Freedom.
May Jeffrey, rest safely in God's Care and know that he is a True American hero, that shall Never Be Forgotten.
May the Peace of the Lord continue to be with the Starr family.
There will Never Be Enough Ways, to Humbly Thank these Young Heroes, for their Sacrifices, my brother among them. Killed in action in Vietnam in 1967.
"And God shall wipe away every tear from their eyes,
there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying,
there shall be no more pain. For the former things have have passed away." ~ Revelations 21:4 ~
May you find peace in knowing the love and memories you have of Jeffrey, will remain in your heart forever and that this Country Remembers his Sacrifice.
I am So Deeply Sorry for your loss.
April 17, 2007
Dear Ones,
The picture of your son in his helmet, looking back over his shoulder is precious. I am sure that many more precious memories are stored up in your hearts. I offer you my appreciation for giving of your most valued possesion...your son. My prayers will be for you as you go forward in life.
S. G. Indiana
Anthony Perella
April 3, 2007
Jeff,
You are the true definition of a hero. Not a day passes that I don't think about you. You were an excelent Marine and an even greater friend. You will never be forgotten.
Anthony Perella
April 3, 2007
Jeff,
You are the true definition of a hero. Not a day passes that I don't think about you. You were an excelent Marine and an even greater fiend. You will never be forgotten.
Shawnee (Austin, TX)
March 27, 2007
Althought I didn't know your loved one...I wanted to say that I'm sorry for your loss. To me and many others, he is a hero and will not be forgotten.
Rest in Peace.
Sonny Morgan
November 19, 2006
Hey brother. Just stopping by to say hello. My son is getting bigger and bigger. Can't wait to tell him about you when he gets older. See ya soon!
J.R.
November 18, 2006
Hey Buddy not a day goes by that I don't think of you and the sacrafice you made for me and my girls. I would have loved to grow old watching you get older to. You are a great friend and I am blessed to know you. Thanks for everything and say hi to Jesus for me.
Laura Cameron
September 10, 2006
To the family and friends
I have only just begun this journey and may not have known your loved one personally.
I extend to you my deepest condolences. No words will ever express the grief those close to this lost treasure are feeling. I can only say that I can share this grief as I too lost a loved one July 8, 2006. I will continue to pray for the safety of our soldiers and especially the family and friends of our lost hero’s. I only hope the memories will carry us through. I will continue pray that you also will believe and know that our heavenly father will not give us more than we can handle.
As always I read (and cry) through the memorials of our lost hero’s, So many people have already expressed the things I would also say. I am amazed and take comfort that so many people care. I can only thank you for the sacrifice you and especially Jeffrey have made to protect our country. As others have said “I am only an email away.” I would be honored if you so choose to share about this fine hero.
Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Matthew 11:28
Laura Cameron
(CPL Joseph P Micks KIA 7/8/2006 Ramadi, Iraq)
ROBYN GARSIDE
August 5, 2006
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON FOR YOU ALWAYS. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI
A PROUD MARINE MOM
June 29, 2006
Just thinking about you brother. See ya soon.
Linda Hernandez
June 28, 2006
Jeffrey's parents, While my son was in Iraq this last deployement, I was reading an article on the internet about a U.S. Marine losing his life in Iraq. As I finished the article I realized the dates that Jeffrey was in bootcamp were somewhat the same dates my son was there. I got up to get his group picture, and found Jeffrey's picture and name on it. My heart broke. Just to know that it was someone my son had been with at bootcamp. It's heartbreaking enough to know someone, somewhere is losing a son,daughter,dad,uncle,etc...
My sympathy goes out to you and your family.
His name, along with two other names (that our family has lost in the past 2 years)are said in a prayer every night; that their souls be resting in peace at God's table; and for the souls of the thousands of other military personnel America has lost. I never knew Jeffrey, but who knows, maybe I passed by him and saw him in person that proud graduation day at MCRD in November of 2001.. never imagining that someday I would saying his name every night during prayer. I am so sorry for your loss.
Thank you Jeffrey, for your sacrifice. Semper Fi
God Bless You and your family.
Karen
June 23, 2006
I saw your entry on the MarineParents message board. How truly kind and thoughtful of you to bring the "CP 8" to the attention of President Bush. My son is in Iraq now for the 2nd time, and as a Mom well, I don't even have the words to say.....I love Jeffrey and am proud of him even though I never met him.
Merridy Eason
June 21, 2006
It is hard to believe that a year has already passed since that day the Jeff left us to watch over all of us.
I got married in May, down in Las Vegas. One night my husband and I were walking by the fountains at the Bellagio, the song was God Bless the USA. It made me think of Jeff. Later that night my husband looked at me and said that was Jeff's way of saying hello. I was in tears.
shellie starr
May 5, 2006
Jeffrey, I sat by your grave today. I brought my chair so I could just sit and be with my boy. I miss you so, always always will. Just wish things could've been different. I would've so loved to know you as a young man. You have my heart forever. mom
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
March 4, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the Starr family in the loss of Jeffrey. I did not know Jeffrey, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. Jeffrey soon it will be 10 months since you were taken. You are a hero and you will never be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Vance High
January 30, 2006
Dear Brian, Shellie, Hillary & Emily,
I taught Jeff in 8th grade at Valley View Midde School. I still laugh at some of the jokes we shared in class back then (1995). His loss will always be felt and his legacy will be one for us to emulate. His laughter still echoes in my memory. God bless you my friend.
Vangi & McKaLyne Lunsford
January 12, 2006
Psalm 23
1
The LORD is my shepherd, I shall not be in want.
2
He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters,
3
He restores my soul. He guides me in paths of righteousness for his name's sake.
4
Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.
5
You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.
6
Surely goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever.
This is a verse that I have found to be comforting to me during my husbands death. Remember that when it seems that no one else is round, God is still there with you! And he will be your rock!
My daughter,McKaLyne, and I send our heartfelt sympathy for your loss! God Bless this warrior, God Bless those whom serve freedom's cause! They are our true HERO's!!!!
If you need anything, please feel free to contact me!!!
Wife & Daughter of the Late
Sgt. Audrey Daron Lunsford
KIA May 23, 2005
Sonny Morgan
December 6, 2005
Jeff and I started our time in the Corps together. We were in Golf Company at MCRD San Diego when we met. In the same platoon (Platoon 2003). Jeff was the scribe. We became Marines and then proceeded to SOI together at Camp Pendleton. From there we went to the 1/5 together. Jeff went to B Co. and I went A Co. Anyway to keep this short and sweet, he and I did our first two tours together and I just heard about his letter to his girlfriend and I read it.........he was/is a really good friend and this was the first time that I have shed any tears in a very, very long time. I love him like a brother and his memory will be passed on through me to my first born. (due in March) I pray that there are more out there like your son.
Renee' Ayres
December 2, 2005
I just wanted to let you know we still think of Jeff daily. He is a hero.
Johnathan Calamaro
November 22, 2005
I graduated with Jeff He was a nice young man I actually grew up with him going from k-12th grade hwe was always kind. I am in the Airforce and my heart goes out Jeff you are a true american and it is time like these when you answer the call of duty adn serve this great country you will always be with us Go Panthers
Michael Dutka Jr.
November 8, 2005
I'm not good with words sorry. God Bless you Jeff and God Bless your family. Thanks
Brian Fenrich
November 7, 2005
Shellie, family, and friends,
May God bless all of you! Many people live a very long life in years, although they leave a very quite, and short lived legacy. Jeff has left all of us with such an incredible legacy. Think of Jeff as an angel, looking over all of us, everyday. A man so unselfish, to be willing to give his life, for the freedom to so many. A truly great man!! Jeff makes me so proud to be an American!!
All my best!!
John Kanca III,DMD
November 4, 2005
What a remarkable young man. I was left speechless reading that letter. It is perhaps the most beautiful letter I have ever read. Godspeed, Corporal.
Rev. James Andrews
November 4, 2005
As a volunteer veteran that has lived through WWll, the Cold War, Korea and Vietnam and all the others since then to this date. I am proud to have been affiliated with a real American Hero.
I proudly serve as vice president of the "Always Remembered Foundation" which is an all Texan group, and with your permission would like to propose that the foundation make your beloved son an honorary Texan and be included with those whom we honor.
In Christ's Name,
Dr. J.A. Andrews
Hubert Jordan
November 4, 2005
My deepest condolances on the loss of your son. I read his letter and I can tell you it was one of the most inspiring letters I have ever read. As a combat veteran of the Vietnam War who lost many friends fighting for freedom your son's letter made me feel proud that we still have people in this country that put freedom first. His letter showed he was wise beyond his years, for he knew how precious our freedom is. I salute him and I thank you for your sacrifice. God Bless Jeffery and may God grant you all peace.
Matthew Sanchez
November 4, 2005
Dear Ma'am, I just saw you on television and I wanted to tell you how inspired I was by your son's words. He made me proud to be a Marine.
Thank you,
Cpl. Matt Sanchez
USMC
Nick Hess
November 3, 2005
I was incredibly moved by Jeffrey's letter. I believe it represents the best of America and is in the spirit of those who founded our great nation. America is very proud of this great Marine.
Joe Hornsby
November 3, 2005
Jeffrey is the reason all of us enjoy the freedoms we have today.
God Bless him and his family.
Eleanor Repole
November 3, 2005
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Starr,
I just saw Shellie on Bill O'Reilly's show. My heart goes out to you both. My son is a Marine presently serving in Iraq. This is his second deployment. I have often thought what it must be like to lose a son in the war, and just the thought of it overwhelms me. I am so sorry that you are living my nightmare. I hope you are able to call upon Jeffrey's beautiful letter in your darkest moments and glean solace from the powerful words he left. He is a true hero. Bless you.
Michael Giobbe
November 3, 2005
Jeffery is a hero and inspiration to all Americans. We can all be justly proud of him. God bless his soul.
Michael Pulliam
November 3, 2005
Dear Starr Family,
I just became aware of your Son's sacrifice. I am so sorry for your loss. My son is also with the 5th Marines, in 3rd.Btn. India Company
He is also going back for a 3rd tour in Jan.
I pray for peace and healing for your family and for all of our brave men and women who are willing to sacrafice for others.
God bless you.
Mike Pulliam, Proud Father of a Marine.
MIchael Chapman
November 3, 2005
To the parents of Cpl. Jeffery Starr and the people of Snohomish: There are not many words that can express the pride and appreciation that I am feeling as I write this note. I read Jeffery's letter this morning and was profoundly touched by how courageous and clear he was about what he was doing for us. We now have proof that our soldiers today are no different than our soldiers of past wars such as WWII. I sit here with tears in my eyes because myself, my wife, and my three girls have lost a true hero. God Bless Jeffery Starr and all who celebrate his beautiful life.
Philippe Richir
October 31, 2005
Dear Mr. & Mrs. Starr,
My english is not very good (I speak french) but I would say how many important is the sacrifice of your son form me. I was born in europe and I know my FREEDOM began because a lot of young men, like your son, have give her live to freedom europe in '45. And what he done in Irak will be keept in the hart of all the iraki people who want realy build a new country based on tolerance, justice and liberty.
God Bless you and your country
Jim
October 30, 2005
Dear Mr. & Mrs. Starr,
I am truly humbled by your son's story and letter. As othres have said, he makes me proud to be an American. Please accept my most heartfelt condolences.
Semper Fi Jeff.
Roger Rhoads
October 29, 2005
Mr and Mrs Starr words cannot express the sorrow you must feel at the loss of your brave son. Please know that many know of his sacrifice and are praying you and your family.
Evelyn Thomassy
October 29, 2005
I will think of your wonderful son whenver I see a star in the sky. I know he looks down on us as we remember his life and his service. We military families know our loved ones do a noble job not many people have the courage to do. Thank you, Jeffrey. The Thomassy, Brown and Barber family
Susan Ochoa
October 29, 2005
There are tears in my eyes as I write this. I too have a son whom I love very much. I hope that my son grows up to be at least half the man that Cpl. Jeffrey B. Starr was.
Victor Nischik
October 29, 2005
I salute you, noble warrior! I would have gladly done the same, given the opportunity.
Timothy Lawrence
October 29, 2005
Your son is a true hero. May God bless you.
Tim Gara
October 29, 2005
The life of Cpl. Jeffrey Starr, a man I've never met has moved me deeply. His convictions, his courage, and above all his selflessness in the face of danger is inspiring. His time with us, and the example he has set is an inmeasurable contribution to all of us.
Your loss is my loss; and a loss to all of humanity.
I hope your grief is tempered by pride for Cpl. Jeffrey Starr and memories of the good times you shared.
Michael Boxer
October 29, 2005
I watched the flag pass by one day,
It fluttered in the breeze.
A young Marine saluted it,
And then he stood at ease.
I looked at him in uniform
So young, so tall, so proud,
With hair cut square and eyes alert
He'd stand out in any crowd.
I thought how many men like him
Had fallen through the years.
How many died on foreign soil
How many mothers' tears?
How many pilots' planes shot down?
How many died at sea
How many foxholes were soldiers' graves?
No, freedom isn't free.
I heard the sound of Taps one night,
When everything was still,
I listened to the bugler play
And felt a sudden chill.
I wondered just how many times
That Taps had meant "Amen,"
When a flag had draped a coffin.
Of a brother or a friend.
I thought of all the children,
Of the mothers and the wives,
Of fathers, sons and husbands
With interrupted lives.
I thought about a graveyard
At the bottom of the sea
Of unmarked graves in Arlington.
No, freedom isn't free.
(author unknown)
RIP Marine.
from
A Vietnam Veteran
Ray and Linda Schlange
October 29, 2005
Mr. and Mrs. Starr, May God Bless your souls and give you peace in this time of great loss. Bless your son and thank you for raising such a fine young man. His light will never dim.
Joanna Clark
October 29, 2005
Thank you, Jeffrey, for your courage, honor and sacrifice. You are a hero.
Joyce Romano
October 29, 2005
May this brave and heroic young man rest in peace at God's right hand where he has earned his place in heaven. Jeffrey is a wonderful example of a great American who understood the meaning and price of freedom. Condolences to his family who raised and will miss such a fine young son, and to all of us who have lost the kind of fellow American who makes us all so proud.
Elena Chester
October 28, 2005
Mr. and Mrs. Starr, our thoughts and prayers are with you. Thank you for your sacrifice. Your son represents the best of America, my belowed adopted homeland, and our hearts break for your loss. May God bless and comfort you.
Cpl. Starr, R.I.P.
Ann Snyder
October 28, 2005
To the Starr family:
God has blessed us, to have had your son on this earth, no matter for how long.
He is waiting for us all.
Avinash Singh
October 28, 2005
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Starr:
God bless Jeffrey and the rest of your family. His sacrifice will never be forgotten, he has served his country and humanity well. May he take his rightful place among the angels.
Robert Culhane
October 28, 2005
He's with Mr. Lincoln now and they both smiled as the Constitution passed.
Brent Taylor
October 28, 2005
To the Starr family,
I read of Jeffrey's death tonight on a website. It is a privilege for me to sign this guestbook.
Though anytime somebody so young loses their life it's tragic, I'm reminded of an old adage I once heard:
"No man is a fool who loses what he can not keep to gain what he can not lose."
To all of Jeffery's loved ones, especially the mother and father, I can only provide this for comfort. But I believe you'll understand what I mean.
What a reunion it will be one day when you see your son again!
To all of the family, thank you for Jeffrey.
Walter Johnson
October 28, 2005
All praise to a true Marine and a great American. May God watch over his family and friends, and all the military wherever they may be. From a Vietnam Air Force Tsgt vet.
Bernadette
October 28, 2005
My thoughts and prayers are with your family as you grieve the loss of your beloved Jeffrey. Although I do not know you personally, I wanted to let you know that I appreciate the sacrifice he and you have made so that I can be free and so that the people of Iraq will also know freedom. God bless you all.
Mark McManus
October 28, 2005
Corporal Jeff Starr is a hero.
Don St. John
October 28, 2005
I feel yor pain but Thank You!
Lost my son also...
Stefanie Urzua
October 28, 2005
I haven't the words to really convey how I feel. This country is what it is because there are men and women who are so strong in their soul that they will lay down their life for a cause, in this case, a glimmer of what can be, for millions of others that they will never know. All I can say is thank you. Thank you for me, my family and my country. And my prayers are with you everyday...everyday.
Alain Francoeur
October 28, 2005
I am deeply moved by Cpl. Starr's letter. My condolences to the family and friends of this great American, and above all, a heartfelt "Thank You" for sharing this brave man with your country.
God bless you and yours.
Jeff Smith
October 28, 2005
While it is always sad to lose a person so young, it is overwhelmingly so in the case of Cpl. Starr. I read with tears of sadness and pride the letter Cpl Starr wrote to his girlfriend. He has honored us all through his clarity of purpose and his sacrifice for others. I wish I had had the opportunity to thank him personally. I hope that the Starr family will get this message and be comforted in the knowledge that many people care about them and respect their son's selflessness and patriotism. God bless you.
John Ruane
October 28, 2005
Cpl.Jeffrey B, Starr U.S.M.C.,current assignment,Guard; Gates of heaven.may your memory live forever.
MSG Carl Mueller (U.S. Army, Ret.)
October 28, 2005
I'm reminded of the addage, "All gave some, some gave all." Cpl Starr gave his last full measure of devotion to his country and the cause of freedom in Iraq. His final letter reflects the selfless sacrifice of this great young American.
Blake & Tina O'Brien
October 28, 2005
Words are never adequate to express our love, pride & gratitude for such sacrifice.
We simply say "Thank you" & God bless.
Frank Lee
October 28, 2005
God bless your family always and all the families of all our soldiers.
Jacob Palafox
October 15, 2005
To the Starr family I had the privilage to serve with your son in OIF 2. We stood many long nights on post together, and of course I can't forget the longest firefight in Fallujah that we fought on the roof of house while we were pinned down, I was the guy to his left, let me say he is very brave and a tough marine warrior, you are missed but never forgotten, your fellow marine brother Cpl.Jacob Palafox
Jamie Thomas
September 23, 2005
My prayers are with your family. I read a story about your son and although it brought a storm of tears it also made me proud to know of some of the great guys that are protecting our country. My husband being in Iraq right now, it makes you greatful for each and every letter and phone call. We thank you for your son's bravery and he will remain a hero and will be honored for lifetimes to come.
Susan Stoetzer
September 22, 2005
Starr Family,
Tears filled my eyes as I read an article about your son's last letter. Stay strong for he will always be with you.
Sue
Sara Thomas
September 21, 2005
Thank you for the sacrifices you've all made. I cannot imagine how difficult this time has been for you. I want you to know that you are all in my prayers. What Cpl Starr and our other service members do for us is nothing short of amazing. I can only say that I could never be more grateful than to someone who sacrifices their life for me and does not know even know my name.
Emmylyn, my husband is a Marine currently serving in Afghanistan. While he is gone, my son and I are anxiously waiting for his retun. I cannot even think about living my life without him, and so I can only imagine the pain you are going through. Stay strong and keep your head held high.
Our prayers are with you all.
Semper Fi.
Kyle, Sara, and Landon Thomas
Bilquis Ahmed
September 21, 2005
Jeffrey you are a shining star in heaven, thank you for serving. I am overwhelmed reading your last letter home. I am a proud mother of two marines both having served in Iraq, one still there one going back, but when a marine falls I feel it is my own, heartfelt condolences to the bereaved family God grant you peace.
DAVID GIRT
September 21, 2005
Your son was a very special person whose legacy will live on with all current and future Marines. His sacrifice will not be forgotten. Please find peace knowing he is now one of the angels guarding the pearly gates waiting for his loved ones to arrive. Semper Fidelis our fellow Marine! Sergeant David Girt USMCR 3rd Battalion / 25th Marines 4th Marine Division
Patrick Quinn
September 21, 2005
I served from 1992-2000. I didn't know Corporal Starr. I am most proud of myself that I can in some way be associated with a such a hero. We share the title we so earned and I am so proud to share that title with Jeffrey Starr. I can't imagine what his family and friends are going through, but if it is some comfort that some Marines like myself believe that dieing on the battlefield is the most honorable way to give it all to the Corps. We as Marines are not brainwashed, we are dedicated to our fellow Marine brothers and Our Marine Corps. If you are religious people have faith that your family received him in heaven and his second family of heros or Marines that have passed are taking care of him as we speak. May God bless you and yours and the Spirit and Life of Corporal Jeffery B. Starr. I will set my alarm to 2:30pm in honor of him, I will use it as a reminder everyday of the sacrifice he made for all of us. God Bless.
Sgt Patrick Quinn
USMC
Karyn Zielasko-Westre
September 20, 2005
My heart goes out to your family, I also have a Snohomish graduate Marine LCpl.Johnathan Wolfer 111 serving In Iraq in the "Thundering Third" Marine as a gunner on a Humvee. He is home safe today from his 2nd term in Iraq and our worst fear is that he will leave us again in December for a 3rd test of God's FATE... My grandson was in a battle they called the "father's day masacre" and his eyes show the distance when he speaks of it. I cannot express how much my heart breaks for your loss and pray that St. Jude will remaine with you throughout your life giving you strength to remember such a brave and honorable Marine. It was a way of life to them as my grandson has taught me! I must end this message as my eyes cannot see the screen through the tears. Love & Sempe Fi
shawnee
September 19, 2005
I didn't know Cpl Starr, but I wanted to say how sorry I am about your lost.
Amber
September 18, 2005
Sorry for your loss Emmylyn -
I can't imagine life without the one you love. Stay strong. You're in our prayers.
Marie Glidden
September 3, 2005
To the Starr family and friends,
I am a flight medic and I had the difficult task to fly him one last time, I didn't know Jeffrey, all I knew is he was a tall man. I did not want to put him in the back, so he rode in the front,I touched his shoulder, said a short prayer. The ride across the lake was solemn, when we got him out of the helicopter I had to look at his kevlar to know the name of this fallen heroe.
Cassidy Stuck
August 19, 2005
My dear friends. I am the wife of a honorable retired Marine. My husband served our country for 20 years. We recently retired and moved to Utah where he is now working for Union Pacific. Our oldest son is now following his footsteps and is going into the USMC on Monday (Aug 22) morning at 3:45 am. Our son, our baby - now a man, serving our country with honor, passion and love. My heart is filled with pride knowing that young men and women still serve with want, will and wisdom. I am humbled at this website and want to thank those other wives and mothers for supplying the stitches to keep the blanket of freedom together. God Bless You All. With respect, Cassidy Stuck
Stacey Liddle
August 8, 2005
To the Starr family;
My son was/is a friend of Jeffs. He was with Jeff in Iraq. My son is still in Iraq. He told me what a wonderful person Jeff was. He told me, Jeff was one of his close friends. My son was deeply saddend by the loss of Jeff. He is getting a tattoo of Jeff on him when he returns to the states. He said that way he will never forget what Jeff did for his country, his family, his corp, his fellow marines. You will always be in our prayers, and my son will never let anyone forget Jeff. God Bless You.
STEVE CLEAVER
July 28, 2005
MY SON IS A MARINE WHO HAS SERVED IN IRAQ TWICE.I CAN ONLY SAY THANK GOD FOR SONS LIKE OURS AND OTHERS LIKE THEM.DEFENDING LIBERTY BOTH OURS AND OTHERS ABROAD IS THE GREATEST CALLING THERE IS.I WEPT AT YOUR LOSS AND SEND MY HEARTFELT THANK YOU FOR RAISING SUCH A NOBLE SON. MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.GOD BLESS,STEVE CLEAVER
Kenneth Tate
July 18, 2005
To the Starr Family,
My hat is off to Jeff and all those who sacrificed their lives, and those who are serving in the combat zones. I salute all members of the armed forces.
Kenneth M. Tate
SSgt. USA Retired
Rick Utt
June 24, 2005
To Jeff's Family,
I attended Jeff's memorial service and was so very impressed with the character and quailty of this young Christain man and the family that gave him to us. I do not presume to know the depth of the grief you feel but I do want to know the faith and hope that you and Jeff have shown your community. As it says in John 5:24.(NEB)"In very truth, anyone who gives heed to what I say and puts his trust in him who sent me has hold of eternal life, and does not come up for judgement, but has already passed from death to life."
God speed Jeff. I look forward to meeting you one day and getting to know you better.
Renee' Ayres
June 23, 2005
I never had the chance to meet Jeff but when my husband heard of his passing he wept. He is a hero that my children will learn about. He was with my husband in Fallujah Iraq. Because of him and a few other brave Marines my husband is alive after being seriously wounded.
Thank you for raising an incredible young man.
With much love
Our Heroes: Corey and Shane McFadden and Jeff Starr
Roni McFadden
June 15, 2005
Dearest Shellie and family,
Just wanted to add this picture of the last time we saw Jeff to the guest book.
Our Heroes!
Corey McFadden, Firefighter, Willits, CA 23,
DC2 Shane McFadden, USN, Pensacola Naval Air Station, Florida 25.
Cpl Jeffrey B. Starr, USMC, 22, Fallen Hero, and always in our hearts. We love you!
Stephen Welty
June 13, 2005
Dear Family and Friends of Jeff,
I was saddened to hear of your great loss. I was in the Navy and have many good friends in the Navy and Marine Corps who have served in this great struggle for freedom in a civilized world. Jeff's story is both humbling and inspiring. His sacrific helped perserve the life and liberty of my family. For this I am eternally grateful.
I was named after the first Martyr in the New Testament (Stephen who was stoned by followers of Saul prior to his conversion). Jeff and others who like him have died in the War on Terrorism are modern day Martys and are surely blessed in Heaven. Thank you for raising this fine young man. Your country owes you and your son a debt it can never repay. We will never forget Jeff. I will tell my children about Jeff's sacrific so they will know about the price that was paid for their most precious freedoms in our beloved land.
May God grant you comfort during this most trying time.
Stephen Welty
Shelli Morrow
June 13, 2005
There are simply no words to let you know the deep respect I have for Jeff, or the sympathies I have for your family. My heart goes out to you, and you are in my prayers.
Semper Fi
Shelli
PMM of CPL Paul R.
Jessica Martichuski
June 12, 2005
Dear Starr Family,
I graduated with Jeff and have known him for a few years, though we were not "close friends", I feel for your deep loss. To be honest with you, I never knew how brave and selfless Jeff was. All I knew for sure is he worked hard in school and took pride in what he did from P.E. class to J.R.O.T.C. May god bless you and your family. Jeff is now and will always be in my prayers.
God Bless you again,
Jessica
Larry & Cheryl Traylor
June 10, 2005
Dear Starr Family,
We are so deeply sorry to hear of the world's loss of Jeff. We are honored to have known him. May God bless and comfort you and we know Jeff is now with Him. America is what it is, only by the sacrifices of soldiers and their families. God Bless you.
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