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David Singer Obituary

David Singer, a noted San Diego architect, died at his home in La Jolla, CA, after a long battle with multiple myeloma on Thursday, May 1, 2014. David was 76 years old.
David grew up on Long Island, NY. He grew up playing the viola in the family band, exhibited his work ethic early, selling newspapers at the train station and frequently listened to New York Giant games on the radio. He graduated from University of Pennsylvania studying architecture under Louis Kahn. David was very supportive of the civil rights movement and attended the March on Washington and Martin Luther King's "I have a Dream" speech in 1963.
David's love and commitment to family was central to who he was. In fact, David was the family genealogist and flew across the globe interviewing relatives in South Africa, Argentina, and Israel weaving together the disparate anecdotal histories into a coherent family story.
David married Sandra Clothier and they had twin boys, Gidon and Nathanael. The young family took a road trip west across the continent in a customized black Chevy Sportsman visiting National Parks, Anasazi Indian sites, notable architecture, and friends and family. They parked the van nine months later when the asphalt turned to sand at the end of the road along the coastal bluffs of La Jolla, the year was 1969.
David later married Marie Murphy. Marie, a music loving teacher, had a strong influence on David, helping him pull away from the demands at the office to jog, ski, travel, see the grandchildren, and provided a musical soundtrack inside their home.
A resident of La Jolla for the last 45 years, David's architectural practice received awards for his residential, commercial and non-profit institutional projects.
David's office designed the original and current Museum of Photographic Arts and the San Diego Art Institute in Balboa Park; renovations and additions to the Athenmaeum Music and Arts Library in La Jolla; the Museum of Contemporary Art San Diego's original downtown space; adjacent trolley stop; and San Diego's Temple Emanu-El. His office also designed numerous homes in San Diego, La Jolla in particular, ranging from modest renovations/additions to new contemporary houses. David approached each project openly, letting the site constraints and client's programmatic desires dictate his design approach. Natural light and ventilation, simplicity, and a sense of place were also important factors in his designs.
David was a founding member of the La Jolla Coastal Conservancy, helping preserve the unique La Jolla coastline; Board Member of the Mingei International Museum of Folk Art; Board Member of Installation Gallery / inSite 93 & 97, which worked to foster better understanding of San Diego – Tijuana border issues; Member of the Public Art Committee for the San Diego Commission of Arts & Culture; and Co-Chair of the La Jolla Town Council Part & Beaches Committee.
He was a fantastic father, sibling, husband, uncle, grandfather and a mentor to many. He was always there, listening first, and then giving you his own distinct and informed opinion. He was a good, honest, gentle, yet strong man. He will be missed.
David is survived by his two sons, Gidon (Christine) and Nathanael (Stacy); four grandchildren, Taylor, Corten, Elory and Elias; five siblings, Naomi, Aharon, Miriam, Rachelle and Deborah spread out from San Diego to Israel.

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Published by La Jolla Light from May 15 to Jun. 12, 2014.

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Mike and Joyce Axelrod

May 9, 2020

Hard to believe that 6 years have past since we lost David. I can only imagine his incredulity with the world we live in today. There was no one like David with whom we worked on a number of projects. What always came through was his compassion and integrity. The attached was taken at the home David designed for us. We are on the right.

May 9, 2019

I think of David so often it seems impossible he's been gone for five years. It turns out the old expression is true: his memory has been a blessing.

May 29, 2015

For David's family, Much love and sympathy for the finest of the fine. We grew up in Ronkonkoma, NY. and I looked forward to seeing him again at our 50th reunion. Wonderful person to have gone to school with from 5 yrs to 17.
Can't think of a greater person to have been through 12 years of school with. My sincere sympathy. Willa Morrissey-France

Frances O'Neill Zimmerman

May 16, 2015

David is gone but not forgotten by me or my family.
And speaking of family, I will always feel deep affection for David's twin sons Nathanael and Gidon, his sister Miriam and her husband Jack.

Mike and joyce Axelrod

May 15, 2015

On the one year anniversary of his passing we are thinking of David.
We knew and worked with him for years while on the board of the Museum of Photographic Arts and as the architect of the our home.
We were drawn to the warmth of his personality and the integrity with which he always operated..
He gave so much to those who knew him. He is missed.

Mark Richard Smith

June 5, 2014

David and my father were first cousins, and David's generosity of spirit healed an estrangement begun almost a century ago, allowing my Catholic family to learn about and celebrate our Jewish heritage. In that process we got to know some wonderful relatives. I will be forever thankful for his kindness to my family.

June 1, 2014

DAVID WAS ADMIRED BY THIS FELLOW LA JOLLA ARCHITECT, AND HE WILL BE GREATLY MISSED.
JAMES ALCORN AIAE

Tony Ciani

May 20, 2014

David brought joy to La Jolla, and gave us lasting designs responding to the natural and urban settings he worked in.

Anita Clothier

May 20, 2014

To all,
George sent me an email about Uncle David. I am saddened by the news and I send my condolences to all. Though it was a very long time ago, I remember loving to go visit my cousins because it was always a lot of laughing all the time.
At times like this I think about the big circle of life. My prayers are with you all.
love,
Anita

Melinda Prietto

May 19, 2014

La Jolla has lost a precious jewel.

Daniel Atkinson

May 19, 2014

I will always be grateful for the times that I spent with David, mostly while he was working with us on the renovations to the Athenaeum. He possessed a deep understanding of what is important to our community, and the effects of his wisdom, artistry, and personal commitment will be felt in this town for decades to come. I will miss him!

Beverly Schroeder

May 16, 2014

David was a delightful, wonderful human being. He leaves us with many memories a life well lived.

George Clothier

May 16, 2014

I still remember the old black van you took on that cross-country trip so many years ago. David designed the addition to our house 40+ years ago and it is still in style. Thanks for the memories.

Jeffrey Shorn and Charles Kaminski

May 16, 2014

David was a sweet, fine and gentle man who gave of himself. His approach to design and architecture was sensitive and embraced a refined quality.
He will be missed.

Skip and Eliane Johnson

May 16, 2014

We asked David for advice in 1974 just after we bought our 1935 home in the Muirlands, when he was but 36 and we even younger. He was bright, energetic, analytical, and honest - his advice was "do not do a thing - this is a jewel and living in it for a while will tell you what to do." We followed his advice, and are perpetually grateful for it. La Jolla benefitted from his presence; he will certainly be missed.

Picture of David and Marie what I had from 2004

Julie

May 16, 2014

Frances O'Neill Zimmerman

May 15, 2014

David was the architect who could salvage the character of 1920's California dwellings while improving their function and aesthetics. In this era of excess, villa-fication and McMansions, I am daily grateful for his skill and restraint, as I live in one such Singer-enhanced house.

David and I started as neighbors, and we became friends of a lifetime that lasted more than 40 years. We shared each other's family joys and sorrows -- graduations, weddings, births, divorce and deaths. Politically and philosophically, we were on the same wave length and we could be honest with each other. My world is diminished with his death and I will miss him.

I liked that David would make ink drawings on napkins, that he always sent great postcards from his travels and that, like only one other person I know, on principle he never wore a watch.

Ann Clothier

May 15, 2014

Sadly I never knew David so well, and my sympathy goes to his twins and siblings.

Kristin Dennehy

May 15, 2014

I am so sorry to hear that David is gone. I wish I had had an opportunity to know him as an adult, as the last time I saw him I was 8 years old. I have learned many things I didn't know just reading about him here!

As it is, I have a vivid memory of him becoming exasperated with Nathanial, Gidone and I (ages 6 and 7 at the time) as we were playing some sort of tag game in the house! Another memory of David is simply of him laughing...a happy memory.

Again, I am so sorry

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