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Santos Pena Obituary

Santos Pena Born June 9, 1980 and passed away on August 18, 2007. Survived by parents Santos and Lilly Pena. Sisters Rosie Stiltner (John) and Kristina Pena, nephews Billy, Kyle, John, & Victor Stiltner and many other relatives and friends. A viewing will be held on Thursday, August 23 from 5 - 9 p.m. and a Rosary at 7 p.m. at St. Martin of Tours Church, 200 O'Connor Dr., San Jose. A Funeral Mass will be held on Friday at 12 Noon at St. Martin's. SAN JOSE FUNERAL SERVICE

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Published by San Jose Mercury News on Aug. 22, 2007.

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Isaac

September 14, 2015

Dear Santos, My 1st Best Friend, my Brother.... Its been a long time since you've been taken from the family. To me it still hurts like an open wound that will never heal. I read all these comments, and looked up your star thinking it would help ease my pain a little, but it just brought back that night Tia Erma called me, as she told me if I could come home fast as I told her I was in the drive way feeling lost/odd she told me that you died, and it hit me like a ton of bricks I know why I felt that lost/odd feeling.... I lost my Brother, my best friend. Went we got to your house I see all the heart ache & pain that everyone was feeling I know it was real. I got home and sat outside and watched the 1st Sun Rise that you would not be here to wake up to I took a picture an I just lost control an Cried so load hoping you would hear my sadness and call me to ease my heart ache. I've never told any one about that picture or about that sad Sun Rise alone its been eating at my heart for 7 yrs. I lost my only true friend that kept me safe and watched my back as I watched yours even thought that's what brothers do we did it because we didn't want the other one to get hurt. I'm sorry I wasn't there to make sure you didn't get hurt that night I wish I could of been..... I Love you & I'll see you soon Sant. Your Brother & Best Friend Isaac

Santos Pena

May 31, 2013

My deepest Sympathy to the Pena family. I never met Santos Pena, but my prayers go out to him and his family. May God look down on him and reach out with His hand and take him to Heaven. GOD BLESS YOU....ALL

Cecilia (Cece) Armamento

March 4, 2008

To the Pena Family,
I just want to give my condolences to your family. I met Santos back in 1999 and he was a really great guy. I last seen him at the end of 2005 and I remember him praising me because I was finally drug free and doing something with my life, then he hit the switches on his truck ha ha, I'm still in shock about what happen but I wish your family all the blessings in the world.

EVALEE CENTENO

January 11, 2008

TO SANTOS..YOU ARE FOREVER IN OUR HEARTS AND FOREVER IN OUR THOUGHTS YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN WE LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU

monica carrasco

September 29, 2007

To the Pena Family my name is Monica, I was a friend of Santos he was a very well loved person as it showed in out come of his funeral he will never be forgotten and always remain in our hearts Santos we will miss you and always love you from the Carrasco Family

Maritza Ziegler

September 18, 2007

Dear Mr and Mrs Pena. I am not sure if you remember me but i had some childhood memories with Santos ( I am one of Edith Gamch's Granddaughter). My husband past away a couple of days before Santos did from a motorcyle accident as well. I have been told it gets easier and I am waiting for that moment. My prayers are with you and your family. I have learned that having true faith in GOd has givin me the strength to get through such tragedy

Your heart is filled with sorrow,
Life will never be the same.
You dread the thought of tomorrow,
As you cry out his name.
Place your life in God’s hand,
His grace will see you through.
Although you may never understand,
God will always be loving you.
He’ll dry your lonely teardrops,
Comfort your sorrow with His love.
Reassuring you His love never stops,
He’ll send Angels from above,
To stay with you forever.
Watch over you through the night,
If you’re lost it won’t matter,
They’ll guide you with their light.
Author unkown

Melissa M. Garcia

August 31, 2007

May god bless the Pena family. Lil' Santos will always be in my heart and missed dearly. And Santos if you can hear me " I love You " . Lilly , Big Santos , Kris and Rosie if you ever need to talk I'm a phone call away ir just right up the srteet. I love you all. My god bless..

athena galvan

August 30, 2007

To my cousin,
I love you and miss you, there will always be a plate for you at grandmas and a drink for you at every party as you will never be forgotten,
love you always,
your cousin Athena

August 26, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time. Please accept our deepest sympathies.

The Trejo Family

san jose, ca

August 25, 2007

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007

san jose

August 24, 2007

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Missed, but never forgotten and forever Loved!

August 24, 2007

Melissa Ramirez

August 24, 2007

May god bless your family in this time of need. My prayers are with you. Santos you will be missed.

Cristina aguirre

August 24, 2007

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Claribel Gutierrez

August 24, 2007

RIP Santos! May god bless you on your journey and bless everyone who loves and misses you.

My deepest condolences to the Pena family. Friends of Santos and the neighboorhood (wish I could be there).

Villagomez Family

August 23, 2007

Santos & Lilly, our prayers are with your family in these sorrowful days. We grieve with you across the miles and pray for each and every one of you.

Debbie and Daniel Trevino

August 23, 2007

Please Know that our thoughts are with you and your family. You are in our our hearts always.

Suzanne Villagomez

August 23, 2007

Santos and Lilly, my deepest condolences to you and your family. Lil Santos will be missed greatly by many, I'm honored to have such fond memories of him.

Rudy and Valerie Gonzalez

August 23, 2007

Our prayers and thoughts are with you . God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow . We Love You Santos .

San Jose East Side

August 23, 2007

I didn't know Santos personally, but my heart goes out to his family and friends in the neighborhood. I am amazed by the outpouring of love and support from everyone. This tragic incident of your son has touched many many people and many hearts. It has brought a neighborhood together! You should be proud to have had a son like Santos. May he rest in peace. --"To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord" He is in a better place. Pena Family ~ May God Bless You today, give you Peace and Comfort your hearts today and the days to follow!

Christina Valenzuela

August 23, 2007

Dearest Pena Family,

My heart and my most deepest sympathy goes out to family at such a very painful time in your lives with losing your son Santos.

Sending Love and prayers for peace

Christina Valenzuela
Fred Sanchez's sister-in-law
Martha's sister

Marsha Nascimento

August 23, 2007

My deepest sympathy to you Lily and Santos........With Love and Kindness from Our LORD be with you both.

Valerie Albitre

August 23, 2007

I'm so sorry for your loss. May the peace that surpasses all understanding comfort you at this time. He was so blessed to have you guys as his family. Love you.

Gary & Janet Albitre

August 22, 2007

Please accept our deepest sympathies.

Adolfo Alvarado

August 22, 2007

To Santos, Lily & Family, we just heard of your recent loss of your beloved son. Our sympathy goes out to the family with much love & peace. Much time has past since we moved to Sacramento Area, but we think about all of you often. Much Love To All Of You!
Alvarado, Adolfo & Susanne

Mrs. Toni Cook

August 22, 2007

Dear Peña Family,
Please know that the people in the Mount Pleasant School District who know your family are sorry for your loss and offer you our thoughts of sympathy.
Mrs. Cook, August Boeger School
Mrs. Engle, Mount Pleasant School District Assistant Superintendent

sonya soeung

August 22, 2007

I am so sorry for your loss...its sad to see such a great person go..we all grew up together!..unbelievable! i would like to send my thoughts and prayers to you and your family..santos you are loved and missed by all of your friends and family..your in GODS house now...tell my brother SOPHY we said hi..you guys are our angels and we know you guys will smile down on us and takekare of us til we meet again...*ONE SWEET DAY*

sophath soeung

August 22, 2007

Mr. and Mrs. Pena, I am so sorry for you loss. Please accept my deepest sympathy and condolences.
Santos has been a friend since I moved into the hood. He will be greatly missed.

MONICA TAPIA

August 22, 2007

FIRST OFF I'D LIKE TO LET THE FAMILY KNOW THAT I AM VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS AND YOU WILL BE IN MY PRAYERS.... SANTOS YOU WILL BE MISSED.... I WILL ALWAYS HAVE YOU IN MY HEART....

Ruben and Stacey Chavez

August 22, 2007

Our prayers are with you at this time of sorrow. we Love you all very much and are here if needed for anything.

Michelle Jimenez

August 22, 2007

Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

DARLENE NEVAREZ SU'A

August 22, 2007

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Ruben and Leticia Mendez

August 22, 2007

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Adrianna Villagomez

August 22, 2007

through out all the years, i've never forgotten your family or you! god bless you
Adrianna Villagomez
(Suzy's daughter)

AUNTIE ERMA

August 22, 2007

I know that my Little "Tito" is in god house with "Petee". He is playing ball in the grass with him. He is looking down at all of us and smiling and telling us not to be sad. You will always be with me. I love you.

Anna Dominguez

August 22, 2007

I'm so sorry for your loss. He will always be remembered for that beautiful smile he always had. I pray that the Lord can put some peace in your heart. Our prayers are with you.

Mercy, Rudy and Maya Perez

August 22, 2007

We miss you my cousin Santos. Thank you for all our wonderful memories. You will never be forgotten
"KWHY, why....because"

Paul & Toni Cutrer

August 22, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

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