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NANCE AFFONSO Obituary

Nance Affonso Dec. 8, 1959 - Feb. 1st, 2010 Resident of San Leandro Nance Affonso, 50, passed away Monday, February 1st, 2010 in San Leandro, CA after a two year battle with melanoma cancer. Nance was the beloved wife of Gary Affonso, mother of Dante' and Marina Affonso, daughter of Grace O'Donnell (deceased), and Ed O'Donnell. Nance is also survived by her sisters, Arleen & Valerie O'Donnell, brother, John O' Donnell, sisters-in-law Judy Showers & Jean O'Donnell, brother-in-law, Dale Affonso, and her beautiful, charming, lovely, mother-in-law, Anita Affonso. Nance was born and raised in Brooklyn, and was always proud of her New York roots. She moved out to California in 1988 and was married to her husband Gary, on St. Patrick's Day in 1989. Nance lived in San Leandro and was very active in the community. Nance especially loved to get involved with her children's schools and activities. She was the Queen of Uniforms at Assumption School and volunteered for anything or anyone that needed help. Nance also gave blood as often as 6 times per year. Nance felt her best days on earth were proudly watching her children growing up doing their school activities and playing sports of all kinds. She loved watching her son Dante' play football and rugby in high school and soccer basketball, volleyball and baseball in grammar school. She also loved volunteering as team mom for her daughter Marina's teams in soccer, volleyball, basketball and dancing as well. Nance was a great talent at scrap-booking and an avid reader as well. Her favorite places to visit were Monterey, and Disneyland where her husband Gary proposed to her on New Year's Day of 1989. Nance had friends all over the United States from back east to out here in the west. She loved her work and friends at Smith Barney, working there for 20+ years and in the brokerage security business for over 30 years. Nance brightened everyone's day with her quit wit and New York style quips. Nance was an awesome wife, mother, and friend to anyone that knew her. She will be greatly missed by all. We would like to thank Kaiser Medical and Hospice services for their wonderful care. Services for Nance Affonso will be held Friday, Feb. 12th at 7pm at Assumption Church at 1100 Fulton Ave in San Leandro, Ca. 94577. In lieu of flowers, please donate to the Melanoma Research Foundation, Assumption School and Church, or Bishop O'Dowd High School. Santos Robinson Mortuary San Leandro 510-483-0123 www.santos-robinson.com

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Published by Inside Bay Area on Feb. 9, 2010.

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Mike Inman

September 9, 2010

I just heard about Nance's passing.
When I started working at SmithBarney Nance was one of the first to make me feel comfortable. She was an extremely kind person who loved to talk about her kids. I remember how excited and proud she was when she spoke about her family. I will miss her great theater reviews which made me go buy a ticket to see "Jersey Boys" soon after she she told me it was a must see. My prayers to her husband and children. She was a great lady and I will always remember her great positive energy.

Karen Nutaitis

February 16, 2010

Gary, Marina and Dante I would like you to know how much I love Nance. We met on Bart on a day I did not think I would make it home, she saved my life that day, and many more times after that. No one made me laugh more than this special lady. My family can never repay her kindness, her love and her willingness to be there for us.
I will never forget the Auctions we worked, the Festivals we endured, the Ski Trip to Tahoe, the chicken cutlets...
We send our love and our thanks for sharing such a wonderful woman with us.

~~~ Ethel aka Kathy Linard

February 16, 2010

She touched my heart with her love and made me gleeful in times of sadness. She was the best buddy any person could ask for. I was not as faithful a friend to her as she was to me but none the less I loved her greatly for all her warmth, kindness, understanding, love, and humor she chose to share with me. My daily prayers will always include, Nance, Gary, Dante, and Marina for true love never ends.

Dolores Carrillo

February 10, 2010

I had the pleasure of her company while working at Smith Barney in 1992/1995. She had humor, wit and sarcasm all in one body. We had mutual friends, and she always shared her family with those of us who worked with her. I've been gone for many years, but the memory of Nance will always hold a dear spot for me. My deepest sympathies to Gary, Dante and Marina.

Fred & Sylvia Tocchini

February 10, 2010

Gary, Dante, and Marina -
Although we have never met, I feel as though I know all of you. Nance and I would talk at length about our families while I was waiting for Tom. Somedays with nothing to trade, I would call with a new joke or a kid story. I will miss her tremendously. Our sincerest condolences. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers,

Michael Walker

February 10, 2010

You made me smile and laugh even when I was annoyed :) You had the best spirit. I miss you at lunch.... just plain miss you. I am very grateful to have been your friend. You were a truly special woman. I'll always think of you with my Flintstone collection. My thoughts go out to the Affonso family..

February 10, 2010

Gary, letting you know that I am thinking of you. In my experiance be sure to let those close to you help in anyway they can and call on them as needed.Time will heal, and cherish the memories.

Curtis Lockhart

Nacole Carson

February 10, 2010

We meet many people in our life. Some barely scratch the surface, some leave a mark and some leave an imprint. Nance has left and imprint in my life and I will truly miss her. She was definately a good friend. I will miss her laugh, her stories (boy could she tell a great story!!! She taught me some very colorful words LOL), parenting advice (my kids thank her. Because of her my kids got A's on all of their school projects, she was soooo crafty)...oh can't forget the snacks. Nance ALWAYS had the best snacks :-) I love you Mrs. "A" your friend Mrs. "C"

Dante Ramirez

February 10, 2010

Nance was an incredibly special woman. whenever i think about her, i am reminded the importance of having a strong loving family. Nance was the shining example of a loving mother and wife. Her main focus in life was her children, and i will always admire her for this. She was a hard working woman who gave of herself and always was ready to lend a helping hand. Her smile and zany greetings brightened many of my days. a wonderful woman like this one shall never be forgotten, and will be cherished and loved by anyone she touched in her life. we were co-workers for nearly 20 years, but more importantly, we were friends for that same time. I offer condolences and best wishes to Gary, Dante, and Marina. thank you for sharing with all of us the gift of knowing your sweet beautiful Nance. She is golden.

Santos-Robinson Mortuary

February 10, 2010

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

Judy Kuta-Showers

February 9, 2010

Nance was not just a sister-in-law to me. She was my SISTER. She was "very" close to our family and we all loved her. She was a wonderful wife to my brother, mother to my nephew and niece and aunt to all of her nieces and nephews. You could not ask for a better "friend." I will miss her tremendously.

Gary ~ This is a beautiful write up. Anyone reading this would know "our" Nance.

Judy Kuta-Showers

February 9, 2010

Nance was "not" just a sister-in-law to me. She was my SISTER. She was "very" close to my family and we all loved her. She made our lives enjoyable and fulfilling. I will miss her tremendously.

Gary this was a beautiful write up. Anyone reading this would know "our" Nance.

Christine Kuta

February 9, 2010

Nance Affonso was my closest aunt and a wonderful mother.
I always loved her fun, sarcastic, new york, charm and her geniune opinion about life. She was always entertaining and made every family gathering a party. I will miss her unlimited thoughtfulness, compassion and love for all of us.

Jenny Archuleta

February 9, 2010

I have never loved a neighbor before meeting Nance. She was so generous, kind, willing to help, let me borrow an egg or two or watch my kids at any given moment. She was like family. I will truly miss her. I have another Angel in my corner now.

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