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Alvin Shands Obituary

Mr. Alvin Lee Shands (Doddie), 67, of 100 S. Kippax St., Apt. 311, Hopewell, departed this life on Friday, Sept. 10, 2010, at the Riverview on The Appomattox Nursing Home, Hopewell.

He was the fourth child born to the late Sonnie and Emma Shands, and attended the Hopewell City Public School System. Alvin enjoyed fishing and his pride and joy was his bicycle. He was preceded in death by one brother, Roy Manson, and four sisters, Jeanetta Mallory, Mildred Bryant, Vanessa and Celestine Shands.

Left to cherish his memories are: one son, John T. Carter of Hopewell; four sisters, Alice Mae Shands of Hopewell, Brenda M. Carter (Melvin) of Dinwiddie, Francine Tatum (Joseph) of Newport News and Darlene Shands of Raleigh, N.C.; eight brothers, Willie, Sonnie Jr. (Jean), Reginald, Harold, Leroy and Tyrone Shands, all of Hopewell, Curtis Shands of Richmond and Cecil Shands (Sandra) of Chester; one aunt, Mrs. Rosa Winfield of Petersburg; one uncle, Mr. Johnnie Walden Sr. (Dorothy) of Pittsburgh; sister-in-law, Bertha Manson of Petersburg; one very devoted friend, Ms. Lillie Jones of Chester; a number of nieces and nephews, among them three devoted, Crystal Armstead (Crissy) of Hopewell, Danielle Williams of Chester and Dione Wyatt; special friends, Connie and William Callen, Patricia and Richard Wyatt and family, Virginia and Robert Robinson and family, all of Chester. Family may be contacted at 731-4277 or 458-7164.

A funeral service will be held at 2 p.m. Thursday, Sept. 16, 2010, at the Chapel of William N. Bland & Son, Petersburg. The Rev. Jeffrey Reaves Sr., pastor of Good Shepherd Baptist Church, Petersburg, will officiate. Interment will follow in Mount Sinai Community Cemetery, Prince George.

Arrangements entrusted to the staff of Turner-Bland Funeral Home, Hopewell, the Rev. William N, Bland Jr., funeral director.

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Published by The Progress-Index from Sep. 11 to Sep. 14, 2010.

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LaVerne Batts-Johnson

September 15, 2010

Brenda and family,
Truly sorry to read about the passing of Dooney, he was a fun person to grow up around and we loved him with all ours hearts. We pray that God will provide the family with comfort during this time of sorrow.
Love to all from the Batts family.

Brenda Broner

September 15, 2010

Heartfelt condolences to your family over the passing of your beloved Alvin. May the God of all comfort grant you comfort and endurance in your time of need, dear family.

The Bible encourages,especially now-dear family, to turn to God and pour out your heart in prayer for strength to carry on with life, for He is the hearer of prayer. The apostle Peter says of our Heavenly Father:"Throw all your anxiety upon Him, because He cares for you." (1Peter 5:7) How comforting also are the words of God at Isaiah 57:15.

Despite the pan of grief; never give up, dear friends,remain close to God and He will see you through this ordeal.

Christian Love,

September 15, 2010

this is goodbye to albertlee and howdy doodie may u have grace peace and mercy & yr soul rest now in our God's bosom. w/much love Dorothy Taylor

Diane Winfield White

September 14, 2010

Brenda,Alice Mae,Bird,& rest of the family: My heart is swollen with sadness in the loss of my cousin Dooney. He was like a brother to our family went he moved to the country with us. He always was full of fun & and had a happy go luck way about him. I will turly miss his present at family get together.I"ll be praying for you all in this time of sorrow.

Lisa Flippen

September 14, 2010

Danielle, Dione and family, I am sorry for your loss, please know that you and your family are in my prayers during this time.

Love always,
Lisa, Indya, Cj and the rest of the Flippen Family

Shelcy Cunningham

September 14, 2010

So sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. May God continue to be your strength through this difficult time.

September 13, 2010

Brenda and Shands Family, You know my thoughts and prayers are with you. May God continue to be with you.
Love, Emma Allen

September 13, 2010

Brenda Carter

My dippiest sympathy and prayers are with you and your family.
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