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Rick Alspach Obituary

RICK ANTHONY ALSPACH DYER, IN
Rick Anthony Alspach, age 31, of Dyer, IN passed away Saturday, August 29, 2009 at St. Margaret Mercy Hospital in Dyer. He is survived by his adoring wife, Amber Rae; parents: Rick and Sue Alspach; twin sister, Nicole (Eric) Culp; brothers: Tim (Kristina) Alspach, Dan and Steve Alspach; nieces and nephews: Nolan, Simon, Chloe, and Delilah Culp and Charles and Thomas Alspach; grandma, Joan Plewniak; father- in-law, Tom Torluemke (Linda Dorman); mother-in-law, Natalie Navarro; grandmother-in-law, Christine Hutchings; aunts, uncles, cousins, and many dear friends. Preceded in death by paternal grandparents: Frederick and Martha Alspach; and maternal grandparents: Aloysius and Theresa Rokosz; grandmother-in-law, Betty O'Donnell. Funeral services will be held on Friday, September 4, 2009 at 9:45 a.m. at the Anthony and Dziadowicz Funeral Home, 9445 Calumet Avenue in Munster and a Mass of Christian burial at 10:30 a.m. at St. Michael the Archangel Catholic Church, 1 Wilhelm Street, Schererville with the Rev. Martin J. Dobrzynski officiating. Burial will be held at the St. Michael Cemetery in Schererville. Visitation on Thursday, September 3, 2009 from 2:00-9:00 p.m. at the funeral home. Rick was a 1996 graduate of Bishop Noll Institute and a 2000 graduate of North Park University. He was employed at Compass Group/Canteen Corporation of Elmhurst, Illinois. Rick's love and passion shined on everyone in his life and through the things he loved to do, performing Elvis' "Can't Help Falling in Love" at any available karaoke, fine wine and good food, holidays, travel, sports, romantic comedies, and his three cats, Sticky, Kunu and Ceasar. Rick loved the game of basketball and was a member of the Bishop Noll and North Park University basketball teams where he was affectionately knows as "shooter." He also played on the 1998 American Traveling All Star Team in Italy where he was the top scorer. His great love for the game extended beyond his playing career where he was involved in teaching young children at a basketball camp. He was an avid Cubs fan. His infectious, positive attitude, enthusiasm, and love will be missed by his wife and family and wide and close circle of great friends.

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Published by The Times from Sep. 1 to Sep. 3, 2009.

Memories and Condolences
for Rick Alspach

196 Entries

Jerrell Wiggins

February 3, 2010

I just got the news from a former classmate today. I know it has been several months and Rick and I had not been in touch for a very long time. However, I must say that it was a joy knowing him. We graduated together from BNI. He was a funny guy and a fierce competitor on the court. He was always a joy to be around. I am very saddened that his life was cut so short. God Bless the Alspach family. My prayers are eternally with you.
Jerrell Wiggins
BNI c/o 96

Amber Rae Alspach

December 8, 2009

I want to start out with a few things you may not know about Rick:
• He was fluent in Italian and Spanish. His favorite words from each language being “Graci” spoken like the Italian Mafia and “Banos” which means bathroom in Spanish?
• He lived in a lake house right here in Dyer, IN
• He recently named one of his hairstyles “morning mist”
• He was rich
• He actually had 600 movies in his top 5
• He always had a Miami glow and it definitely was not from my bronzer ?
• He gave me the title “best looking girl in Northwest Indiana” – Gee Thanks Rick.
• If you were wondering why rick was so “ripped” it was because he walked an hour a day.
• Rick heard everything I said except when I would give him a compliment. He would always say what did you say? Just so he could hear it again.
• He knew that I hated when he called me an Amazon Woman so he started calling me Amberzon
• When we had kids he was going to have them call my mom G-Unit not grandma.
• He loved nothing more than to see some one experience something that he recommended for the first time. And he LOVED when that person loved it.
• He loved his family, friends and life more than anyone I have ever met.

Ricky is the most AMAZING person I have ever met. During the hardest time I have ever experienced I have never been filled with more love and joy by the memory of my husband. He will be missed more than I can begin to say but we are all blessed to have been able to experience “The Rick” and his beautiful life.

His passion for life and enthusiasm for things that he loves is simply unmatchable. I hope that everyone takes Rick’s vibrant personality and puts a little bit of it into their own lives because it is such a truly magical thing. We simply need more Rick in our lives.

I want all of you to know that he was so loved. I adored him, supported him and loved him more than words could ever say. He was in very good hands so do not doubt his happiness. He was so happy in life particularly right now in life. He felt like he was on top of the world. For the first time he had everything that he wanted and I know because he told me.

I ask all of you to take a piece of Rick with you and spread that unique joy that he had to others. Always remember what a truly amazing person he was and keep his family and friends in your prayers.

So please come visit us again my little hummingbird.

I love you soooo much hunny bunny

Love Always and Forever,

Amber Rae

Damen Garcia

November 3, 2009

Rick,
I just heard of your untimely passing. When we worked together at Sam's you were the funniest guy i knew.. Quick witted, humorous and always made a bad day at least something to smile about.. People were always drawn to your electric personality.. It's sad the world has lost such a truely great person... my heart goes out to your family.

Justin Sharpe

September 25, 2009

I simply want to express my condolences to Rick's family. He was truly a light in the world and as all the entries express he will be missed! May God be with you.

Trey and Ashley Dorman

September 19, 2009

My buddy Rick,

I feel obligated to apologize to you for the delay in writing to you however am confident that you have heard our many prayers for your family and your beloved Amber Rae.

Over the past few weeks I have been overwhelmed by the touching entries detailing the experience or impact that Rick has had on many of you.

While I did not have the honor of knowing Rick as long as most of you, I understand the connection because even though I only knew him for a short time he still had the same profound impact on my life as he did yours.

You see, my wife Ashley and I had the honor and pleasure of meeting Rick and Amber on their honeymoon in the Bahamas. On our first day, I was making my way down to the pool bar when I noticed a handsome gentlemen to my left struggling to get a drink as I was. We quickly recognized that we had the same struggle and began to swap stories. After our introductions, we realized that we had a lot in common and he motioned to the beach and his beautiful wife Amber Rae came to meet my wife Ashley. This short moment would change our lives forever.

The four of us quickly made friends and planned to meet up again as we had many different qualities in common. It was clear that Rick shared the same respect, love and appreciation for his beautiful bride that I did as we were both on our honeymoons.

Over the next few days, all four of us spent hours on end sharing our hopes, dreams, fears and ambitions together. Rick was a person that people gravitated towards. I witnessed this day after day at our resort as people seemed to be unable to stay away from Rick and his zest for life. Whether it be the endless days on the island, him ordering bottles of wine for dinner or his Karaoke Elvis songs that brought down the house everyone loved him.

Even though we only spent 5 days with Rick and Amber, he truly had a profound impact on the way I live my life. His positive energy was intoxicating and his love for Amber was inspiring.

To the Alspach Family:

Thank you for raising such a wonderful man. Rick is a shining example of the way life should be lived. My wife and I were honored to share the precious time with Amber and Rick that we did.

To Amber Rae:

We hope that your many happy memories may comfort you in this difficult time. You are a strong woman and hope you know that Rick is shining down on you and will forever be by your side. As you already know, Ashley and I are here for whatever you may need and pray for you daily.

Rick,

I can honestly say that as I type these words tears are streaming down my face however it is comforting to know that God has taken you because he only takes the special ones. As much as we all loved you he truly needed you because you were special. Just know that we are smiling about the wonderful times that we had and cannot wait to see you again.

All of our love and prayers,

Trey & Ashley Dorman
(Your Honeymoon Buddies)

Phyllis Maruszczak

September 16, 2009

Sue,Rick,Nikki & Family,

My heart aches for you. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers every day. May God be with you. And keep watching for those feathers, humming birds and butterflies and know that Rick is watching over you.

Sylvia (Baca) De Jesus

September 9, 2009

Nothing that is loved is ever lost...
No one who has touched a life,
Who has brought beauty into the world is ever truly gone.
May God Bless your family always,

September 9, 2009

rick, i am so sorry for the loss of your son. i can't even imagine what you and your family are going through. you are in my prayers. god bless you eddie malloy

September 8, 2009

Dear Amber and Family:
I am so sorry for your loss. I cannot find any words that would console you and your loved ones, nonetheless I want to tell you I have you in my prayers. Love Mary Skoubis (Drake Hotel)

Glenn, Laura & Jake Wright

September 8, 2009

A rose once grew where all could see,sheltered beside a garden wall,And as the days passed swiftly by,it spread its branches, straight and tall...
One day, a beam of light shone through a crevice that had opened wide ~the rose bent gently toward its warmth then passed beyond to the other side
Now, you who deeply feel its loss,be comforted ~ the rose blooms there ~its beauty even greater now, nurtured by God's own loving care.

Please accept our deepest sympathies. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Carrie (Chocholek) Johnsen

September 7, 2009

Nicole and family,
I know it's been several years since we've seen each other, but I can still remember the days at St. Adalberts and St. John that you, Rick and I shared. Please know that I am thinking of you and praying for your family during this difficult time. God bless.

Nancy (Derybowski) Smith

September 7, 2009

Dear Susie, Rick and Family,
I am so sorry for the loss of your son Rick. It breaks my heart knowing what you are all going through. I will always remember him from the days that our children grew up together at St. John, and also the processions that they were in at St. Al's Church when they were young. From everything that I have been reading the past few days about Rick, he must have been a very special and loving person who touched everyone's life in a special way. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers, and that God will take care of your son in heaven.

Terry Zapinski

September 5, 2009

Hey Buddy,
Thanks, for all you have given us. Living each day to the fullest and not being afraid to wear your heart on your sleeve are lessons from you I will always treasure. Relaxing days, random lunches, and raucous nights won’t be the same but a piece of you lives in all of us so your presence will always be felt. Don’t worry too much about us; for while we have all cried this week, we cried together… and if one of us should lose our way the others will help guide them.
Watching your Amber stand against this storm with grace and dignity shows her true strength; but I guess I don’t need to tell you that, she did manage to tame “The Rick.” We are all better for you bringing her into our lives.
Your family is amazing. Their pride for you shines so bright, even through their tears. While I thought I was there to help comfort them, it was through their love for you, and open arms toward me, that I found my own consolation. For that, I will always be grateful. You will be missed, my friend, but never forgotten.

Nikki Culp

September 5, 2009

To my beloved twin brother Ricky,

I find that this is the single hardest thing I've ever had to do. How do I put into words what you mean to me? My heart is not only broken but half of it is gone. You have taught me countless things, and have changed my life in ways only you could. My vows to you are twofold.
1- I have decided (to the chagrin of all around me) to remove my filter. Whatever comes to my mind is coming out of my mouth, as you so ungracefully did. I'm sure I will now be considered "the nick".
2- I will live everyday as if it were my last. God help Amber, even at 7am you were full of questions and energy.

You were the best part of all of us, and our lives are less full. You and I were as close as 2 people could possibly be and I ache for you. There are so many unanswered questions, for instance:

-Who will sing Elvis karaoke and swear they sound better than the original.
-How will we know which new restaurant is the new top 5?
-What will your blow-dryers existence be without 30 minutes of constant blowing?
-Restaurants around the world will have boxes of unused condiments. What will become of them?
-How will my dad get through his workday without 50 interruptions?
-How will I ever find out who drove over my front lawn at 3am?

So, as you can see, life will be left with many important questions unanswered.

I will love and miss you everyday of my life. I promise to make you proud through every person I irritate. Your zest for life cannot be matched, but we will give it our all. I love you my baby brother (by a minute, it counts!) and I can't wait to be embraced by your plush body once again!

To my sweet and ever patient sister Amber Rae,
If I had been able to design a perfect person for Ricky, I would not have come close to your perfection. I have never seen my other half so totally happy and in love. I am in debt to you forever. You made him the best possible version of him. We weren't sure there actually was someone out there to take Ricky on. You not only took him, but loved him for all his idiosyncrasies. What a WOMAN! We prayed for you on a daily basis but it turned out you didn't need those prayers. You are one of the most amazing people I know. My cup runneth over! My vow to you is to accomplish every one of Ricky's dreams with you. We will go to the ends of the earth if need be to see everything he wanted to show you. Please don't get me wrong though, I will NEVER sing karaoke! You are now my piece of Ricky and you cannot escape me. You're stuck with me. I love you endlessly!

Your less funny other half,
Nikki (the nick)

Eric Culp

September 5, 2009

The Rick - as delivered 9/3/09
I am not hear to lament the passing of Rick, but to celebrate his life as Amber has graciously asked me to do. Because he loved the life he lived. He liked to enjoy it, and live it to the fullest, and in the process made all our lives better.
If you truly knew and loved Rick, which all of you obviously did or you wouldn't be here....than at one point in your life, there were things about Rick that annoyed you. Because, if you truly knew everything about him...all his idiosyncrasies and mannerisms, it was impossible not to. In thinking of what I could say to honor Rick, I decided nothing could be better than a top 5. However, once I started writing, the reasons came so fast I had to make it into a top 10. So these are the top 10 ways Rick annoyed us, and made us love him.
10. Just the fact that I am doing this starts us off with number 10. Rick loved top 5's. Every category of his life had a top 5. Top 5 Italian restaurants within Chicago city limits. Top 5 romantic comedies set in New York. Whatever the topic, movie, food, sports team or player, Rick placed them into a Top 5 category. And we loved it.
9. The Rick. First off, only Rick would give himself a nickname. Not a clever name, or a name that has some secret meaning among friends, but Rick nicknamed himself The Rick. He took his own name, added The to the front and pronounced he was The Rick. We accepted the nickname, we programmed him into our phones as the The Rick and we loved it.
8. Karaoke - I have never met someone who loved karaoke more than Rick. He would plan his schedule around local karaoke nights. He entered contests. He did it on vacation. Anywhere. Karaoke was one thing, but his version of the events as they happened was completely different. After one of his countless renditions of "Can't Help Falling in Love" he would tell us how much the audience loved him. It was truly amazing. Weeks later they would be talking about The Rick and his spectacular voice and stage presence. I loved it.
7. Rick's Sports Teams - Bears, Cubs, and Notre Dame football. He was not only a fan, but a true fanatic. To that end, he was the most frustrating person to watch a game with. Bears are losing 3-0 at halftime. Rick would say, "This games over, Bears are terrible." No exaggeration. Last season, 2nd series of the Cubs year was versus the Brewers at Wrigley field. The Cubs lost either 2 of 3 or all 3 games and the morning email message from Rick stated that the Cubs were done and needed to fire everyone and start from scratch. Classic Rick, loved it.
6. Post shower ritual - Absolutely no excuse ever for a grown man to use a blow dryer. Ever. The Rick post shower would not only blow dry his hair, but his entire body. If I had never seen this, I wouldn't believe it. Following his thorough blow drying he would proceed to powder his sensitive skin before finally getting dressed. I couldn't make this stuff up, but I loved it.
5. Rick posing in photos - most people, when asked, look at the camera and smile when taking a picture. I would challenge anyone of you to find a picture of Rick where he is smiling and actually showing teeth. A smirk, a grin maybe. But Rick would never look at the camera and actually smile. Even his wedding pictures, closed mouth grin. Posing with my kids, same thing. No smile, just a classic pose. Loved it.
4. Dining with Rick - Going out to eat with Rick was an adventure. First, he tells you all about the restaurant. What is 'phenomenal' about the menu. What Top 5 category it fits into. Best crab cakes of all time. Fabulous. After the pre-meal talk the actual dining was nearly as comical. Rick orders his meal. Of course the meat has to be made a specific way. But more importantly, the sauce. Every meal I have ever been to with Rick he ordered extra sauce. Several extra sauces. Of all of these, he has probably used less than 10%. He loves to have it there, just in case. And I loved it.
3. Rick's mastery of the foreign languages - Amazing. He went on a 2 week trip to Italy to play on an international basketball team. Upon his return he would frequently throw in Italian words as part of his daily routine. As if he was slipping from his native language to Italian. Problem is I think i only heard him say Vino. And after he would say it he always followed with "that means wine in Italian"...thanks Rick, I wasn't sure. Loved it.
2. Before this list is through, it seems inappropriate to not mention the Mustang. It was all part of the The Rick. It would be 55 and partly cloudy in April and Rick would drive by in his Green Mustang with the top down. Classic, loved it.
1. Living the dream. This is what Rick lived by. He fully lived every moment. Whether it was filling his plate with extra sauce, relaxing on the couch watching a Bears game, or singing karaoke on a Tuesday night. He loved life. He would want us to remember him for that. We are all immensely saddened by the loss, but we need to continue to live the dream that Rick would want us too. And importantly appreciate all the things in life that we either overlook, or even pretend to dislike. Because once they are gone they are only memories. In Vegas at his wedding Rick said, "Most people come to Vegas to get lucky, I came because I am lucky." That sums up how we should approach every moment. Don't do it for me, don't do it for yourself but Live the Dream everyday to honor the Rick, because we are all so lucky to still have the chance to do that.

Rita Poplawski-D'arcy

September 4, 2009

Dearest Susie, Rick and Family: I am sorry that I did not know Rick as well as others did but I do know you Sue and your family and know how loved and cared for he was. As a mother I can not fathom the loss of a child, my heart breaks for you. Know that you will always be in my thoughts and prayers, I am only sorry I did not get to know Rick and experience his love and zest for life. May God keep you all in his care

Theresa Miceli

September 4, 2009

The Lord bless you and keep you.
The Lord make His face shine upon you and give you peace. Amen.

Love, Strength, and Prayers to all of you.

Dana & Danelle Anderson

September 4, 2009

To the Alspach Family,

I cannot believe I am writing about Rick (Spach) on his obituary page. Rick was like a brother to me. We were roommates in college, teammates and great friends. Like a lot of friendships, we didn't see each other over the last few years as much as we should have but I have memories of him that will last a lifetime. There isn't much I can say that hasn't been said on this site already (what an honor these messages are for
Rick - he would be so proud) but in honor of keeping up with Rick's "lists" below is my Top 10 List of Spach. We've known each other for almost 12 years and as I look back on our friendship, this is what I'll remember him by. I will be sharing his legacy with my kids one day...

#10 - his love for BASKETBALL
(we first met as teammates in college)

#9 - his COMPETITIVENESS
(when we first met we did not get along. Rick thought I was there to take his position - C'mon, he's "Shooter", I couldn't do that!!!)

#8 - DINNER & A MOVIE
(as wild and crazy as Rick was in college, an ideal night for him would be ordering a pizza and watching a movie - more times than not a romantic comedy)

#7 - SWINGERS
(this movie was a guide for how he tried to live his life in college - Vince Vaughn was his idol)

#6 - ELVIS & FRANK
(I don't need to mention why this made my Top 10 but I will share something you may not know...every night in college we would have a "night capper". The term "night capper" referred to Rick playing an Elvis or a Frank song before we went to bed)

#5 - COUNTRY MUSIC
(aside from basketball, this is another reason why Rick and I became such great friends and roommates - we both loved Country)

#4 - LOVED LIFE
(it's ironic that this was our saying in college whenever we were having "good times", we would say to each other "I'm loving life, you loving life?".

#3 - SENSE OF HUMOR
(I never met a guy who was as goofy as Rick - at the very least, he would have a witty comment in ANY situation)

#2 - LOVE FOR FAMILY
(All through college after every holiday we would get back on campus and Rick would brag about his family traditions. #1 on that list was going to Frankenmuth, MI during Christmas season)

#1 - LOVE FOR AMBER
(I only had the pleasure of being around Rick and Amber a couple of times but Rick definitely married his solemate and they deserved each other)

Alspach Family, it tore my heart going through the funeral today. I can't imagine what you were all going through. Please know that Rick will live forever with
me and my family. He was one of a kind and will be forever missed.

Amber, because of you, Rick died happy and in love - what more can we all ask for? He was my "brother" and I will never drink a glass of wine or listen to Frank or Elvis the same way again.

Rick, here's to you buddy. This is quite away to get out of loosing a golf bet. I will see you again one day and I will be looking to collect...

- Dana

September 4, 2009

DEAR ALSPACHS,

MAY YOU FIND STRENGTH AND COMFORT AT THIS TRAGIC TIME IN YOUR MEMORIES OF
RICK AND MAY YOU MAKE HIS MEMORY A BLESSING THROUGH YOUR OWN LOVING KINDNESS.

CORDIALLY,

SAUL LERNER, PH.D.
PROFESSOR OF HISTORY
PURDUE UNIVERSITY CALUMET

Susie (Navta) Carpen

September 4, 2009

Dear Susie and Family:
Accept my deepest and most heartfelt sympathies. May the warm thoughts and caring prayers of family and friends be a comfort to you at this difficult time.
No matter how heavy your load or how burdened your heart is, there is one who knows all about it and feels each sorrow you bear. He hears every prayer that you whisper and His answers will come from above, just trust in His unfailing mercy and find peace in His wonderful love. May you rest secure with the promises of God, find peace in His presence and comfort in His love.
Your beloved Rick is just away but he will always be a part of all the wonderful cherished memories that will live forever in your hearts! (The wonderful memories I have of our childhood days on Lincoln Avenue continue to warm my heart and bring a smile to my face.)
Rick has journeyed far with an angel as his guide and found a heavenly paradise with God by his side. He has found peace and is safe in God's loving care. The Lord is near to all who call upon Him.
God's blessings to you all,

Brian Fogarty

September 4, 2009

Rick was without a doubt the most unique person I have ever met. I told him all the time he was one in a million. For the past few days memories of The Rick have consumed me entirely. The best part of all is, when I finally think I have gone through them all, about 50 more pour into my conscience. The worst part is that I planned on making thousands more memories with you Rick, and now that you are gone.........
I miss you Ricker. I will never forget you,

Tony Scheub

September 4, 2009

Rick, I hope that I can make such an impression on half the people that you have. I have meet hundreds of people playing basketball at Redar Park but you and Matt really stood out. That wasn't just because you guys could hoop either. I loved it when you showed up because I knew we were going to have a blast. I still remember painting your house with Donovan and working that summer for him with you. You have touched so many people and I hope through stories about your life you will touch many more. My prayers are with your family.

Tony Pasaye

September 3, 2009

My deepest sympathies to Tim and the entire Alspach Family.

Andreas Therapos

September 3, 2009

I wanted to send my deepest sympathies to the entire Alspach family during this difficult time. Rick was a teammate of mine at North Park. I will always remember his humor and how he made playing at North Park fun. He will be missed. God Bless.

Tim & Kristie Klein

September 3, 2009

Our prayers are with you all. We've know Rick for a long time...in many different ways. College craziness...to seeing him at church on Sundays now. He will be missed by many. But as said before, his smile and kind words were worth millions! We are so sorry for your loss.

Jay Gianotti

September 3, 2009

My deepest condolences to the Alspach Family. I only really knew Rick from German class in high school, but as was said tonight, you only needed to meet him once to know just what a great guy he was. He will be sorely missed.

September 3, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers go out to you Sue and Rick I can't imagine the pain your hearts feel. Hopefully time will heal them...I will continue to pray for your family. We will miss Rick and the family parties..Amber...you were the love of his live and I hope you to will heal..
Love, Tom & Barb Culp

Matt Tonkovich

September 3, 2009

To the Alspach Family, my deepest condolences. You are in my prayers during this very tragic time.

Sara (Hossa) Grenchik

September 3, 2009

To Nicole and the Alspach Family - You are in our thoughts and prayers during this diffcult time. Rick was an amazing human being with such a zest for life and he will be truly missed. I can't remember seeing him without seeing a smile on his face. His infectous enthusism will always be remembered and live on in our hearts and minds. Love, Steve and Sara Grenchik

September 3, 2009

Dear Alspach Family,

I am deeply saddened to hear about the death of your son! I am so sorry to hear about this tragic event. I just wanted to extend my condolences to the family. I'm sorry I wasn't able to make the wake or funeral. To Dan and Steve, I am so sorry for your loss and if you ever need to talk, I am always available! Once I again, I am saddened by this unfortunate event!

My Best,

Luke Torok, son of Jim and June Torok

Frank & Carol Vargo

September 3, 2009

To the entire Alspach Family-
We would like to express our deepest sympathy on your tragic loss. Rick and Nicole were among my favorite students in that class at St. John the Baptist. Rick was always quick with the correct answer, enthusiastic, and eager to contribute to the class. I remember his skills and leadership on the basketball court at St. John. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

September 3, 2009

To the Alspach Family & Friends of Rick:

I extend to you my most sincere and deepest condolences. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

The Glombicki Family

CINDY O'OCONNOR - ALLEN

September 3, 2009

SUE AND FAMILY
OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHIES TO YOU AND YOUR
FAMILIES. OUR HEARTS GO OUT TO YOU. WE ARE KEEPING YOU IN OUR PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS.

LOVE
CINDY & BRIAN ALLEN

CINDY O'OCONNOR - ALLEN

September 3, 2009

Be Still

Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.

Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.

If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.

Kathy Botica

September 3, 2009

Alspach Family,
Please accept our deepest sympathies. We got to know Rick as the referee at Bridgeport Catholic Academy. What a wonderful guy! So patient and kind! He made learning the game of basketball fun for all the boys and girls. So, on behalf of all the boys and girls whose life Rick touched "Thank You". May God bless you.
The Botica Family
Saint Gabriel Catholic School

Julie Wade

September 3, 2009

To the entire Alspach family -
I was so saddened to hear about the sudden and unexpected loss of Rick. I, too, had the pleasure of knowing Rick and Nicole in high school. His tremendous energy and zest for life was truly contagious. I'm so sorry that he had to leave this life early but we all know he is looking down from above. My sincere prayers and deepest sympathies are with your entire family at this very difficult time.

Kate Schnosenberg

September 3, 2009

When I heard that Rick had passed I didn’t believe it and still cant! I ran into him at my cousin’s wedding awhile back and first thing he did was point to his fiancé. It was really so sweet. I have funny memoires of the random stuff he would say or imitate that just made you bust out laughing! His friends really adored him and loved him. I pray for his family, his wife, and his many many friends that are going through such sadness.

Jim and Karen Wilson

September 3, 2009

To Amber, the Alspachs, and the Culps, we extend our deepest sympathy to you all. Rick was a great human being, full of character and charisma, and will certainly be missed. Please do not hesitate to ask if any help is ever needed. - The Wilson Family

September 3, 2009

To the Alspach family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time. We will remember the fun times we had with Rick and will miss him very much.
Our deepest sympathy,
Keith and Pat (Stevenson) Dzija

September 3, 2009

We are very sorry to hear about Rick. Our thoughts and prayers are with Amber Rae, and the Alspach family during this difficult time. Please hold on to all of the wonderful memories you had with Rick.

Your Friends at Centier Bank in Dyer

Geoff Laciak

September 3, 2009

To the Alspach family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Rick was truly an amazing individual. As a friend, I was truly amazed with the determination and passion with which he approached everything that he did. His desire to succeed was only outmatched by his goal of making everyone around him as happy as he was.

Rick, thank you for being a great friend. I will look back on all of the great times that we had and smile thinking of you. I will carry a piece of you with me forever.

God bless you Rick, I will never forget you.

Kate Strause

September 3, 2009

Even though it was only a year, I feel honored to have had the opportunity to be in Ricky's life. He has inspired me, like many, to live my life to the abosolute fullest. My heart goes out to Amber and the Alspach family. The Alshpach family has taken me in as your own, and again I feel honored. All of you are one of a kind. I am with you through this heartache, and Ricky will always be in my heart. I love you all dearly.

Maria (Kasprzycki) Hansen

September 3, 2009

Dear Alspach Family,
My heart goes out to all of you during this difficult time. Rick was a wonderful person. He always had a big bright smile and never seemed to have a care in the world. He had a beautiful family that cared so much for him and I'm so glad to have known him. A life well lived.
My prayers go out to Rick. You will be missed by all.

Georgia Stanojcic (nee Kollintzas)

September 3, 2009

To Amber,Mr. and Mrs. Alspach, Nicole,Tim, Dan and Steve and the rest of Rick's family, I offer you my sincere condolences and prayers. Your husband, son and brother was a larger than life human being with a radiant smile,never ending sense of humor and an enormous heart. I met Rick and his sister Nicole when I came to St. John for 7th grade and we went all the way to high school together. The Basketball court is where I would always run into Rick.Since the girls team and boys team would often have practice before or after each other. He was either goofing off,telling stories, perfecting his shot and always smiling. Even though we never really kept in contact since high school,except seeing him here and there a few times. I appreciated knowing him and his friendship. That smile,sense of humor and giant heart makes me regret the fact that I didnt keep in contact with him and his sister... As I sat here the other night sick to my stomach and wondering how the family was and wondering why the "good die young", I went and grabbed my senior yearbook to look Rick up and sure enough the beginning of the yearbook, page 4 in fact, shows Rick taking half the page with his arms out to his side dancing. And that put the biggest smile on my face and I realized he is still very much apart of everyday life.He will be watching down on his wife, family and friends.. God Bless Amber, and the whole family, and mostly you, Rick. You will never be forgotten..Sadly,you have taught many people through your death the way we should handle life, with no regrets and to live each moment and appreciate everything and everyone. I know I will now...

"Some people come into our lives and walk all over us.
Others walk into our hearts and leave their footprints.."

Aaron Dudek

September 3, 2009

My deepest sympathy to everyone who knew this man especially his immediate family and new bride Amber Rae. I knew Rick extremely well and I considered him one of my best friends. Although I only knew him for about 8 years we grew very close and it seemed more like a lifetime. He always made me laugh and he brought out the best in me and I will surely never forget him. I am certain stories of the Ricker will be told for years and years to come as the memories I have of him still live on. Some of the best times of my life were spent with him and I will cherish those moments forever. Please accept my sincere condolences as we are all at a great loss due to the passing of this extraordinary man. I will keep you all in my prayers and I hope we can all remember him as he would have wanted us to... As the Ricker.

"buddies for life I'm thinkin..."

May God Bless
Love,
Aaron & Jayne Dudek

Laina Henrichs

September 3, 2009

I'm so sorry for your loss, it is true that if you met Rick once you remember him forever. My thoughts and prayers are with your beautiful wife and family. Rest In Peace.

gina pucci-lany

September 3, 2009

Dear Rick,
i have not seen you since grade school and back then you were beautiful as you are now your were kind, helpful, funny , a good friend, and inspiration, and so much more i really wish i could of known you in your adult years im sure amber your wife is a extreamly special and beautiful person and both of you were so very lucky to experience a love like yours from what i read it was rare but rick you were a very rare kind of person so it dont surprise my that you had a special kind of love like that anyone who knew you then or now knows exactly what i am talking about thank you rick for being a part of my child hood i only have great and wonderful memories may you rest in peace you will never be forgotten rick

Georgean Benak

September 3, 2009

Years ago I worked at Hammond-Whiting Care Center and got to know this wonderful woman, Martha. She took so much pride in her family. During that time I got to meet Sue and Rick and thier children. I remmber thinking what a lucky woman Martha is to have such a lovely family. I am so sorry for the loss of your son. I hope you find peace in knowing that he is not alone, but with a grandmother who loves him. God bless you and keep you strong.
Georgean Benak

Sam Oliverio

September 3, 2009

Rick, Sue and family,
My deepest condolences to you in this most difficult of times. It's apparent that your son was loved by many with all of the online comments displayed, and will surely be remembered and missed. Please know that I am thinking of you.

Brian Laciak

September 3, 2009

My sympathy and prayers are with the Alspach family at this very difficult time. Rick had a smile that would light up a room and a personality to match. I feel truly blessed to have known him and will cherish all of the great memories I have of Rick forever. Rest in peace my friend. You will be missed and never forgotten.

Laura (Wawrzyniak) Frank

September 3, 2009

I graduated from high school with Rick and Nikki, I am so, so very sorry for the loss that you are all experiencing. I know, with all my heart, that you now have an energetic, loyal, and wonderful guardian angel to watch over you all. God bless you all.

Jeff Lukich

September 3, 2009

To the Alspach family, my deepest and most sincere sympathies for your tremendous loss. I go way back with all of you and Mr. & Mrs. Alspach, I thank you for always welcoming me into your home. It was absolutely great to see you all in Vegas for the wedding, and that's something I consider very special to me. My thoughts will always be with you all.

My boy Rick, as I sit here laughing and crying and smiling about everything we've done, it's a tremendously powerful thing to realize the impact you've had on me, even on a daily basis. You always had the amazing ability to turn stupid things into fun, fun things into epic experiences, smart things into dumb conversations, and dumb conversations into something meaningful. I am so deeply saddened that I won't have anymore smart or dumb conversations with you. You always accepted me for who I am, and for that I will always love you. I will do my best to look after and help your beautiful Amber. The love I witnessed between you two will be an inspiration forever. She knows how I feel about you both, and I promise to always remind her of that. You truly are a light in my life, one that will never dim or fade. You were the glue that made us all stick, and I thank you for that. I will never be the same without you. With you goes a part of me, and you will never know how much you will be missed. Until I see you again.....I love you brother.

Ryan & Megan Sjostrom

September 3, 2009

Your husband, brother and son will be greatly missed by all of the parents and children in the Bridgeport Catholic Basketball League. Rick was not only a referee, he became a mentor to both the boys and girls that he helped with the game. His love for the sport of basketball showed through time and time again while also showing his love for the children. He will be greatly missed.

Eric Culp, brother.....in-law

September 3, 2009

We have regrets. Jobs we didn't get, people we lost touch with, material things we couldn't obtain.

Rick has no regrets. He left us way too early. But, he lived his life to the fullest while he was with us. If you met him, you remembered him. Whether it is a funny story, a basketball memory, or his infectious laugh and smile, something sticks in your mind about Rick.

So yes, be saddened by his loss. But know that he found everything in life that he desired. Happiness with his dear family, memories and laughs with his literally hundreds of friends, and immense love with his adoring bride.

So, mourn him, but more importantly live your life the way he did...for every moment. He will be missed always and never forgotten, his life made all of ours better.

Steve Zielinski

September 3, 2009

Dear Rick,

You are truly one of a kind. Through the pain of this week and the struggle to grasp the reality of life without you, that is one thing that I continue to find comfort in. There will never be another Ricker, and however unfair your death seems to me, I are lucky for the time that we spent together. You were a brother to me. We laughed, we bickered, and we expected a lot of each other. I am sorry that I was sometimes too hard on you. And I hope that I was the friend to you that you deserved.

I promise you that we will all take care of Amber and your family. They love you so much and feel such a void without you around.

I promise you that we will keep you around. You fortunately left us with enough stories to fill a lifetime, and you will be toasted and celebrated for the remainder of our lives.

I promise that part of you will live through each one of us forever, you have touched our soul and have left a mark. And because of that you will never die.

I love you, we love you, and we miss you,
Z

Terri & Brian Lukich

September 3, 2009

Sue & Rick, Amber, Family and Friends,
We can only echo all the wonderful sentiments that have been expressed over the past few days. We also remember the laughter; each and evey time that we saw Rick he would have us laughing until our sides hurt. Our hearts now ache because he touched them so deeply. We may not understand why he left this earth so soon or why he left before we got a chance to say good-bye, but little by little, we begin to remember not that he died but that he lived (and boy did he ever live). Rick, your life has given us memories too beautiful to forget.
God Bless.

September 3, 2009

Dear Sue and Family,
So sorry about your lost. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Love Cheryl Ebbeson

Jeff Pearson

September 3, 2009

I’ll never forget seeing Rick for the first time – a basketball game at Bishop Noll in early Jan of 1996. I remember the skinny kid w/ the “funky” hair, the wristband on his arm, who hated to lose, and had a dead-eye picture-perfect jump shot. After meeting his family that night, and getting to know Rick in the weeks and months after, I was convinced that our team and our campus would be a much better place if I could convince him to come to North Park University in my role as assistant basketball coach.

Rick wasn’t a one-dimensional basketball player or person. I knew he could shoot, but what I found out later was that Rick was unbelievably confident in his abilities; good wasn’t enough – he strived for perfection; he was an intense competitor, he loved to laugh and make others laugh with him; and had this ability to draw people to him. You just knew he was going to be really good at whatever he did and he was going to have fun doing it.

Jackie Robinson said: “A life is not important except in the impact it has on other lives”. When you read many of the notes on this guestbook – from people who knew Rick in the different aspects of his life, it’s clear to see that Rick had an impact on many people. Rick, you played the game of life hard and you played it well. You’re an All-Star!

May God grant peace to his wife and family.

Jeff Pearson

Linda Dorman

September 3, 2009

Rick always felt like a brother to me. Right from the start, we would pick on each other relentlessly. When things became more serious with he and Amber, I started to see the similarities in us and how we each dealt with Amber and Tom. That made me feel closer to him.

When my grandmother died, Rick came to the funeral, all by himself, I remember turning around and seeing him and how much comfort that gave me. He did not need to be there and the fact that he was, brought him closer to me and my family.

Over the past few years, Rick grew so much and had a zeal unmatched by anyone in my life so far.

My heart goes out to Amber Rae, Sue & Rick, Nikki, Tim, Dan & Steve. I love you all and we will always be here for you and I will always have a place for Rick in my heart and mind.

September 3, 2009

Dear Alspach and Rokosz families and Amber:
I remember when Rick and Nikki were born. I remember watching them grow up, especially in church, following them into adulthood and their marriages. All week I have been thinking of Rick and walking around with a heavy heart. I cannot imagine how you must feel. There are no words to adequately console you. However judging from the condolences written by his friends and acquaintances, it is very clear that Rick had grown into a wonderful, kind and loving man, a testament to your parenting. All of you will be in our thoughts and prayers these next few days and always.
Rose Murzyn Sikes-Hammnod, IN

Jack Ecker

September 3, 2009

My deepest sympathies to Amber and to Rick's entire family.

Carole Vrabel

September 3, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with the Alspach Family. Rick was a memorable student of mine at St. John the Baptist School. He will be missed but not forgotten.

September 3, 2009

I would like to express my thanks to all that have written the kind words regarding my beloved son Rick. it has eased my pain tremendously. Everything said was certainly true of Rick. Parents are supposed to lead and be the example to their children on how to deal with lives journey. The opposite is true here. My son showed me how insignificant the daily struggles and I guess the so called mature approach means. He was the example. Rick would tell me "dad you have to have fun" even in times of his lowest moments. Rick and his beautiful wife amber were so meant for each other. We the Alspach family are so blessed to have Amber in our life. Each time I would talk to Rick which may be several time a day the joy, the happiness and love of her overwhelmed me. There are people who go through life never experiencing total complete love of someone, Rick received it all with Amber.
Rick I love you and know I will have you with me every second, every minute, every hour, every day until god brings me home to you.
God hug my son for me
I love you,

Dad

Rosie Ramirez and Merlyn Murphy

September 3, 2009

Dear Amber, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this painful and difficult time. I was fortunate to see you and Rick a couple of weeks ago at Chuckie & Angie's wedding but I never had the opportunity to meet him. Just by looking at the two of you together, I could instantly tell that he adored you. By looking at your photographs, I could tell you both truly, deeply loved one another. I can't tell you enough how deeply sorry I am. My heart truly does ache for you. All I can say is that he'll always be there to comfort you, whether you're happy or sad, he'll always watch over you and protect you….he will be your guardian angel. Take it one day at a time.

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I find an old photograph and see your smile. As I feel your presence anew, I am filled with warmth and my heart remembers love.

Perhaps you are the morning bird singing joyfully at sunrise, or the butterfly that dances so carelessly on the breeze or the rainbow of colors that brightens a stormy sky or the fingers of afternoon mist delicately reaching over the mountains or the final few rays of the setting sun lighting up the skies edging the clouds with a magical glow.

I miss your being but I feel your presence, In whatever form you choose to take, however you now choose to be.

Your spirit has become for me a guardian angel on high guiding, advising, and watching over me.

I remember you. You are with me and I am not afraid.

Sue Alspach

September 3, 2009

Oh my beautiful son Ricky, how does one sum up such a unique and loving person. My mothers heart is aching for you and the life we had together. I can't begin to comprehend what we will all do without you in our midst. You have such a soft and generous loving heart for all of us. Me, daddy, Nikki, Tim, Dan and Steve, how can there now only be six of us. Your enormous zest for life, your love and devotion to all of us, your forever love for Amber, your sweet, loving, beautiful wife, how can we ever forget you or do without you. I so earnestly pray to our Lord and to his Mother who also suffered the unthinkable, to hold and keep you in their care, until mommy can once again hold you and kiss you and love you forever and ever Amen. My eldest son Rick Anthony, I Love You, Mom

September 3, 2009

Rick was the kind of friend that you could go a week, a month, a year without seeing and that moment that you catch up, it was like you just saw each other. His positive, easy going attitude was contagious and even if you were having a misrible day, he would brighten it in an instant.

I remember a time working in Chicago, I heard someone calling my name from a block away, only to see Rick in his car flagging me down. He threw is car into park, blocking traffic, just to say hello and shake my hand.

This is just one of the memories that I will carry with me about the Ricker. He was a great man and will be dearly missed.

As we struggle into the future with this loss, I know in my heart that Rick would not want us to mourn his loss, but rather to celebrate his life.

To Amber and his family - You are in my prayers, please find strength in your faith during this difficult time.

Clint

September 3, 2009

Thoughts, prayers, and sympathies go out to Rick's family. I met Rick during his many trips to visit Matt, and his attitude and spirit were infectious. He will be missed.

Dan Rohlfing

September 3, 2009

I played basketball against Rick when he was at North Park. I didn't know him other than as a competitor but I respected him. It was obvious how good a teammate he was. And I remember him burying us with 3 pointers at North Central over and over again. My heartfelt condolences to Rick's friends and family.

Judy Balkam Krause

September 3, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with the Alspach family and friends.

Cindy Poledziewski

September 3, 2009

As a fellow class of '96 BNI alumni, I would like to send my deepest sympathies to Rick's family. I too remember his smile and contagious positive attitude towards life. I keep you all in my prayers during this time.

September 3, 2009

Words cannot express the sorrow I am feeling for your family at this moment.

I pray that God gives you peace and please remember that Rick will always live on within each of you because of the love you have for him.

Again, I am so sorry for your loss and I know your pain; I lost my son too. My sincere condolences to the entire Alspach family. I will be praying for you.

God Bless!

September 3, 2009

Dearest Amber,
The sisterhood of Zeta Tau Alpha sends their condolences to you during this sad time. May the fond memories you shared help you in the days to come.
With Love,
"Mom P" and your Alpha Theta Sisters

Terri Bigheart

September 2, 2009

Rick will be greatly missed, but never forgotten. He loved life and making people happy. You are all in my prayers. Cherish the memories.

Love & Prayers,

Terri Bigheart - Rick's Teacher at BNI

Celina (Alvarez) Moisant

September 2, 2009

I am a fellow BNI alumni and was so sad to hear this news. My thoughts and prayers are with all of Rick's family, friends, and loved ones.

Jane Wisniewski

September 2, 2009

We were all heartbroken and saddened to hear about Rick. He was such a wonderful young man. We loved him dearly and are so very sorry for your loss. I saw him last summer and he was so happy! He gave me a great big hug and introduced me to his lovely fiance. He was so proud to show off the engagement ring. "I designed it myself!" he said so proud and with the biggest smile. It was clear that he was very much in love and I was so very happy for him!
It's just so hard to accept this; it doesn't seem real. Please know that we are grieving with you and that you are in our hearts and prayers. May the good Lord put his loving arms around you and bring comfort to you.

Michelle Teipel

September 2, 2009

Rick was simply one of the most amazing people I have ever met. He seemed genuinely happy every time I saw him. I would always think to myself, it’s just not normal for one person to be so happy all the time but I came to realize that was just Rick. He really lived his life to the fullest and cherished his time spent with his friends, family, and his wife Amber. I feel truly blessed to have known Rick. He will never be forgotten. My heart goes out to you Amber and all of his friends and family during this difficult time.
We love you Rick.

Steve Teipel

September 2, 2009

Even though I never told Rick this I really admired him. He was someone that had tremendous love for his family, friends, and wife Amber. He was the kind of person you didn’t forget even if you only met him one time. He always made everyone feel welcomed and wanted to make sure you were having a good time. His over the top comments kept the conversation going and you couldn’t help but respond. Recently, some of his crazy comments and ideas were referred to as Rickapedia. Some of my most fond memories from my own wedding involved The Rick. I thought it was so funny how Rick would get so passionate when he would talk about going for walks. I enjoy walks with my wife also but I wouldn’t go around telling people how great walking is for you, but that was just Rick. Rick was full of passion and enthusiasm and I have yet to meet anyone that can match it.

One thing that makes this all so difficult is in the 10+ years I have known Rick this is the happiest I have ever seen him. I know he was looking forward to what his future had in store for him.

My thoughts and prayers are and will continue to be with Amber, Rick’s family, and all his friends.

Tom Torluemke

September 2, 2009

There is a large hole in my heart. For a father to watch his daughter suffer so much, there can only be one thing worse, and that is for a mother to lose her child. I can only hope all the wonderful things that have been said by Amber & Rick's friends and family will come true and we will over time be healed.

Oh sure, Rick was the life of the party, funny, good-looking, and so enthusiastic and positive. But those are only some of the traits a father looks for in a man for his daughter.

More importantly
A father wants for his daughter;
A strong man that is tender
A caring man that has empathy
A family man
A faithful man
A man that will love and care for his daughter unconditionally until death do them part.

and that's what Rick gave me and my daughter.
We will love Rick forever.

John Albright

September 2, 2009

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers are with you all during this time. It has been over 13 years, but it seems like yesterday that I was in the halls of BNI with Rick and Nikki and Tim.

September 2, 2009

Danny & Steve, and the entire Alspach family, I am so truly sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Love Sue

Karley Moss Christel

September 2, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Kristi Stoutner

September 2, 2009

My thoughts and prayers go out to the Alspach family, and friends. I had the pleasure of meeting "The Rick" through my best friend Kelly Trissler about 9 years ago. I have many memories that I will always remember. Rick was an amazing person and will be missed by so many.

Natalie Navarro

September 2, 2009

I remember the first time that Amber described Ricky to me. How they had met at a wedding, How he really tried to impress her (he came in 3rd in the limbo competition). How insistent he was to gain her attention. She described his excitement, his enthusiasm, and of course, his persistence. It was the sound in Ambers voice that really caught my attention. I'd been listening to my baby's stories for 19 years, but she never sounded like this. I knew. I just knew.

As a parent, you hold your breath as your children grow up, hoping each experience brings them what they desire. That they are joyful, content and proud of themselves.

Rickys and Ambers journey together was truly a joy, and a gift. Theirs was a life of love, laughter and celebration. I feel blessed to have been a part of that journey with them.

There simply are no words to express how much Ricky was loved, how much he will be missed, but there are so many memories. We will continue to celebrate Ricky with those memories. We will cry and we will laugh but we will all be so grateful for what he gave us.

Thank you Ricky, you will always be with us.

Brenda (Zvonar) Podkul

September 2, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathies during this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you

Michelle Buikema

September 2, 2009

Tim and entire Alspach family, My deepset sympathies on the passing of Rick. I didn't know Rick all that well, but I attended Bishop Noll with Tim, and remember Tim always talking about his big brother Rick. May God hold you in the palm of His hand during this difficult time. Michelle (Kozlowski) Buikema

September 2, 2009

Sending my deepest sympathy to the Alspach and Blake Family during this very difficult time. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. May our loving God bring you peace and comfort in the days to come. Cherish the memories in the quiet of your hearts.
With sincere sympathy...

Linda Kazragys
St. John the Baptist School
Whiting, Indiana

Shellie Koetter

September 2, 2009

Nikki and family, With a very heavy heart I give you my deepest sympathies. I am stunned by the news and I will continue to keep thinking of all of you for a long time. My prayers are with you. God Bless you and your families.

September 2, 2009

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Rick Alspach. I am a fellow alumni of BNI, and remember Rick's humor. He was always a well-liked student, and I am sure he will continue his legacy in Heaven. You will be missed!

Matt Trissler

September 2, 2009

Rick and I have been best friends for 13 years. We had a bond that most people just aren't lucky enough to have with another friend. I am so thankful for the time I had with him. He was truly one of a kind. He could make me laugh both intentionally and unintentionally like nobody else. I was honored to be the best man at his wedding just a few short months ago....it gave me the opportunity to hug him and tell him I love him. Words cannot describe how much I am going to miss my friend.

To the Alspach family,
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Rick was an amazing person. I know that we will continue to share our favorite stories as time goes on. I love you all.

Amber,
My heart goes out to you. Rick loved you more than anything in the entire world. I remember how happy he was when he first met you and how happy you made him on your wedding day. I will always be here for you.

Maura (Seto) Gantz

September 2, 2009

Dear Alspach Family,
My condolences to all of you in this extremely difficult time. Please know that my thoughts and sympathies are with each of you. Rick was such a funny, outgoing and great person. He will never be forgotten.

Kelly Trissler

September 2, 2009

To everyone who knew and loved Rick I know your hearts are as heavy as mine. I have never met a man so full of love for everyone he met. I'm so truly blessed to have met him and been a part of so many memories. Rick and Amber were among some of my very best friends and I will cherish every single moment I had with them. Thank you Rick for all the beautiful memories, you will live on in my heart forever.
Love and miss you,
Kelly Trissler

Amber Rae Alspach

September 2, 2009

Ricky Baby is the most AMAZING person I have ever met. During the hardest time I have ever experienced I have never been filled with more love and joy by the memory of my husband. He will be missed more than I can even begin to say but we are all blessed to have been able to experience "The Rick" and his beautiful life.

His passion for life and enthusiasm for things that he loves is simply unmatchable. I hope that everyone takes Ricks vibrant personality and puts a little bit of it into their own lives because it is such a truly magical thing. We all simply need more Rick in our lives.

I thank everyone for their thoughts and prayers. I could not ask for better people in our lives. The warmth and love that has come from everyone means the world to myself, his family and friends. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

I love you Hunny Bunny :)

Sally (Garcia) Skowronski

September 2, 2009

Tim and Family,
I am very sorry to hear of the passing of your brother, Rick. My condolences to you and yours at this very difficult time. God's blessings to you.

September 2, 2009

September 02,2009

As I remember Rick and my son Tony playing basketball at Bishop Noll, I remember the love for the game that Rick shown. May the love in your hearts shine like a light and bring with you precious memories of Rick.

Lynette Ajibade-Lynwood, Illinois

Katie Garza

September 2, 2009

Dear Alspach family,
I am so sorry to hear about Rick's passing. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Katie Garza

September 2, 2009

Juan Lule

September 2, 2009

My condolences to the Alspach family. My family and I will be praying for you and your family......

Juan Lule and family

Karen Nee

September 2, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with the Alspach and Blake Families at this sad time. Rick was a positive, wonderful student of mine at St. John the Baptist Catholic Grade School. The faculty and staff are praying for you. Mrs. Karen Nee

Anna Dal Santo

September 2, 2009

My heart goes out to the whole Alspach family. I'm so very sorry to hear about your loss.

Christy Miller

September 2, 2009

Rick, Sue & Alspach Family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very painful time. I've been remembering so many wonderful childhood memories both Nancy and I had with Rick and Nicki. We were inseperable at times. Know that our entire extended Rokosz family is thinking of you.

Love,
Christy (Yerga) Miller and Family

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