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Mary Alpaugh
June 25, 2025
Tonka trucks, hot wheels and just playing for hours when everyone else was at school. Those are the memories I have of me an Steven. My family lived next door to him in NJ until we moved away when I was 10 years old. Some of my earliest memories are with my friend Steven. This might seem strange for many reasons. One, I just today found out that Steven passed away 15 years ago and secondly, because I haven't spoken his name for 49 years. Even so, when I found out that he had passed away, I felt that I needed to say something. Steven was my first friend. It was just the two of us until Scotty came along. My earliest memories, though, are with Steven. We were just young kids having fun. Again, I know this might sound strange if anyone is to read this so many years following his passing. You were a great first friend, rest in peace.
July 10, 2012
Had a dream about you the other night. Miss you. Love Karen
October 19, 2011
We miss you Steve, It's hard to believe it 's been a year.
Love, Mary, Taylor and Brooke
Mary Bernhard
February 7, 2011
This is the poem our daughter wrote and read at her dad's funeral.
Father
The shadows of your memory
Dance on the palm of my hand,
Unable to be held,
but it's only temporary
For we are forever in a band.
I hear your unheard voice
As I watch the beauty you create:
A man jumping in a cloud
With no choice of his own fate.
My hands burn in frustration
As our blood course through them,
Awaiting the sensation
To touch you once again.
And for everyday
Your feet don't touch the ground,
I will pray
Until I know you've been found.
Taylor Bernhard
May There be lot's of Hot Sauce in Heaven, We miss you Steve
Mary Bernhard
February 7, 2011
Psalm 46:9
January 14, 2011
God promised "He is making wars to cease to the extremity of the earth. The bow he breaks apart and does cut the spear in pieces; The wagons he burns in the fire." True eternal peace awaits us.
jo
January 9, 2011
may he rest in peace now.. may god bless you and yours at this sad time.. and thank you steve for our freedom
September 29, 2010
My deepest sympathy to Steve's family. Steve played on our football team at Lenape Valley HS. I coached him on the freshman team and his versatility as an athlete was instrumental to an 8-1 season. When injuries occured, Steve was asked to change positions so that the team could succeed. He was a special player - tough and very coachable. He will be missed. Rest in Peace Steven.
Doug deMarrais
Amanda Politis
September 27, 2010
I was so sorry to hear about your loss. My deepest condolences to the family. May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Zach Smith
September 26, 2010
Miss you buddy...God bless you,and may peace be with you and your family.
September 26, 2010
We extend our deepest sympathy to the family of Steven. May God Bless Him and His Soul Rest In Peace !
Al and Dale Ducote, Baton Rouge, LA
Kay Cascio
September 26, 2010
Mary, Taylor and Brooke, our deepest sympathy and loving thoughts to you in this difficult time. Know that Steve (Dad) is in a wonderful place and will be guarding and watching lovingly over you forever. Many hugs, Kay & Jerry
karen quinn
September 26, 2010
Steve, I will miss you.I hope your at peace.
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