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Robert Benedict Obituary
NORTH ANDOVER — Robert "Bobby" Benedict, 37, died on Wednesday, June 10, 2009.
Bobby had lived in the Merrimack Valley for 11 years and was originally from Rochester, N.Y. He was a long-time employee of the Merrimack Valley YMCA, working with youth and teens. He loved life and his positive spirit was an inspiration.
Robert was predeceased by his grandparents, Frank and Rose (Bovenzi) DelVecchio. He is survived by his mother, Madeline (DelVecchio) Benedict of Rochester, N.Y.; father, Alan Benedict of Florida; sister, Rosemarie Paratore; nephew, Anthony Paratore; uncle and aunt, George (Carolyn) DelVecchio; cousins, Frank DelVecchio, Kim DelVecchio Hart, Bryan and Eric Hilts, and several cousins, all of New York; and many friends.
ARRANGEMENTS: In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Robert's Memory to the Andover/North Andover YMCA, 165 Haverhill St., Andover, MA 01810 or Camp Good Days and Special Times, Inc. 1332 Pittsford-Mendon Road, Mendon, N.Y. All are invited to attend a memorial service at St. Michael's Parish, 190 Main St., North Andover on Friday, June 19 at 10 a.m. Services were also held earlier this week with Bartolomeo & Perotto Funeral Home in Rochester, N.Y.
This obituary was originally published in the Eagle-Tribune.
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Amanda Jennings
June 25, 2009
I worked with Bobby at the A/NA YMCA for a couple of years. I'm terribly sad to hear of his passing. R.I.P., Bobby.
Cheryl Tibaudo
June 22, 2009
To Bobby's Family,
Thank you for sharing Bobby with us. He made my life easier, knowing how well he cared for my sons when they were younger and how much he inspired them by being a great role model. For years, when I picked the boys up after camp, Bobby was there with a smile and pleasantries. If Bobby was driving the Y van I wasn't hesitant to let the boys go with him, as I knew he would take care of them as if they were his own. Doug respected him immensely and Michael continues to volunteer at the Y, where Bobby was his mentor and friend. I hope my sons will be half as strong, kind and caring as your son Bobby.
Carrie ("Earlene") Free (Catalano)
June 20, 2009
The world was a better place with Bobby Bear in it, and I am a better person for having known him. He is a part of my most treasured memories. My life would not be the same without him and all of "Tod's Stupid Interns"! I love you! Thank you for being part of my life.
Nancy Earley
June 19, 2009
Dear Bobby
The front-desk phone rang differently last Wednesday…but we had to answer it anyway. Grief rolled in, tears rolled down, and everyone did their best to carry on. You would have been proud.
Then the memory posters went up in the front lobby and I watched chubby fingers wrestle with magic markers, proper spelling and the concept of someone you love being “gone.” You will be proud.
From virtually any position in this organization, it was clear: You were well-loved. You made a difference. You earned your crown. (“Well done, good and faithful servant. –Matthew 25:21.)
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Nancy Earley
June 19, 2009
To Bobby With Love...
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Adam B
June 19, 2009
Madeline
I am so sorry to hear of Roberts Paaing. He was a good friend, we spent many years together and hadd some great times. I know he is with God now, at eernal peace and wit hsome many others we all know so well. He was a good man and a kind soul , the world is a better place for the time he was here. Please know that I will miss him and that I am proud to have called him Friend. Adam
Bobby's memory poster, day 1
June 19, 2009
From Bobby's memory poster
June 19, 2009
June 17, 2009
To all of Bobby's family...... I didn't know him well but on occasion when I went to pick up my son Ben from "Fun Days" at the YMCA I'd run into him and he would be so upbeat and kind to Ben. When we saw that he had past we were very sad. Our deepest sympathy goes out to you all.
Judy and Ben Rohn
Jeanne Buckley
June 16, 2009
Madeline, Rosemarie and Family, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Jeanne Buckley
ANA YMCA Staff Member
June 15, 2009
Dear Madeline,
Your son, Bobby, was an inspiration to me. His drive and spirit will remain in my life forever! He was always willing to give a helping hand. I know he's up with the best of the Angels and looking down to help us when we reach those pearly gates. Bobby was one of a kind and you can be proud of him!
With my deepest sympathy.
John Cronin
June 15, 2009
Madeline, Alan, Rosemarie, Anthony-- and all of Bobby's family
I am so sorry for your loss. I have known Bobby since he came to work with us at the YMCA in the mid 90's. There are so many lives he touched all over the Merrimack Valley area- (far more than we can even count) - and we all loved him and will miss him very much. The teens of the area,(many of whom are now young adults) in particular, through his work in the Leaders program, will be better human beings for having known him (though sadder at this moment).
We will all never forget him.
June 15, 2009
Bobby was loved by all who knew him. He was so special to all the campers and volunteers and staff at Camp Good Days. He will forever live in the memories of all he came in contact with. Bobby now enjoys eternal peace and is freefrom all pain and suffering.
Sister Fran Quinn
Marion Burke
June 15, 2009
Rose and family...words can't express how sorry I am for your loss. Please know that I'm keeping your Mom, Anthony and you in my prayers.
Gouveia Family
June 15, 2009
Bobby touched our lives and many others through his selfless work with kids at the YMCA after school program. He was a role model that his family should be proud of. The children all miss him so.
Stella Sparacino
June 15, 2009
Madeline,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. As childhood friends we shared many good times. Today we share a bond that few will ever have, we have both lost our beloved sons, both named Bobby. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Kim Bifarella
June 14, 2009
I met Bobby many many years ago through my dad Tom, and my mom Kathy. I remember talking with him, and how good he was to my family and my son Michael. He too had a wonderful grandma, and mother. Words can not say how sorry we are for your loss, Bobby spent his life being a fighter, and was a survivor. he touched so many lives, and did so much for others. Just think though no more pain, and suffering and God gained another beautiful angel, when Bobby got his wings. Just think what a beautiful moment it was when Bobby met GOD at the gate, and God put his arms around him, and said my son you are finally home with me where I need you now, and yes his family and friends will love and miss him, however he will live on in the hearts of all the lives he touched over so many years. To his beautiful mother he is now your angel and he is with you daily in your heart. Bobby we love you and thank you for all the good you did for so many, the work was a better place with someone like you in it.
Jim Oliver
June 14, 2009
Mrs. Benedict,
I am so sorry to hear about Bobby passing away. I volunteered with him at Camp Good Days and he was great with the kids and always there sharing a laugh with them. I will always remember him as a friend and a great human being.
Sincerely,
Jim Oliver
June 14, 2009
Dear Maddie and Family, we will sincerey miss Robert who has been so much a part of our lives. We loved him dearly. Our prayers are with you all at this sad time. Howie and Rose Marie
Kim May
June 14, 2009
To all of Bobby's family... my deepest sympathy goes out to you. I met him first at CGDST and he was one of the hardest working people there and yes, he was an "SA!!!" I think he was the leader behind a lot of the cabin raids! My best memory will be that ear to ear smile with the devilish twinkle in his eyes. I will miss that. Again, my sympathy.
Anne Radogna
June 14, 2009
My Dear Madeline,Rosemarie and all of the family. I was so sorry to hear of your loss. I know that no bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Take comfort in knowing that you now have a special angel to watch over you. My sincere sympathy to you two and all of the family. Anne Radogna
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