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Martin Flaherty Obituary

Martin J. Flaherty, Sr. active in Wilmington community, Navy vet; 85 WILMINGTON Mr. Martin J. Flaherty, Sr. "Marty", age 85, of Wilmington, died Wednesday, October 1, 2008, at the Winchester Hospital. Marty was born on July 23, 1923, in Galway, Ireland, he was the son of the late Martin J. & Mary Ellen (Schofield) Flaherty. He immigrated to the United States as a small child with his family and they settled in Dorchester, MA. Marty attended Boston Latin School and was a graduate of Boston English High School. Following High School, Marty worked for the First National Stores until he enlisted in the United States Navy during World War II. He served aboard the USS LST 602 Vessel and was a Champion Lightweight Boxer for the 6th Fleet. Marty was involved many missions and received two letters of Commendation for his service, he was honorably discharged in 1946. Marty returned to his job at the First National Stores until they closed and then went to work for the Unites States Post Office as a maintenance control supervisor until he retired in 1996. Marty married Virginia R. Fitzpatrick on October 2, 1948 and they moved to Wilmington in 1956 to raise their family. Marty quickly became involved in the community, he coached Wilmington Little League for over 17 years, he then umpired Little League and girls softball for many years. He was an active member of St. Thomas of Villanova Church, he was the first president of St. Thomas Holy Name and belonged to the training team that taught CCD teachers at St. Thomas, Marty was also a CCD teacher for many years. Marty was a 3rd Degree Member of the Fr. Croke Council Knights of Columbus and a 4th Degree Member of the Bishop Delaney Assembly. In his spare time, Marty enjoyed bowling, playing cards, golfing, and spending time with his family and friends. Marty is survived by his beloved wife of almost 60 years, Virginia R. (Fitzpatrick) Flaherty, he was the devoted father of Anne Urtiaga & her husband, Daniel of Alabama, Martin J. Flaherty, Jr. & his wife, Janice of Maryland, Janet Flaherty & Thomas Sarelas of Maryland, Thomas Flaherty & his wife, Donna of West Barnstable, Mary Angles & her husband, Alberto of No. Andover, Lynne Melaragni & her husband, Paul of Wilmington, and the late Jack Flaherty; loving grandfather of Erin Finney, Jeanne Daw, Jack Finney, Martin J. III & Devon Flaherty, Amy Watkins, Thomas Jr., Katelyn & Jaclyn Flaherty, Brianna, Christopher, John, Samuel & Lucas Angles, Gianna & Isabella Melaragni; great-grandfather of Thomas Gonzales, Liam, Emma & Kean Daw, and Grace & Aiden Finney; dear brother of Clare Flaherty of Norwood, and the late John Flaherty, Clement Flaherty, Mary Burke, and Patricia Lee. Marty is also survived by many brothers & sisters-in-law, nieces, nephews, and his dear friends, Suzi & Kelly Cushing of Wilmington. FLAHERTY Martin J., Sr., age 85, of Wilmington, October 1, 2008. Beloved husband of Virginia R. (Fitzpatrick) Flaherty. Family & friends will gather at the Nichols Funeral Home, Inc., 187 Middlesex Ave. (Rte. 62), Wilmington, on Monday, October 6th at 8:45 a.m. followed by a Funeral Mass in St. Thomas Church, 126 Middlesex Ave., Wilmington at 10:00 a.m. Interment Wildwood Cemetery, Wilmington. Visiting hours Sunday, October 5th from 4-8 p.m. Memorial donations in Martin's name may be made to the Alzheimer's Association, 311 Arsenal St., Watertown, MA 02472. U. S. Navy Veteran, WWII.

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Published by Lowell Sun from Oct. 2 to Oct. 3, 2008.

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Dotty Campbell

November 26, 2008

The Flaherty's
So sorry for your lose. I have many fond memories of all of you, growing up on Birchwood rd. Mr. Flaherty was/and will be very missed.
Dotty Campbell

Amy Watkins/Flaherty

November 5, 2008

Grampi, I miss you very much! I know your in a better place watching all of us from heaven. I love you!

Dave Winston

October 10, 2008

The Flaherty Family
I'm very sorry to of your loss it seems Mr. Flaherty has once again moved to a better place. God bless you all

Linda/Jim/Brian/Amanda Sutherby

October 9, 2008

Mary,Tito,& their children:
I am so sorry for the loss of your father/grandfather. Please know you are all in our thoughts & prayers. May you find peace and comfort in your wonderful family & many friends! Mary, you are my dearest and special friend, may God bless you during this time! Please give your Mom a big hug and a kiss for me! She was such a wonderful wife and took great care of your Dad! I love you!
Linda Sutherby

Trudy Kennedy Sullivan

October 6, 2008

Hi Marty Jr,

It's been a very long time. We went to school together and CCD at St Thomas. I remember your Dad & Mom at church, at little league with my brother Jimmy. Your Dad was such a good family man and I'm sorry for your loss. How lucky are you and your family to have him for so long. I just want to send my condolences Marty to you and your family. You were always a special person growing up in Wilmington. Take care, Trudy Kennedy Sullivan

Sharon (Boudreau) Despres

October 6, 2008

My deepest condolances to the Flaherty family. I remember spending a lot of time at the Flaherty house when I was younger and Mr. Flaherty always had a smile on his face and always made me laugh... thank you for leaving a wonderful lasting impression.

Michael Swanson

October 5, 2008

My deepest sympathy to the Flaherty family, Mr. Flaherty is in the thoughts and prayers of the Swanson family.

Non sibi sed patriae...thank you for your service Mr. Flaherty.

Brian, Darlene & Daniel Logue

October 4, 2008

Friendly, fun and dedicated to family. A person who made others feel important and did so in a way that made you feel like you knew him longer than you actually did. May the memories of many good times Mr. Flaherty created carry you through this difficult time.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

ELIZABETH CULLEN

October 3, 2008

I WORKED WITH MARTY AT THE POST OFFICE IN THE LATE 80S. HE WAS A GREAT GUY, A GENTLEMAN, AND ALWAYS SO PROUD OF HIS FAMILY. AND OF COURSE, HE WAS THE BEST SANTA CLAUS WE EVER HAD IN THE LOBBY. MY SYMPATHY TO ALL THE FAMILY.
ELIZABETH "BIZ" CULLEN

Mike Casey

October 3, 2008

Mr. Flaherty,
Sir, I would just like to say thank you for your service and sacrifice for our Country when you served in the USN during WW II and for being a member of the Greatest Generation. And to your family and loved ones, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy.

Fair Winds And Following Seas

Colleen Burke

October 3, 2008

Aunt Virginia and the family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with all
of you.
All our Love,
Colleen and Joe Burke

Bonnie Hebsch

October 2, 2008

With sincere sympathy, our condolences are with all of you.

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