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Memories and Condolences
for Dwayne May
Thomas Nunes
June 10, 2019
Gone but not forgotten. Rest in peace, my old teammate.
Dennis Kawamoto
June 28, 2009
Dear John,Rose,Darrin and Melanie,
Please accept our deepest sympathy and condolences from the Kawamoto Family. We had a special bond with your whole family through the "golden" hockey years. I will never forget all the great times we shared traveling and playing hockey. One moment I will always remember Dwayne by was when he jumped probably 3 feet off the ice to avoid an Andy Hilliard slap shot. I still see the play vividly in my mind to this day. I also had the opportunity to eat at his restaurant in Venice a number of times, and to this day it was the best meal I've ever eaten. I never even ordered the food, he would bring me what he thought i would like, and it was always the best. He was so gifted at everything he did, and we will always be grateful for the times we shared. Rest in peace Dwayne.
lisa quiveors
June 15, 2009
May Family my heartfelt sympathy goes out to you. I never met you but I spent a lot of great times with Dwayne while at TCU and living in southern california. He was a wonderful man and friend. He will be missed. God bless all of you during this most difficult time.
MARY HOLDEN-AGBAYANI
June 13, 2009
Mr and Mrs May,
My thoughts are with you and Darrin and Melanie at this time. I will miss Dwayne very much. He touched all of our lives as we all grew up in Westgate. Oh the memories I keep in my heart of him. The Westgate gang and our latenight hide and go seek games, door bell ditch, hanging out at the park. Dwayne running, it seems he was always running. He would be at one friends house and the next moment he would be at anothers in just a matter of a few seconds. Those warm summer nights in Westgate with our childhood friends are the warmest thoughts to have right now. And I agree with Andrea Hall-your house was the most pristine house in the neighborhood!! The kids were always so perfect. Dwayne being one of them. He was blessed to have you as parents as you were so blessed to have him as your son. And we were all so blessed to have him as our friend and Westgate family member. Our stories of our past will always have a mention or story of Dwayne May! What a great man he was and always will be..........Mary Holden Agbayani
June 12, 2009
Dear John, Rose, Darrin and Melanie: I am writing of behalf of the Hall family on Briarwood Ct. Our family always loved, admired, and respected your family. We were all so very proud of you! From the way Dwayne, Darrin and Melanie behaved and dressed to the way your lawn and tree clearly out-shone all of the yards in the neighborhood. After you moved, we often stated proudly: "That house has never looked as good as when the Mays lived there." We loved Dwayne and we love all of you. Before the Cosby's and the Obama's--there were the Mays. In my eyes you were the epitome of the perfect family. I just wanted you all to know the impact you had on me and the rest of the Hall family. We know we can not heal the painful loss of Dwayne, but please let us know if there is anything at all we can do for you. God Bless Each and every one of you. Sincerely, Andrea Hall-Miller.
Mel Smith
June 12, 2009
John & Rose:
Deepest Sympathies. I am thinking of you John. I know what you are going through and I will continue to pray for you. I am sorry I missed the service but my heart was with you and I feel your sorrow.
We are suppose to go before our children and it makes it harder to accept our loss. The Creator will Bless your Family. Mel, Patricia & Shawn Smith
Richard & Priscilla McKay
June 11, 2009
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child or between siblings; our deepest condolences are with you and your family as you grieve. You all are in our prayers.
Karen Stewart Dorsaint
June 11, 2009
My heartfelt sympathy to John, Rose and the rest of the family during this extremly difficult time. As family, please know you all are in my prayers and that your strong faith will sustain and carry you to a place of acceptance and peace. Stay blessed!
Love,
Your cousin
Karen
Octavia Young
June 11, 2009
Mr. and Mrs. May and family please accept my deepest sympathies. There are no bonds stronger than that of a parent and child or brothers and sisters. Although I never had the pleasure of meeting Dwayne, I know that the two of you (Mr. and Mrs May) have created a wonderful family. So while your hearts are very heavy, I will be praying that soon the joyful memories that you share will comfort you and bring you a feeling of peace. I love you. Octavia Young and Christine Davis
Jill Nott-Tunzi
June 10, 2009
To the May family: I knew Duane back in junior high. I remember him as not only a gifted athlete but also as a sweet person. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Mark Cox
June 10, 2009
Dear Rose,John,Darrin,Melanie: After hearing about the passing of Dwayne my heart fell and sadness came upon me for all of you. I have so many memories of Dwayne and your family during our hockey years. He was an inspiration to me, because of his sportmanship and because he always wanted to be the best at everything he did. He will be missed by everyone. But we are also greatful for Dwayne that he was a part of our lives and how he touch each and everyone of us. Dwayne,thank you for sharing a part of your life with me. You will be missed!
Troy Blank
June 10, 2009
To the May family: I am shocked by the news. My heart and prayers are with you. I had the honor of knowing Dwayne at Cardinal Newman. He will be missed by all.
Laurie Karson
June 10, 2009
To the May Family, I grew up in West Gate and knew Dwayne, he was always so sweet and nice. I'm sorry to hear the news, my condolences.
Shirley Paul
June 10, 2009
With Sympathy From All Of Us.
Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you all during this Sad Time.
Eddie , Shirley , Sarah and the entire Paul and Lawrence Family and
Community Baptist Church family
Ernie Mrachek
June 10, 2009
Dear May Family , Dwayne was My Roomate the past 3 years ,here in Troncones , I know the pain You are feeling and I share in Your pain . It was an Honor to have Dwayne as a Friend and I will never forget Him . Descansale en Paz Amigo Mio !
Tiffany Schirmer
June 10, 2009
To the May Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Dwayne was a very good friend to me as well as my entire family. Dwayne always made me laugh and smile--he was truly an original! I feel as if I have lost an older brother; he will always be missed. I will continue to keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Tiffany Schirmer
Liz Silva(clem)
June 10, 2009
Our heart goes out to the whole May Family as you go through the pain of losing Dwayne. You are in our thoughts and our prayers. May you be blessed with the strenght, the courage and the love to help each other get through this dark time.
Liz and Marty Silva(clem)
June 9, 2009
Dear John,Rose and Family,
I am deeply saddened by the loss of Dwayne.For his family and his many friends. I will never forget all the great times at the ice arena, and because of that Dwayne met and had so many friends that cared about him and his family. Unfortunately, I am unable to attend the funeral, but please know you will be in my heavy heart.
Sincerely,
Sharon Cox Budd (Toby's daughter)
Melba Newman
June 9, 2009
To the May family,
Please accept my deepest sorrow for the loss of Dwayne.
Fritz Kerr
June 9, 2009
May family. Please accept my sincere condolences regarding Dwayne's passing. I have such fond memories of playing ice hockey with Dwayne through peewee, bantam and midget levels...he was my center iceman and a good friend.
God bless!
June 9, 2009
Dear John and Rose,
Catherine and I extend our deepest sorrow for your loss. We know that words cannot adequately express our sympathy, but we feel that we must try. Please know of our faith that you will meet your son again, on the other side of the veil. The separation is only temporary. Our Heavenly Father and His Son, Jesus Christ, have yet more glorious plans for all of us. God bless you, Clyde and Catherine Russell
Nancy Libby (Mcdonald)
June 8, 2009
To the May family,
I went to high school with Dwayne and he was such a gracious person. He was always kind to me in his shy, sweet way. He had such a great smile and gentle but confident way about him. He was an amazing athlete but also an all around nice person. I will always think fondly of Dwayne.
June 8, 2009
May Family,
There are no words to express our sorrow for your tremendous loss. We can only hope that the caring and love of all of us who knew Dwayne will comfort you during this time..
The Begley Family
Cathy Slack
June 8, 2009
Our family is saddened to hear of the passing of your beloved son Dwayne. Jim went to school with him at Newman, and we all send you and your family our sincere condolences. May your faith comfort you in your grief.
Your neighbors, The Slacks ( Leslie, Cathy, Cindy, James, Kyra, Mason, Rob & Madison)
Kimberly Hall
June 8, 2009
Dear May Family ~
I have many great memories of growing up in our neighborhood with Dwayne, Darrin and Melanie. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
~ God Bless
On the way to Washington DC (I think)
Andy Hilliard
June 8, 2009
Dear John, Rose, Darrin and Melanie,
Please accept my deepest and sincerest sympathies for your great loss. Without saying, Dwayne and the Rose family occupies a tremendous part in my heart and remains a central role of so many of my fondest memories growing up. I hope you can find solace in that Dwayne impacted and was loved by many people for his friendship as well as the free spirit he embodied.
Kevin Cox
June 8, 2009
Dear John, Rose, Darrin and Melanie
I want to send along my deepest sympathy to you all. I will always remember Dwayne as a tough competitor and a great friend. I wish I could be with you on Thursday, but due to my responsibilities I will not. I will however be there in spirit. My thoughts and prayers to you all.
Mrs. Robert Swan
June 8, 2009
Our sincere sympathy goes out to the whole May family. Sorry to hear about Dwayne. Our memories of Dwayne and the whole May family are from the Redwood Empire Ice Arena and all the Hockey that was played. Sincerely Bob, Carol & Al Swan (Kalispell, Montana)
Kevin Summers
June 8, 2009
Dear Mr. and Mrs.May, Darrin and Melanie, I am deeply sorry for your loss. I know that there are no words to take the pain away, but please know that you are all in my prayers. Kevin Summers
Todd Hanson
June 8, 2009
Wow. I am in shock. My thoughts are with you guys. My best best friend for years. I hope that Darren will contact me personally. [email protected] God Bless you John May, the the rest of the family.
Dennis Gunter
June 8, 2009
Dear John, Rose, Darrin and Melanie: My deepest sympathy to you all during this time of loss. Dwayne touched many, I being one of those lucky people. I will never forget the times spent and shared as we grew up. Dwayne brought a lot to this world with his personality and flare for life. As we share in his passing we should also share in the comfort knowing our Lord has accepted Dwayne into his house now and forever. I pray that you will find comfort soon. I will not forget Dwayne. You ALL have touch my life in many ways, more than words can share. I will continue to pray for you all. Mr. and Mrs. May, be proud of the family you've raised. I miss you all. God Bless
Glenda Corde (Kerkhof)
June 8, 2009
To the May Family: I am sincerely sorry for your loss. Dwayne was a friend many years ago in Junior High school, I wished I hadn't lost touch with him. May he rest in peace.
John (JR) Gunter
June 7, 2009
Dear John, Rose, Darrin and Melanie: My sincere sympathy and prayers go out to you all. It has been many years since I've seen you all and wish you the best always. Dwayne has left many positive foot prints on our souls and life and I thank him for that. For me, it was his enthusiastic nature for life and introducing me to hockey at age 8. This gift he gave me so long ago now carries on to another generation of 9 year olds as my son plays hockey by my side now. I thank him and you as parents for contributing to my and our children's lives. Dwayne will live in my memory forever.
Carrie Wilkerson
June 7, 2009
To the May Family: I am very sorry to hear about Dwayne. He was an amazing classmate and person and will be missed by all. Ursuline graduate - class of 81
Tom Nunes
June 7, 2009
Dear May Family:
Please accept my deepest sympathies. Dwayne was a great team mate and friend. He will never be forgotten.
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