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Joel Heinzen Obituary

Joel Heinzen, 26, of Gold Bar/Sultan, passed away abruptly on Friday, August 8, 2014 at 5:00 p.m. of a heroin overdose. He struggled with heroin for the last two years. He was looking forward to returning to school for precision auto mechanics; but he made a big mistake on Friday and his sweet, tender-loving heart could not take it. We will always remember Joel's happy, go-lucky, laid back, fun-loving laughter. Joel leaves behind too many heartbroken family members to list – except for the biggest love of his life, Kailie, his daughter. A good-bye service will be held Sun., August 24th at 2 p.m. at Mill Creek Country Club. As Joel's mother, my message to anyone on heroin: "STOP, you are not invincible either. Help his death to save your life."

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Published by The Herald (Everett) from Aug. 13 to Aug. 17, 2014.

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for Joel Heinzen

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Kai

August 5, 2024

Hey dad it´s almost august 8th again. I just want you to know I miss you and love you so so much words can´t describe how much. I wish you were here again I miss your voice and your laugh I hope your looking down on me and are proud I love you.

Kailie Heinzen

July 31, 2022

Hey dad, its almost august 8th again another year you have been gone. Im not really sure what to say because its the same every year but this one seems harder to get through without you, its been tough and I miss you. I wish drugs were never even existed.

kailie heinzen

May 14, 2021

I miss you, Dad, I think about you every day. Me and grammy miss you

Joel's Mom

September 8, 2014

Its one month today that you left us. I miss your laugh and blue eyes so much. You were my only son and I will never forget you. Anyone who struggles with this addiction please stop! it is so not worth your life, and it will take you away one way or another.

M F

September 5, 2014

Hello...my mother shared this with me as my brother and I have been struggling with this for (15+!!) years. THank you for sharing and im so, so sorry for your loss.

August 31, 2014

To my dear nephew Joel, This is heard to write. You are already missed by many but will always be in you hearts and thoughts. I do hope you have found a peaceful place among the clouds so we can look up and see your beaming smile. Gone but never forgotten. Rest in Peace. Love you always. Aunt Julie

Brian & Lisa Ewing

August 30, 2014

Our hearts are heavy for the loss of your precious son, you are in our thought and prayers. Love, Brian & Lisa Ewing

Kevin Miller

August 30, 2014

I can't imagine the loss. You're all in our prayers...

August 30, 2014

strength to u!!!!!!!!!!

August 29, 2014

Dear Paula, I am so VERY SORRY for your tragic loss! Prayers are lifted up for you and your family. We pray your plea is heard/heeded by others going through the same issue. May God bless you with comfort through His Holy Spirit during the raw moments and lift you up when you feel as if you can't go on. God bless and keep you! Leslie (Head) Nordquist

August 29, 2014

Paula please call me when you can 907-209-4955
So Sad and Tragic!! Love you & praying for you & your family!
Sharon

August 28, 2014

Rick,
Our deepest condolences to you and your Wife and Daughter. I know how addictive Heroin is as I lost my Brother at 31 years young the night before Father's Day in June 1993. Our heartfelt sympathy to you all.
The Nass Family/Carol Hanson Nass, Saul and Lori

Stephanie Aguayo (Zahasky)

August 28, 2014

Rick and Paula, I'm shocked and saddened to hear about Joel. I hope your message about the dangers of heroin reaches others who need it. I'm so very sorry for your loss.

Lisa Scott

August 28, 2014

Rick, Paula, and Jacynth, Oh my God! I am heart-sick! I have no words. I can't even get my head around it I am so heartbroken for you. Please except my deepest sympathy for your terrible loss and know that I am praying for you all. Love Always, Lisa "Z"

Joyce Fulton

August 28, 2014

Rick Paula and Jacynth, I am so very sorry to hear this terrible news, I can't imagine your pain, may God comfort you somehow

Sharon Langley Parks

August 28, 2014

Rick, I am sorry for your loss. I have a loved one in the throes of treatment for heroin addiction and I am just happy to have him alive. Remember the good times.

Susie Martin

August 28, 2014

Dear Rick,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your son. My thoughts are with you and your family. May the Lord bless you and keep you and bless Joel.
Susie Habowski

Linda

August 28, 2014

RIP

August 28, 2014

Sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers

Marty Bourgeois

August 26, 2014

May the good Lord bless you and your family with the knowing Joel is wrapped in His arms. I lost my son as well. Absent from body, present w/the Lord. Feel His presence, and know peace and strength as you relish in the strength of the Lord who will see you through, as he did I. God Bless the family...

Marty Bourgeois

August 26, 2014

Not one more rememberance and recovery walk 08/31/14. 1702 Alki Ave. SW, Seattle Wash 98116 meeting under the statue of Liberty Call Kim 206 841-1963

August 24, 2014

Rick I'm so sorry for your loss your in my thoughts and prayers. Cindy Gill (Mark's sister)

Tom G

August 24, 2014

Rick, Paula and Jacynth,

I am so sorry that such a sad and terrible time is upon you. I pray for God to cover you with His grace, fill you with His spirit and give you strength during this very difficult time.

Tom G.

Bruce G

August 23, 2014

Rick, Paula and Jacynth, I am so sorry to hear about Joel. I cannot imagine the depth of your grief. Try to keep in mind that even a tragic loss is part of God's glorious plan, however unfathomable it is. You all and Joel are in my prayers.

August 22, 2014

I am so very sorry for your loss. Word's cannot even convey my sincere sympathy. I am praying for your family. Thank you for being so brave to post what happened. These damned drugs are tearing our children up.

August 21, 2014

Rick, I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.

August 21, 2014

Rick, Paula, and Jacynth, My heart aches for you all. Joel was charming, funny and always very sweet to my family. I love you all. Cindy Chessie

Sara Watkins

August 20, 2014

Thank you for not sugar coating this! I'm sorry for your loss! It breaks my heart the hold this drug seems to have while ripping through our community, families and loved ones. May you find peace and comfort.

August 20, 2014

I will be praying for you and your family! Please give Jacynth a BIG hug from me :)
Shellee V

Catherine Miller

August 20, 2014

So sorry for your tragic loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

August 18, 2014

I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my son the same way on July 6, 2013. Thank you for speaking up about heroin. And God bless you. Linda

Jessica R

August 18, 2014

I am so sorry, my daughter and her boyfriend knew your son and I am praying that they will decided that heroin is not worth everything that it takes away from anyone that its got its grips on. Im praying for comfort and peace surround you in this moment and the rest of your life. My hope is that Joel is now at rest and in peace finally free from heroin and that his death will serve as a catalyst for others to break free from the chains of heroin.

lucinda joseph

August 17, 2014

You don't know me but in the last 3 yrs Ive lost many friends and co workers from the same thing.My heart goes out to his family.

August 17, 2014

So sorry, so hard for parents to cope for long time to come. I wish you some peace in your heart and reach out to people Luke compassionate friends where you will find help in things that you do and go through with many. Many many hugs. Lost my younger daughter under different circumstances at almost sixteen. Day by day moment by moment. Again so sorry

jessika queen

August 16, 2014

Joel you were loved by so many ! You were an amazing friend , dad , son , brother . It sadness me to see another amazing young guy die because of this disease . My prayers go out to your family through this horrible time . God gained another beautiful angel . I will love you&miss you every single day . You were one of my best friends for awhile before our addiction took us different ways . Ill always keep you close to my heart. Gone but never forgotten?

Lee Ann

August 16, 2014

You will be missed Joel.. I hope all of your family finds a way to find peace. Love and hugs to you all..

Jan Villarreal

August 15, 2014

I understand the loss of a child as my daughter (youngest) died at age 19. I send you love and healing to get through this challenging time.

Gabby Sanders

August 15, 2014

Paula & Jacynth,

Your family was such a huge part of mine and Meghan's childhood growing up. We both have so many great memories of Joel and all of the fun times we had in big bend. I am so sorry for your loss and you are all in my prayers, as well as Joel's daughter.

Brooke Miller

August 15, 2014

I was great friends with Joel. He lived with me for some time and was like a little brother... I have watched him struggle for years with this addiction and it breaks my heart that it won. He was an amazing soul, had the kindest of hearts, and the most infectious smile. I love you Joel, I always will. ~Brooke

Sheri Roberts-Greimes

August 14, 2014

My heart weeps for your family's loss and pain. May God bless you at this time with peace and comfort.

Matt

August 14, 2014

I do not know you or your son, but my heart goes out to you. My brother has been addicted to heroine for the last five years. When reading your sons obituary I couldnt help but wonder when this might happen to him. I deeply appreciate your bravery for being so honest . People NEED to hear about these tragedies and not sweep them under the rug. I hope your family finds the strength to make it through this trying time

August 14, 2014

I don't know your family, but am one of the many that read your son's obituary and was deeply touched. You are a very compassionate woman sharing the truth. Heroin use is rampant and killing too many, Thanks for being brave and sharing the reality of addiction. My most heartfelt sympathy to all your family. Bless you.

paula armstrong

August 14, 2014

So deeply sorry for your lost! I have a son who is struggling with this very same thing too.im sooo sorry. paula armstrong from montana

Missalee Ortiz (Gori)

August 14, 2014

My prayers are with you. Found memories of Joel and your family.

Matt

August 14, 2014

Although I do not know you or your son, I feel for you. My brother has been a heroine addict for at least five years and I fear he will overdose as well. I appreciate how truthful the obituary is so people realize that this can happen to anyone .

Colleen Fitzgerald

August 14, 2014

I miss you.
Although, I'm very happy you're not suffering anymore. You will always be in my heart Joel Richard Heinzen.

My love and prayers for you Paula, Rick, and Jacinth.

August 14, 2014

Rick, Paula ,Jacynth and family, our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Yvonne & Richard

August 14, 2014

Rick and Family, Richard read the obit in the paper yesterday, and Just can't express how sorry we are, We know what you are going through, we didn't loose Rich to drugs, but the loss is still deep in our hearts. That was the age Rich was. Peace be with you all, and our Prayers and thoughts are with you. God Bless.

To Joel's Mom, I am sad for your loss.

Pam Miller

August 14, 2014

Linda & Dave Nelsen

August 14, 2014

Rick, Paula, and Family,
So sorry for your loss. You all are in our prayers

Al Heinzen

August 13, 2014

Sorry for you loss.

Denise Johnson

August 13, 2014

Rick, Paula & Jacinth,
I am so sorry for the loss of your precious son! May the Lord hold you close and comfort your family!

ff

August 13, 2014

I am sorry for your loss. Be assured of God's continued love and comfort. (only Almighty God truly knows our struggles)1 John 3:20- God is greater than our hearts and knows all things.

gina dunn

August 13, 2014

Ihave never met your son... i just read the obituary in the paper. I would like to send my sympathy to you and your family. I am so glad that you included your message about drug abuse. I am an addict in recovery and i hope your message reaches at least one person. That is so important. Heroin use is running like wild fire, and it's people like you that bring it out into the public. .thank you

August 13, 2014

Rick, Paula and Jacinth,
So sad, I am so sorry.
Love and prayers for you all.
God Bless Cristy Lynn

Cameron Rogers

August 13, 2014

I am so sorry for your loss. I can't believe he is gone. Please know that I will always remember him as one of the best friends I had growing up.

Ryan Perkins

August 13, 2014

Joel was a great kid and will be missed. I enjoyed the time I had working with him playing basketball.
God bless !

Linda

August 13, 2014

I don't know you but saw a post on my friend's Facebook. I am touched by your loss. I have known too many young men that have lost their life to heroin. They were all wonderful kids with great family and friends that loved them dearly. I pray you will always remember the best parts of him and that you will find peace in your new normal.

Trenna

August 13, 2014

Thoughts & Prayers

Trenna

August 13, 2014

My Daughter knew your son... May God bless you & your family as you travel down this difficult road...

Jacky Warren

August 13, 2014

Dearest Paula and family, My heart aches for your loss of your precious son. Hold on tight to one another and know the sun will rise again. Prayers from my family to yours. Love, Jacky

August 13, 2014

My heart is aching for you and your family. What a terrible loss. There are many many found memories of Joel, I have several from lake chelan and camp grande. What a free spirit and a jokester he was. Thank you for your bold statement against drugs Paula. This drug is taking to many loved ones from our lives. My love to you all. RIP Joel. Jodene Hayes and family

Michele Hopp

August 13, 2014

I am so sorry for your loss Paula. I cant imagine the pain you are going through. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. -Michele Hopp

Allyssa Heinzen-Beard

August 13, 2014

I love you cuz. The family and friends will always miss you, you may be going but your nor forgotten!! We will celebrate your life!!

Bobbie

August 13, 2014

I am so sorry for your loss. May God send you Peace.
I hear so many stories of the use of this drug and the terrible consequences.
You don't know me but I feel your pain. Please take care.

Ellie Brodland

August 13, 2014

I am so very very sorry for your loss. As a mother of an addict my heart breaks for your family. My son also has a little girl who my husband and I are raising, he has battled heroin addiction for five years now. I am offering prayers for your family. May God give a place of comfort to Joel.

BILL laird

August 13, 2014

JOEL WE WILL ALL MISS YOU BRO SORRY THINGS WENT THIS WAS RIP

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