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Lila Gertrude Butler
Lila Gertrude Butler, also known as mom, granny, GG and Gertie, 80, of Scottsville, died on Monday, November 15, 2010, at her home with her family by her side.
She was born on December 25, 1929, in Charlottesville, a daughter of the late Rhodsey Lee Fitzgerald Sr. and Manie Goldsboro (Mason) Fitzgerald.
In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by four brothers and two sisters.
Mrs. Butler attended Fox Memorial Baptist Church and retired from Fluvanna County Public Schools as a bus driver. She loved gardening, cooking, refinishing furniture and spending time with her family.
Survivors include her devoted husband of 57 years, Malcolm Lee Butler; three devoted children who loved her dearly, Wayne Keith and Terry Butler of Scottsville, Daniel Brent Butler of Glen Allen, and Diane (Butler) and Paul Brantley of Scottsville; a sister, Christine F. Chapman of Scottsville; a brother, Rhodsey Lee Fitzgerald Jr. of Scottsville; four loving grandchildren, Keith and Keri Butler, Kim and Mike Cobbs, Candace and Jason Bevins, Matthew Brantley; eight cherished great-grandchildren that she called her babies, Kyle Butler, Baby Butler, Dillan Cobbs, Malcolm Cobbs, Lila Cobbs, Zachary Bevins, Zoey Bevins, Baby Bevins; and a number of nieces and nephews.
A funeral service will be conducted 2 p.m. Friday, November 19, 2010, at Thacker Brothers Funeral Home in Scottsville by the Reverend Randy Golladay. Burial will follow at Scottsville Cemetery.
There will be no formal visitation however those desiring may sign the guest book anytime at the funeral home.
The family would like to extend a special "Thank You" to Dr. Richard Joyce, Dr. William Hammond, Dr. Timothy Williams, and Hospice of the Piedmont for the devoted care they provided.
Memorial contributions may be made to Hospice of the Piedmont, 675 Peter Jefferson Parkway, Charlottesville, Virginia 22911.
Family and friends may share memories and photos at www.thackerbrothers.com.
This obituary was originally published in the Daily Progress.
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Janet and Tom Woods
November 19, 2010
Dear Mac and family, Our hearts are heavy with the news of Gertrude's death. I'll always remember her for her laughter and joking. I'm sorry we can't be with you today as you celebrate her life, but know that we are there in our hearts.
Janet lester
November 18, 2010
Mac and Family I am so sorry for your loss. I always thought a lot of Gertie she was always good to me and Michelle.
She will be missed.God Bless you all during this difficult time.
Leah Lowe
November 18, 2010
Continued Prayers for your family.
God Bless!
Leah & Jarred
Audra Hancock
November 18, 2010
For Candace and family: I'm sorry for your loss. I hope you will find peace in your soul as you get through this difficult time. There will always be the hole in your heart and it will never become smaller. But in time, as your family grows and friends come in your life, your heart will grow bigger and the hole wont seem as large as it feels now.
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Jessica Kirby
November 18, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family...she's in a good place, healthy and happy...The Kirbys
PATRICIA TACKETT
November 18, 2010
I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOST .GERTRUDE WAS TRULY A SWEETHEART AND WILL BE MISSED VERY MUCH.
Pam and Carl Mawyer
November 18, 2010
Diane,Candace and familt, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our hearts break for you and we are praying for you during this time of sorrow. Let us know if we can help you in any way.
Judy Ward
November 17, 2010
Great neighbor and person. Always enjoyed Gertrude and family growing up. Mom will miss another wonderful neighbor
Roger and judy Ward
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Suzanne Herndon
November 17, 2010
Such a great person!!! She was the best bus driver!! So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with the friends and family of Gertie!
Kari Pierce
November 17, 2010
What a great person she was a great bus driver. I was one of her kids on the bus for all the years of school up until high school. My thoughts and prays are with you all. Kari Lynn Pierce
Branden, Melanie, & Nathan Allen
November 17, 2010
Sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
James and Lisa Napier
November 17, 2010
So sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughs and prayers.
Tony & Tina Breeden
November 16, 2010
Grief can be so hard during the holidays, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one this holiday season.
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