Lacy F. Paulette Jr.

Lacy F. Paulette Jr. obituary, Charlottesville, VA

Lacy F. Paulette Jr.

Lacy Paulette Obituary

Published by Daily Progress from Nov. 18 to Nov. 19, 2011.
Lacy F. Paulette Jr.

Lacy F. Paulette Jr., 93, died on Tuesday, November 15, 2011, at his residence in the Colonnades retirement community in Charlottesville. Lacy was a business and church leader in the Charlottesville community for over 60 years.

He was born on September 7, 1918, in Newsoms, Virginia, son of the Reverend Lacy F. Paulette and Emma Tate Paulette. He grew up in Smithfield, Virginia, in a Baptist family headed by a father distinguished in the Virginia religious community and a mother who served as church organist and was active as a volunteer in the Smithfield area. He served as a 1st Lieutenant in the United States Army in combat in the European theater in World War II, entering through Omaha Beach and serving in France, Belgium, Luxembourg and Germany, until after armistice. He was a member of the Charlottesville Chapter of the American Legion, Post 74, and was active in the alumni group of the 445th Anti-Aircraft Automatic Weapons Battalion. He received a Bachelor of Science in Business Administration with a major in Accounting from the University of Richmond in 1947. He was certified as a Certified Public Accountant (CPA) in 1949. In 1994, the American Institute of Certified Public Accountants awarded him a life-time Honorary Membership, citing "appreciation and recognition of continuing contributions to the profession" for over 40 years. In Charlottesville, Lacy was an owner and secretary-treasurer of H. M. Gleason and Company Inc., being employed there from 1949 until his retirement in 1993. Many will remember him with other of Gleason's back office staff, asking about customers' families and chatting about their lives. His employees honored him by nominating him for several management distinctions, including being awarded Boss of the Year by the American Woman's Business Association (Charlottesville Chapter); CWI Credit Professional Boss of the Year. In his civic life, he was a charter member of the Charlottesville Civitan Club.

Lacy was a member of the First Baptist Church on Park Street throughout his time in Charlottesville where he taught various Sunday School classes through 2010. His many contributions in the church over the years included serving on the Board of Trustees, member and chairman of the Body of Deacons, and member of pastor selection committees. He was awarded Emeritus status for his service on both the Body of Deacons and the Board of Trustees. He cherished his work as a member of the church's evangelical visitation team from 1969 until 1983. Lacy was known as the "official hugger" on Sundays. In addition, he was elected Moderator of the Albemarle Baptist Association in 1966 and was Associational Sunday School Director in 1967. From 1976 until 1979, he was the Albemarle Baptist Association representative to the Virginia Baptist General Board. Beginning In the 1960's through the 1980's, he also served as a lay minister in over 60 churches throughout Central Virginia, carrying on his family tradition of the ministry.

Lacy is survived by his wife of 14 years, Ruth Owens Smith Paulette, with whom he had so much joy and support; by his son, L. Foster Paulette III of Kansas City, Missouri and Foster's children, F. Rhea Paulette of Prairie Village, Kansas and Mary Carrington "Carrie" Paulette of San Jose, California; by his daughter, Faith P. Hurley, and her husband, John Hurley, and children, Jordan and Ellen Hurley, all of Annandale, Virgina; and by his daughter, Pamela P. Morris and her husband, Timothy Morris, sons R.J. Thompson, and Colton, Tyler, and Adam Morris, all of Dillwyn, Virginia; and daughter, Amanda Dunkum and husband, Chip, of Buckingham, Virginia. In addition, he is survived by stepson, David L. Smith and his wife, Ann H. Smith of Winston-Salem, North Carolina, and their children, David L. Smith II of Lynchburg, Virginia, and Lauren Pugh, husband, Brian, and daughter, Olivia, of Charlottesville, Virginia; stepson, William A. Smith Jr. and his wife, Janice M. Smith, of Lynchburg, Virginia, and their sons, Martin Smith of Columbus, Ohio, and Owen Smith, wife, Jennifer, and daughters Ariel, Sakari, and Talya, of Asheville, North Carolina. He was preceded in death by his wife of 48 years, Margaret Gwaltney Paulette; his brother, the Reverend Carrington Paulette; and sister, Martha Paulette Moore. To those that have known him, Lacy has been a special person - strong in his faith, true to his principles, with a twinkle in his personality that made all who knew him love him. The twinkle, the smiles, the hugs and the unwavering love he lavished on everyone will be so missed but will remain a treasure to his friends and family. The family wishes to express their appreciation to the staff of the Colonnades Assisted Living Facility for their loving care and support. We invite you to join us in a service and celebration of his life, 2 p.m. Saturday, November 19, 2011, at First Baptist Church on Park Street in Charlottesville with the Reverend Dr. Lindsay Sadler and the Reverend Dr. Joel Jenkins officiating. Burial with military honors will follow at Riverview Cemetery. Family night will be held from 7 until 8 p.m. Friday, November 18, 2011, at Hill and Wood Funeral Home in Charlottesville. Memorial contributions can be made to First Baptist Church, 735 Park Street, Charlottesville, Virginia 22902. Friends may sign the register book at www.hillandwood.com.



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December 4, 2011

Mike Carmichael posted to the memorial.

November 29, 2011

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November 20, 2011

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Mike Carmichael

December 4, 2011

Lacy was an extraordinary friend and mentor to me as a young man in the 1970's at First Baptist. Lacy's compassion and encouragement were so helpful. He set a strong example of how a Christian man should live, even under adversity. My heart goes out to Ruth, Faith, Pam (with whom we were close when she was a teenager), and other family members and to others of us who have lost his good counsel. We know, however, he fought the good fight and is with his Lord.

Harley Easter, Jr.

November 29, 2011

To all the family,

I want you to know the warm memories of Lacy I retain from the late 1960s while still in high school growing up in Albemarle County. Dale Hamilton organized a witnessing team which studied the principles of 'Evangelism Explosion' by D. James Kennedy and then went out into the byways to put those lessons into practice. You would not be surprised to learn that Lacy was right in the thick of it, mentoring and encouraging the young guys like me and Roy Thomas. I knew Lacy as wonderfully affirming and loving, with a genuine joy in the LORD Jesus Christ that sustained him through daily adversity and overflowed to many others. Even after I left the area and came back home decades after those school age years, upon seeing Lacy at church, he would not fail to greet me with one of his patented hugs and engage me in earnest exchange. What a delight it will be savoring the beauty and supremacy of Christ with Lacy at His Place in countless ages to come as together we make known the amazing grace with which He sought us and made us His Own.

Ethel Harlow

November 20, 2011

Ruth and family, You are in our thoughts and prayers. There was not a sweeter man than Lacy Paulette. He was loved by many and will be missed by many. He always made me feel so special with his kind words, the smile on his face and that hug of his. He never came into the bank that he didn't come by my desk to see me. Please know that you are in our prayers.

Ruby Seale-Watts

November 18, 2011

I worked for Mr. Paulette in the late 1970's as a bookkeeper at H M Gleason and Company. He was such a very fair man and always treated me with the highest respect. I too remember his hugs. His love and the pride he had in his children is something that I remember being outstanding about him. He did love his family, that is for sure. May you all rest in God's care.

Marshall Moore

November 18, 2011

While I am saddened by Uncle Lacy's departure, I am buoyed by all the wonderful memories I had knowing him for the past 60+ years and will carry those memories with me for the rest of my life. Lacy Paulette was a very special person, and one who brought joy and a smile to all who met him. We are all richer for having had him in our lives. He was an inspiration and the way he lived his life set the bar higher for the rest of us.

Renee Lang Parker

November 18, 2011

Faith,
I am sorry to learn of your father's passing. I extend my deepest sympathies to you and your family during this time of loss.

Jim Shaffran

November 18, 2011

All our love, always.

Debbie Bush

November 18, 2011

Dear Faith and Family: I am saddened to hear of the loss of your dad. I remember when he came to preach at Liberty Church in Stony Point years ago. He was such a nice man and a good teacher. I remember when I asked him if he was your dad, his face lit up proudly. Your entire family is in my thoughts and prayers. Debbie

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