Meredith Malone

Meredith Malone obituary, Richmond, VA

Meredith Malone

Meredith Malone Obituary

Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch on Jul. 4, 2010.
MALONE, Meredith Lianne, born January 27, 1970, passed away on June 15, 2010. She leaves behind two daughters, Shelby and Hydee Boeshans; and three brothers, Mickey, Dale and Jim Bowling. A memorial service will be held at Mt. Pleasant Baptist Church, Charles City, Va., on July 17 at 2 p.m.


This obituary was originally published in the Richmond Times-Dispatch.

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June 29, 2025

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June 28, 2025

Miss you like crazy my dear Sisi
Beautiful young ladies your daughter have become! RIP Beautiful lady+ love sisi

Shelby Peck

June 28, 2023

Miss you so much. 13 years can't seem real when I remember it like it was yesterday. How much there is to tell you that's happened since then. But I'm sure you've seen it all. I love you and it's a happy / bittersweet to see this page is still alive.

Shelby Peck

June 29, 2022

12 Years doesn't make any sense to me. I miss you so much and wish you were he so badly.

Shelby B

May 30, 2021

Just another quick stop to look in on this page when I'm thinking of you. Miss you so much still.

Diane Lutz

April 3, 2018

Your daughters are such smart beautiful young ladies! Yes... JUST LIKE MOMMA!

Shelby B

April 3, 2018

I had no idea this was back up and running and I'm just so happy.
Easter and April Fools fell on the same day this year and I Pranked Zachy with an Easter basket really made for his Nephew hahaha.
Hope that makes you smile.
I love you so much.

Diane Lutz

August 21, 2017

These are my beautiful granddaughters! I miss you SO MUCH SISI

Di Lutz

July 24, 2017

I hope that Greg and you and Daddy and all the other angels will bless us as we try to move on in this life on earth# I'm still trying to deal with the death of my big brother Greg. I MISS YOU ALL SO MUCH!

Di Lutz

July 14, 2017

Merry my sweet sisi.... missing you SO MUCH . WOW 7 YRS ALLREADY

Karen

July 4, 2013

Happy 4th!!! I know you celebrating and watching over those you love.Missing our laughs and three way conversation with Diane.

Lunch at McD's.. Wish I could do it OFTEN!!

Di (sissy)

April 14, 2013

Hey Sissy.... Today I MISS YOU SO BAD AGAIN! 's try to help me...
Wow the sun just peeked out on a gloomy pre snowstorm..... Was that you?
Miss you like crazy Baby! Lots of LOVE to you and hug up my Daddy too. I know you are both SO proud of me in my NEW job! I'm happy t:0 :0 . . .
bYE bYE FOR NOW MY DEAR! sweet dreams!

Jimmy

December 24, 2012

Merry Christmas sister. I know you will be watching over us all and that is why I know we will be safe. You have always been my Angel, I truly love you. Your Brother Jimmy

Jimmy

December 24, 2012

Hey Sissy. I know it has been a long time since I spoke to you. I am sorry. It has been a tough year for me because of my health again. Just been thinking of you and dreaming of some of our crazy nights together. A present has been sent to you. Samson, my Great Pyrenees is coming to be with you, Shadow, Mom and Pop. You would have loved him. He was almost as tall as me when he stood on his hind legs and weighted about 175. He was beautiful. White as snow and built like a tank. When he moved it was like slow motion video. Savannah and I have been so upset over loosing him. She made a movie to share with everyone. God I miss you. It is Christmas Eve today. We are going to Mike and Wendy's to spend Christmas with them. I wished we could talk, you always knew what to say to ease my mind about everything. Guess you could say it was my therapy right Doc. Your girls are growing into beautiful young ladies. So smart like you. Our Shelby is so in love, I have been wondering if I would hear they have eloped. Ora is good to her and kind of completes her in a way. She glows when he is around in the Pictures she has taken of them. I think she has chosen an amazing young man. I can't wait to meet him. Hydee is growing like a weed. I'll have to go for now. I miss and love you more each day. Don't think a day goes by without something reminding me of you and it brings back everything. Love always, Brother

Sisi

December 9, 2012

Braxton and Great Grandpa

Sis in ND

December 9, 2012

Oh My Dear Sisi! I have not been here forever... I think of you every day and talk to you alot while in the car. Roy got me a beautiful Angel for my rear view mirror and the OBX stickers are on the back window! I am having the time of my life with my Grandson Braxton! You would just LOVE HIM UP!
It is hard with out Daddy! I try to keep my head up and live like he would want me to. I feel him and you both thru the rays of sunshine some days! I would love to post some NEW photos of Braxton as well! Good-Night for now sisi I LOVE AND M I S S you so so much!

Ora Heaston

November 24, 2012

Dear Merry I wish I could of gotten a chance to met the mother of the girl I love but I know so much about you it feels like we were friends. I did however have one chance to talk to you on the phone when Shelby was in the hospital and you told me to be good to Shelby and take care of her and I know that if you were here you would be proud of us both we all miss you RIP

your daughter

October 5, 2012

mommy mommy mommy.
Well what can I say other than I miss you. I've been writing to you alot lately, and I had another dream about you last night. I don't really know what to think of it except i've been thinking of you alot, even when I am asleep I guess. I love and miss you more than I could try to explain.

Shelby Boeshans

August 28, 2012

I got a tattoo in memory of you mommy on my ribs. It's your favorite song by hoobastank and your signature that's says I love you mommy. I love you too.
I love you was the last thing you ever said to me, now its on my skin forever not just on my mind.

Shelby Boeshans

August 28, 2012

Where would I be if you were still here?

Shelby Boeshans

August 13, 2012

I need you back. Going through your stuff killed me but I will have to be okay.

jessika seay

July 30, 2012

i wish u were here to see my baby born it still feels so wierd without you here i miss u sooo much merry u were like a mom to me n i wish u could be here to see the baby i have always wanted i love u

Your Daughter

July 30, 2012

I had a dream, the second most real dream i've had since the night you died. In my dream you were there with me, we were talking and you were just there with me. Ryan woke me up and I started yelling where's my mama? Cause I could have sworn you were sitting on the couch. It took me a while to remember.
I miss you. I love you. Come Back to me :(

Shelby Boeshans

July 11, 2012

Everything is changing and I just wish you were here. Grandpa and Aunt Esther is up there with you now and I know you are all well taken care of. I miss you
One more day would have ment the world to me.
Keep watching over me and Ryan like I know you have.
I love you. <3

Karen

July 11, 2012

Thanks Diane fro making it possably for all those who love Merry, to countiue talking to Merry through our feelings and of our daily lives.
Love and miss you Merry

Your Daughter

June 15, 2012

Two years today Mommy
I sure do miss you and i know alot of other people miss you too. I wish you were here so i could talk to you so you could tell me what to do. I love you mommy and miss you so much.

Karen

June 14, 2012

Well My sweet marshmellow,It has been 2 years and though you are gone from this earth, you will never be gone from my memory and heart,,Keep watch over Diane and her family. Love and Miss you <3

Kerisha Stanley

June 1, 2012

I know i miss those talks we had over at audreys. usually in the bathroom but hey they were all good talks. I would give anything to have one more talk like that with you again!
I am so proud of Shelby and so is everyone else i know you are too!
Miss you bunches wanted you to know i was thinking bout you guys
Love ya xoxo

Shelby B.

June 1, 2012

Help me mommy.
Lord knows i don't know what i am doing.
I miss you and i love you more than anything.

May 25, 2012

Well Sis our baby girl is all grownup now. She Graduated tonight and is now ready to face a very bright future in what ever she decides to do. I felt you with us today and know you were watching your child grow into adulthood as she leaped ahead setting a bigger goal to challenge her. God I wished you were here right now to help her celebrate and to show her how proud you are of her. I love and miss you so much, Love always and forever. Brother

Karen

May 12, 2012

Happy Mothers Day!!! There are so many things going on through out the months and I could so go for a 3 way calling,, Love and Miss you.

Shelby B

May 7, 2012

Your song came on while me ryan sara and me where at VCC and i ran to sara and she just knew. I miss you and i can't help but cry everytime that song comes on. I love you.

Happy Easter 2012

Braxton and Sisi

May 5, 2012

I wrote a letter to you yesterday and burried it under this tree. I added some flowers and rocks in the shape of a heart. I miss you.

Shelby Marie

April 3, 2012

Your Daughter.

April 3, 2012

Grandpas cancer is getting better so no offence im trying to keep him down here as long as he's able to mama. I don't know what I would do if i loose one more person, i Couldnt take it i swear. I love and miss you like crazy.

Operator 26 is g o n e !!! : ( : (

Diane (Sisi) Lutz

April 1, 2012

Well Sisi Operator 26 was replaced by automation!! I'll never forget ALL the chats we had!! And the 3 way calls with Karen... OH my! I'd always come on the end of the conversation and get the "wrong" message! What I wonldn't give for more of those chats!! LOVE you sisi!!! The ever-famous Oper #26

your daughter

February 27, 2012

I don't know what im supposed to do without you.

Braxton says Hi to Merry

Sissi

February 26, 2012

Hi Auntie Merry!
Lots of LOVE from Braxton!
Grandma just LOOOOVES ME!

Your daughter

February 13, 2012

M O M M Y.
Today i am gonna go home and watch home movies of you with ryan.
I love and miss you terribly.
Keep watching over me, seems like i need you now more than ever.

Your Daughter

February 8, 2012

So i've deff been sick for the past few days and the only thing that keeps me pulling through is having ryan hold my hair back, thank you for sending me that boy. Without him i don't know where i'd be.
I love and miss you very much mommy.
I had another dream about you last night, hope things get better soon.

Diane SISI

February 7, 2012

Today SISI I NEED YOU SO MUCH!

Shleby B

February 2, 2012

I Miss you very very much.

Your Daughter

January 3, 2012

I have just had one of the best weekends in the universe. From friday three am up until monday morning my heart was in the clouds. BEST NEW YEARS EVER.
I miss you i really wish you could be here to see how much i've grown and meet all of these amazing people in my life. I just know you would love them.
I miss you and I love you very much mommy.
Keep watching over them and I, I know you were watching them on their way home after that accident. Keep everyone i love in close sight.

MERRY Christmas MERRY!

Sisi

December 29, 2011

Braxton is saying he LOVES his Grandma!
Sisi you would just love him up!

shelby b

December 28, 2011

My three loves come tomorrow. I.missed you on.Christmas
please watch over them as they travel six hours.
I love you mommy.

Baby Santa (Braxton Bradley)

Diane (sisi)

December 26, 2011

Merry Christmas sweet sisi!!
Braxton is the light of my life!
Our Baby Santa made the Holidays extra Speial this year!

Karen

December 21, 2011

Merry Christmas Marshmellow, U are truley missed.

shelby marie

December 19, 2011

I fell in love.

Yes " A GRANDMOTHER"

Sisi

December 10, 2011

My 1st Grandson!
He is just AWSOME!

sm B

December 7, 2011

im going crazyy,
i need you here with me because i dont understand anything.
I love you.

Karen

November 23, 2011

Happy Thanksgiving my sweet Sisi,, Love and Miss You,, I am so missing our 3 way chats.But I know you are in a better place.

ashleigh heins

November 13, 2011

Love you

ashleigh heins

November 13, 2011

Merry my other mother. I miss you Soo much. It hurts so bad to know ur not here. I remember all the talks we had. The things we've been through. How u always tried to keep us girls happy. I know I haven't done my best with taking care of Shelby n hydee. But Shelby knows I'm one phone call away. Just like u said friends til the end but there will never be an end just a new beginning. I love you and miss you very much.

brandon fisher

November 13, 2011

I wish I had the chance to meet you I know your looking down on shelby and hydee and I know your proud of what wonderful girls they have become shelby is like a sister to me I do everything I can to comfort her when she's upset and I know you would too if you could I know you love and miss the girls a lot but you will see them again one day but until then I will do my best to help them with anything they need

Your daughter

November 13, 2011

Sat down at the breakfast table on Friday and just cried and I mean fullllll force.
It still confuses me cause at those random times you come to mind and it all hits me at once and I just can't help but let my heart show how much I'm hurting. I miss you and it's setting in. I'm still in disbelief but I love you and miss you anyways. Please keep a close watch on me grandpa and ryan. I love you mommy.

shelby .

November 9, 2011

Its setting in.

Sisi /Aunt Diane

October 18, 2011

So proud of the girls! You would be too!

Your daughter

October 8, 2011

Yesterday was our senior convocation. I got a rose for you anyways and endedup giving one to daddy and another one to go to you. I miss you and casey says you were there and I was sitting in your lap. Iove you mama, hope you're proud.

Karen

October 3, 2011

Hey Sissi I just read what shelby wrote "who woulda thought" That blew me away. Im sure you are smiling at her for that. I miss our 3 way chats with Diane. We could be teeseing Diane and call her granny. Love ya girl

your daughter

October 1, 2011

Hey mommy. Friday is my senior convocation I wish you could be thre in person so I could give you a rose in person ;/ please make it so daddy goes it would mean alot to me. I love and miss you very much Mommy

Sisi

October 1, 2011

Hey....S I S I
I'm gonna be a
"G R A N D M A"!

your daughter

September 17, 2011

Thursday morning i woke up and was in so much pain me daddy and ryan went to the emergency room thank you for makin sure he was there to help me. He was exactly what i needed and helped me the whole time, helpin me walk, getting me to eat, everything. without him id probably be worse off and not knowing i have pneumonia. i miss you. keep me and him safe in your loving arms as he continues Marine training and MOS school for the next three months. iloveyou

your daughter

September 9, 2011

Hey mama so today i was emitted into the emergency room today and after many many tests ive found out i have a kidney and bladder Infection. i wish you were here but on the bright side i found out ryan gets to leave parris island today and hell be here tuesday (: so good news at last. iloveyou mommy.

your daughter

September 6, 2011

Hey mama i went to the doctor today and found out my golbladder might be messed up. i dont know what to do.and i just wish you were here to make everything ok. iloveyou

youre daughter

September 3, 2011

Hey i miss you and it's sad that now. about a year and a half later i'm realizing you're gone and it really hurts. i miss you truely momma. I wish there was something i could do to bring you back or stop this hurt. but there ain't. watch over me cause im hurting now more that anyone can tell. iloveyou

Lisa Dixon

August 30, 2011

I did not get to know you, but I know your daughter Shelby and you must have been extraordinary to have created such a beautiful young lady! I know you are looking down and so proud. I will do my best to protect and guide her. I wish I could heal her pain and keep her young and innocent forever. It breaks my heart that she misses you so much, but she is growing into a wonderful caring and kind lady! I love her like she is mine. I pray daily for your family. Rest in peace!

Your Daughter

August 17, 2011

another soldier down. But he's up in heaven with you. This has made me miss you more than before. I love you and need you. And want you to protect and sheild everyone who is hurting right now and everyone that i love, especially ryan in bootcamp. Mama wish you were here more each and every day.
<3 iloveyou.

Brother

August 14, 2011

God only knows how much I miss you, baby sis. Our baby girls life is in turmoil and I don't know what to do to help her. I want to talk with you so bad it hurts. Savannah and the girls go back to school soon. They are growing up so fast. I wished that heaven had cell phones so we could talk. I miss our 2 hour morning wake up calls that we used to have. I still find myself picking up the phone to call you, then my heart breaks a little more because I know I can't call. I love you still sis and that will never change.

Angel Clouds

sissi

August 13, 2011

These Angel clouds flew over us during the flood here. I miss you so so much my dear. Lots of LOVE from Sisi

Karen

August 3, 2011

Missing you, our conversation and laughter

Sisi

July 7, 2011

Happy Birthday America!!
Love and Miss You my DEAR!

Karen

July 4, 2011

Happy 4th sweet sisi..Love and Miss you

Sisi

July 3, 2011

Today I MISS YOU SO SO MUCH!

Thank-You Karen!

Diane (Sisi) Lutz

June 29, 2011

Thanks to Karen for paying the fee to keep this up and running another year! It is a wonderful gift to us ALL! Thanks lil sis

Karen

June 29, 2011

We have another year to write our thoughts and feelings to you. I know you are laughing at what I did to my fingers, I can just hear me you and Diane talking about it.I know how stupid it was but after the fact, ok still stupid. Love and Miss you

Bobbie Bowling

June 16, 2011

Well girl a year has came and gone and it still dont feel real. Feel like any minute we will wake up and you will be calling us with some crazy thing Hydee did or Shelby done. Or just to say hey we are going camping. We miss you very much and still are looking after the girls, was suppose to go see them this week but had to post pone it for a while. Love you.

June 14, 2011

Monday, June 13, 2011

Two more days and a year will have gone by for us. The pain in our hearts is stronger now than before. So much has happened since I got the call from the hospital sissy. It hurts so much that I can't remember what I did or who I talked with that night. My mind has blocked out almost everything from that day and even on the trip up there for your ceremony. It is like amnesia is keeping one of the worst days of my life from me. The same thing happened when we lost Sharon. I can’t even remember how I got the message or how we got back down here or the drive back.

I feel like you are here with me trying to protect me like you used to when we were little. God how I miss our morning talks on the phone, it never failed you would call right before Savannah got on the bus for school and we would talk for hours at a time. Mostly about our little ones and how proud of them we were and of what we hoped for them in the future.

I wish that I could have done more to help you. Sometimes I feel like I failed you because we moved back to Alabama and left you there with no close family. I know that you where lonely and needed a lot more support. When dad was sick and you asked to move here, I wish now that everyone would have said yes, but it was ultimately Pop’s call. I don’t know if it would have changed anything in the long run and I guess we will never know.


To be continued:

Your Daughter

May 24, 2011

Saturday after my date, We were driving and the song one more day came on, the song that reminds allyson of you. Ryan and I knew instantly you were watching us and i couldn't be happier. You'd love him, and He already loves you. I love you too and i feel like you threw us two together cause he's just what i need to get through this crazy time. ⫬ only do i have strong feelings towards him, i believe daddy & Hydee do too (:

Karen

May 23, 2011

Cant believe it will soon be a year since you been gone. Your love and laughter will remain in my heart forever.
Love and Miss you.

Break in the clouds (Gregs photo)

Sisi

May 14, 2011

Keep sending me these rays of sunshine my dear. Gregs photos are awsome! This is one of them... In a week long rain and gloom twice you sent me rays of sunshine from heaven just when i needed them! I love and MISS you so much my dear! LOVE Sisi

Bobbie Bowling

May 8, 2011

Happy Mothers Day in Heaven Merry You are with your mom which in my book is one of the best moms in the world.
Love you girl. Jimmy, Bobbie, Hali and Savannah, Give mom a hug from me I miss her so much.

ich llebe dich.

Your daughter

May 8, 2011

Happy mothers day Momma, wishin i could tell you in person that i love you. I miss you.

Happy Mothers Day Sisi! I LOVE You!

Love Sisi

May 7, 2011

HAPPY MOTHERS DAY Sweet Sisi...
I miss you SO MUCH! Sweet Dreams
my Dear!

Karen

May 7, 2011

HAPPY MOTHERS DAY my sweet Marshmellow! <3 Love and Miss You!

Sisi 'n' Roy

May 7, 2011

H a p p y M o t h e r s D a y
MY Sweet Sisi
Lots of LOVE from Diane and Roy!

Bobbie Bowling

April 28, 2011

LIke Melissa said I just cant wrap my head around it almost a year. We miss you very much and we are looking after Shelby and Hydee, and they are loved. Bobbie and Jimmy

Your Truck :D

your daughter.

April 27, 2011

it has been toooo long mommy. too long. i go to my conference tomorrow in Jamestown. Hopein' you're proud of me now. I love you.

Melissa Gammon

April 27, 2011

WOW! Still seems unreal that your gone even after almost a year. I know your daughters will carry your spirit on forever. I will always remember all the good times & memories I have of you. You will be missed. R*I*P Mary!

Karen

April 22, 2011

HAPPY EASTER my marshmellow!!! I miss you so much,

Sisi and Roy LOVE YA GIRL!

Sisi

April 21, 2011

I got my puter back today!! YEH!!!
I was so scared they would have to wipe it and my whole life and you are on it!!
I miss you so much my SWEET SISI!
Your girls are AMAZING and so so Beautiful! Missin you today....

Your Daughter

April 14, 2011

Mommy mommy mommy, if you could only see me now, gosh what would you say. Got a job, working hard, been doing good with hydee, good in school and even got accepted into a goood conference thing i go to in two weeks, i love you. Wish you were here.

Spring Flowers for my Sisi

Sisi

April 13, 2011

Missin you my sweet Sisi! I thought I'd send ya some spring flowers! What I wouldn't do to have another day/week/month/year with YOU!

Your Daughter.

April 10, 2011

hydee had a good birthday, wish you were here, i miss you <3

Karen

April 9, 2011

Talking to sisi and hydee on phone. Missing you sisi

SM B

March 23, 2011

mommy mommy mommy
i love you and miss you.
Im seventeen now, this is the second birhtday you missed, it killed me but i love and miss you. <3

SWEET 17 my Dear!

Auntie Di

March 16, 2011

Wow Shelbys 17th Bday! I know you are singing sweet praises from above!
H A P P Y B I R T H D A Y
S H E L B Y!

March 3, 2011

we all miss you very much.we all had some really fun times together really miss that.

Allysonion

March 2, 2011

"Last night I had a crazy dream, a wish was granted just for me it could be for anything. I didn't ask for money, or a mansion I Malibu. I simply wished for one more day with you. One more day, one more time, one more sunset mommy I'd be satisfied. But then again, I know what it would do, leave me wishing still for one more day with you."

Lisa Dixon

March 2, 2011

Though I didn't know you, I know your Shelby. She is brilliant, beautiful, kind, fun, and a wonderful follower of the Lord. I know you are smiling down and so proud. No worries, I will love and protect her as my own. Peace be with you.

Shelb.

March 2, 2011

Mommy mommy mommy I miss miss miss you you you. I wish you were here here here so everything wouldn't suck suck suck. I love love love you you you. I had another dream about you and thought you were still here, i always wake up dissappointed. I love you and miss you and know that one day i'll see you again if not only in my dreams but up in H E A V E N.

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