Jesse Willard "Billy" Alexander

Jesse Willard "Billy" Alexander obituary, Charlottesville, VA

Jesse Willard "Billy" Alexander

Jesse Alexander Obituary

Published by Daily Progress from Nov. 18 to Nov. 20, 2009.
Jesse Willard Alexander Jesse "Billy" Willard Alexander of Charlottesville, was called home to be with the Lord Sunday, November 15, 2009, at the University of Virginia Medical Center. Billy was born in Madison County to the late Louis and Gertrude Campbell Alexander October 19, 1915. He was preceded in death by one sister, Martha Ackers. He was baptized at an early age and joined the Antioch Baptist Church in Madison County. His family relocated to Charlottesville during his teen years. Billy later served in the military during World War II in the 27th Quartermasters Division of General George Patton's 3rd Army in the Italian Campaign. He was honorably discharged from the Army in 1945 as a Motor Transportation (Truckmaster) Non-Commissioned Officer and returned to the local area. For many years, Billy was employed as a picture framer for Paul Victorius and later for Creative Picture Framing. He also served as a houseman and bartender for 35 years with the Xi Chapter of Theta Chi Fraternity at the University of Virginia. He was inducted as a life time member in 2005 by the Alumni Chapter brothers. He was also highly regarded as a private caterer and bartender, traveling on several occasions to Arizona with the Wheeler family. In addition, he was often asked by many local families to reserve his calendar months in advance for holidays and special events. He joined the Oak Union Baptist Church in the mid 1960's and served under several Pastors as a Deacon and as Chairman of the Deacon Board until his health began to fail. He was also a faithful member of the Deacons Council. Billy leaves to cherish his memory, a loving wife of 49 years, Mary Brooks Alexander; two beloved sisters-in-laws, Constance C. Brooks of Charlottesville and Ruth L. Brooks of Esmont; one niece, Lesia N. Carter of Saint Charles, Missouri; one nephew, Edward Rydell Brooks and his wife, Traci, of Esmont; two special cousins, Caroline Johnson and Louise Morton of Madison County; two devoted friends, Roger Adams and Grady Lewis of Charlottesville and a host of other relatives and friends. A funeral service will be held 11 a.m. Saturday, November 21, 2009, at the Oak Union Baptist Church with the Reverend Kevin L. Bolden officiating. Interment will follow at the church cemetery. The family will receive friends from 6 until 7 p.m. Friday, November 20, 2009, at the J. F. Bell Funeral Home. You may sign the guest book online at jfbellfuneralhome.com J. F. Bell Funeral Home is in charge of arrangements.


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November 12, 2021

DOUGLAS ADLER posted to the memorial.

November 26, 2009

The Witcher Family, Charlton Ave. posted to the memorial.

November 20, 2009

James Harris posted to the memorial.

DOUGLAS ADLER

November 12, 2021

This beautiful man is gone, but certainly not forgotten.

The Witcher Family, Charlton Ave.

November 26, 2009

To the family,

Heartfelt sympathy.

James Harris

November 20, 2009

Thank you sir for your Milatary Service in WW2. As a Veteran of Vietnam and son of a Veteran of WW2 I SALUTE YOU SIR!! THANK TOU!!!

CRAIG & JOANN SHELTON

November 20, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

HERBERT AND ADA HARRIS

November 20, 2009

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Tom Blue

November 20, 2009

My favorite work of poetry is "If" by Rudyard Kipling. When I read it I am reminded of Jesse Willard Alexander.

John Greene

November 20, 2009

We knew him as "Willie" while at the house in late 60s/early 70s and have fond memories of those times. Always treated us with the utmost respect, though we didn't deserve it most of the time! Introduced both my children to him at one of Theta Chi parties, when son was 1st year and daughter 4th year, and Willie was "guest" bartender. He's at peace now.

Steven Agosti

November 20, 2009

Willie remembered everyone he ever met and always had a cheerful smile and a great story to tell. He will be missed by all.

Robert Harris

November 19, 2009

He was a great man and we will all keep in him our thoughts. He lived his live and served his friends and others with diligence, skill and pride. I think of him often.

November 19, 2009

Never met a better man who poured a stronger drink. He'll be missed by all the brothers of Theta Chi.

Mary Beth & Tom Hoyt

November 19, 2009

When I think of my four wonderful years at the University ('75-'79), a parade of faces go by in my mind as being important parts of that overall experience. And Willie is right there. His humor, wit, his warm gruffness, his confidence, his bigger-than-life bearing, added so much to our lives.

We can all only hope to live such a full, rich, long life and touch as many people as Willie did. MY sincere condolences to his whole family. I hope and pray that the collective memories of so many whose lives he touched will be some comfort to you in this difficult time.

Peter Bowerman
Atlanta, Georgia
Xi Chapter, Theta Chi Fraternity
University of Virginia
Class of 1979

Paul Vetter

November 19, 2009

I have known Willie since 1957 as a brother in Theta Chi. Willie's humor, dedication and integrity was admired by all. I have kept in touch with Willie over the years and was proud to be present for his induction as a brother in Theta Chi. Willie will be missed and I am pleased to call him "friend" and "brother". My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sadness.

Jack Cutler

November 18, 2009

I was at Theta Chi when Brother Willie became associated. What a great guy with the same outlook on life. Earth has lost one of its most beautiful people!

May God give Willie his just reward and comfort all who loved him.

Barbara&Virginia Hinton

November 18, 2009

"Our deepest sympathy in the time of your loss. "Billy was a wonderful and caring person who was devoted to family and friends. He always had that smile and laughter that wanted you in his presence. Now he has taken that smile and laughter to a higher place to be enjoyed by God and the Angels."

Barbara&Virginia Hinton

November 18, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Barbara/Virginia Hinton

November 18, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Doug Adler

November 18, 2009

A man with character, a gentleman, a caring person, intelligent, a someone with integrity, humor, insight...I could go on with ways to describe a man I looked up to. I will forever be glad I spent some time with Willie, heard him whistle, and listened to his laughter.

Lee Kunkel

November 18, 2009

Mary Alexander & Family,
My deepest condolences to you at the loss of "Willie." As a Theta Chi brother my memories of Willie are of his wonderful outgoing personality and his great smile. He will be missed by all of us, but we are comforted that he is safely in the arms of his Lord. God bless all of you.

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