Stephen A. McCleary

Stephen A. McCleary

Stephen McCleary Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Mar. 1 to Mar. 3, 2013.
Stephen A. McCleary peacefully passed away Feb. 19, 2013 at the Los Alamos Medical Center after a swift battle with melanoma. Steve was born in Philadelphia, Pa., where he spent his childhood before graduating from Cornell Hotel School. Years later he landed a job as the manager of Los Alamos National Laboratory's food service and eventually retired from a facilities manager position at LANL. At the end of his journey Steve was surrounded by friends and family, including his mother Lillian, his brother Tom and sister Heather, his son Matthew and daughter Julia, and his loving wife Ellynn. He is also survived by his sister Lois, and father L. Robert McCleary.
Although he was widely known about town for his efforts to control the gopher population, Steve's true passion was for skiing, often calling him to be on the slopes upwards of sixty happy days a year. He was forever seeking new adventures and experiences, and in the snowless months he enjoyed hiking, camping and fishing in as many beautiful places as he could reach. He seized every opportunity to spend time with his sweet 8-year-old grandson and dear friend, Kevin, and just six weeks before his passing Steve was blessed with another grandson, William, born to Steve and Ellynn's son Matthew and daughter-in-law Mary.
"Life is good," Steve was known to say, even on some of his hardest days; his optimism, sense of humor and incredible vitality will linger in the hearts of his loved ones for lifetimes to come. He was an outstandingly kind husband, father and friend who lived life to the very fullest and consistently took time to make sure those in his life knew they were loved.
An appropriately raucous celebration of Steve's joyful life will be held in his beloved mountains on a warm summer day in the coming months, and all those whose lives were touched by his are encouraged to join. Details will be released at a later date.

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March 21, 2013

jean-louis tuaillon posted to the memorial.

March 7, 2013

Jim Rickman posted to the memorial.

March 7, 2013

Elsie Loibl posted to the memorial.

jean-louis tuaillon

March 21, 2013

Remember french mountains 1968

Jim Rickman

March 7, 2013

Running into Steve during his days at LANL, and then later on at the ski hill after he had retired, was always a highlight of my day. Steve and I used to crack each other up each time we met—memories I will always cherish. I recall several such times when we were both doubled over laughing like mules who had gotten a snoot full of loco weed. Good stuff!

I will miss Steve's gravelly laugh, that twinkle in his eye, and his serious, intense appreciation for the outdoors and everything there is to do in it. Steve, you made the world a better place! Rest in peace, my friend.

(And I hope Steve's family will accept my deepest condolences and respects as well.)

Elsie Loibl

March 7, 2013

Seems like such a lifetime ago, but prior to my leaving LANL in 1996 with 20 years of service, I had the great pleasure of working with an outstanding person and manager, your loved one, Steve McCleary. I was in procurement and he was on the requester's side in the cafeteria. I wished all my requesters had Steve's personality...always so kind and a gentleman. He is at peace now and may you be comforted with the knowledge that he is not suffering anymore. Reminds you how precious life is. May God bless you during this time and always rejoice in the wonderful memories he left each and every one of you.

Bernadette Less

March 6, 2013

Ellen and family.....Richard and I were so sorry to hear of Steve's passing. I remember you from Farmer's insurance. We knew over the years he was not well, but hope you know he is in peace now and you are in our thoughts.

Carolyn Algire

March 1, 2013

Steve, you were a great food service manager and facility manager. I enjoyed working (& complaining!) to ya! God Bless You.

McMullans

March 1, 2013

You will be dearly missed.
Cherries, squirrels, gophers and snakes oh my...
May god bless.

Judy Goldie

March 1, 2013

I was so sorry to read of Steve's passing. I enjoyed working with him at LANL and greetings about town later. Condolences to Ellyn and the entire family. Will miss him and his positive attitude.

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