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Kim
September 14, 2025
You are thought of often and missed so so much! Oxoxoxoxoxo
K
September 14, 2024
We think and speak of you often! Syd, you are always with us and never ever forgotten! You are so missed and we are always here for your mom, dad and Matt!
Kim
September 14, 2023
Always in our thoughts and prayers!!! Never ever forgotten!! Missed every single day!! Oxoxox
Kim
September 14, 2022
You are thought of constantly!! And always missed and loved!!!!!!OXOXOX
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Kim
September 18, 2020
You are so remembered and missed every single day by so many!!! You made a mark in so many lives that will live on forever! Oxox
cory zamora
May 13, 2018
i miss you syd after 6 years
as best frends bff for ever
June 18, 2015
You are always missed, thought of, and loved!!
January 16, 2015
I miss you Syd...very much.
September 18, 2014
You are always thought of and missed so so much! You are loved!
September 17, 2014
you're on my mind every day still. hope you're happy up there in heaven!
July 1, 2013
I miss you and love you Syd...
February 14, 2013
Always thinking of you! Never forgotten! oxox
December 20, 2012
Love you
Happy Birthday soon.
Xoxo
September 18, 2012
Today is 2 years...You are always in everyones thoughts..never ever forgotten!!! miss you ..words are just so hard....love you..
August 18, 2012
oxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
August 15, 2012
You are missed!
March 8, 2012
You still are always thought of and missed so so much....
December 16, 2011
Not a day goes by that you are sooo missed. Always thinking of you. I know many who miss you everyday...oxoxoxox
September 18, 2011
Hard to believe 1 year has gone by. There is not a day that goes by that you are not thought of and missed so much. Your family and friends think of you all the time. Til the next time......oxox
September 17, 2011
Always in our hearts and our prayers!!!! You are missed and loved every single second of every single day.....
July 29, 2011
Sydney, you are thought of every single day and missed every single day.
April 19, 2011
We miss you, Syd. Heaven is a better place with you there.
April 12, 2011
Syd, always thinking of you!!!!!
February 8, 2011
Still thinking about you every single day. Can't wait to dance by your side again sometime. Love you, Syd.
January 11, 2011
Syd, you are sooo missed and loved.
January 7, 2011
sydney i miss you
Mark Lofgren
January 4, 2011
Although I have not seen Sydney since 6th grade. I remember how nice and how full of joy she was. She was a great friend to me and she will be missed.
November 16, 2010
i love you so much sydney
October 5, 2010
I didn't have the pleasure of knowing your daughter; but from all the heart warming words others have shared she truely was loved.
May you find peace with all the memories you hold in your heart forever.
Vita Marie Ferrara
October 3, 2010
My deepest sympathy.
Cheri Kalcich
September 26, 2010
I was shocked and saddened to hear of Sydney's passing in such a tragic way. I will always remember her from Donges Bay as a happy smiling and hard working student.
Katie Mann
September 24, 2010
It has been many years since I have seen Sydney but my vision of her is crystal clear: She was a beautiful, sweet girl with a personality that sparkled. It is no surprise that she grew up to be a dancer. My heart goes out to you and I wish you strength, Tabakin family, during this difficult time.
Kevin Packman
September 24, 2010
I would like to offer sincere condolences for Sydney's passing. May you find solace in knowing that her memory and legacy live on in everyone who knew her.
September 23, 2010
we are so sorry for your loss. having a 17 yr old daughter myself, we can't even imagine the pain you are going through.. I have heard nothing but wonderful things about Sydney. she has touched many lives.. alot of people have gained a very special guardian angel.
Patrick Dailey, USMC Retired
September 23, 2010
My heart goes out to the family and friends of Sydney. "I pray Almighty God will assuage the anguish of your berevement and leave you only cherished memories of your loving Sydney".
September 23, 2010
We will miss Sydney. She was a beautiful and lively young lady, who always had a kind word to say. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Sheila Moore and Becca Singleton
JIll & Mark Zoromski
September 22, 2010
We are so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter and sister, and wanted you to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. We know the indescribable pain and anguish you are going through -- we lost our 16 year old daughter Kate in that horrible accident on I-43 three years ago. If there is anything we can do to help, please let us know.
hilary grace ann and larry MEEHAN
September 22, 2010
our family misses you and we are thinking of you
September 22, 2010
Your beautiful daughter has touched many lives of people she never met and will be our angel as we try to raise our own daughters. We all have been touched by your tragedy and a lot of people will be praying for your peace and comfort. Blessings to your family.
September 22, 2010
"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal,
Love leaves a memory no one can steal"
Our Deepest Sympathy,
Joe, Rita and Adam Schwalbach
Gena and Jim Beckers
September 22, 2010
Please know that we are praying for you and Sydney. We are so very sorry for your loss and for the pain you are having to endure. May God bless and keep you. Sydney will be greatly missed and on behalf of our son Max and our family we offer our deepest condolences.
September 21, 2010
I also never met sydney but am a homestead high alumni. I live next to homestead and had the honor of paying my respects to her friends who were surrounding her parking spot at the school. My daughters and I are very touched by her tragic death. She was too young and sounds like she will be missed by many. My heart goes out to all of sydneys friends and family. My familys prayers will be with you. jenny,zoe and madaline Miller(Mequon)
Barb Mantz
September 21, 2010
My heart is breaking for your family.
I can't even imagine your pain. You are in my prayers.
Pam Lemke
September 21, 2010
I am sorry so for your loss. She was a beautiful girl. I can not imagine how you deal with the loss of a child, but know that our hearts and prayers are with you at this time.
Jackie Mortenson
September 21, 2010
I did not have the pleasure of meeting your beautiful daughter or your family, but my heart breaks for you. I cannot even begin to imagine what you are experiencing. May your find comfort in your many memories, family and friends.
Judy weichert
September 21, 2010
Sydney touched many lives... She was an Angel on Earth & now an Angel in Heaven~
Please find comfort in the wonderful memories of your beautiful daughter. God bless you & your family in this time of sorrow... I can't imagine the pain...
Judy, Austin & Wes Weichert
September 21, 2010
We will keep the tabakin family in our prayers. i lost a child but that was a lot younger, i cant imgaine at that age. I will keep you all in my prayers.
Alison
September 21, 2010
I am an '03 HHS grad and heard the news through the grapevine. I am so very sorry to hear of the passing of a great Highlander. May your family have great strength and your beautiful daughter rest in peace.
September 21, 2010
Please accept our condolences at the loss of your beautiful daughter. Our daughter, Megan, graduated last year from HHS and knew Sydney well. She wanted to attend the funeral but could not leave Oshkosh today. She assures me that there were going to be many students from HHS in attendance. Sydney was loved.
The Kaldunski Family, Mequon, WI
brenda corner
September 21, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this most difficult time. May you find comfort knowing she is dancing with the angels in heaven. May you find strength from your faith, family & friends. I pray for God's peace to be with you all.
My deepest sympathy.....Brenda RN
Jim Linn
September 21, 2010
Dear Neil and family,
I am so sorry for the tragic loss of your beloved daughter. I and my family are praying to God for you. Please accept our deepest sympathy.
September 21, 2010
My daughter Abby (Nicolet High School '2010) knew Sydney. We live very near your temple and as I sit in my living room writing this I can see the "over flow" of mourners parking at the Lutheran church near the temple- truly a testament to what a wonderful young women Sydney was. The loss of a child is one of the hardest things a parent can ever face in their lifetime. You may find that you put laundry in the refrigerator and food in the laundry...your days are not "normal", as your life has been forever changed. Prayers and caring to your family.
Tamara Williams-Fox Point
September 21, 2010
To the family of beautiful SYDNEY....
Though I didn't know you, being a mother myself I cannot imagine what you are going through. But take comfort in knowing she is with the angels and will always be with you.
Love, Peace and Prayers be with you...
Amy Hasenfuss
September 21, 2010
Miranda, Neil, and Matthew,
My heart aches for you and the family. By reading all these entires it is easy to see that you had a wonderful daughter loved by all. She will be greatly missed. Heaven has indeed gained a beautiful angel. Please know you are in my thoughts and in my heart. Love you.....
September 21, 2010
Dear Tabakin Family,
Please know that all of Mizpah Congregation in Chattanooga are with you. You are in our thoughts and our hearts. Sending you love. Rabbi Bill and Deborah Tepper
September 21, 2010
May your hearts heal with the passage of time. May you always remember her and be grateful for the short time she lighted your life.
September 21, 2010
Miranda and family - My deepest sympathy to you following the tragic loss of your daughter. May your memories help to sustain you. God's peace to you all. Marie Ziebell
September 21, 2010
Dear Tabakin Family, My deepest sympathy. God will see you through this terrible tragedy. Remember fondly the many lives Sydney touched at such an early age. He must have bigger plans for her at His side. Kathie Mervyn, Medac Milwaukee
September 21, 2010
Dear Tabakin family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and we will always keep the memory of Sydney in our hearts. Eternal life awaits your child with happiness, love and peace.
Ted Drazovic and Family
Kari-Rae Hartl
September 20, 2010
Tabakin Family
Although we haven't met our daughters were part of the rugby community(different teams). We are deeply sorry for your loss. May God help you walk through this terrible time. You are all in our prayers! God Bless all of you. You have a special angel watching over you.
Kristie Lilteich (Fosso)
September 20, 2010
Miranda and family-- My heart goes out to you in the wake of this tragedy. Our lives are so precious and fragile. Though I haven't seen you in a while, you are a part of my childhood and I can only imagine the loss you and Sydney's friends feel at this time. Find strength in those around you.
Susan Ambrose
September 20, 2010
Dear Dr. Tabakin and family: please accept my condolences on the death of your daughter.
Martha Jay, M.D.
September 20, 2010
Dear Neil:
I've often heard you speak fondly of Sydney and Matthew between cases in the OR. May you and your family keep the memories fresh of those good times through the coming years. This isn't fair, no parent should have to go through this. Everyone in my family is shocked by your loss. We're here for you for whatever support you may need.
Candy Endres
September 20, 2010
My deepest sympathy goes out to your family for your loss of your daughter, I will keep her and your family in my prayers.
Rick, Sheila & Erica Quinnies
September 20, 2010
One can not begin to understand the paths God chooses for all of us, just believe in his mercy and love for his children. She will be missed but not forgotten.
September 20, 2010
Tabakin Family,
No words can express how sorry we are to hear about your loss. Sydney was such a sweet girl and touched so many lives in so many different ways. Please stay strong during this tough time, your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
The Schroeder Family, Mequon, Wisconsin
Beth
September 20, 2010
My heart also aches for your family. You are in my prayers as you walk this most difficult journey. Remember that God is always with us, loving us and holding us close, especially through our sufferings. I pray for peace, hope and deep faith for all of you at this time. Eternal rest grant unto Sydney, O Lord, and let the perpetual light shine upon her.
Cathy Stresing
September 20, 2010
Based on the look of loss and sadness on everyone's face at HHS today, it is clear that Sydney has left a mark in her short life. May this time of sadness soon be replaced with good memories. God bless you all.
September 20, 2010
Dear Tabakin Family,
Our daughter graduated last year from HHS, and was very distraught over the loss of Sydney. She knew her well and spoke of how well liked and kind she was. Having four children of my own I cannot imagine the pain and heartbreak you are experiencing, and I wanted to let you know that like so many others in the community, you and your family are truly in the thoughts of many not just here, but with the many kids who have graduated and knew her and are mourning her loss in other areas. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you throughout this difficult year. May God Bless and comfort you~
Mequon, WI
Greg Retzlaff
September 20, 2010
Please accept my deepest sympathies, may God comfort you during this difficult time.
Mike Slamann
September 20, 2010
Neil, Miranda and Matt,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss of Sydney. There are simply no words to express my sorrow to your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I will miss watching Sydney at half time performing her routine with the dance team at the football games.
September 20, 2010
To Sydney's Family,
It's clear Sydney is loved by so many. May your happy & loving memories guide and keep you. Our prayers are for you, your extended family and all of her friends. Severson Family
Elena Patterson
September 20, 2010
Neil and Family, I am so sorry for your loss. Can not imagine what you are all going through. May your faith help you in this time of need.
Grace Busse
September 20, 2010
My deep sympathy for the loss of your precious daughter. May you find comfort in God, family and many friends. Know that Sydney has touched so many lives and will never be forgotten.
September 20, 2010
such a loss for the entire rugby community. stay strong; our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jolene Rychtik & Family
September 20, 2010
Dr. Tabakin, Miranda, Mathew & family, my heart aches for you all and the loss you have experienced. I hope and pray that your strength along with the love and support of those around you help through these tough times.
September 20, 2010
To the Tabakin family
I can't begine to imagine how you are coping with this tragety but my praye;rs are with you.
Joy De Bord
September 20, 2010
Dear Tabakin Family, We did not know your daughter but have heard what a wonderful young woman she was from many that did know her.
May your faith carry you and may God comfort you.
Shor Family
September 20, 2010
Even though we never knew Sydney or your family we are so saddened by this tragic event. We have a 17 yr old son and our hearts are breaking for you.Our son did know Sydney through his friends at Homestead HS. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Krista Lesiecki
September 20, 2010
Sydney was one of those students who, regardless of this tragedy, would have been remembered by me for a very long time. Her joyful presence was contagious to all. She had a true heart of gold.
September 20, 2010
the unimaginable has happened...as a community we share in your grief. May your faith get you through the coming days and memories ease the pain.
Mary Dekker
September 20, 2010
I remember the last time I was at the house and you all came to drop Gaby off. I think that was the first time I met Sydney and thought to myself; what a beautiful child that lights the room with her smile. My heart aches for you, I pray you are able to find comfort. "Todd's Mom"
Connie Schrank
September 20, 2010
To Sydney's family,
I am so sorry for the tragic loss of your beautiful daughter. My heart goes out to all of you. She will forever be in your hearts...
September 20, 2010
Please accept my profound condolences. My thoughts are with you.
May the love of your family and friends give you comfort.
John Karr
Jim & Betty Wiedabach
September 20, 2010
Miranda, Neil, and Matt,
Please know your friends are thinking of you at this difficult time. Sydney will be deeply missed by her "other" big brothers, especially Andrew. Our prayers are with the entire family.
Margaret Maggard
September 20, 2010
I remember Sydney as a darling fourth grader who always kept my son Ollie on his toes - whatever book he was reading, Sydney had already read it. It was a privilege to watch this smart, cute girl grow into a fine young woman. Words cannot express how much we hurt for you.
Love, Margaret, Bill, Ollie & Henry Maggard
Chris Stransky
September 20, 2010
To the Tabakin family,
My prayers and thoughts are with you. Remember her with all of the love and happy memories she gave you. I can not begin to imagine your sorrow.
Lisa Martin
September 20, 2010
So sorry to hear of your loss. Lisa Martin
Janet Wein
September 20, 2010
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. No words can express the deep sorrow that we feel for you and your family.
Janet and Marty Wein (Linda and Bill's friends)
Sharon Stillman
September 20, 2010
I never had the pleasure of meeting your family, but my heart goes out to you and pray that God will give you the grace to make it through this tragedy,,
September 20, 2010
Even at 1800 miles away, Sydney brought laughter into our home. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. She will forever remain in our hearts. Karen, Steve, Ryann and Hannah Miller
September 20, 2010
To the Family,
I didn't get the opportunity to know you or your daughter but I have daughter's myself and my heart goes out to you and the family. You are in my prayers
Paula Krenke
September 20, 2010
I am so shocked and sad to hear of the loss of Syndey! You and your family are in my prayers. Faith and family will help you during this time of extreme grief.
Laeh McHenry
September 20, 2010
Their are no word to express our sorrow over the death of such a wonderful young woman. May her memory be blessed and you all find peace and comfort in knowing how much she will be missed and remembered.
September 20, 2010
We did not know Sydney and do not know any of you, but we heard about this tragedy from the media. Our hearts are breaking for you. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Linda and Vincents Dindzans
September 20, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. We were so saddened to hear of your loss. May your memories, family,friends and faith bring you comfort.
Marcy Silverstein
September 20, 2010
With deepest sympathy,
Marcy Silverstein
AHIS
louise wisinski
September 20, 2010
I am so sorry for your loss. May God comfort you.
September 20, 2010
We are so sorry. She was a wonderful friend, kind, polite....you raised a beautiful child! Deb Weich, Marisa, Lew, Isabella.
Donna Gesch
September 20, 2010
Neil, Miranda & Matthew ~ There simply are no words to say that can make a difference at this time. The loss of Sydney is something so deep for you that the rest of us can only imagine your pain.
Remember that smile and sassy young woman that brought you so much joy. May you find some comfort in your memories and the love of family and friends.
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