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Emma Ruby Cox

1920 - 2011

Emma Ruby Cox obituary, 1920-2011

BORN

1920

DIED

2011

FUNERAL HOME

Potter Funeral Chapel

228 East Main Street

Emmett, Idaho

Emma Cox Obituary

Emma, the last survivor of her Danish emigrant family, began another journey on July 9, 2011.
A daughter of James and Gertrude Petersen, Emma was born minutes before twin brother, Elmer, on June 2, 1920. They grew up in a loving happy family of nine children.
This wonderful woman lived a life that few women have or ever will experience. Her legacy is being a historian, humanitarian and supporter of youth. She attended schools in Emmett, Idaho, graduating from high school in 1938. Many classmate friendships lasted over the years.
March 14, 1939, as a young bride of 18, she wed her true love, Lafe Cox. She left her small community to brave a new life in the primitive area. They traveled over 80 miles by dog team, horse and sleigh or horseback to their new home at Mile High on Big Creek (now Frank Church River of No Return Wilderness). Her first winter there she never saw another woman for five months, yet she did not think of being "lonely." The second spring she almost died of rocky mountain tick fever.
A true lady, she was always treated as one by the many bachelors, miners and hunters that she was surrounded by. Many worried about her as she delivered the mail and supplies; driving 24 miles over a dangerously narrow "road" from Big Creek to the Snowshoe Mine, with her baby daughter beside her. She was steadfast in her beliefs "do not show fear" and "work never hurt anyone."
She and Lafe operated two Dude Ranches for over 35 years in Idaho's central mountains, catering to guests from all over the world. Many guests returned 20 to 30 years. She could cook a scrumptious meal over a camp fire or wood cook stove. No one ever left her table hungry. Most of their employees were young people and they as well as the guests became part of their family.
As a historian, she kept diaries from her earliest years to recently. She collected school records, photos and old newspapers from mining towns that are long gone. At the age of 70, she and Lafe began writing their story and in 1997 published their book "Idaho Mountains Our Home."
She had a great love for her wilderness environment and strove to protect all living things; yet, she was capable of using a gun or club (and did so) to protect her family or self. She became an EMT and used her skills and natural ability to help others. She served on the Yellow Pine school board 10 years, reported the weather of the back country to the weather bureau for over 25 years and was an election judge over 50 years, member of Eastern Stars over 50 years and charter member of the Out-fitters and Guides Association. She was named the Idaho Statesman Distinguished Citizen in 1992.
She is survived by daughters and husbands, Janet and Larry Harshfield and Roxie and Vernon Himes. Grandchildren and spouses, Steven Harshfield, Latina Pressley (Paul), Greg (Denise) Himes, Brian (Jodi) Himes and Cyndi (David) Hockett; 11 great-grandchildren; and numerous nieces and nephews also survive her.
Her beloved husband of 63 years, her parents, four brothers, four sisters and all of their spouses preceded her in death.
Disappointed to leave her earthly life, she so looked forward to being reunited with those she missed and loved so much.
Services will be held at 10:30 a.m. Thursday July 14, 2011, at Potter Funeral Chapel Emmett, Idaho. Burial will follow at the Emmett Cemetery. A viewing will be on Wednesday July 13, from 2 to 8 p.m. and the family will receive friends from 6 until 8 p.m. at the chapel.
Being a historian and a member of the Gem County Historical Museum 501 E. First St. Emmett, Idaho 83617, you may donate in her name, give to a charity of your choice or give flowers.

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Published by Emmett Messenger Index from Jul. 11 to Aug. 11, 2011.

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July 21, 2011

To Emma Ruby and dear Lafe too: How precious are the memories you created in backcountry Yellow Pine. You experienced history that was mysterious and complex, while you preserved and recorded the passing time, and also created some history of your own.

For me one birthday party with Marge and Jim Collard and so many friends has filled my heart with smiles ever since. Then there was working with Lafe to fix up Johnson Creek, and how he stocked his backcountry lakes, and reading your bountiful scrapbook of stories. It has deepened understanding for generations to come.

Your smile was sincere and your heart was generous. I treasure our friendship. Lydia Justice Edwards

Tami & David Archuleta

July 19, 2011

Roxie & Vernon, We want you to know how sad we were to learn that Emma had passed. She was one of the most beautiful women I have ever met. David, the boys and I have some of the most wonderful memories of our time spent up in Yellow Pine. The warm welcome, fantastic food and loving embrace we will always hold dear. I just finished for the 3rd time their book. Just know we love you all and are keeping you close to our hearts in love and prayers.

Duane & Wanda Mize

July 16, 2011

Vernon, Roxie, Greg, Denise & Families: We so sad to hear of the passing of Emma. She lived a very long & colorful life. I can only hope that you find solace that she is now back in the arms of her lifetime love.

July 15, 2011

Janet and Roxie,

We are so sorry about Emma's leaving us to join Lafe in Heaven's Mountains. Emma and Lafe are a lasting, precious memory in our hearts that will never be forgotten. Lafe's directions to get to that Secret Mountain Lake and Emma's loving kindness will be with us always. The only words we can think of to describe Emma is "Most Gracious Lady".
Ken and Darlene Mingus

Jackie Beverage

July 14, 2011

To Roxie, Vernon, and all the family and extended family of Emma, we offer our sincere condolences in your personal loss of this wonderful, amazing woman of Idaho history! What a beautiful legacy she has left for her children and grandchildren and through her story with her husband Lafe, she has left another treasure for all of us to enjoy her life in her beautiful book! Our love and thoughts and prayers are coming to you all! Steve and Jackie (Himes) Beverage and family.

bart weseloh

July 13, 2011

from bart weseloh- idaho state veterans home. to the family i'am sorry for your loss. i didn't really know your mom but i did know the girls. yellowpine is a beautiful area. may GOD bless your family.

Russ & June Cadenhead

July 13, 2011

Vern, Roxie, Larry, Janet and families,
We will always remember Emma as a beautiful and remarkable true lady. We have enjoyed reading her and Lafe's book more than once. We are thinking of you and share your grief at your loss, and hope that knowing she is now reunited with Lafe will be of great comfort to you.

Shelly (Heeb) Johnson

July 13, 2011

Vern and Roxie, Cyndi, Brian, Greg and families. I remember what a beautiful lady Emma was, and so kind. My familiy talked so highly of her and Lafe and their Dude Ranch too. Thinking about you and your loss.

Larry & Edith Hawley

July 12, 2011

Janet, Larry, Roxie, Vernon and Families
Emma was one of a kind, visited her at Serenity several times. The book she wrote Idaho Mountain is our Home was a special read' we have a copy she signed. She and your dad were a perfect matche. She lived a good life and is at piece with her dear Lafe.
Our sincere condolences at your loss.

July 12, 2011

Enjoyed her charitable nature. Her love of family is inspirational. We were blessed to know her. Jed & Melony & Family

Spencer Young

July 12, 2011

I am lucky to have known such a remarkable woman.

Butch Biggers

July 12, 2011

I have always admired Emma for the long hard-working hours, the cleanliness of the lodge and cabins, her wonderful home-cooked meals, her kindness to everyone, and the fun franks played with the boys against the girls and vice versa. It was a great place to visit and work with many opportunites.

Now Emma and Lafe can load up the pack string to go fishing at the lakes.

Becky

July 12, 2011

Emma and Lafe were true friends to my grandparents,(Opal and Red Merrick) they always spoke highly of them. May they all be together soon.

Joyce Biggers

July 12, 2011

I have never known a more courageous woman than Emma. If you have read her book, you would certainly know what I am talking about. What an exciting life she has led! Now Lafe and Emma can climb on their horses, and ride the mountains together again.

July 12, 2011

Dear Janet, Larry, Roxie,Vernon and Chidren,
I loved your Mom so much-you know that. Both your parents were second parents to me. I hope you find comfort in knowing that they are finally together again, forever. I will keep your families in my thoughts and prayers and will be here for you if you need anything.
Love to you all!
Kris (Chaney/Hyde) Clarich

Stephanie Pinch

July 12, 2011

Thinking of all of you with deepest sympathy.

Vern & Carol McKinney

July 12, 2011

A dear and special friend. Alot of good memories with both Emma and Lafe. A passing of true pioneers.

July 12, 2011

Never a finer person there will be! Our thoughts and prayers are with her family. Now she and Lafe will be together again. Rest in Peace Emma!

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