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James Holtom Obituary
Jim was born in Waupaca, Wisconsin, in January of 1985. The family moved to Woonsocket, S.D., in 1990 where his dad managed the local farmer's cooperative. The family moved to Idaho in 1995 where they live today. Jim was a sophomore at Boise State University studying engineering. He joined the Army Reserve in 2003, where he attained the rank of sergeant at the age of 21.
He was a member of the 321st Combat Engineer Battalion, Company A, out of Boise. He was deployed to Iraq in September 2006. Jim was killed while conducting a rescue mission for other fallen soldiers.
Jim was a happy, bright, determined and confident young man. He was expecting to be married this fall to a lovely and wonderful young lady from Nampa named Melissa and start a family in a beautiful little two-bedroom house he bought for her before he left.
Jim loved his family, his friends, his country and most of all, his Savior, the Lord Jesus Christ.
Jim is survived by his parents, David and Reyne of Rexburg, his brothers Ben (Nampa), Lee, Jacob, Calvin, John, and his sisters Anna and Laura Beth, still living at home. Paternal grandparents Jim and Donna Holtom of Farmington, N.M. Maternal grandparents Larry and Millie Jandrin of Kewaunee, WI. He had many other cousins, aunts and uncles.
Funeral services are under the direction of Chapel of the Chimes Funeral Home in Meridian, with services to be held at Treasure Valley Baptist Church, 1300 Teare Ave., Meridian, Idaho, on Tuesday, February 20th at 10:00 a.m. Jim will be buried at the Idaho State Veterans Cemetery with full military honors.
The family invites you to share memories and condolences at www.chapel-of-the-chimes.com – scroll to Obituaries and Memorials and click on "Current Services."
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Memories and Condolences
for James Holtom
Charlie Gili
November 3, 2018
Hello,
We realize that we are very late to express our deepest condolences, but we wanted to let your family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to deployed troops this holiday season and several of these will be dedicated to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and hometown of James J. Holtom US Army Sergeant.
We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community, their families and friends and others who support our mission.
We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of our US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
danny pugmire
February 20, 2016
Salute
Ashlynn
February 7, 2014
Jim, it's hard to believe it's been 7 years. We miss you. We talk about you often. We wonder what you would be doing. You would be an awesome uncle. We named Mason after you.I can't wait for him to be old enough to tell him about his Uncle Jim. We think of you often. Missing you. Love ya
November 11, 2013
Thinking of you on this Veterans Day. Thank you for your service Jim. You sure are missed.
Peggy Childers
February 12, 2013
To the family and friends of Sgt. James J. Holtom:
It has truly been my honor to sign James' guest book these past few years. Unfortunately, due to complications from my Multiple Sclerosis, this may be the last message I'm able to write. Please forgive me and know that James will always be remembered in my home.
With love and respect ~ Peggy
May 25, 2012
My friend I miss you, thanks for being a great friend and when ever I play any NHL games I remember playing in the tent. Thank you.
Larry and Rita Watts
May 24, 2012
Remembering the blessing you were in our lives. Thanks again and we'll see you soon.
Kim Straker
February 12, 2012
for February 8, 2012.
Honoring the life, service and faith of this fine young American serviceman.
May his family have found more peaceful days in which to cherish his memory and may he rest in peace.
Peggy Childers
February 11, 2012
February 8, 2012
To the family and friends of Sgt. James J. Holtom:
Always remembering James. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
February 8, 2011
To the family and friends of Sgt. James J. Holtom:
Please accept my remembrance of James on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Kim Straker
February 2, 2011
For February 8 2011.
Remembering and honoring the life and service of this fine young American.
God bless you James, and may your family and all who love you find peace as this anniversary approaches.
Doha, Qatar, GCC
November 1, 2010
We think of you often. Missing you everyday. Can't wait to see you again. You make us proud. We love you
September 8, 2010
Thank you for giving your one life so that those kids over in the Middle East might have freedom one day or sooner:) You gave your life for strangers. Amazing. You belong to Christ, and Christ belongs to God. May God increase your strength:) You are loved and remembered,dear patriot:) :) :)
Kim Straker
June 10, 2010
Honoring the life and the service of this fine young American, and written with the hope that those who love him best have found some peace as they move forward without his immediate presence in their lives. It is evident that he and his family had great faith and I'm sure that this has supported them through the pain of losing him - you will meet again.
From our Engineer family to yours - rest in peace James (Jim)
Peggy Childers
February 8, 2010
To the family and friends of Sgt. James J. Holtom:
Remembering James on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
July 5, 2009
Oh Jim, we miss you so. The last time you were home you helped Dad finish the shop. He was so proud of the man you had become; you knew more about construction than he did, and you were telling him what to do. It's a great memory for him. It was too painful for a long time for him to work out there, but he recently finished building a truck, the "Orange Blossom Special." You would love it. Just like one of your models that I have boxed up in the garage, the ones you did when you were 13 or 14. Only it's a lot bigger! Love you, Son. We miss you so so much.
Mom
j kelsch
June 1, 2009
Miss you see you in July
Bill
May 25, 2009
Rest In Peace. I did not know you in life but from all that I read you were an amazing person and that the world is a darker place with out you. I will never forget and I will always cherish your gift of Freedom.
Melissa Sewell
May 25, 2009
Thank you for what you did for our country... Love you.
Larry
May 24, 2009
On this Memorial Day, all we can say is "Thanks Jim". Words will never reveal the value of your sacrifice.
Melissa Sewell
February 9, 2009
Two years you've been in heaven.
I still just can't believe it. Can't wait for that day when the trump sounds!
Paul and Debbi Birch
February 8, 2009
Dave, Reyne and Family: We are thankful for outstanding young men like Jim and their willingness to stand up and serve. And for families like yours that raise young men and women that are of such caliber. His and your sacrifice will never be forgotten. God bless you all.
Peggy Childers
February 8, 2009
To the family of Sgt. James J. Holtom:
James gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Happy Birthday
Michael Iezzi
January 30, 2009
Jim,
Happy Birthday in Heaven. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
ashleigh arcangelini
January 14, 2009
i do not know jim or his family or melissa... i came across melissa's blog by accident and have read the entire thing! i was so honored to have been able to hear about jim and what a wonderful life he had lived and how loved he still is! i have prayed for him and his family as well as melissa and her family. and i dont think i will forget this hero! god bless.ashleigh
Laura-Lynn Holtom McPherson
December 3, 2008
Here is a man that has given Honor to the Name Holtom
I was surfing the net to find my Mothers death notice and found James
And although James parting from this life is very sad .
He certainly sounds like a HERO.
And I am glad I at least got to read about him.
I hope the Lady he left behind has stopped looking at the closed door and has opened another one as I am sure James noble ways would want .
May he rest in peace
Blessings Laura-Lynn
Mom of 12 Grandma of 10
SFC Charles Johnson
December 2, 2008
As the former (AGR) motor sergeant for Charlie Company 321st Combat Engineers, Ogden, Utah I would like to express my deepest sympathy for Sgt. Holtom. May God bless his family and friends.
Braden Shaw
December 1, 2008
SGT HOLTOM, you are a HERO of the first class! We'll continue the fight! Rest in peace.
Abby Bradshaw
November 11, 2008
Today I think of Jim, Ray and Ross and what
their world must have been in Iraq. I
appreciate Jim, you and all that has been
given. Sorry for such a great loss, Abby
Bradshaw
The Sewells
July 4, 2008
Thinking of you as we appreciate our freedom today. We still love and miss you.
Bill
June 21, 2008
Stg. Holtom, thank you for your service to America. You are a true patriot. You gave up your bright future to bring comfort to the families of your fallen comrades by retreiving their remains. You are an example for all. I will never forget your sacrifice.
Rest In Peace
June 20, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt Holtom!
Melissa Sewell
May 31, 2008
I sure do you miss you, Jim.
You would have liked the conference this year, it was really good!
xoxo
Me.
Larry and Rita
May 14, 2008
The hope engraved on your headstone "Until the next trumpet" is longed for by all who knew you. Thank you Jim for loving your country, family, and church beyond measure. We'll be there soon.
May 12, 2008
Sure miss you, son.
Mom and Dad
j kelsch
April 14, 2008
Just say hi and I miss you
Beverly Nissel
February 13, 2008
I saw your dedication on you tube. Heaven is missing a bunch of heros and my nephew is one of them CPL Benjamin Dillon KIA Oct 6, 2007
my most heart felt wishes are with you and your loved ones. We will never forget their service and their sacrifice.
Andrea Kelsch
February 11, 2008
Hey Jim,
I never was able to meet you but I know that you are a great man that is missed everyday by so many people including my husband. I hope your looking down and watching Mel everyday, she seems like an amazing woman, who loves you more than words can say.
Laura Gomez, sister of HM1 Gilbert Minjares Jr.
February 11, 2008
To the Family and Friends of Sgt James Holtom
HM1 Gilbert Minjares Jr's family sends the warmest condolences and deepest appreciation for James sacrifice. Gilbert was one of the corpsman on Morhine 12 that was shot down on Feb 7, 2007. Stay strong and God Bless.
Melissa Sewell
February 9, 2008
Hey Babe,
I can't believe that yesterday marks the one year anniversary. It still seems like I found out yesterday. I have never been more homesick for Heaven than now. I miss you more everyday, and love you with all my heart. Marc and Scarlet had their baby yesterday, and it has two middle names. One of them: James. For you. Isn't that sweet? :) They are so sweet.
Love you.
Rest In Peace
Michael Iezzi
February 8, 2008
James,
Thinking and praying for you on the 1st anniversary of your passing into eternal glory. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Ash
February 8, 2008
I miss you Jim, Can't believe it's been a year. A year that has seemed to go by so slow and at the same time so fast.I still can't beleive you're not coming home.I can't wait to see you in Heaven.
Barbara Saba
February 7, 2008
To the family of Sgt. James Holtom
I just found out that your son died on the rescue mission after our son Cpl Thomas Saba was killed on the CH46 Our heartfelt sympathy and prayers go out to all of you at this sad time. God Bless our heroes and keep the rest of us safe
Barbara abd Tony Saba, parents of Cpl Thomas Saba
Debbie Sewell
January 31, 2008
Happy Birthday(yesterday), Jim. While I know you had a better day in Heaven, we all sure missed you here (especially Mel).
Melissa Sewell
January 2, 2008
Hey Babe,
I sure did miss you on Christmas and New Years Eve. It would have been our first as Mr. & Mrs...
Gosh I miss you more every day.
I love you so much, I hope you know that.
Love you,
Mel
December 30, 2007
For our fallen brother we shall FOREVER stand in remembrance.HO...YAAH
Debbie , Kenny Coffey
December 30, 2007
Our continued thoughts and prayers out to the HOLTOM family.Knowing now what they have always known is one of many reasons that our HERO[ES] shall NEVER be forgotten.Rest well brother as prommissed that star spangled banner shall FOREVER wave.Your name stamped in steel shall be FOREVER clutched in the tallons,as your spirit FOREVER soars high in the skies in the symbol of our great nation.THANK..YOU..HO..YAAH..B.V.C.
David Holtom
December 26, 2007
Sure missed you this Christmas, son. We had a good day - all your brothers and sisters were home. The snow covered ground was beautiful. The kids played in it all day. As I watched them all play together, laughing and having a time, it tore me up not seeing you with them.I fear Momma's heart will never be the same. When I pray with the little ones at night, I always ask God to tell you we love you and miss you dearly. I trust you get the word.
Dad
the "comfort zone"
December 26, 2007
resting - for now
December 26, 2007
Jim's little sisters - they miss him
December 26, 2007
Jim and Ray at Ft McCoy
December 26, 2007
Ben Gumke
October 31, 2007
I will really miss Jim.
Tiffany Hoxie
October 22, 2007
Not forgotten. The Holtom family and Mel you are still in my prayers.
Jesse Kelsch
October 22, 2007
Many great men have been lost at war Sgt. Holtom Is one of the best, I will miss him
debey senska
October 12, 2007
LIFE...so fragile.
LOSS... so sudden.
HEART...so broken.
In the wake of such a loss, we're haunted by things we don't - and may never - understand.
Yet the solace we seek, may not come from answers.
So we look for comfort in the belief of love's everlasting
connection.
May that love lift you,
hold you close,
and give you peace.
Please accept our deepest sympathy, durring your time of sorrow & greif...We do know the depth and the sharpness of the pain you are feeling, as parents, grandparents, siblings, uncles, aunts,& cousins....draw strength from the support of the close family and friends who surround you.
if there is anything we can do, to help you, please, call(or email).
Debey & Doug Senska
(Gold Star Parents Of Pfc. Gunnar D. Becker)
Forestburg South Dakota
Cst. James Holtom
September 24, 2007
My heartfelt wishes and prayers go out to the family and friends of Sgt. Holtom. I never knew him, but respect his sacrifce and all that he has stood for.
Melissa Sewell
September 14, 2007
Last year on THIS very date, you left for Iraq...
I sure do miss you.
Love you still,
Mel
Melissa Sewell
September 10, 2007
Last year on this very day, I picked you up from the airport so we could spend four whole days together.
I miss you so, so much. This is a hard month without you. I wish you were coming home with the rest of the guys.
Please tell God he can come and get me any day now. I am ready to go.
I love you with all my heart still.
Love,
Mel
Ashlynn
September 7, 2007
Jim, I miss you. I have been thinking about you so much lately( as always) This week was the last time I saw you. I rememeber the park we went to. All your family Mel and I. We threw around the football and had a picnic. I have pictures from that day, from the ones I took of you and then ones of the family and the one of all you kids making a perimid. I was looking forward to many more outings like that. Mel and I talked about how one day when we were all married how we would leave the kids with you guys and us chicks would go shopping. I still just don't want to believe it. i was supposed to make you a big sign and get a t-shirt made for when you were coming home ... this month. I still drive by the park and think that was the last time I hung out with you. It's hard to drive by that park. I do but I just try not to remeber. Because I still want to believe you will be coming home. I miss emailing you. I was looking over the emails I send you. I used to keep you updated on how BSU and the Pakcers were doing! Someone needed to keep you updated! Remeber that night a couple of us were leaving the bowling ally and we were talking about being 21..... and ha ha yah we were being crazy. Remeber playing the couch game and you guys always won! You cheated though! You guys used your cell phones! Memeber going over to Mel's and watching princess bride and the 3 of us colored? ha ha... everyone was making fun fo you that you colored with the girls. ha ha... That was fun! .......I miss you
Linda Macone
September 6, 2007
To the family of Sgt. James Holtom,
I am the aunt of Capt. Jennifer Harris, however she was more like my daughter. Her mom has M.S. and her Uncle and I took on the role of her "parents" from the time she entered middle school.
I was so happy to see an entry in her Legacy book by Jim's dad. I know there are no words to completely take away your pain, but I hope these words of thanks and praise help to ease your pain just a little. We had learned that several Army soldiers died trying to retreive Jen and her crew and the aircraft....and it broke our hearts once again. After reading about Jim, he was the male version of Jen....and her crew was much the same. I'm sure that Jen and Jared and Travis and Thomas and James and Gilbert and Manny were there in Heaven to greet Jim and his fellow soldiers with open arms....and hugs of thanks for helping to bring them home to their families so they all could be laid to rest...and what they accomplished in their short lives could be celebrated. Jim is a hero to many, especially our family. We will always remember what he did with grateful hearts. May God bless you all and bring you comfort and peace.
Most sincerely,
David Holtom
August 31, 2007
All the emotions come flowing back, reading these posts. To all that have written, THANK YOU. Some names are familiar, but I'm gratefull for all of them.
Jim was a dad's perfect eldest son. I often considered him beyond my own maturity..at such a young age. He was self reliant, honest, confident, independant of trends and peer pressure, strong, friendly, handsome, caring, faithful, (he continued giving to missions through our local church even after leaving home) a help and support to his brothers, loved his mom, he was a leader and he loved God - I have his Bible now - it's wore out. He didnt just carry it - he used it. He loved soldiering. He loved the stories I taught him from out of Joshua and Samuel, the Kings
I find myself so missing him. The tears come so easily when I think of him not coming home. He rests now.
He was a great guy. I'm so proud of him. He worked for me during his young years and made such an impression on the other people he worked with. They counted on him to know everything, answer all thier questions.
We have a long life ahead of us and it seems hard to think of all the years we have to wait..but maybe it wont be that long? I'm so thankful for the hope that I have in Christ. It means more to me now than ANYTHING.
Lord, thank you for your promises, your encouragements, your fellowship, for your sufferings, your wisdom, patience, for the dreams of Jim you send my way to give me a little cheer. Thank you for my children and my precious wife. Lord please comfort her and hold her by your strong, gentle hand. Thank you for Jim. He was the best.
Marlo Taylor
August 29, 2007
My deepest sympathy to Mel and the families for your loss. May the memories of Jim keep you strong and proud of such a Hero.
Proud Wife of a U.S. Soldier
Currently stationed in Iraq
August 14, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
August 8, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt Holtom and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Linda Baker
July 7, 2007
Wow - I just read through the entries in this book, and I was moved to tears. To the Holtom family, and Mel... we are praying for you. I can't imagine what you're going through. The rest of us tend to just move on with our lives, and yet, you are all faced with your loss every day. We knew Jim through church and his work in the bus ministry. What a great man Jim was... We are so thankful for his willingness to serve his country and ultimately give his life for it. Where would this country be without soldiers who were willing to give it all? Thank God we know we will see Jim again in heaven because we know he had trusted Christ as his personal Saviour. To family and friends... we will continue to pray that God will give you the strength you need to face each day without Jim.
Ashlynn
July 7, 2007
Jim, I miss you. I think about you all the time. I remember memories. You taught me to ask for someones "digits" instead of number. We laughed about that. You made fun of me cuz I couldn't say digits. I miss bowling, going to the park and playing volleyball, game night, all of us hangin out. Remember the 100 questions I made you fill out before you had my approvel to like Mel? ha ha You're answers were really funny. It's hard for me to believe you aren't coming home. I still don't believe it. It's hard for me to believe cuz it's like you're still away you just haven't returned yet. It's like we are waiting to welcome you home. Remeber I promised you I would make a big sign and bring ballons and get a shirt made that sadi welcome home JIM!. But I know it will hit me that I will never to able to do that. but as of now I refuse. I'm still waiting.I'm so thankful for the memories I have of you.I will see you in heaven.
Yolanda Valdez
June 29, 2007
Another Fallen Hero ~
My heart breaks as I sign another guestbook of such a courageous soldier who gave his life so selflessly. May he rest in peace knowing that he is loved and remembered by those who knew him. God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and made the ultimate sacrifice. My deepest condolences and prayers go out to the entire family. May God grant you peace, strength and comfort in such a difficult time. My prayers are with your family.
We understand what you are experiencing and feeling. No amount of words can ease the pain of your loss. We know first hand there are no words of comfort at this time. We lost our only son 9-3-2004 at the age of 19 and it fells like yesterday. Just know that there are Marine families across the USA who is experiencing your loss and pain. You are not alone. We will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes.
I still fly my Marine flag and have my Marine tag and sticker on my vehicles because I'm PROUD of my SON and DAUGHTER, and all the SERVICE MEN and WOMEN out there. I will always be a MARINE. We are proud of you all. “Land of the Free, Because of the Brave”
Thank you Legacy.com for setting up this website so families can quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves across this great nation.
Once a Marine, Always a Marine!
Yesterday, Today, Forever – Semper Fi - Marines!
Proud Marine Parents of an American Hero
LCpl. Nicholas S. Perez – KIA 9~3~04 – Al Anbar Province, Iraq
valorie
June 28, 2007
My prayers and thoughts are with you.
I know how you feel losing a "HERO",Becoming a "Gold Star" Mother myself on 25 March.. The sacrafice our sons and daughters are making on a daily basis should tell us all..These young HEROS knew full well what they were doing and did it proudly When you hug your loved ones tonight.... Remember... We also hugged ours and now they are protecting you..We.. as Americans need to make the "Ultimate Sacrafice" by supporting all our military(HEROS)...the Proud Mom of SGT. Jason W. Swiger
5th Squadron, 73rd Cavalry Regiment, 3rd Brigade Combat Team, 82nd Airborne,Fort Bragg, N.C. KIA 3/25/007
Michael Iezzi
June 28, 2007
Father we entrust our brother James to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
May God hold James in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My deepest sympathy.
Henryk Zaleski
June 28, 2007
Rest in eternal peace among the angels and stars.
debbi rivers
June 27, 2007
To the family of James, my grief for the loss of your son is felt. I know what it's like to loose your child in war as my son was killed in action too. It feels that your heart has been ripped from you and you don't understand why this happened to your child. I've felt all you will feel in the coming days and weeks and though I’m not close in relation to area, but I am very close by email. I offer any support to you and your family that I can. It's with the Grace of God that I've gotten through each day and with His healing love and comfort that I've been able to once again sleep at night and not cry each day. Believe me I do know how hard it is. May God continue to heal you and your family and contact me when and if you are ever ready, even if it's to vent or cry. In memory of my son SPC Harry (Buck) Winkler III KIA 11/12/06 Samarra, Iraq with the 2-505th PIR 82nd Airborne Div
Bert Holler
June 18, 2007
We are so sorry for your loss. Please accept our prayers and sympathy during these hard times. On January 22, 2007 we lost our son-in-law in Iraq. Spec. Nicholas Brown was in 2/7 Cav of 1st Cavalry Division. He left behind a young wife and a newborn son. Their life verse was Joshua 1:9. "Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous! Do not tremble or be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go". Nick is now in service to his beloved Savior. My sister said that Nick is in Heaven teaching warriors the "Army Way". Thank you,
Anonymous
May 28, 2007
Praying for the entire Holtom family on this Memorial Day. May God bring you comfort. Thank you for your sacrifice.
ROBYN Garside
May 3, 2007
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Melissa Sewell
April 17, 2007
I miss you.
Sandy Bonesteel
April 16, 2007
As the mother of a son (my only child) who is enlisted in the Army, I want to send my condolences.
Vickie Steinbach
March 15, 2007
Jim was a great guy. He was the kind of man you would want your daughter to marry. Melissa, we are so proud of you. Jim was going to be a great daddy, so I hope he is holding my little guys right now. Love ya.
Trudy Lowe
March 12, 2007
My heartfelt sympathies to your family. My heart breaks with each new name added to this list, and I am saddened by your loss. Know that you are surrounded by prayers, grace and the deep gratitude of all who live in freedom. My God hold you in his arms and grant you peace. Please find joy in the memories of your loved one and comfort knowing so many are holding you in their hearts.
India S.
March 9, 2007
I count it such a priviledge to have known Jim and his wonderful family. Even though we haven't seen you for many years, there are so many fond memories of church and bible study and of our kids playing together when they were little. What an incredible blessing to know that Jim is with the Lord now and forevermore. I was so touched by something Tony Dunge wrote about the death of his son, and I'd like to share it and hope that it ministers to you.
When asked how he was able to recover, he replied that it was because of something that one of his good Christian friends said to him after the funeral. "He said, 'You know James accepted Christ into his heart, so you know he's in heaven, right?' I said, 'Right, I know that.' He said, 'So, with all you know about heaven, if you had the power to bring him back now, would you?' When I thought about it, I said, 'No, I wouldn't. I would not want him back with what I know about heaven.'"
Anyone who knew Jim and your family, knows that Jim is with Jesus now. And we know that we will be together soon! May God hold you in His arms, comfort you, and bring you His peace.
Carl & Lori Heath
March 6, 2007
Thank you Jesus for the privilege of knowing and loving the Holtoms. We count it an honor to have had him protecting and serving our country and our God. Thank you Jim...we'll see you soon.
Karen Hickman
March 5, 2007
On behalf of Gold Star Siblings, please accept our heartfelt condolences.
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
March 4, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Holtom family in the loss of James. I did not know James, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. James you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Glen
March 3, 2007
“Soldier”
Written to Honor the Service of Our Fallen Soldiers
Soldiers write history…they pay the price
Many miles distant, you live the life
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We hope and pray that all will find peace
In God, in the flag, in memories of valor
Gone now, our pride and courage you see
“An Army of One” our motto forever
Willing to risk all for love of our Brothers
We’re still Your Soldiers…and we showed the way
Our Lives too short, now pray for the others
Lived free died Heroes in lands far away
Deep within souls all cherished our Service
We’ll always have what some never know
Courage and Honor, our names forever
Lived life with purpose…just our time to go
We march in the Heavens with Honor and Glory
Missions accomplished we fought the Good Fight
Many years from now…we’ll tell the full story
Until that Day we will live in the Light
Our lives we laid down in a land far away
Still watching o’er you this night and by day
No need to talk…just know we are with you
There in your hearts and we hear what you pray
Yes we are your soldiers
Our lives we laid down
Still We guard o’er you
Still Duty bound
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We’ll always have what some never know
Lived life with purpose…it was our time to go
Lee Sirotnak
March 3, 2007
Please know that as time goes on, your family will remain in our thoughts and prayers. Prayers that God will bless you with comfort and peace, and prayers of thankfulness for the heroes like James who have sacrificed everything for us. God Bless you and your family.
Melissa Jane
February 28, 2007
Jim will always be remembered...I met Jim only once in 2006 when i finally got to meet some of my dearest friends in the States. I remember we played games one night, "Mafia" was one of them that i remember. Jim struck me, on first impression as a quiet soul, but one who also had a good head on his shoulders. Very level headed, and he knew how to have fun, and knew when to be serious. I didnt know at the time that he and Mel were a couple... hehe So it was interesting to see the little "looks" and what not between them. :-) So cute. They were both having so much fun!
I know that times are hard, but when you have Christ on your side, you count it a blessing and a privilege to go through these trials, for they serve a purpose in the making. To make us stronger, and to let us know that the good Lord will never leave us nor forsake us.
To Jim's family, and Mel. You have so much to be thankful for, for such a young life lived with such great honour, and sacrifice. To have known a life that was lived with such great a testimony for Christ. I salute him. He truly is a Hero. :-) Praise the Lord for the comfort that we all have in knowing certainly that we will see Jim again when we cross over onto that "Happy Golden shore, where the faithful part no more!" :-) I count it a blessing to have known of Jim and have met him once if even only for a brief moment. All soldiers, no matter what country they are from deserve our honour. They truly are heroes that will never be forgotten.
The Lord be with you all, and may you hold onto memories, for memories are what keep you going.
Remember, "Till we meet again!"
"Some people come into our lives
and leave footprints on our hearts
and we are never ever the same..."
Kelley Nase
February 26, 2007
To all the Holtoms, Mel, and Ashlynn that God will be with you in this time of trial. Just don't forget that we will see him again!
Ashlynn
February 26, 2007
JIM IS MY HERO!
I remember we had friends over playing games and everyone had left but Jim,Mel, and Ben. There's a game called missionary manners that we like to play. It can get pretty violent which it did between Jim, Ben and my Brother it turned into an arm wrestling match. Jim liked to play that game, so before he left I bought him some of the games we enjoyed playing with all our friends. ~ To the Holtom family and Mel: I love ya guys so much and you're always in my thoughts and prayers! It's awesome that 4 guys have already been saved through this. God is good! Thank God we will see him again!
Bonnie Blythe
February 21, 2007
I am so sad to learn of your loss. I am related by marriage to Capt. Jennifer Harris whose Sea Knight helicopter was shot down on Feb. 7. Her funeral 2 days ago was the most powerful and heartbreaking event that I've ever been part of. I understand that James helped to recover her body before he was killed. We are eternally grateful for the bravery of your loved one and pray that we all find peace and strength within to lead us through these most difficult times.
Melissa Sewell
February 21, 2007
Jim truly was a great man. I was so honored to have loved him as much as I did... What a blessing to know I'll see him again someday!
Paz Family
February 20, 2007
Please accept our deepest sympathy. May God be with all of you during this hard times.
SGT HOLTOM JAMES J. DIED A HERO.
Corey & Kelly Price
February 20, 2007
Today Jim was honored as the hero, son, brother, friend, soldier, soon to be husband, and Christian that he was. Our thoughts & prayer are with the family, friends, & Mel as they grieve the loss of someone taken so suddenly from them. "While we look not at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen: for the things which are seen are temporal; but the things that are not seen are eternal." Although we do not understand why God needed Jim so soon we can understand that these things come to pass to help us be "Looking for that blessed hope and the glorious appearing of our great God and Saviour Jesus Christ." I say, even so, come quickly Lord.
Nick & Julie Steinbach
February 20, 2007
We are so sorry for your loss. Jim will not be forgotten. He was a kind man, and we are thankful for the opportunity to know him. You are all in our thoughts & prayers!
"But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles, they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk; and not faint." (Isaiah 40:31)
R
February 19, 2007
I did not know James but i want to send love to his family! I knew Ross and i know how James' family must feel.. God bless he's a hero!
February 18, 2007
God bless you and your family. He died a hero. I will always have the fullest support for our boys and hope this all can end soon.
Linda Rhodes
February 16, 2007
Heaven's Call
Heaven called and you were taken
So young to go, to young to know
The call of heaven did not wait
Your time here a short stay
You were called away
To be part of God’s everlasting garden
Borrowed seed from the Master
A small little bud that graced us with your beauty
Now returned upon heaven’s call
A finely chosen rose
Taken before it bloomed
Before your beauty had time to unfold
He is the Gardner and you his prize winning bud
Perhaps He seen a storm that you could not with stand
So he picked you before the wind would fall
The memories forever etched in our hearts
Our little bud now blooms
With the angels up on high
B C
February 16, 2007
My deepest sympathy to the family and friends of this fallen hero. Sgt. Holtom will always be remembered for his bravery and devotion to our country. Thank you.
Glen
February 15, 2007
“Soldier”
Written to Honor the Service of Our Fallen Soldiers
Soldiers write history, we pay the price
Many miles distant, you live the life
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We hope and pray that all will find peace
In God, in the flag, in memories of valor
Gone now, our pride and courage you see
“An Army of One” our motto forever
Willing to risk all for love of our Brothers
We’re still Your Soldiers…and we showed the way
Our Lives too short, now pray for the others
Lived free died Heroes in lands far away
Deep within souls all cherished our Service
We’ll always have what some never know
Courage and Honor, our names forever
Lived life with purpose…just our time to go
We march in the Heavens with Honor and Glory
Missions accomplished we fought the Good Fight
Many years from now…we’ll tell the full story
Until that Day we will live in the Light
Our lives we laid down in a land far away
Still watching o’er you this night and by day
No need to talk…just know we are with you
There in your hearts and we hear what you pray
Yes we are your soldiers
Our lives we laid down
Still We guard o’er you
Still Duty bound
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We’ll always have what some never know
Lived life with purpose…it was our time to go
February 15, 2007
To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
Anna Morris
February 14, 2007
Our hearts go out to you. May Jesus be your comfort and strength in the days ahead. I am a gold star mom. Our son lost his life on December 24, 2006 in Iraq. Please accept our deepest sympathy. The Family of Lcpl. Stephen L. Morris, Lake Jackson, Tx.
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