Rev. Boyd H. MAY Jr.

Rev. Boyd H. MAY Jr.

Boyd MAY Obituary

Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch on Sep. 25, 2009.
MAY, The Rev. Boyd H. Jr., M.D., 77, of Richmond, died in his home with his family on September 22, 2009. He is survived by his wife of 53 years, Patricia Sexton May; and their four children and grandchildren, daughter, Susan and her husband, John Bland, and children Alex, Hannah, Neil and Tonya; son, Rev. David May and his wife, Emily, and sons, John and Ben; daughter, Laura and her husband, Craig Condrey, and children, Emma and Ford; and son, Thomas and his wife, Alisa West, and their children, Samuel and Virginia Grace. Dr. May is also survived by his nephew, Jim Stemple and his wife, Cindy, and their two daughters; and his niece, Ellen Shaw and her husband, Glenn, and their three daughters. Dr. May was an anesthesiologist, having graduated from MCV in 1956 and served in private practice in Richmond, Norfolk and Nashville. Dr. May was also a graduate of the School of Theology at the University of the South, Sewanee, Tenn., and was ordained an Episcopal priest in 1974 in the Diocese of Southern Virginia by the Rt. Rev. David Rose. Dr. May served parishes in Norfolk (Christ and St. Luke's), Nashville (St. David's) and in Richmond (Our Savior and The Church of the Holy Comforter) and was loved and respected as a challenging preacher and deeply compassionate pastor. A Holy Eucharist of the Resurrection will be celebrated in thanksgiving for Dr. May's life and ministry at the Church of the Holy Comforter, 4819 Monument Ave., Richmond, Va. 23230, on Saturday, September 26 at 11 a.m. The family will join friends for a reception immediately following the service in the parish house. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial gifts in thanksgiving to God for Dr. May's life be directed to the Westminster Canterbury Fellowship Fund, 1600 Westbrook Ave., Richmond, Va. 23227, or to the Church of the Holy Comforter.
This obituary was originally published in the Richmond Times-Dispatch.

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September 28, 2009

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September 26, 2009

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September 26, 2009

Jean & Dewey Foust posted to the memorial.

September 28, 2009

Laura,
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your Dad. You and your family are in my thoughts.

Bitty Cook

Jim Foust & Family

September 26, 2009

May the peace which comes from the memories of good times and love shared with Uncle Boyd, comfort you now and in the days ahead. Our thoughts and prayers are with you always. Please let us know if we can do anything to help you and your family.

Love,
Jim, Robin, Aubree, Beau, and Carrie Foust

Jean & Dewey Foust

September 26, 2009

You are in our thoughts and prayers and are sorry we are not able to travel to Richmond to be with you.

Love,
Jean and "Chubby" Foust

Steve Alloway

September 26, 2009

You are all in my prayers. I will always remember the days I shared with Boyd as fellow pipers. They are truly some of my happiest days. He couldn’t help but to bring smiles, peace and joy to all of us. I will miss him dearly. Boyd, Heaven is blessed to have you as one of their new pipers…remember, “Hold the holds and cut the cuts!”

Gail Heaton

September 25, 2009

Maury and I feel grateful to have known Boyd. We will remember always his gentle and courageous leadership in the church community. Please accept our heartfelt condolences for your loss.
Love,
Gail

Commins Family

September 25, 2009

Dear May family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you at this time. Dr. May was a dear friend and we carry so many wonderful memories of him in our hearts. God bless you.

Love,
The Commins family

Michele Commins

September 25, 2009

Laura,

I am so very sorry and have all of you in my thoughts and prayers. I have so many fond memories of your dad especially when we worked at the clinic. He was a dear person and I loved him lots.

Much love,
Michele

Mark Mobley

September 25, 2009

Boyd was a kind and loving man.
He will be greatly misses by his friends and family at HoCo.

Kirk von Seelen

September 25, 2009

Dear Aunt Pat, Susan, David, Laura and Tom- I write with a heavy heart as I think back on all the wonderful times our families have shared together. The warmth and kindness extended by your family to ours over the decades has has left indelible marks on me that will never be forgotten. I will never forget the thrill of serving as an acolyte at your dad's ordaination. Just to have been included that day meant so much to me. Also, the memory of summer vacations together, playing GI Joe with David and spying on the girls. In the summer of 1988, as we were transitioning to Richmond after losing my job on Wall Street, there was never any hesitation when I asked if I could stay for some time. The answer was "of course." The constant denominator to all of these memories is your dad, a rare, cultured man who loved the arts and sciences. Your loss is great and I feel pain for your pain. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time. I love you all.

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