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Lani Cline
December 3, 2008
We think of you often A.J.--we miss you.
Love, Uncle Lance, Aunt Lani and Cousins, Camdon & Grayson
Sue Cline
December 3, 2008
AJ - There are no words to express how much you are loved and missed. Memories of you will last a lifetime. You are an angel among all who knew you. I love you - Gramma Sue
December 3, 2008
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December 3, 2008
I MISS YOU SO MUCH, A.J.!
I love you - Mom
December 3, 2008
You’ve been gone a year, but our memories of you and our love for you remain forever. Until we meet again, may God hold you in the palm of His hand. Watch over us, A.J. love, Mom, Shannon, Kyle and Shaye
JoEllen Murphy
October 25, 2008
To AJ's Family, Last night was another big win for the East Trojans. Ethan tell us that he says a prayer for AJ before every game, and he knows that AJ is watching over them, and so happy that they are winning! I will never forget last spring when it was pouring at the Iroquois/East Lacrosse game, and the Trojans were losing. Ethan later said that he told the team that Iroquois was the last team AJ played lacrosse against and how sad he was when East lost. He told them they had to win that game for AJ. Ethan scored two goals that game, and win they did!! AJ has been an inspiration that Ethan will never forget. I can tell you with all sincerity that when Ethan goes off to college, and plays his lacrosse in Maryland, he will take a part of AJ in his heart. Back 4 years ago there was no one that was kinder to a mere 8th grader than AJ Larson!! In the movie, "It's a Wonderful Life," Clarence tells George Bailey that you never know how much your life affects another. I hope it brings some comfort to you and your family to know that Ethan, for one, will always be a better person for having known your AJ. Take Care, JoEllen Murphy
East beats West!! 10-17-2008
October 18, 2008
East beat West, A.J. - East beat West!! I know you were there cheering them on! Your friends say they're playing for you, A.J. - you are so unbelievably missed by everybody. Mom xxoo
September 3, 2008
It's 9 months today, Ozzie. I've been thinking about the 9 months I carried you . . . Mom XO
August 30, 2008
Your stone went in today - it's gorgeous - exactly what I wanted for you, and a wonderful tribute. I love you, A.J., and I miss you more than I can ever express. Mom
dan smith
May 21, 2008
look bro,
there hasnt been one day that went by that i havent thought about each and every memory iv had with you. its just so insane. i remember when you went to cali for a few months, i couldnt stand it. but i still had the comfort of knowing you were coming home. but now i know u aint. and u have no idea how much it hurts me bro. i just dont kno why someone so innocent had to leave, u were the most loving person i ever met, no matter what the problem was u always went out of your way, and made everything be perfect again. and no matter where i ever needed a ride to, you always picked me up. no matter what, you were much more than a friend homey. and i know ur with me threw everything, just like u always were.
i love you kiddd,
-danny smith
Mom
April 3, 2008
Four months ago, sweetheart, time stood still and my heart broke in half. I miss you so much, A.J., but I feel you near me often. I love you, Ozzie. Mom xxoo
Lisa Sabia
March 28, 2008
AJ,
Happy Be-lated 21st!
I'm sure you had quite the celebration up there. I'm sure Mario and Joe were right there with you, crazy hats and all.
I'm so glad you all have eachother.
Our parting is not the end of our relationship, only an interruption.
We have not "lost" them, because we know where they are.
They are experiencing the joy of Christ's presence in a place so wonderful, that Christ called it Paradise.
And one day, we're told, in a magnificent reunion, they and we "will be with the Lord forever. Therefore encourage eachother with these words" (1 Thessalonians 4:17-18)
Sue Cline
March 20, 2008
Happy Birthday AJ - I so vividly remember talking to you last year on your birthday and you told me how happy you were. Thoughts of you go back so many years and continue to do so now. You are truly missed and loved. Gramma Sue
Gramma Thelma Loring
March 20, 2008
Thinking of you today, AJ on what would have been your 21st birthday. Even though the miles always separated us during your lifetime, you were always in my thoughts.
A.J.
February 15, 2008
Mom
February 14, 2008
Happy Valentine's Day, Ozzie - it's your sister's 9th birthday, and I was remembering how excited you were when you came to the hospital, and she opened her eyes and looked at you.
I still can't believe you're not here. You are so unbelievably missed, A.J., and this hole in my heart, this emptiness, will be there forever.
I love you. Mom xxoo
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Alyssa Calhoon
February 11, 2008
My prayers go out to aj's family.
AJ i pray to you every night and miss you so much! you were one of my BEST FREIENDS! and i had the best times of my life with you. ill never forget the purple impala! we had so many memories that will never be forgotten! you always put a smile on my face and always knew how to cheer anyone up! you also gave the best hugs EVER!! i love you forever! look out for us<3 RIP
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Wendy Bernfeld-Elliott
January 19, 2008
Kelly and family,
So sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Marcia Pasternack-Hall
January 18, 2008
Steve and Kelly,
My thoughts are with you during the time of loss. May God give you His peace that passes all understanding and my He mount a guard about your minds and hearts. God Bless You and your family
Mike McNulty
January 15, 2008
Steve, Kelly, and Family,
I was very sorry to hear of your loss. I never knew AJ and its been a long time since I've seen either of you (Steve or Kelly) but my thoughts are with you now.
Laura Brock
January 8, 2008
To the Larson Family
You do not know me, but please accept my condolesences regarding your son. My son Joseph died on 10/21 at a Bills game. I know how you feel and if you need someone to talk to I would like to be there for you. Nobody understands the pain we are feeling like another parent. I hope to hear from you we can help each other.
Claudette Kirchner
January 2, 2008
Kelly
I wanted you know that you and your family were in my prayers constantly during this holiday season. Please know God has been by your side and remains there for you. Reach to Him for comfort and guidance. AJ is right there beside Him. He will be in your heart in a different way now but know he is always there with you. I pray for peace and understanding for you and your family. Claudette
Amanda Sawicki
December 29, 2007
Family. friends and Ally,
Recently I lost my boyfriend, who was also going to be my fiancee, Mario Sabia was my life, and I want you to know that if you need anyone to talk to his family and I are here. I can understand your pain and the never ending tears. I never got the chance to know AJ, and I am very sorry for that.
To his family: I am very sorry for your loss, and know that AJ is now in the hands of god.
Ally: I understand what you feel and how bad it hurts. AJ will always be looking down on you and always in your heart.
Lisa Sabia
December 29, 2007
To the Larson Family,
All of you have been on my heart for a few days now. My deepest sympathy for the loss of your loving son and brother A.J. We just lost our son Mario. We know what your all going through. Mario was the oldest child at 24. His brother Marc is 22 sister Ashley 17. Mario like A.J. was lost suddenly, in an instant. He was also laid out at Kloc's. The similarities between our families is striking. I truly believe A.J. is giving Mario the grand tour in heaven. A.J. is not alone. He now has a friend. My family is still in shock as is yours. Reading all these beautiful tributes to A.J. he sounds alot like Mario. As a mother I feel your pain. You are not alone. As a mother, father, sister, brother, you are not alone. The Lord works in mysterious ways sometimes. I believe he wanted our families to be there for eachother. Marios girlfriend of 5 yrs, Amanda is having a really hard time. Maybe Ally and her can lean on eachother. Please feel free to contact me when your ready. I would love to meet all of you. There is another West Seneca family who truly shares your unimaginable loss. Thoughts and Prayers are getting us through. I'm sure for your family as well. Christmas will never be the same again. Take care. May God comfort you and give you strength. Our kids are our life. We are an extremely close family, which makes this even harder. From what I have been reading it leads me to believe you also were very close. Take care. God Bless us all
The Sabia Family
AJ's Stepdad
December 12, 2007
AJ, I have had the pleasure of being your DAD for the past 12 years of your life. I am so proud of the young man that I watched grow before my very eyes. I want you to know how much I LOVE YOU and think of you. Thank you for being a positive role model for your brother and sister. I miss you, our house is not the same without you. I wish I could fix all of this for you as I have been able to in the past. I know I was very hard on you and you know the only reason I was was because I loved you and I wanted you to be the fine young man that you are. Please look out for our family as you now can. (I promise I will always keep your apartment here in our house the same.) I love you AJ and thank you for the wonderful memories that I have of you. Love Shannon
Mary Martin
December 12, 2007
Mrs. Cline,
I heard with a heavy heart about your loss. I am wintering in Florida and was just informed about AJ's tragic accident. I smile at the fond memories of AJ and his buddies in my Enriched English class during his junior year. He was such a bright young man and a pleasure to have in class. My thoughts and prayers go out to you, Kyle, your husband and your daughter.
Lori and Todd
December 11, 2007
Kelly and Shannon...anytime you need a friend, you know we will be here.We share in your loss and hope we can help ease the pain and share the memories.
MaryAnne Zieziula
December 10, 2007
Wanted you to know that you are still in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. God Bless you and your family!!
Donna Szeluga
December 9, 2007
To The Larson Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. You should be very proud of your boys. They are wonderful kids and you are a great family. We will remember all the wonderful sports events our sons played together at East. Our hearts go out to all of you.
Love,
The Szeluga Family
Stephanie Runo
December 7, 2007
Kelly and Family~
I am truly sorry to hear of the loss of your loved one but just know that we love you and are here for you during this difficult time and always!
Spencer Reyna
December 7, 2007
i dont kno a person that enjoyed life as much as AJ, you could tell just y the positive atitude, and the great smile he had. Aj will always have a place in eeryone of his freinds heart, and kno he can be with all of us at the same time. unfortunatly the world is imperfect and we can lose a precious individual, but god saw the perfectness in AJ and chose to take him. I love you AJ and all the memories.
Tyson Petroff
December 7, 2007
AJ was one of my best friends. I met him at the "Great Life" training in Salt Lake City. We grew very close during his stays at my house for his last couple of visits. I've never met someone that I had so much in common with. I'm thankful to have had AJ in my life for the short time that I did. His strength, love, and gigantic smile will continue to inspire me for the rest of my life. I'll always be your boy AJ. Until we meet again.
Marc Pollinger
December 7, 2007
Throughout highschool- football, wrestling and lacrosse were all sports in which A.J. and I played together. I have had some of the best memories of my lifetime with him. Due to his matchless warm personality he always put smiles on faces around him. He will live on and continue to put a smile on many faces through the many memories we shared with him. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Edward Schubauer
December 7, 2007
R.I.P AJ, December 3rd, 2007.
Even though I wasn't one of your closest friends, I still had tons of love for you. Words to describe AJ can be calm, happy, generous, and of course always chillin. I send my prayers to his family and all of my friends that knew this gentle man. With love.......Eddie
L C
December 7, 2007
AJ's Family,
Alec would say:
Do not stand at my grave and weep, I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow I am the diamond glint on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain, I am the the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning hush, I am the swift uplifting rush of quiet birds in circled flight. I am the soft star that shines at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry I am not there, I did not die.
He will live forever in your hearts.
Tavernese & Benczkowski Family
December 7, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Nick Kyle and Juju and AJ at Unkie Joes
Nancy Kish
December 6, 2007
To all AJ's Family, friends and loved ones...I have been reading the guest book here, what a beautiful tribute. A testament to what a wonderful man AJ was and an inspiration to so many. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Miranda Ramsey
December 6, 2007
Kelly, Shannon, Kyle, & Shaye,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. My heart is filled with memories of our families together. Mom, Natalie, and I wish we could be there for you in your time of need.
Ryan Mrugalski
December 6, 2007
My thoughts and prayers go to the Larson family. I've known A.J for awhile now but just recently have gotten to know him quite well. I wish I would have hung out with AJ for years because the past 3 months I've spent with him were great. He could always put a smile on my face no matter what the occasion. Everytime I was with him he was always happy. If a time was bad, he could make it better with his presence alone. R.I.P Friend
JOHN KRIEGER / MONRO MUFFLER
December 6, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
December 6, 2007
For Alec's Famiy and Friends,
I know what its like to lose a loved one so young. Its painful and it hurts, but once you get through the hard time, you learn to laugh again. You can laugh at the funny times another day, so don't get lost in death, but rather celebrate life. Stay strong, and you're in my prayers.
Jim and Mary Ormond and family
December 6, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you all at this time of great sorrow.
December 6, 2007
Allison and Alec's Family,
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sally Becker
Dyan Scritchfield
December 6, 2007
AJ was easily one of the nicest, most respectful and kindest young men I have ever met. I had the honor of being one of his teachers in his Senior year. His smile illuminated the room. I will cherish my memories of AJ. My deepest sympathy goes out to his family and loved ones. My thoughts are also with you Ally...If there is anything that I can do for any of you, please do not hesitate to ask. I know that AJ would have wanted us to celebrate his life and all that he exemplified.
I will miss you AJ but I promise to be part of your legacy.
Respectfully,
Mrs. Scritchfield
Steve Sikonia
December 6, 2007
I am truly sorry for your loss. A.J. will forever be in the hearts, minds, and memories of those he touched and those who love him.
May you find comfort in your memories of him. It is said missing someone gets easier every day because even though it's one day further from the last time you saw each other, it's one day closer to the next time you will.
My sincerest prayers and condolences...
Your friend,
Brenda Twardowski
December 6, 2007
Kelly,
I never met AJ, but I know you took such pride in your son and loved him unconditionally. Your life is forever changed, but love and memories can not be taken away. May God's comfort and strength be yours in coming days.
In deepest sympathy,
Brenda
Mary Wojtanik
December 6, 2007
Dear Kelly,
God Bless you!
I asked the Lord to bless you. As I prayed for you today
To guide you and protect you
As you go along your way....
His love is always with you
His promises are true
No matter what the tribulation
You know He will see us through
So, when the road you're traveling on
Seems difficult at best
Give your problems to the Lord
And God will do the rest.
Karen Regan
December 6, 2007
Kelly, Thank you for calling and letting me know.I will do anything you need. I love you and will hold dear all the memories our familys shared.
I am at such a loss.All the words we have shared in council to one another are empty and not enough to even speak.
I will try calling again one more time. Then I will wait for a sign from you. What ever you need I will always be there.
God Bless You and Your broken heart.Karen
Sharon, Jim , Carly & Danne McNeil
December 6, 2007
My heart aches for you. None of this makes any sense. I met both your sons years ago when they were with their cousin Mary and they were always very friendly. When I would see AJ and Kyle around the neighborhood I always thought what a nice family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Adam Hyde
December 6, 2007
Larson family, Aj will always be remembered, for he knew how to brighten the mood at football and lacrosse practices. My condolences go out to your family and God Bless.
Spencer Topp
December 6, 2007
AJ was like a brother to me and he will truley be missed. He always knew exactly how to brighten up someones day. AJ's soul will carry on with everyone who cares for him. I'm sorry for your lose but know your son was a good man! Love you bro and miss you even more!
Debbie and Jamie
December 6, 2007
We met Kelly and Shaye at Childrens Hospital when Shaye was having surgery on the same day as our daughter. We are so very sorry for your loss.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Amanda Bohin
December 6, 2007
To the Larson Family,
AJ was such an amazing young man. I used to be around him a lot, and he always knew how to make someone smile and always knew the right things to say to make anyone feel better. My thoughts and prayers are always with you. He's still smiling up there with God and maybe even my own brother. God bless and RIP AJ. You will be missed by all.
Tanya Spinelli
December 6, 2007
To the family of Alec. I cannot even imagine the grief you must be feeling. The loss of a child must be the hardest thing a parent must have to go through. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Although you dont know me personally, I feel a certain connection to your family. I seen everything unfold in front of my eyes on that awful day and I will never forget the sight that I had seen. I pray that you find the strength in God to get you through this horrible tragedy. God bless you and yours!
Michele Schiffhauer
December 6, 2007
Dear Kelly, Shannon, Kyle, & Shaye, We are so very sorry for your loss. A.J. will be greatly missed. Cherish your memories of A.J. and embrace your loved ones. May God's peace surround you and comfort you and your family in your time of need. Someone once told me that God will take care of you and give you rainbows after the storms. God Bless you all. Bob, Michele, Cassie, Zach, Liz, and Jacob Schiffhauer
Peggy Wagner
December 6, 2007
My heart goes out to you all. A.J. was a dear friend to my son Jacob Whalen and my daughter Vanessa Wagner. A.J. was a wonderful young man. He will be dearly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Mrs. Jean Turner
December 6, 2007
Dear Kelly and Shaye,
Our heartfelt sorrow and sympathy go to you at this difficult time. Your loss is felt by all of us here at Clinton Elementary. You are part of our family and we grieve with you.
A caring mom
December 6, 2007
We've never met but as a parent I can only imagine what you are going through. By reading the messages from A.J.'s family, loved ones and friends I can see how truly blessed he was to have all of you in his life. I know that he's watching out for all the people who loved him so much and of course you know that you will all see him again in a better place. My heart goes out to each and every one of you. Until you meet again remember A.J. with a smile and live your lives as he would want you to. You are all in my prayers.
MaryAnn Behrens
December 6, 2007
Dearest Kelly, Shannon, Kyle and Shaye
Our hearts just break for you. There is no greater pain than losing a child.
We pray for courage and strength and understanding for you in the days and weeks and years to come.
Jesus said: "I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in me will live, even though he dies; and whoever lives and believes in me will never die. Do you believe this?" (John 11: 25-26)
Take heart. You will see AJ again!
With so much love,
MaryAnn, Steve, Andrew & Alex Behrens
Jim Reimondo
December 6, 2007
to A.J. family
A.J. was a great guy to work with.
He was always there to give you a hand with what ever needed to be done. I was blessed to have worked with A.J.. I am and always will miss him. I am so sorry for your loss.
Dan Miori
December 6, 2007
Kelly,
I know you, but not well. I know that AJ was loved by everyone who knew him. I did not have that privilege. I do know what I saw last night at Kloc’s, as the long line of his friends and family paid their respects and what I’ve read in the guest book today. I know what I’ve learned by hearing about you and your family from Joyce and from the times we’ve spoken.
I cannot begin to imagine what the loss of a child must feel like I believe that God exists, but I certainly can’t prove it. I know that right now, all around us, there are people just like me, who share in your loss. I feel their spirit in the things they have written in this guest book and in what I overheard last night. I am with you and your family, as is Joyce and my family, as is everyone who you and AJ have touched in his short time with us. I hope that you feel that presence as much as we do, and that this brings you some small strength. AJ is your baby, he will remain with you always. I pray that God allow you and your family to heal and have only glad memories of him to comfort you.
MrsJohnsMom another Mom
December 6, 2007
I know the pain that you are going through. I also lost my son at 20 in an accident. Even though you dont know me, you are in my thoughts and prayers. Your life has changed and you will never be the same, some how you will get through this with God's help.
maria
December 5, 2007
O God we are stunned.We can not take it in. It seems unreal and yet all to real. Save us from simply blaming ourselves and others;bear with us the pain of what has happened and give us the healing of wounds that now run deep.
Cherlynn Piniewski
December 5, 2007
Kelly and Family, I am still in shock and can't imagine your sorrow.Your a wonderful family who was so close with A.J. I am so sorry for your lose.
Lester, Lourdes, Jared Baber
December 5, 2007
We are so sorry about the loss of AJ. As hard as it may be in this difficult time, take a moment to remember the good, funny and crazy things that AJ did. He truly was a fine young man in this life. Your friends forever.
Mike and Patti Gotte
December 5, 2007
Dearest Steve, Kim and Kyle
Words cannot express the grief we are feeling for your loss. As we watched A.J. grow over the years through your eyes, Steve, we always considered A.J. and Kyle as part of our extended family. We will keep A.J. in our prayers always.
Danielle Pinelli
December 5, 2007
Although I didn't know you that much, I can tell you are a very special guy, and a good, loyal friend to my brother, Billy Pinelli. I saw you at the house a few times, and you seemed like you were always filled with joy.
Rest in peace
Danielle Pinelli
Ronnelle Drozdowski
December 5, 2007
Shannon and Kelly: My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I am so sorry for your loss. Take care of each other. Please let us know if you need anything.
Laurie and Shawn Wheaton
December 5, 2007
My son has known Alec for years. They met in middle school. Our hearts are filled with sadness with the lose of such a good person. Please know that your family is in our prayers. Something I heard a long time ago that I would like to share with everyone ... God looked around his garden and saw an empty space. He then look down upon us and saw your face. His garden must be beautiful because he always takes the best. It broke our hearts to lose you, but you didn't go alone, for part of us went with you, the day he took you home. If tears could build a stairway and memories a lane. We'd walk all the way to heaven and bring you home again.
another mom
December 5, 2007
you've lost a brother, son, friend,boyfriend, grandson...he will always be watching over all of you..when you least expect it, you'll feel a soft touch on your face & you'll know its AJ..God Bless you all in this saddest of times..
Charles Jaromin Family
December 5, 2007
Kelly, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this sad time. From the Florida cousins, Charlie, Peggy and Mary Kate Jaromin (Peter Jukich Family).
Jacquie Howell (Foser)
December 5, 2007
To Alec's Family: I am truly sorry to hear about your loss. My sympathies go out to you. I remember seeing Alec every once in a while and saying hi to him. I grew up near him. I lived on Tim Tam till I got married. I remember seeing him around and talking to him. He was a great guy. He will be greatly missed. I am so sorry.
another parent
December 5, 2007
I am sorry to hear of the loss of your child. I hope that you find comfort when you read this to know so many care that don't know you, but as our bond as parents we pray for you and your days ahead that you may find comfort in your memories. May God bless you and your family.
Brent, Kari, Miranda and Mollee Swift
December 5, 2007
Our deepest sympathies are with your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with now and forever.
Another Mom
December 5, 2007
I met AJ only breifly through his job. I am so sorry for your loss. You will be in my prayers as I cannot imagine your pain. I hope in time all of AJ's family and friends will always remember the good in him.
Clyde Dreher
December 5, 2007
My heart goes out to all family members of A.J. I am so sorry for your loss. Shannon, your entire family is in my daily thoughts and prayers.
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