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Durwood S. Curling CHESAPEAKE - Durwood Stewart Curling, 76, of the 300 block of Constance Drive, passed away Thursday, Aug. 5, 2010. Born in Old Norfolk County, he was the son of the late John DeBaun Curling and Rosa Lee Stewart Curling and was predeceased by daughters, Virginia Parham Curling, Carlos Stone Curling and Michelle DeBaun Curling. In early years, Durwood worked for the Tennessee State Planning Commission in Johnson City until he went on active duty in the U.S. Army. Following his Army tour, he went to Chapel Hill, N.C., where he was accepted into the University of North Carolina graduate program for city planning. After working for the state of North Carolina, he returned home, becoming Chesapeake's first director of Planning and later appointed as city manager. For the next 20 years, he served as executive director of the Southeastern Public Service Authority (SPSA) of Virginia. During his tenure, Mr. Curling served as president of the Solid Waste Association of North America while leading SPSA to numerous national and international awards. Participation in numerous civic activities include: charter member, elder and deacon in Great Bridge Presbyterian Church, former member of the Board of Directors at Bank of Hampton Roads, the Executive Committee and Board of Directors of the Great Bridge Battlefield and Waterways Foundation, past president of Future Hampton Roads and Chesapeake Jubilee Inc. He was also a past chairman of the Board for the United Way of South Hampton Roads, Elizabeth River District Boy Scouts of America, Southeastern VA Planning District Commission, Metropolitan Planning Organization and Friends of Chesapeake Parks to name a few. Left to cherish his memory are his loving wife of 54 years, Virginia Stone "Ginger" Curling; a daughter, Sharon Curling Lessard and husband Rene; a son, Lee Stewart Curling and wife Amy; grandchildren, Virginia Louise Lessard, Kellan Lee Lessard, Jared Stewart Curling and Ian William Curling; two brothers, W. Ray Curling and wife Louise, John Beverly Curling and wife Joan; a sister, Doris Curling Morse; an aunt, Mary Curling Gammon; as well as numerous nieces, nephews, cousins and a large extended family. The funeral will be conducted at 1 p.m., Monday, Aug. 9, at Great Bridge Presbyterian Church, 333 Cedar Road, Chesapeake. The Rev. Tom Mercer will officiate. The interment will follow in Chesapeake Memorial Gardens. The viewing will begin on Sunday with the family receiving friends from 6 to 9 p.m. at the Great Bridge Chapel of Oman Funeral Home & Crematory, 653 Cedar Road, Chesapeake. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Great Bridge Battlefield and Waterways Foundation (GBB&WHF), P.O. Box 15425, Chesapeake, VA 23328 or to Great Bridge Presbyterian Church, 333 Cedar Road, Chesapeake, VA 23322. Friends are invited to sign the online guest book at www.omanfh.com.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Aug. 7, 2010.

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Felicia Blow

August 11, 2010

Durwood was a mentor, friend, and was truly a great man. He was honest, courageous, visionary, straight-forward and he loved people. He particularly loved his fellow comrades at SPSA. I will miss him dearly. Much love to you and the kids and grandkids... Ginger

Cheryl Williams

August 9, 2010

Ginger, my thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. Durwood was such an amazing person -- so many great memories of him from over the years at SPSA. My heart goes out to you now and in the days ahead. Rest in peace Durwood.

Aimee Hart

August 9, 2010

From a famous writer or so I have heard..."I beg of you, do not forget me when the phenomenon of death visits me. Oh, keep my memory alive. For if you forget me, only then will I surely die." Mr. Curling could never be forgotten...his knowledge, his charm, his whit and his professionalism will always be revered and regarded. Our hearts are with the Curling family...fondly, The Hart's.

August 9, 2010

Our prayers and thoughts are with you during this time. I remember the many stories my dad (Otis Curling) would tell about the younger Curlings as they were growing up! Cynthia Curling Bauer

Bill Moore

August 9, 2010

I had the distinct pleasure of working with Durwood many times during his tenure as Executive Director of SPSA. When I think of the word gentleman, Durwood is always the first person to come to mind. He was one of the most professional executives I have ever had the pleasure to come in contact with. Not only was he an asset to the City of Chesapeake, he was a tremendous supporter of the entire Hampton Roads area. The betterment of the community was always first and foremost to him. He was such a wonderful human being and will be soley missed.

Fred Bateman

August 8, 2010

Durwood was a smart and capable leader who led the city through challenging times. He was a friend and mentor to me and many others along the way. Ginger, our thoughts and prayers are with you. Joan and I hope that you can take comfort during this difficult time in the happy memories and the wonderful contributions to the city that you both made together. Fred Bateman

Doris ToddMurden

August 8, 2010

Durwood does not remember me but I remember him. When I was sent to Great Bidge from Portlock High he graduated the year that I was sent to Great Bridge. South Norfolk took over Portlock and I had to be sent to Great Bridge. Rest in peace, Durwood. Doris
My sympathy goes out to his family & friends!

August 7, 2010

Durwood Curling was one of the greatest leaders in Chesapeake's history and will be solely missed. As Director of Planning and later City Manager, he helped guide the city through it's early life. Durwood was my mentor and guided me through the early years of my life. He hired me when I was 13 years old as a summer intern in the Planning Department and found planning related summer jobs for me until I graduated with MA in Planning where I then worked in the Chesapeake Planning Department. With his support & advice I switched to the economic development field where I am presently Director of ED near Wilmington, NC. Durwood mentored a number of others in his life and we will always be eternally grateful. Ginger I wish I could be there Monday but know I will be thinking and praying for you.

Jim Bradshaw
Bolivia, NC

Ron & Angie Mangiaracina

August 7, 2010

In loving memory to a good friend -- he will be missed...Ginger, we love you and our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. So many happy memories......40 years worth!

Lynne & Don Short

August 7, 2010

Ginger, John, Doris, Ray, and children: We are so sorry for your loss. Durwood was a wonderful man and leaves behind many wonderful memories for all of us. We are praying for the entire family. God bless you all. Love, Lynne & Don Short

August 7, 2010

Ginger, Mike and I were extremely saddened to hear of your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Gail Connolly

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