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Diane Dresner Williams
December 7, 2009
Dear Mr and Mrs. Mathis and family,
Phil was one of the nicest boys I ever knew. He was always sweet and kind to me as a child and a teen. I enjoyed going to 1st Methodist with him. One could tell back then that he was alive with Christ, and though surprised by his early death, I am not surprised to hear the great work that he did for God. I pray for peace for you.
Lee & Jamye Ferguson
December 1, 2009
Dear Mathis Family,
Phil was our first pastor, and the one who married us some 21+ years ago! He was dear to us, and he left his corner of the world a much brighter place with the light of Christ. But, Phil wasn't the first Mathis to bless our lives. Your family was such a blessing to me during my years at Baylor and FUMC-Waco. Thank you ALL for being bright lights and examples in our lives, and for allowing Phil to grow up to become the man of God that he was and leave the legacy that he left. Our prayers and blessings are with you all during this time.
Mark Liston
December 1, 2009
Jim and Pat, Andy, John, Jay, and your precious families,
I have so often thought of you all and the wonderful times we had in my brief stay in Waco. You were the first family to take me on a picnic. I almost dropped Jay on his head and Jim got really mad at me! [forgiven?] Your kindness and the Mathis familial love were a great example to me.
I remember how funny Phil was, teaching him to play the guitar, listening to his latest romantic venture, and letting him cry out his homesickness at ORU on my freshly-drycleaned suit.
Thank You, Jesus, for the joy Phil brought us!
Mark Liston
Jim Tandy
December 1, 2009
I still remember literally shaking as I poured over Phil's book, "Salvation by the Book". This book first opened my eyes to the wonder of God's free grace in my salvation. Since that point, my view of God has been transformed as has my understanding of scripture. Phil's dedication to the Gospel has impacted lives far beyond what he ever knew. My life and my families life has been forever changed! He will be greatly missed, but we can take comfort in knowing he is now pain free and at peace with Christ.
Rachel Dorst
November 28, 2009
Phil was the first Pastor I had that taught me the reformed faith. I'm so grateful for the influence he had on Jonathan and our young dating/engaged years at Baylor. He also did a wonderful job at our wedding in March 1996.
November 24, 2009
Mathis family, my brother shared the news of your recent loss. Our prayers are with your family. A friend shared this with our family when my father-in-law passed last year,
" When we lose our loved ones they never die
For I know once heaven takes their souls
The Dear Lord leaves a little of them here
To turn into beautiful butterflies
So they can be near our hearts
Blessed are those who can see the beauty
Of the life which has gone to what is 'God's Art'
When we look for the angels
They will send us Jesus' love
I saw a butterfly today, my last prayer I gave away
Heaven is more than souls of our loved ones
When a father, mother, a brother, sister or a child dies
Their hearts live in those who have loved them
Every grain of sand, every sunrise and sunset
All the good things we know and love
They all go to Jesus for Him to protect
As a gift, The Lord, lets us have a glimpse of those we love
For a brief moment in time, for a short while
A butterfly is seen at our window, sent from heaven
Then we know, all will be well with those we love.
May The Lord In Heaven give us hope.
May we see the love of The Father and live life
with the beauty of a butterfly at our window, sent from heaven."
Deron & Cindy Smithy (Ulrich) Mooresville, NC
Joe Bachik
November 23, 2009
Dearest Pat and Jim,
Faith and I just learned of Phil's return to our LORD and Saviour. Wow, how blessed you two are for having had a loving and Christ-like son like Phil.
Having experienced similar loss in our family, we can only say that it eases with time but the flame of your love for him and his family will never diminish.Our prayers and love are and always will be with you and your family.
Joe and Faith
Amy Seeger
November 21, 2009
In our time together at Westside Community Church, Phil was in his element in his role as pastor, exuding joy and a sense of humor along with intense reverence for the sovereignty and greatness of God. It was a privilege to sing alongside him during those worship times. I hold those memories dearly. Now Phil is not simply singing by faith, "When I stand in glory, I will see His face, and there I'll serve my King forever in that holy place." He's made it to the place where he will do just what he longed to do on earth: worship, serve, and love God forever. My prayers are with you all as you cherish your memories of a godly man, Phil Mathis. And Dana, may the peace of Christ be yours in the years to come. God be with you and bless you richly.
Jim & Murt Scrivner
November 21, 2009
Jim & Pat,
You were so blessed to have four wonderful boys. We grieve with you and Dana for your loss. I can relate to this inasmuch as I have "lost" a son's relationship. How Jesus must grieve for all his children who are lost. Our prayers are with you. God Bless.
Tina Rachael (Ro) Nickerson(Parker)
November 18, 2009
Its seems so strange to leave words here; I still remember Phil the year he came to be a youth minister at FUMC in Tulsa right after his graduation from ORU..with his O.P. shorts and Izod shirt and a huge smile that would reach right across the room..it seems such a long time ago..such a short time ago....miles and years yet nano seconds to eternity....peace be with you brother..you did well.
Brent Beasley
November 17, 2009
Phil was a good friend and mentor to me while I was in High School. His passion for Jesus was contagious. Memory Eternal!
Dick and Lois Marie Freeman
November 17, 2009
JIm/Pat/Andy/Jay and John, it is not comfortable to send a note to the Mathis' and not have Phil's name in the list. He has been a part of our family nearly all his life...despite all the weird and funny things he used to do, both at youth group and on ski trips. Now the family list is building in heaven. Which brings me to say that his snuff dipping Freeman Grandfather was awefully glad to stand there with Jesus to hug him when he came. And because of Phil's compassionate and evangelistic heart many people will join him in heaven of whom we have never heard. "We are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses..." some from Colorado.
Jo Poole
November 17, 2009
Jim and Pat, as you know I am saddened with you over the loss of one of your dear sons, Philip. I rejoice with you that we shall one day be with him in heaven. I'm thankful for Jesus our Savior who makes it so, merely by believing and receiving Him in our hearts and life.
Laura Sheehy
November 17, 2009
Dear Mathis Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. I have wonderful memories of playing tennis with Phil and Andy at Sul Ross Tennis Center. I know you will miss Phil, but I hope it is as reassuring to you as it is to me with my Mom to know that he is in a better place and at peace.
Laura Sheehy
November 17, 2009
Pat and Jim,
After reading all the previous messages of condolences, I realize that not much more can be said, but we would want to add our sympathies to all the rest and let you know that we are thinking of you during this most difficult time.
Sammy and Karan McLarty
Carla Brewer
November 16, 2009
The Mathis family brings fond memories of my time teaching at Vanguard. Phil was a senior my first year. I never had him as a student, but everyone knew and respected him. I heard of his endeavors through various friends throughout the years. My thoughts are with you in the coming days. I hope to be able to come to the memorial service later in Waco. Jim and Pat, you were among my favorite parents because of the way you related to your children. It was obvious how much you loved and prepared them for life. I still remember hearing of how you prepared and served a fancy dinner for the boys and their dates before the Winter Glitter formal dance. John and Jay were favorites of mine as well. I'm sorry I didn't get to know Phil better. May the grace and comfort of God be with you.
Paige McGlothlin
November 16, 2009
To the Mathis Family,
I am so stunned to hear of Phil's death. I have great memories of the trips, Bible studies,...we enjoyed during 2 years of youth group together at FUMC. And Brent is right, Phil always had a smile on his face! I loved reading about some of the ways God used him in his adult life. Please know I will be praying for God to pour out comfort and peace on your family.
Kathy Smith
November 16, 2009
Dear Mathis Family,
We were new to the Dallas area in 1985 and were invited to a gathering where we met Phil. We attended a few times. Soon after my husband was hospitalized. The visits, encouragement and love we felt from Phil & his leadership led us to a make a major change in our lives. We joined this new church as a young family. We are still a part of that church today. Phil has always been a special person that God used to influence our walk with Christ. He is a piece of our family legacy. We are sadden to hear of this great loss but I know he impacted many lives over the years as he did ours and ultimately we can celebrate a life well lived.
November 16, 2009
To the Mathis Family,
I really enjoyed playing Little League baseball with Phil. He always had a smile on his face, positive and fun to be around. He didn't let anything bother him. He had a great demeanor and I am sorry to hear that he is gone. If we had more human beings like Phil, the world would be a better place.
Brent Mattson
Carolyn Lackey
November 16, 2009
I was so sorry to hear of Phil's death here on earth. I am so grateful to know beyond a shadow of doubt that he is alive in Christ. I will be praying you through the days ahead.
(Dana, the "Mathis Boys" grew up with my sister and me in the youth group at FUMC Waco. My sister, Kathy, was Phil's age. She went to heaven 13 years ago-leukemia.)
November 16, 2009
Jim,
I don't know if you remember me, but I met you at Phil's ordination back in the late '80s in Marshall, TX. The world has lost a very good man, and I wanted you to know of my sadness for your loss. The obituary is so on point for Phil, and his passion for God's sovereign grace is still an encouragement to me. I treasure the memories of our days back in Marshall and Dallas, and it is comforting to know Phil is now receiving the first installment of his reward! May God bless and sustain you and Pat in your grief.
Rhett Payne
First Presbyterian, Meridian, MS
November 16, 2009
Phil was a friend and colleague who always blessed me with his remarkable optimism - trusting that God always had the best in mind for His children. Our prayers will join the anthem going before the Father on the family's behalf. May the riches of God's grace, which Phil now enjoys, comfort you! Genuinely, Steven & Linda Todd
November 16, 2009
Pat and Jim;
We were saddened to hear that Phil had lost his fight against a terrible disease. Our prayers go out to both of you and all of the members of your extended family. Our sadness is lightened with the knowledge that Phil is now with his Lord. Please accept our condolences.
Mike and Libby Keenan
Anne Quesnell
November 16, 2009
We are thinking of you and praying for you. May the Lord bring you continued peace and comfort. Love, Anne and Mike Quesnell
Rusty & Beth Wooldridge
November 16, 2009
I am saddened and shocked to learn of Phil's passing. I trust you will find grace and peace in the coming days. Jim & Pat, you can rest assured that you have raised a great son.
geneva
November 15, 2009
I've never really known what to say about all of this, except please remember that I love you all.
Tom and Lynn Dean
November 15, 2009
So many fond memories! We grieve, but not as those without hope. To Phil's dear family, our prayers are with you.
November 15, 2009
Jim, Pat & the whole Mathis family: Our hearts ache for your pain, but we rejoice in the knowledge and belief that Phill is with his Savior now. We love you all.....Jack & Beth Dewald, Memphis TN
Barbara ONeal
November 15, 2009
The passing of a child is not the natural order of life. I know your pain and the hole that is in your heart from the loss of your son. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers as you learn to live this life with out Phillip. May the love of God and his people help to sustain you during this very difficult time.
November 15, 2009
Phil served a great God with all his heart -- which made him a great man. I am thankful for his life and that we got to journey together for a season on our way home. I am praying for deep grace and comfort for the family. Ken Ross
November 15, 2009
To the Mathis family: I met Phil several years ago when he came to my home to advise me on some financial matters. He continued to help me with advice, and I always looked forward to seeing him because he was always so cheerful and optimistic. He usually had a good story to share, either about his family, or his lab, Lily. He will be missed by many people, and I feel blessed to have known him. Becky Hoover
November 15, 2009
To the Mathis family: Phil"s passing brings memories from long ago of a good boy from a good family who went on to serve his God and mankind with love and compassion. In loosing our son Allen last year, we understand how hard it is to loose Phil. God bless you. Jack and Freda Bates
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