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Vernon C. "J.V." Santmyer Jr.

Vernon Santmyer Obituary

Vernon Carter "J.V." Santmyer Jr., 31, of Alexandria, Va., died Tuesday, May 17, 2011, at home after a long battle with diabetes. Born Aug. 24, 1979, he was the son of Vernon Santmyer Sr., of Woodbridge, Va., and Karen Pitts Santmyer, of Laurel. He graduated from Potomac High School in Woodbridge. He had worked at Home Depot in Columbia. He enjoyed fishing, studying Civil War history and the Baltimore Ravens. He also enjoyed different types of music from Elvis to Cheap Trick. Surviving, in addition to his parents, are a stepmother, Karol Santmyer, of Woodbridge; sister Bonnie Santmyer-Fink and husband Timothy, of Catonsville; two stepsisters, of Virginia; uncles Kerri Pitts, of Virginia, Bobby Santmyer and wife Linda, of Falmouth, Va., and Richard Santmyer and wife Paula, of Stafford, Va.; aunts Gwen Shaffer and husband Alden, of Taneytown, Deborah Saldana and husband Juan, of Davenport, Fla., Susan Santmyer, of Woodbridge, Rebecca Kailing and husband Paul, of Spring Grove, Pa., Fledia Patton, of Manassas, Va., Annie Moffitt, of Leesburg, Va., and June Lee and husband George, of Davenport, Fla.; and many cousins and friends. He was predeceased by grandparents Bob and Fledia "Mom" Santmyer, and Kenneth and Muriel Pitts; and a stepbrother, Clay Breedan. Memorial services were held May 20 and May 21 at Marsh Road Baptist Church in Woodbridge. Memorial contributions may be sent to the American Diabetes Association, 1701 N. Beauregard St., Alexandria, VA 22311. Sign this guest book online at www.carrollcountytimes.com.

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Published by Carroll County Times on May 28, 2011.

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Brenda Day Rosenberry

July 31, 2011

Thoughts and prayers goes out to you all. So sorry to hear of your loss.

Linda Elliott

May 29, 2011

Vernon,
We are so very sorry for your loss,as a parent it is the hardest thing that you will ever live though always know that you and your family is in our thoughts and prayers,,,and here if you need us,,,,
with great loss and sorrow,,,
and lots of love to you,,,

Ruth and Bob Martin
Linda Elliott

May 26, 2011

Vernon and family,
So sorry to hear of your loss. He must have been a wonderful young man. Sorry we did not get to meet him. He is a hansom youg man . Blessings to your whole family and may God grant you comfort during this time of loss and the days to come.
Friends,
Joe and Dottie , Tommy and familySacra, Partlow, Va.

May 25, 2011

Vernon and Family,

Our deepest sympathies. I hope this outpouring will give you some comfort.

From your open mic buddy David Michael & Donna Owens

Gwen Shaffer

May 24, 2011

V. J. (my nephew)
I will never forget the kindness you showed everyone from your heart and your smile as wide as Texas. You were loving toward everyone and never fell into the world's eye view of being critical of anyone and I truly believe God lived in your heart. I'm so glad you graced our home during Thanksgiving and I will miss you especially then. Your life was so troubled on earth and my only comfort is knowing you are not suffering any more and you're finally resting in the arms of Mom and Dad. I love you and I will miss you dearly. Aunt Gwen

May 22, 2011

Vernon, our thoughts are with you. So sorry for your loss. Billy & Carrie

Tim Smyser

May 22, 2011

Edie and I are saddened to hear of your loss. Please accept our heartfelt and sincerest sympathies. May God bless you all and keep you. Tim & Edie.

Marylee Butts

May 22, 2011

Sorry for your loss. We know how hard it is to lose a son, one so young. Keep the happy times in your heart. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Bruce and Marylee Butts.

May 21, 2011

vj, we are so very saddened by your passing and still are quite shocked...but we know you are up in heaven with mom and dad...one of my fondest memories of you was when u were like 2 and i used to help fledia watch you..as soon as your dad went to go play music you would run to the window and say bye bye...and then go get your guitar and run around playing and singing and then you didnt want to take off those boots when it was bedtime so then i had to chase you in your diaper with those boots on to get you ready for bed....memories are all i have left and they will be cherished forever...love Aunt Anne...Gone but never forgotten.....

Lorraine Campbell

May 21, 2011

Very sad to hear of your loss. He was a such a fun loving young man. I shall cherrish the memories I have had of him. My prayers are with his family.
Lorraine JVS

Jim & Jean Gilbert

May 21, 2011

We are so saddened to learn of the passing of your beloved "VJ". It's been years since we last saw him, but we do remember him as a loving, kind and humble young man who loved Jesus. He will be tremendously missed by all you knew him. Please except our most sincere condolences. We pray God's blessings for all the family.. Love, Jim & Jean Gilbert.

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