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Vik Polivka
May 30, 2025
We were in class 2-10-EOD. I still think about and miss him.
Melissa (Mo) Tackitt
July 18, 2012
So sad,,,,My heart goes out to your family and your daughter. You will be deeply missed brother. YOu are not forgotten.
July 17, 2012
July 17, 2012
On the 5th anniversary of the passing of Jeffrey Chaney: he is still remembered and honored.
Erik Burton
July 17, 2012
Jeff, may God bless your family.
I remember!
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Peggy Childers
July 17, 2011
To the family and friends of Petty Officer First Class Jeffrey L. Chaney:
Please accept my remembrance of Jeffrey on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Honor Quilt in memory of Jeffrey Chaney
Sandy Tuzinski
May 27, 2011
With Memorial Day coming soon I wanted to share photos of an honor quilt I made to honor the memory of Jeffrey.
We will never forget him.
God bless you all.
Mort
April 15, 2011
Miss you J
Tony Hammond
March 26, 2011
It was a true honor to have served with Jeff Chaney at Cheatham Annex NavChapGru Williamsburg,Va. May heaven smile upon you and your family.
Peggy Childers
July 17, 2010
To the family and friends of Petty Officer 1st Class Jeffrey L. Chaney:
Remembering Jeffrey on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Eric Foley
June 29, 2010
Jeff,
I just wanted you to know that I'm thinking about you. It's 12:01 am and you just popped in my head. I'd like to think that's you saying hello my friend.
Linda Brodine
November 7, 2009
Today I am working on a slideshow of Nebraska KIA's for our annual all school Veterans Day program. I wanted to sign the guest book and assure you that Petty Officer First Class Jeffrey Chaney will be remembered by all of us on November 11.
Sincerely
brad kreager
July 24, 2009
i love you jeff. your best friend.....i miss you
Peggy Childers
July 17, 2009
To the family of Petty Officer First Class Jeffrey L. Chaney:
Jeffrey gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Eileen Suggs
May 25, 2009
You are not forgotten. Thank you.
Larry Morrisson
March 1, 2009
Jeff
I was just watching the HBO special Taking Chance and it brought back so many feelings and thoughts of you. But part of the movie was about escorting these brave hero`s home, one of the escorts was a brother of a fallen hero. This reminded me of Randy escorting Jeff home,that part made me realize that Randy is also a hero of my for taking on this great honer of bringing Jeff home.
I love and miss you Jeff
Dedication Memorial China Lake
December 31, 2008
Mount Over-Structure Placement, China Lake
December 31, 2008
EOD Dedication Stone China Lake
December 31, 2008
Kenna Larra
December 30, 2008
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Sincerely,
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daniel krasa
November 11, 2008
I miss you my Brother/Friend and Hero I will never forget the times we had growing up together Not just on Veterans DAY will I remember you,you will always be dear to my heart and always in my memories,Thank you for always protecting me, from Omaha NE growing up, to the far away places that the NAVY brought you to, and where you so heroically gave your life, YOU ARE FOREVER IN MY HEART, I LOVE YOU JEFFERY, YOUR BROTHER, DANIEL KRASA
alisha chaney
August 16, 2008
my name is alisha chaney. my dad is jeffrey allen chaney(Bo). i never met jeff which would be my cousin but hear he is an amazing guy. all of you family out there that i havent met yet, i cant wait. my prayers go out to you all. love you, alisha marie chaney
Jim Bailey
July 31, 2008
God Bless you.
lori b
July 28, 2008
Jeff's family,
I met you last weekend and we looked at the star in the sky that most certainly was Jeff. He must have been loved by a tremendous amount of people! I thank him for his mark he has left on this world and for his bravery in keeping our lives safe.
In Memory of Jeffrey ~ (Debra Estep)
July 17, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Jeffrey, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Safely Home
Michael Iezzi
July 17, 2008
Jeffrey,
Thinking and praying for you on the 1st anniversary of your passing into eternal glory. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
"Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends", John 15:13.
The Chaney Family
July 15, 2008
Les we forget,
On July 17, 2007 at 9:17AM, God welcomed our hero into his arms. The hole left in our hearts is slowly healing with our pride and the wonderful memories of a Son, Brother, Father and Friend. To the world, he may have been just one person but to us, he WAS the world.
Rest peacefully Jeff.
Until we meet again,
Your Family
4th of July 2008. WE WILL NEVER FORGERT
July 11, 2008
July 1, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Petty Officer First Class Chaney!
May 25, 2008
To The Chaney Family and Friends
YOUR LOSS is The Great State of Nebraska's & America's as well.
I want to take the time to send a few words and Let you know PO1 Jeffrey L. Chaney is remembered as a Hero and you are as well with Prayer for your Loss..
May your Memories with him and of him help to comfort you along with God's care. And be passed on to his children and other family members..
There just is no word's to take away the loss you feel, for that I am sorry...
I thank you for America's freedom and mine and my families because of men and women like your Jeffery.
God Bless and Keep You in His Peace during these times of Great Loss.
It is all American's greatest duty to check in on our Gold Star Hero's families.. hope you don't mind.. and are taking good care of your self.. Jeffery would have wanted it that way!
-
The Family Lines of Lt. Presley Neville O'Bannon (A Marine who Raised the first American Flag on Foreign soil, Shores of Tripoli Hero) Proudly Salute: PO1 Jeffrey L. Chaney, YOUR & one of Our Special Gold Star Hero's, from Nebraska who gave his all and then gave more! For his extream service and bravery He stands as an Exceptional Man ... Bless those he served with ..
As His Fellow Comrades Stand Guard, Protect and Bless them Lord.
Proudly a Wife and Daughter of Ret. Navy men
Proud sister, cousin, grand daughter, niece of many that have served...
Rev. T. O'Bannon Brod
(Proud to be from, NE)
Greg Gorden
May 16, 2008
I was sad to hear about the death of petty officer Chaney. I served in the U.S. Army for five years during the Vietnam Conflict. I was lucky, I did not have to give the ultimate sacrifice of a soldier. God Bless Jeff for serving his country honorably and protecting us at home.
JoAnn James
May 16, 2008
God Bless You for what you have given for this country and the freedoms that we all enjoy. May God continue to bless your family.
Suzanne MacDaniel
May 16, 2008
To the Chaney family,
I know there are no words to say, except how sorry I am for your loss. May you hold Jeffreys' memory in your heart and please remember he shall never be forgotten.
...For you every single soldier
Those who served so honorable
Your life was forever altered
While I’m home safe and free
I stand with grateful admiration
I stand respectful and so proud
I know I’m only a civilian
And I don’t even know if it’s allowed.
But I salute you; allow me the honor
to salute you with permission let me say
Even though I hold no rank know that from my heart
My humble gratitude comes from the deepest part.
I salute you.
Suzanne MacDaniel
A Proud Aunt
David M.Fisher
william williamson
May 15, 2008
"NO GREATER LOVE IS THAT, THAN HE WHO GIVES HIS LIFE FOR A FRIEND" THANKS FOR THE GIFT JEFF
GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY
CSM W.H.WILLIAMSON
Trina Sprott
May 14, 2008
With deepest sympathy in this time of loss. Just a word of thanks for the sacrifice made on my behalf.
Boating fun with Brianna and Cameron
Bonnie Timm
April 17, 2008
Jeff, you were a good Dad to my grandson, Cameron. You were a hero in his eyes and you are now a hero to everyone in our country. My fondest personal memory was our hike up to Camp Muir, Mt Rainier. You said I worked you harder than the Navy. My favorite photo is you with Brianna & Cameron behind the boat...what fun you all had together (see photo album).
brianne kruger
April 17, 2008
hi this i brianne i am brianna's friend i use to be there when she talk to you on the phone i know she is missing you i will always be there for her and i know you will too!
Eric Foley
April 10, 2008
Jeff, It's been 12 years since our time at Cheatham Annex and I still remember your friendship like it was yesterday. Your sarcasm and sense of humor made you so easy to like and get along with. You were the big brother I never had. I have so many great memories to cherish during those years in Williamsburg. Hanging out with Brad, Pedro, and Quintaro, there aren't too many stories I tell of those days that you aren't a part of. As a father of two myself, I feel your loss deep in my heart and I know you would never have wanted to leave your children. I'm sure they already know what a great person you are and and like myself, will never forget you!
Thank you for the good times, I will miss you!
Omenesterdyerichie!
Pedro Orozco
April 9, 2008
I'm so sorry to hear the loss of a friend that was the best of friends. Many thoughts and prayers are with the families at this time of sorrow.
Boats
March 12, 2008
Jeff, I can never in theses few words say how much I miss you brother. Every day I think of you and all the fun times we had, and even more the laugh’s afterward recalling those good times. I most of all miss the phone calls l venting on each other about the day or some life event which troubled one of us at the time. Thank you for being there and being my friend and brother. I am sure we will meet again someday and have a few beers, enjoy our company and laugh the days away while creating more found memoires.
Boats
Ed Gaitan
March 6, 2008
Jeff. my God brother god bless you, your a hero to many and i thank you for that.. its sad to lose a person like you and im just gonna remember the fun times i had knowing you.. my prayers go out to your family.. i know your watching everyone now and i want to say YOUR A HERO.. GOD BLESS..
Taylor C.
February 19, 2008
Jeff,
Hi, I never knew you but I knew your son Cameron. He's awesome and I know he loved you very much. Cameron always talked about you. You were his hero and I know he misses you a lot!
NCC(SW) Jeffery Karros
January 23, 2008
Jeff.. Sorry... Shipmate, It's been a long time since we talked. The last time I saw you was RTC. We came in the Navy out of the same office with the same recruiter. You left recruiting as I came in and then my mom called me and asked if I remembered and knew what had happened earlier that morning. And as I hung up with her (and write this now) I teared up and shaked for a while. I even left the office and quit recruiting for the day. Dude, I'm sorry it's taken so long, your just missed. You are the truest of heros and you are missed. I will see you again one day shipemate...Your bro Jeff
Corey Demers
December 24, 2007
Connie, and April
The holidays are a time for family to come together and catch up on the things that happened through out the year. This year I’m sure will not be like years past for you, but I can bet that Jeff will be looking down and smiling knowing that he isn’t forgotten and his sacrifice was not in vane. I wanted to wish you guys a happy holidays and I still truly am sorry for you’re ultimate loss.
Connie Whitaker
December 21, 2007
Connie, April, I just found this page. I am so glad to finally meet Jeff. What a handsome young man.
Patty Schmuecker
December 14, 2007
To the parents and family of Petty Officer First Class Jeffrey L. Chaney. Please accept my deepest sympathy on your loss. There are no words to ease your pain, but we can draw strength from each other through the difficult days ahead. Please know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers through this holiday time and in the year ahead. I believe our soldiers are in heaven, watching over us, guiding us, and keeping us safe. My son, SGT Jacob S. Schmuecker, KIA 7-21-07, Balad, Iraq, is one of those soldiers. My son's funeral was the same day as Jeff's funeral. I will be praying for your family in the days ahead.
With deepest sympathy,
timothy gillem
December 3, 2007
to Jeff,
We escorted you through some hostile areas in Samarra, Iraq, and you saved our lives on almost every occassion by doing your job. In doing so; we became your brothers and you became ours. We owe our lives to you. It gave me great honour to be one of the ones to carry you to the helicopter for your hero flight home. I will see you again soon with all my other fallen brothers. If you run into any problems up in heaven, find our fallen paratrooper brothers from the 82nd Airborne. Tell them you have some brothers from D Company 2/505 Parachute. That is all they will need to know! See you soon brother.
SSG Timothy P. Gillem
2/505th PIR
3rd Brigade
82nd Airborne Division
Fort Bragg, N.C.
Mom
November 20, 2007
On this Thanksgiving, I thank you God, for giving me thirty-five years with one of your most wonderful creations, my son Jeff. Even though you have taken him home, I will live daily with loving memories and pride.
Thank you to my other children, Randy for bringing our Jeff home to us, Jim for his support as the big brother, April as the family "rock", and Johnnie for greeting his brother on his arrival in heaven.
Thank you to all of the many friends, new and old, for their continuing support to our family.
Most of all, thank you Jeff for the love, kindness, and joy that you shared with everyone you touched.
With much pride, I can say, you are my hero.
EODCS Kenny Normand
September 17, 2007
To the Chaney family,
My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you with your great loss. I was Jeff's first EOD Chief when he checked onboard Detachment Panama City prior to his start of EOD training. He walked in and carried himself with high class and respect. He asked me if I had gotten the paper work on his instant promotion that he was promised as a recriuter. I informed him that there was no such thing. The next day I had to eat crow as the fax machine printed out orders to promote Petty Officer 2nd Class Chaney to 1st Class for outstanding recognition as a Naval Recruiter. Jeff was the senior man of the six "wanna bee" EOD recruits we had working for us. He always made sure that he was looking out for the best interest of the group and put the rest of the youngsters ahead of himself at all times. I had quite a few months to get to know him and enjoyed his sense of humor and go getting attitude. He always looked forward to traveling to Eglin where his family was living at the time and made sure the work was done on time so everybody could cut out. I am now at EOD school as an instructor. Jeff was recently in the EOD school area doing some training and heard that I was there on instructor duty. He came out of his way to come and see me. We had not seen each other in years and reunited like old friends would. We gave each other the EOD hug and secret handshake and talked about old times when he wanted to be EOD. I expressed how glad I was that he made time to come and visit with me. Jeff and the loss of his team mates was a terrible feeling to me. Jeff Chaney will never be forgotten and I will always remember my friend who was a leader and hero from the start of his EOD career.
Bob Schenk
September 5, 2007
As ashes fall on battle grounds, and those we love are lost, we question not their bravery, but whats the final cost. Did this soldier die in vain? I hope your answers no, he died defending freedom, and a lifestyle we all know. He did not fight for glory, he did not fight for fame, he fought for every man and child to keep their lives the same. Jeff, you are gone, but not forgotten. We have your, everything, in our house. I'm not going to lie, it has been hard having you around so much, but I have not and will not waiver letting our daughter know that her dad is an American Hero. Again, Thank You for your ultimate sacrifice.
Gary Thompson
September 2, 2007
I am a friend of Jeff. Jeff and I went to EOD School together. He was one of the finest men that I have had the pleasure of meeting. He was a very easy going and funny guy. My heart goes out to his family, wife and son.
debbi rivers
August 27, 2007
To the parents of Jeffrey, I would like to extend my heart felt sorrow as I know what you are going through and what you will yet go through in the coming weeks. I too am the mother of another fallen soldier and with God's continued support in my life I try to reach out to other who might need the support of someone who has been where you are. I want to offer you the support you may need to contact me anytime so that you may vent, talk or just seek comfort I am here for you. As a Gold Star Mother I've reached out through God's blessings to many across the country and we have a good support group. May God continue to give you and your family the love, comfort and healing that you need. In memory of my son SPC Harry (Buck) Winkler III KIA Samarra, Iraq November 12, 2006
Becky Eckert
August 22, 2007
Uncle Jeff,
I miss you so much! I think about the times that we spent together. Like when I used to come over just to get out of going to school and you would take me to hooters for lunch. The time you took me to prom and know one knew you where my uncle. You were the life of our party!! The time I flew to Florida with Breanna to visit You, Ariel and Camron. I have many more memories of us hanging out together. You will always be loved and remembered by many people. You are not only an American Hero you are my hero!
I love you soo much! I'll see you over the rainbow.
August 19, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Petty Officer 1st Class Chaney and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Randy Chaney
August 12, 2007
Jeff, our Family and Friends,
It is time, I have been avoiding this but find it time now. I would like to say to:
Our Family, Thank You! Thank you for being there for Jeff, Me and everyone else who serves. There is no way that the thanks can be expressed for what we do. I will always be here for you and thank you for being my family.
Our friends:
There is no way that I know to show gratitude for all the support that you ALL have shown to us. We will always be grateful for your sympathy and support. I wish I could shake everyones hand and thank you face to face.
The Navy:
It is with sincere and humble gratitude that I thank you all, for what you did for Jeff and in return what he did for me. You have been there for us in this trying time without waver, we are all grateful for everything, thank you.
Jeff:
I do not have words to thank you for what you did for me! You saved my life and will never be able to return the favor. Thank you for being my brother, my friend and my Shipmate. You will be forever in my heart and I will take you with me every where. God be with you and protect you until we are together again. I love you brother and will miss you always.
with all the respect I have,
ET2(sw) Charles "Randy" Chaney
NSWG-1 MCD, Coronado, Ca.
Grandma Barb Rzonca
August 12, 2007
To the family of Jeff.... I am so saddened by your loss. My Granddaughter, Brianne and Brianna are good friends. My thoughts are with you, so sorry...
Janet Mattson
August 8, 2007
Our fallen hero, Petty Officer First Class Jeffrey L. Chaney, will never be forgotten and I thank you for your service and ultimate sacrifice to our country.
My deepest thoughts and prayers for the Chaney Family in this great time of sorrow and need.
To his daughter, Brianna, may you grow up knowing what a very special man your father was. Many Americans across this great country of ours are grateful to him for the great sacrifice he made.
He will never be forgotten.
From a mother-in-law of one serving in Baghdad and a PROUD Soldiers’Angel.
Amber Reader
August 7, 2007
Ariel and Cameron,
I am so sorry to hear about Jeff. He was a great man and will be missed by so many. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Adam Ellsworth
August 4, 2007
To the family of Jeffrey L. Chaney. I served with your husband/father/friend during the last few months of 2006. Here was a photo I recently found dated November 11, 2006 during a response to a UXO/IED. The lives he saved by disarming this device, along with countless others can never be counted. Sgt Adam Ellsworth US ARMY
Brianna Chaney
August 4, 2007
Dear daddy,
I miss you so much. It's hard to accept the fact that your really gone. In my heart I know you are always with me. I appreciate the brave sacrafice you made for your country. You are truly an American Hero. I can't express how much I love you..and how much I will miss you. I want you to know that im thinking about you everyday and you will never be forgotten. I am very proud to call you my father. I love you so much daddy.
Love Brianna
Lindalee McCandlis
August 2, 2007
To the family of Jeff Chaney,
I am so sorry for your loss words cannot express enough at a time like this. I met Jeff in my wine and kitchen store in Everett WA.Whenever he came by for a bottle of wine he always took the time to stop and talk a while that is how I learned of his profession. He was always warm and kind and seemed like a very loving man, easy to be friends with. When he told me he was being deployed in May I told him I would be praying for him and he thanked me with great sincerity. I feel priveleged to have met him and to have gotten to know a little bit about him.With great sadness I will continue to remember you in prayer.May the God of all comfort draw near to you all.Good bye Jeff and thank you American Hero!
Sincerely,
Lindalee McCandlis
Dianna Jeffery
August 1, 2007
May God bless you as you continue your life with memories of Jeffrey. My son is over there as well and we must continue to be proud on why they chose this path in life. May you find peace.
Old Bellevue
August 1, 2007
I knew Jeff during the mullet hair, Skateland, South cinema 4... and then 7 days. I remember Jaime, Scott and rest of the crew always playing way too loud big hair metal band stuff in his basement. I remember that he was always laid back, funny, and a great buddy to have type of guy that everyone always liked. Have not spoke with him since the high school reunion, but I was deeply touched and saddened when hearing about his death. My heart goes out to his family and friends.
Christopher Broome
August 1, 2007
May Jeff rest in peace. He is a true hero and I am proud to have worn the same uniform and EOD badge as he did.
Chris McMann
July 31, 2007
Dear Chaney Family,
I wish I knew words to tell you how sorry I am for your loss. Jeff and I were in class together at EOD school, he made those long boring days of class bareable. We sat together at the same table and would pick on all the young Air Force kids in class with us. Jeff deffinetly had a outgoing personality and alot of the kids in class with us didn't know how to take jeff and I when we were on a roll.
One of Jeffs favorite things to do during class was to have one of our buddies Chris H. (HEAD) do a Parachute Landing Fall (PLF) for short. We would have him jumping off the smoke deck rail and PLF in the sand right below us and laugh for hours afterwards. I guess you had to know Chris and Jeff to understand how funny this actually is.
I was also stationed at EODMU11 with Jeff and had the oppurtunity to spend three years with a great friend. Jeff was someone who was trust worthy and was someone I could talk to and that is very hard to come by anymore. He will be sorely missed and will always be in my thoughts.
EOD1(EWS)McMann EODMU11
Florence McSween-Elkins
July 31, 2007
To All Parents
“I’ll lend you for a little time a child of Mine,” He said.
“For you to love the While he lives and mourn for when he’s dead.
It may be six or seven years, or 22 or three,
But will you, till I call him back, take care of him for me?
He’ll bring his charms to gladden you, and shall his stay be brief.
You’ll have his lovely memories as solace and relief.
“I cannot promise he will stay, since all from earth return,
But there are some lessons taught down there I want this child to learn.
I’ve looked the wide world over in my search for teachers true
And from the throngs that crowd life’s lanes I have selected you.
Now will you give him all your love, nor think the labor vain,
Nor hate Me when I come to take him back again?”
For all the joy Thy child shall bring, the risk of grief we’ll run.
We’ll shelter him with tenderness, we’ll love him while we may
And for the happiness we’ve known forever grateful stay;
But shall the angels call for him much sooner than we’ve planned.
We’ll brave the bitter grief that comes and try to understand
I am so sorry for your loss; I did not know your son, however, He may have known my son, Petty Officer 1st Class Joseph Adam McSween EODMU-11 based at Oak Harbor, WA. He was KIA near Kirkuk, Iraq 04-06-07. There are long days and nights ahead, however, if you ever want someone to talk to who knows the loss of a Child that gave the greatest gift, He laid down his life for others to live free and in peace.
My Father In Heaven Is In Control,
Florence McSween-Elkins, Proud Mother Of My Navy Hero
Wesley Flott
July 30, 2007
I am grateful that our nation still produces such fine men as Jeffrey. My sympathy to his family and friends.
Gary Allain
July 29, 2007
Petty Officer First Class Jeffrey L. Chaney
you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.
Andrea Smith
July 29, 2007
Jeff was a wonderful shipmate a real go getter! I met Jeff on the USS Abraham Lincoln with his crew. He is going to be greatly missed. My deepest sympathy for your family.
God Bless.
Kathy Humann
July 29, 2007
My name is Kathy and I dont know the Chaney family, but we are all in the same Navy family. My son (Also named Jeffrey) is an Airman presently stationed in Norfolk VA. My heart goes out to you all. We are so proud of the service Jeff gave our country and we thank him for giving the ultimate sacrifice for our freedom.
William Conyers
July 29, 2007
Petty Officer Chaney worked hard to give me the opportunity that I needed in the Navy as my recruiter and I appreciate it. This world has lost a true patriot.
Terra Christensen
July 29, 2007
Dear Brianna, Jeff and Chaney family,
Although I didn't know Jeff, I was very good friends with Brianna when we were younger. We were practicaly inseparable somedays. I could tell how much Brianna loves her dad by the way she talked about him and how she would show me pictures of the two of them when she had returned from visiting him. I moved a few years ago and haven't talked to Brianna much since, I wish I would have kept in better contact with her.
When I heard about Petty Officer First Class Jeffery Chaney's death on the local news I immediatley thought of Brianna and the Chaney family and how tough this must be for you all to go through.
I just want the whole Chaney family to know how extremely sorry I am about the loss of your loved one and how thankful I am for everything Jeff did for the whole country. Jeff and his family are in my thoughts and prayers.
So to Jeff I say, Thank You for everything you did. You are an American Hero and will be remembered. Maybe one day we can meet in heaven. God Bless
Larry Morrisson
July 29, 2007
I feel as tho I have lost my own brother,I am so lucky to have had him in part of my life.I will always be proud of you Jeff and how you grew up to be the man that you were.I will miss you and never forget you.You will forever be in my prayers.
Jim & Rachel Derr
July 28, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family of Jeff Chaney. He will be dearly missed.
Susan Stanley
July 28, 2007
It saddens my heart for the family and friends of Jeffrey Chaney. I will continue to grieve with you, but also thank you for their and your sacrifices for our freedoms. They saved countless lives and were helping to bring freedom to people who have never known freedom before.
Gina, I love your photo titled “Jeff and Gina Cabo San Lucas Mexico April 2007”
In remembrance and giving honor to our special fallen heroes,
Gold Star Mother of:
SSG Russell J. Verdugo, EOD team leader KIA 5/23/05
Melissa Sawyer
July 28, 2007
To the Family and Friends Of Jeff Chaney,
My name is Melissa Sawyer and I am Patrick Wade's sister in law. My heart goes out to all of you. As i write this i have no idea what to say except how SORRY IAM TO ALLOF YOU. From reading about Jeff it seems him and Patrick were very similar in many ways. Your Son, Father, Brother,boyfriend, friend and Sailor was a TRUE AMERICAN HERO. I truly wish I had better words to say but I don't as am still trying to wrap my mind around all this. But please know Patrick's whole family has had all you in our thoughts and prayers. Please contact us if you need anything. Again we as a family are so so sorry for your loss....
Pam Giangrosso
July 28, 2007
Connie and family: Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of loss. My Mom, Jessie Love sends her sincere sympathy..we'll pray for you all.
Lisa Shellman
July 27, 2007
Dear Jeff,
I just saw Cameron a month ago and he couldn't wait to see you. He looked forward to snowboarding, motorcyle riding and boating with his Daddy. It's all he ever talked about. You are truly missed.
Love, Lisa Shellman
Don Lans
July 27, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Chaney family and friends.Words can not express our sadness over the loss of another brave American serviceman.My son,Spc Don Lans, is with Delta Co.505th Pir ,82nd AB Div.NW of Baghdad .Jeff and Patrick
were part of that team.We,our country and the free World owe such a debt of gratitude to them and their families.God Bless you,and we will never forget them
Don Lans Vet.USAF,862nd Med Gp
SAC
Soni Fancher
July 27, 2007
Gina and the Chaney Family,
My heart is with all of you for your loss, no words can fulfill what you are feeling now. You had a son that did what he loved for this nation whom loved my daughter, my heart aches for Gina and you. I never got to meet Jeff but I know that Gina loved him very much. I hope that memores of him bring you comfort and that in everyones eyes he will always be a hero. My thoughts and prayers are with you always for we need God's love to comfort us though this time. Please Keep Gina in your family and know that she will always give her love to his daughter and to you, she has a heart of gold. Jeff, I never got to meet you but I know that Gina thought the world of you, and that love comes deep from within her heart. May we all be together again one day. My prayers and thoughts will be with all of you for many days to come. I Love You Gina and my heart aches so much for you. I love you so Much, Mom
Carl Jennings
July 27, 2007
Petty Office Chaney's family, shipmates.
There just are no proper words.
This Nation has lost anouther hero.
"Greater love than this no man hath, he lay down his life for his friend"
Gods Speed.
Carl Jennings (USN Retired)
Peony Park 391-6253
Michele Blankenfeld
July 27, 2007
Connie and April
Even though I had only met Jeff a couple of times, I feel as if I knew him because of the wonderful stories you tell. Im so sorry for your loss and my prayers and thoughts are with your whole family.
Mona Dynek
July 26, 2007
To all of Jeff's family, fiancee, and friends.
There are no words to ease the pain you all feel at loss of your loved one. I haven't seen Jeff for a number of years. I remember him a very good person and full of fun and laughter.
I can't express my thanks to him for the heroism he gave for us and his country. I don't think a day goes by that I don't get an email asking me to pass on poems or prayer for our troops and families. I guess you never expect it to happen to someone you know and their family. Again I pray for all of our sodiers for God's protection and safe return home.
Jeff is now and will always be protected in the greatest kingdom of all.
His spirit will always be with his loved ones.
You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
With our deepest sympathy,
Jack and Mona
V.O. and Verla Barron
July 26, 2007
Dear Chaney family and Gina,
We are so sorry for the loss of your beloved son and the man that you loved with all your heart.
Gina, we love you and our thoughts are constantly with you at this time.
May God give you peace and comfort.
Love,
Mimi and Papa (V.O. and Verla Barron)
Lamesa, TX
Jennifer Frazho
July 26, 2007
Dear Jeff and Family,
I barely knew Jeff but, I cannot begin to tell you how very sorry I am for your loss. Jeff sounds like he was an amazing man based on the guest book entries. Jeff, Thank you from the bottom of my heart for giving your life to our Country. For the family, may you find comfort and peace in your memories and love for Jeff.
Respectfully,
Jennifer Frazho and Family
Cousin of Cheryl Schenck
Apryll Anderson
July 26, 2007
MEMORIES WILL GIVE YOU THE STRENGTH YOU WILL NEED TO PROCEDE!
GOD BLESS!
OUR FALLEN HERO!
SGT. JEREMY E. DEPOTTEY
KIA SEPT. 11, 2006
Aunt Pam & Uncle Ronnie Barron
July 26, 2007
Dear Chaney Family and Gina, although no words of sympathy can take away your sorrow, may memories of your loved one and your faith give you strength for each tomorrow. God bless.
Gary and Carole Grisham
July 26, 2007
Our sincerest condolences. You are in our prayers. We can't Thank You enough for your service to this
Great Nation. You will forever be our Hero. God Bless.
P ODell, USAF RET
July 26, 2007
Sorry for the loss of your American Hero! My family and I thank him for his service. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers!!
July 26, 2007
Please accept our sincere condolences on the loss of your loved one and our deepest gratitude for the sacrifice both your family and he made in service to this country. May God bless each family member and friend with peace and comfort. May you feel held in
the prayers of a grateful nation.
In loving memory of our nephew
US Army Spec Philip "Cody" Ford
KIA Baghdad Iraq 12/10/2006
USN/AME1 (SEL) Ron Baker & family
Melissa Swanson
July 26, 2007
This is to Jeff.
Jeff, YOU are the best friend of MY best friend. My husband. When he hurts, I hurt. Ryan thinks of you as a brother. I think of you as a brother. Your even keel mood and big heart has made us both make bigger hearts within ourselves. Your love of the best of food, drinks, and friends, have rubbed off on us. We live life to a higher standard, expect fun around every corner, and family every time we move. You mean so much to us, and I hope, one day, to return the favor, and make someone else feel the same way you made us feel. Accepted. Loved. Family.
Thank You.
Melissa
Bob Schenk
July 25, 2007
Jeff, Twelve years ago I took on the task of raising your daughter. I hope in your eyes I have been doing a good job. I love Bri with all of my heart, and I want you to know that you will live in our house as a Hero as long as I draw breath. We never got to really know each other, but I am greatful for the sacrifice you made for me, and all Americans. I promise you that I will raise our daughter to be the best person she can be,and that she will NEVER forget what you did for not only us, but our country. Thank You does not cover my gratitude, nor does I am sorry. I do feel though,that as I type this tonight, you are looking down, and bringing some peace to this tragic situation. As I had shorty tell you before, Thank You!!!!!!!! For your service, and now I will tell you one last time, THANK YOU!!!! Jeff you are an American Hero, amnd you can count on me to make sure Brianna NEVER forgets that. I look foward to seeing you in heaven. God Bless
Carl & Margo Bertch
July 25, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Shelley Richanbach
July 25, 2007
When Jeff was just around three years old, he was over with his mom to visit his Aunt Doris and Uncle Bill and his much older cousins. I remember my brother and I, at ages 10 or 12, had the biggest laugh over our cute little cousin who constantly asked us "why"? Why this? Why that? (Now, as an experienced mother of three, I know that finding out why the sky is blue and why the clouds move across the sky is the biggest job for any 3 year old.)
When I got the news from my mom that officers from the Navy had visited my Aunt Connie, the first thing that came to my mind is WHY? I could just see baby Jeff running after me and my brother asking us why? why?
Why, Jeff? I have some ideas. Because Jeff wanted to be the guy who made the difference. Why? Because he was one brave man. Why? Because he signed up for the service, took this duty and carried out his mission with pride, determination and conviction.
I haven't seen my cousin for probably a decade. Jeff must have been around 25 then. He was able to come to my sister's wedding reception. He strode in in his dress uniform. He was so handsome and appeared so confident. I felt proud that he was my baby cousin--all grown up. It was then that I felt grateful that men and women like him were working so hard to protect our freedoms in America.
I feel sad that I haven't seen or visited with Jeff since then. When Aunt Connie told me that he was called to Iraq and that he was going to use his expertise to dismantle bombs, I felt absolute dread. Jeff was putting himself up against certain death. BUT, I could trust that Jeff was knowingly, confidently going directly into Operation Iraqi Freedom to do what he knew how to do and to do it the best that he could...
and that's what he did. He did his best.
At this time of grieving your loss and celebrating Jeff's life I send my love to my Aunt Connie and to my cousins Jim, Randy & April.
Beyond Jeff's immediate family, I send my love to Jeff's extended family and friends & to my own family who are touched by this tragedy.
Finally, I close with a favorite poem of mine from his book, No death, no fear, by Buddhist Monk and Zen Master, Thich Nhat Hanh:
I have arrived.
I am home.
In the here.
In the now.
I am solid.
I am free.
In the ultimate
I dwell.
alegent health
July 25, 2007
We didnt know Jeff but we do know Brianna and her mom. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Florence Alegent Health Clinic
tricia luttrull
July 25, 2007
Thank you Jeffrey L. Chaney. You gave your all for my freedom. God bless your family.
F W
July 25, 2007
Although I do not know the family I am very thankful for his service to our country. I value freedom and all those who protect. Sorry for your loss.
Brook and Brandy Cantell
July 25, 2007
We were so sorry to hear about Jeff. Brook was one of his good friends in highschool. We recently just lost our mother, so are thoughts and prayers are with you. If you need anything, please do not hesitate to contact us.
Love,
The Cantell Family
ED CHRISTENSEN
July 25, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Jonas Christiansen
July 25, 2007
I couldn't beleive it when I saw the news story about Jeff. I remembered having seen one of the photos they showed being carried around by Cheryl when he first enlisted all those years ago now. Brianna, i cried for you when I heard this war took your daddy from you. My heart goes out to all of you. He will always be a hero.
May you all find peace in this most difficult of times.
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