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Graziella Swaim Obituary
Graziella is survived by her husband, James B. Swaim, of Herlong, California, her three children: her son Christopher Swaim and wife Robyn of Nashua, New Hampshire; her daughter Deborah (Swaim) Garone and husband Peter, of Andover, Massachusetts; and her daughter Margaret (Swaim) Judge and husband Dennis of Carson City, NV.
In addition, Graziella was the beloved Nonna of 5 grand-children: Kyle Swaim, a junior at The College of the Holy Cross in Worcester, Massachusetts; Jessica Garone Ashton, a graduate of the University of Massachusetts at Amherst and her husband, Daniel Ashton of Australia; Caleb Garone, a graduate of The University of Massachusetts at Amherst; Joshua Garone, a junior at Calvin College in Grand Rapids, Michigan; and Danielle Judge (who knew her Nonni the best), a junior at The University of Nevada, Reno.
Graziella is also survived by her brother, Severino Cirrincione and family of Trieste, Italy; her sister Valnea Riva and family of Torino, Italy; and her sister Gianna Apollonio and family of Trieste, Italy. She is preceded by her sister Sara (Cirrincione) Smith of Tulsa, Oklahoma.
She was deeply loved by many, whose lives she touched by her outgoing personality and genuine, caring nature. A memorial service was held on Friday, July 23, 2010, at the Chapel Center (Sierra Army Depot Chapel) in Herlong, California. Donations can be made in her memory to the American Cancer Society.
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Memories and Condolences
for Graziella Swaim
Debbie Garone
July 15, 2021
P.S. Grace, Jessica and Dan´s little girl, was named after you!
Debbie Garone
July 15, 2021
Dear Mommy,
Today it is 11 years since you left this earth for your heavenly home! So much has happened since I wrote last July 15! On August 5, 2020 Josh and Chantale welcomed a baby boy into this world, James Andree Garone, named after Daddy. He is known by "Jamie" the cutest, sweetest little guy with red hair! And 23 days later Kyle and Carla welcomed a little girl, Greyson! Chris and Robyn are so thrilled to finally be grandparents and she is the cutest and a smart little cookie! Also almost exactly one year ago today, Grace Kirra Garone started to be knit together in Jessica´s womb! Jessica had a pregnancy with no complications and she was born on April 18, 2021! She also has red hair and is doing well - almost 3 months old! Jessica and Dan are doing a great job as parents (as are Josh and Chantale!). She is such a joy to her Australian grandparents and to us and to many! Can´t wait to see her in person, but that is being delayed because of COVID and Australia needing access to more vaccine before it can open up! But SO thankful for technology and being able to see her via Skype and FaceTime! And Caleb and Gina are now planning their wedding for 5/22/22, with hopes that Jessica,Dan and Grace will be able to attend!
We so wish that you could see and meet these great-grandkids! And Owen is getting so big - 9 years old! And Skylar is such a cute 3-yr old! You´d love them to pieces! But we will show them videos and photos so that they can get to know you that way! We love and miss you so much! You will always be in our hearts and thoughts and we are so thankful for you!
With MUCH love,
Your daughter,
Debbie
Debbie Garone
July 15, 2020
Today is 10 years since you left this world for your heavenly home on July 15, 2010. We miss you very much and wish you could have experienced all the special moments with us! Looking back over the years, I must say how thankful I am that you were at Jessica and Dans wedding in 2009. In 2011 Josh married a great gal, Chantale, and in 2018 they welcomed their first child, Skylar Grace, middle name named after you, my first grandchild and your 2nd great-grandchild. Owen was born to Danielle and Ryan in 2012. Chantale is expecting #2 in 3 weeks. In 2018 Kyle and Carla got married and are expecting their first in 5.5 weeks, I believe. You would be so thrilled with these great-grandchildren, as I am as a Nonna. Yes, thats what Im being called, as you were to my kids, your grandkids.
Also Caleb is engaged to Gina and they are planning to get married next year. Jessica and Dan are doing well in Australia.
Were so thankful for you and what you imparted to our lives. So thankful that your grandkids got to know you and for the great mom, wife, Nonna, sister and friend that you were. Always diligent, a great homemaker, cook, accountant and all the other things you did. We appreciated your wisdom and companionship and example. Daddy has missed you greatly as have we. But we are also thankful that we will see you again! Your love and imprint live on in our lives, and we are much richer because of the time we had with you! Thank you for all you gave to us of yourself. We love you and always will!
Remembering you especially today with much love!
Your daughter,
Debbie
70th Birthday in Carson City. The Swaim Family
Jim Swaim
August 20, 2011
AWAKENED BY A CLOSE FRIEND
A few years ago I had some tests to screen for cancer, and I was nervous about the outcome. My anxiety was magnified as I thought about the fact that while the medical personnel were well-trained and extremely competent, they were also strangers who had no relationship with me.
After awakening from the anesthesia however, I heard the beautiful sound of the voice: "It's great, Honey. They didn't find anything." I looked up at the smiling face and was comforted. I needed the assurance of someone who loved me.
A simliar assurance lies ahead for all who have trusted Jesus. Believers can be comforted in knowing when they wake up in heaven, One who loves them greatly - Jesus - will be there.
The Book of Common Prayer expresses this Christian: "After my awakening (my Redeemer) will rise me up; and in my body shall see God. I myself shall see, and eyes behold Him who is my friend and not a stanger."
Do you have trouble facing mortality? Jesus promised to be there when we slip from this world into the next. He said "Where I am (heaven), there you may also be" John 14:3. What a comfort for believers to know that after death we will be awakened by a close Friend
What wonders await us in yonder fair land!
The fact of our Savior, the touch of His Hand,
No tears and no crying, no sighs or despair,
For Jesus is waiting to welcome us there.
May you recognize when it is time for you
To let go and move on, doing so when
Your grief has faded and you are ready
To allow the past to be at rest.
Carol Garone
August 20, 2011
Dear Jim,
I just spent a delightful hour or more reading through all 18 pages of Grace's Guest Book. It stirred a lot of good memories of times I spent with her and you as well as providing additional insight into her role as wife, mother, mother-in-law and grandmother that I didn't know about. I thought that moving from Minnesota to New Jersey was a huge leap of faith (and culture shock, as it turned out) but Grace had me beat by miles. I can't begin to imagine the scope of all her courage to travel from country to country, state to state (I guess that's where our shared grandchildren get their travel genes.)
We managed to share many family memories over time starting with Peter and Debbie's wedding in Herlong, births in New Brunswick and Princeton, time in Ramsey, NJ and again in Andover after my move there. A trip to Gloucester, a Red Sox game and best of all, your attendance at Jessica and Dan's wedding - the Lord surely had His hand in that last gathering.
We can rest assured she's in a better place keeping watch from afar over all her family's major accomplishments and events. Grace played a major role along with you in forming the character of your children which was then passed on to the grandkids. For this you can be proud. We are enriched for having known Grace.
James (Jim) Swaim
August 20, 2011
Ciao Graziella MY LOVE. I feel realy blessed to see all the entries in the Legacy Book. Graziella, remember when I planted a tree behind Gianna's (your sister) house and I joked about, when I return to this earth reincarnated, I will return as a bird and land in the tree and you will be the wind beneth my wings. ".A beautiful song". God Be with you until we are together again
YOU ARE MY HEART BEAT. Ciao.
Your Honey, Jim
August 20, 2011
Belated Happy 23rd Birthday, Kyle! I want to thank you for giving Nona and Grandpa Jim such a lovely birthday gift (on YOUR birthday!) with your guestbook entry yesterday. I really enjoyed reading it!
Love,
Aunt Debbie
P.S. And I really appreciated yours, too, Chris!
Kyle Swaim
August 19, 2011
Nonna, I cannot believe it has been a year since you left us, but not a day goes by that I do not stop and think of you, the times we shared, and the blessing it is to be able to call you my grandmother. I owe you so much for the gifts you gave me, but never had the chance to thank you for. But since we all know that you are looking down on us and listening when we tell you how much we miss you, I'll take this opportunity to thank you now. Thank you for my Italian genes from which I attribute my love of fine food, wine, and fashion to. Thank you for teaching me the secret to making the best gnocchi and apple pie I have ever tasted, the recipes you left me will stay with me for the rest of my life and your name and story will be shared with everyone who has the privilege of tasting them. Most importantly I want to thank you for being my grandmother, my Nonna, and teaching me how to enjoy life, the Italian way. I miss you everyday Nonna, but you will never be forgotten. I love you Nonna and it brings me joy knowing that you are now in a better place and are watching over us and will be there to guide us in the right direction through life. I love you Nonna, I miss you.
Dennis Judge
August 19, 2011
Graziella,
Where did the time go I miss and think of you everyday. I think I took you for granted at times and thought you would be around forever. I am now sorry for that. God Bless and Rest In Peace. Love Dennis
Christopher Swaim
August 19, 2011
Dear Dad,
I can't believe that it has been 1 year, 1 month, and 4 days since Mom's passing. I think about you and Mom every day, and will always regret not getting to the two of you in time. Thoughts of Mom spring into my head at the most unexpected times, usually when I am somewhere alone, riding my mountain bike or driving. I knew that Mom had passed when we experienced mild turbulance on an otherwise smooth flight, right around 4 pm, on July 15, as Debbie and I were flying to Reno.
You and Mom had such a great life together! What an adventure! And what stories Mom told about her childhood, with her family, growing up during the WWII, coming to America, and the travels around the world. The stories were particularly memorable because it seems that they were always told while preparing a meal (gnocchi!!) and then consuming it ...maybe with a little red wine?
I know that this last year has been tough. I also know that it has been made easier by the expressions of love that so many people from around the world have shown you. And I am especially thankful for Margie, Dennis, and Danielle, and the love, care and attention that they have given to you. I thank them every time I talk to them.
You still have a lot of living to do, Dad, and I want you to get to it. You can honor Mom's memory by continuing the adventure, getting the most out of life, and making every day better than the last. After all, that is the only real choice we have: how we choose to respond and react to the things that life presents us with. I say choose the most positive, optimistic perspective possible.
We need to see you more often, and you need to make the time to be with family and friends. We are always there for you regardless of the time or the need. We love you very much. And we miss Mom.
Your favorite son,
Josh
August 18, 2011
Dear Nonna,
It has been a long time since I have posted. So much has changed in this past year and I wish you could be here to live through these changes with us all. Instead you are here living in memory and in spirit. The love with which you filled our lives will always last and will flow into the lives of others.
I remember you visiting our family on the east coast and our family visiting you in Herlong throughout various stages of my life. You came to New Jersey when I was born. I recall all the home videos with myself along with Jessica and Caleb (and Danielle) playing in the back yard in Herlong, dancing to the birthday song, playing super Nintendo and later, Nintendo 64 (who else’s grandparents played video games?). I remember staying at your house for 2 weeks in the summer of ’97 and so many other visits in the following years.
Although we couldn’t have lived too much farther away from each other while still being in the same country, each visit left a lasting impression. I am so blessed to have such great, loving grandparents. You have changed so much in this world with the example that you set for both your daughter (my mom) and for us (your grandchildren).
Although time passes on all the same, so much has changed in the past year. I know you have been present in spirit at all the memorable occasions in my life this year such as graduation and marriage and you will be there in all the events that are yet to come, but we miss you all the same.
Thank you for filling our lives with more happiness and love,
Your Grandson, Josh
QUEL LUNGO BACIO DEL '54 Ugo Borsatti
James Swaim
August 17, 2011
This entry is three fold:
#1: Thank you Benjamin Vitale for the entry into the legacy book. There are several publications where our famous photo was published and the most significant event was when Graziella and I were given a round trip ticket to Rome to appear on the tv program, RAI - Unamattina. Thank You Ben!
#2 The Saint Mary's Hospital has been very instrumental in the healing of the pain I have endured since Graziella's passing. Their support group has a place in this legacy book. The person who announced Graziella's final passing was a very emotional moment for me, Margie, Dennis and Danielle but a part of the real Happening on 15 July, 2010 @ 4 PM in Saint Mary's Hospital.
I would like to commend and thank the support/Palliative care unit @ Saint Mary's Medical Center for their contribution in support of those who are in need of personal touch and sensitivity. THANK YOU --God Bless. James B. Swaim (Jim) and Family
#3 This legacy book would not be complete without recognizing the Photographer who took the picture of the two young kids at the train station in Trieste,Italy on the departure of the troops leaving Trieste and the lady suspended/hanging from the train who would later be my wife on 28 November 1954 and who I would spend a lifetime together, to raise three wonderful-successful children and to have five beautiful Grand children. This Photographer, UGO BORSATTI is a very gentle and compassionate person and deserving the recognition of one who has devoted his life to the profession of photography. THANK YOU Ugo Borsatti and God Be With You and Your Wife. James B. & Graziella V. SWAIM.
Benjamin Vitale
August 17, 2011
To James Swaim,
My name is Benjamin Vitale, I arrived to New York from Trieste in 1958. One day playing with the computer I came across " Le ragazze
di Trieste" and later found "The long kiss of 1954 "and eventually most
of your life story, I was really touched and fascinated, it is a beautiful
story and you should be very proud. I am sorry for the loss that you suffered, from what I read Graziella must have been a beautiful
person, it makes me proud to come from the same city. Again
congratulation for this beautiful life, a great subject for a movie
Ben Vitale
Margie, Chris and Debbie - My 70th Birthday Celebration in Carson City, NV.
Jim
August 14, 2011
This entry in the Legacy Book is in recognition and a real appreciation of those of you who have contributed. This book will be closed on 20 August 2011. It would be an honor for anyone who wishes to make/pay their last tribute to my Beautiful Wife and Dear Friemd, GRAZIELLA.
This book will become a cherished book of memories forever.
Thank you and God Bless - Jim
August 9, 2011
GRAZIELLA,SO CHE SEI TANTO LONTANO. MA TU SEI SEMPRE NEL NOSTRO PENSIERO ,I MOMENTI DI GIOIA PASSATI IN OSMIZZA CHE BELLO TU CI MANCHI E PER QUESTO CHE NOI TI PORTIAMO SEMPRE CON NOI NEL PENSIERO UN SALUTO DA QUA GIU'QUANTE BELLE GIORNATE PASSATE INSIEME QUANDO TU VENIVI A TRIESTE I BAMBINI ERANO PICCOLI E TU UNA BELLA MULA CHE HA SPOSATO UN AMERICAN TI VOGLIO BENE TUO FRATELLO RINO
James(Jim) Swaim
August 7, 2011
REMEMBER WHEN:
REMEMBER WHEN: We first met. Christmas 1953. We went out on the town for New Years Eve.
REMEMBER WHEN: I was leaving Trieste and Ugo Borsatti took the famous photo of you hanging from the train
REMEMBER WHEN: We were the first of two couples to get married at the consulate in Leghorn (Livorno) Italy. The second couple was Cleonard and Annie Northcutt.
REMEMBER WHEN: I left the next day for my final assignment to Camp Rutger,Alabama, completing my two year hitch in the military.
REMEMBER WHEN: I got discharged on 4 Mar 1955 and went to New York waiting for my wife.
REMEMBER WHEN: You arrived in New York in May 1955 to start a new live in a new country and met you with a dozen Red Roses.
REMEMBER WHEN: Our first bouncing baby was born @ St Francis Hospital, Bronx Ny. Christopher Anthony Swaim, 22 June 1956.Dr DeCarlo was the Doctor.
REMEMBER WHEN; Our adjusting was very difficult. You Missing your family and I not a city boy.
REMEMBER WHEN: I decided to return in the military and assigned to Ft Gordon, Ga. To Signal School.
REMEMBER WHEN: We went to the American Consulate for your citizen ship. The consulate asked me if I could answer the the questions that was asked. The answer was NO>
REMEMBER WHEN: I received my new assignment to Germany. “C” Co, 10 Ord Bn. Parmesans, Ger.
REMEMBER WHEN: You arrived in Bremahaven , Ger with our son Chris and you were 8 Mo. Pregnant with our second child.
REMEMBER WHEN: Our 2nd child was born in Muenschweiler, Ger. Deborah Angela Swaim.16 Nov ‘58
REMEMBER WHEN: I submitted for my Radio Amateur “Ham” License and got issued my Call Sign “K7JEU” in 1959
REMEMBER WHEN: We lived in the small town of Muenschweiler, Germany and had a nice landlady, Emma Bold, a wonderful person.
REMEMBER WHEN: We moved to Zweibrucken, Ger and I was assigned to the 541st Sig Det, under the 28th Ord Co, 15th Ord Bn.
REMEMBER WHERE: We lived in booney housing @ Homburger Strassa/ on the west end of town and later moved to Jacobleiser str., Zweibrucken.
REMEMBER WHEN: Our tour was over and now its time to go to the next assignment.
REMEMBER WHEN: I/we were assigned to Ft lewis, Wn. Hq, 3rd Bn. 4th Div.
REMEMBER WHEN: Our 3rd bundle of joy was born, 9 October 1963 @ Madigan Gen Hosp, Ft Lewis, Wn.
REEMBER WHEN: I received orders for Korea/mean while I had volunteered for a tour in Vietnam. One month less than Korea. I served 12 months in Vietnam while my beautiful wife became mom and dad. Bless you my love.
REMEMBER WHEN: We were assigned to Germany again. 162 Ord Co/ 552Arty Gp in Sogel, Germany.
REMEMBER WHEN: I was on a field exercise and I was selected to attend the ordnance school in Albequerque, N. M. to change my MOS from 05C to 55G.
REMEMBER WHEN: I got permoted to E-6 before the next assignment.
REMEMBER WHEN: We were assigned to Ft Riley, Ks. NWSB.
REMEMBER WHEN: I go permoted ot E-7 and transferred to the 823rs Ord Co. Ft Riley, Ks
REMEMBER WHEN: I received assignment orders to the 515th Ord Co in 1970 to Guam without concurrent travel. My concurrent travel was disapproved by an E-5. The IG had other ideas. We all traveled together to Guam for a 5 Yr assignment.
REMEMBER WHEN: We spent many evenings just admiring the Sunsets. What a wonderful view.
REMEMBER WHEN: You applied for a job in the Navy Exchange and done very good working your way up to supervisor position.
REMEMBER WHEN: Our son graduated from High School and Volunteered to enter the military. Christopher done very well in the military.
REMEMBER WHEN: We got our new assignment to Ft. Devans, Mass. NWSB.
REMEMBER WHEN: I reenlisted for 3 years and soon got an assignment for overseas.
REMEMBER WHEN: This will be the end of my military career of 22 + years. Retired 31 July 1977.
REMEMBER WHEN: I got a job in Herlong, Ca (Were the hell is Herlong?) Left Mass on my Birthday, 1 Feb 1978. Just the three of us. Me, You and Margie.
REMEMBER WHEN: I retired for the 2nsd time after 17 + years with Uncle sam from Civil service in Mar 1995
REMEMBER WHEN; A lot of things have happened after 1978. Three marriages, five grand children Two of which are married and a loss of a wonderful lady on 15 July 2010 after 55 wonderful years of partnership A Grandmother, a MOM , a Wife and a FRIEND. MY GRAZIELLA, This is a “REMEMBER WHEN”:”Especially for YOU.”
WE MISS YOUR SMILING FACE AND YOUR SENCE OF HUMOR AND YOUR GNOCHI
Rest in Peace
Your loving Husband - Jim
Peter Garone
July 16, 2011
I can still remember driving late at night with Debbie as we approached Herlong to meet you for the first time. I was hoping you and dad were asleep because I was tired and wanted to give a good first impression to the parents of the girl I loved. My hopes for slipping quietly into bed and meeting you in the morning were dashed as you had waited up for us. However, I felt like I was immediately welcomed as a friend and later as a part of the family.
What can I say that hasn’t already been said? When we were together there was always lots of good food and laughter. I remember to that you were always a bundle of energy, not being able to rest while there were dirty dishes, vacuuming to be done, or some other task that needed attending to. Finally you would collapse on the coach when all was done to catch up on your soaps.
We loved your Italian accent, and often teased you about it. You were also always quick to speak your mind and honest. We rarely had to guess what you were thinking and feeling. Occasionally you would be sullen and grumpy; forgive me if when I have to confess it would make me smile since even that had an endearing quality. Those brief moments attracted daddy and other family members who would hug you, talk to you, and hover around you. You would try to remain angry but you couldn’t last long.
As someone married to a pack rat, I always felt I had a special understanding from you, a fellow sufferer. I remember you referring to dad’s “junks”. It must have been a relief when dad bought a couple properties where he could store his treasures, half finished projects, and massive tool collection.
Though your children will deny it, I can often see many of your same great qualities in them as well as some of your endearing quirks . So even though you are gone your influence still lives on through your children and grandchildren and eventually even through your great grand children though they will not have had the opportunity to know you directly.
It was a shame we lived so far away, because it was always great to have you and dad visit, when you could tear him away from his gardens and projects and overcome your fear of flying. I remember when you took the train across county, to avoid flying, when you came to help Debbie when Joshua was born. You were a wreck from trying to sleep in your seat and Debbie had to take you to the hospital. You quickly rallied and took over the operations at our home.
You were always there for your children, always quick to help, and generous. You spoiled your grandchildren with love and affection. I know you often bit your tongue when you observed some of our parenting faults and methods, but you were always supportive and sympathetic.
You are missed greatly but we treasure the many great memories we will always have of our time together. We look forward to being reunited with you in a place where there is no more sorrow and no more pain. It’s hard to believe a year has passed since you left us but we’re comforted to know that you are part of that great crowd of witnesses (Hebrews 12:1) and are cheering us on as we try to live our lives to please God and make your proud.
With much love,
Your son (in law) Peter
July 15, 2011
You are in our thoughts today. I Love you. I Miss you. Caleb
Debbie Garone
July 15, 2011
Dear Mommy,
Today it’s one year since you left us and went to your heavenly home. We miss you! I guess the milestone events in our family that stand out in the last year are Josh graduating from Calvin College in Grand Rapids, Michigan and he getting married to Chantale Andree! I wish you could have met her. She’s great and you’d love her and they are so suited for each other! She’ll get to know you from home videos and one day you will meet her in person because she also loves the Lord!
I think back to a year ago this morning, when Margie called and said you weren’t doing well and she didn’t think you would make it through the day. The previous evening when I had talked to her it seemed like you were rallying because you were talking to the doctors and all. I believe that’s what she had said. After Margie called that morning, I called the hospital to talk to a nurse to get her assessment of your condition. In her words you were “actively passing”. I asked her if she could hold the phone up to you so that I could talk to you. She did and I told you how much I love you and what a great Mom you’ve been. I also asked you to hold on because Chris and I were coming and we wanted to talk to you in person before you left us. I also said that if we didn’t get to do that, that I would see you in heaven. I know you heard and understood what I was saying because the nurse said that while I was talking your vital signs improved! Thank God for phones!
Those phone calls sent an extreme sense of urgency to get to you as soon as possible! Chris and I were very distressed by this news and got on the first flight we could get out of Boston. I believe we left something like 2pm. Chris asked the people at the gate if they could arrange it so we could sit together, and they did. We had a connection through Denver. As we were approaching Denver there was significant turbulence and the plane was shaking. And as quickly as the turbulence came, it ended in a striking calm. Chris looked at his watch. It was 4pm California time. As soon as we landed in Denver, around 4:35 Chris called Margie at the hospital. She said that you had passed away at about 4pm. That was when the turbulence ended on the plane! And I believe that is also when your struggle ended and you entered into God’s presence and His peace. The Bible says, “…to be absent from the body and to be at home with the Lord.” (2 Corinthians 5:8), and I believe that’s where you were and are. I’m so thankful that even though we were so saddened and disappointed to have not made it in time, I believe God allowed us to experience that moment with you and Daddy, Margie, Danielle and Dennis through the violent turbulence and then the striking calm.
What do I want to say to you today? I want to say that we still miss you dearly and always will. We would love to be sharing our daily life with you, with you here on this earth. But that’s not to be so we have to go on, letting you inspire us to live our lives well. You were a great Mom, Nona, wife, daughter, sister, friend and whatever other relationships you had. And I/we still love you very, very much and always will and will always have you in our thoughts. I also want to say that you have left a wonderful legacy for all of us to follow because of who you were while on this earth. You loved us, worked hard, shared your wisdom with us, encouraged us in our lives and for all those things and many more I/we want to thank you!
And you have left a legacy of family: Daddy, your loving husband; 3 kids – Chris, Margie and me and our spouses – Robyn, Dennis and Pete; 5 grandkids – Jessica, Caleb, Joshua, Kyle, and Danielle and their spouses so far – Dan married to Jessica and now, Chantale married to Josh. And by God’s grace your legacy will continue to the next generations, your childrens’ childrens’ children and beyond! I wish you could have met great-grandchildren, but again, I’m so thankful that you were able to attend the wedding of at least one of your grandkids! That was very, very special to all of us!
Yesterday I went to a funeral/memorial service at church for the husband of a friend. He was only 51 and died suddenly last Saturday of a heart attack. It was so appropriate to be there. I wanted to honor her husband’s life and to support her. But, in addition to that, the Scriptures, songs (one of them was Amazing Grace like we had at your service) eulogy and reflections by friends and family were so encouraging to me about our heavenly hope. “Jesus said, ‘I am the resurrection and the life, he who believes in me will live even though he dies.’ “ (John 11:25) And the service was a special opportunity to remember and honor the one year mark of when you left us. So I thank God for his provision in that!
Well, I think I’ve written enough for now, but I did want to let you and others know that you are in my thoughts and they are in my prayers today. You are in a better place and I look forward to our joyful reunion in the presence of Jesus, God and the Holy Spirit along with all the heavenly host and those who have gone before! Thank you, God, for Graziella Vittoria Cirrincione Swaim, for her life and for her being my mom.
I love you very much, Mommy, and miss you!
Your daughter, Debbie
July 15, 2011
Today, one year ago Graziella, I lost the most precious, caring, compassionate, considerate friend that one could ever know/have. I will never be the same without you. I know you would expect me to get it on and carry on. I can remember so many little things you would say like wiping the TV trays "Don't just massage it, scrub it" "You better get those projects finished that you have started, time is tickin'."
I remember that you always said that you were not afraid of dying and that you felt bad for those that are left behind. At times, I would feel down for one reason or another and YOU would pick up on it and say, "SNAP OUT OF IT." There are so many other things and events now that I have nothing but time to remember. I call it the "BELLA VITA" - the beautiful life but it is so empty without you.
I look back over the many years and know that your wonderful character has set the best example possible. Your considerate caring for those that enjoyed your company and companionship. Especially at the work center in which you worked until you had exhausted all your energy. You always gave any task that you undertook your very best. Whether it was raising kids, providing guidance to grandkids, exercising - walking-swimming and TOPS program. The many years working for the Military Exchange systems as a new hire, working your way up to supervisor positions.
Your legacy lives on Graziella. I can remember the last conversations you had to Italy. You called your sister, Valnea wishing her a Happy Birthday. She wasn't available but her son, Ugo, answered the phone. This was on 13 July 2010 and to have the Lord take you away from us two days later.
I want you to know that your sister Gianna has been a real compassionate and caring person. She calls me timely and frequently and shares any new events available from Italy. Her husband Romano has been undergoing treatment for cancer which we discuss his condition and recovery.
Graziella, remember the lady we often called our baby? I want you to know about the decisoin and accomplishment Margie has/is making. It is know that anyone who normally smokes and then quits is subject to weight gain. Weill 1/we (you and I) are very proud of her accomplishments. Both quit smoking and doing a very good job in weight loss/exercise. BRAVO MARGIE. Never give up/in!!!
Graziella, my love, I will title this "THE ONE YEAR CLOSE OF A CHAPTER FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE." God be with you 'till we meet/are together again.
Your Loving Husband - Jim - Bobo- Honey.
Jessica ashton
July 15, 2011
Hi Nonna, Can't believe it has already been a year that you have no longer been with us. A lot has happened this past year, most recently Josh's wedding. He got married to a great woman, you would like her a lot. The ceremony was beautiful and we really missed you that day, as we do every other day. Love you so much Nonna and miss you a whole lot. Grandpa lots of hugs and kisses your way and we want you to know that we're thinking of you and praying for you as well. We love you and hope to see you soon. Love, Jessica and Dan
Margie Judge
July 14, 2011
Mom, tomorrow will be a year since you passed away and I, your daughter still have so much to say.
Remembering the classy Italian women that you were with your wisdom, love and caring ways.
Our families have been trying to go on, realizing that your pain and suffering are no more.
We should all take some comfort there.
Our love for you will always shine just like the star you were burning bright fighting the fight.
I pray and know that you are looking over all of us and keeping us safe. You will never be forgotten and always terribly missed.
We love you. I love you.
Thank you for being the mom you were.
From Dad the caring darling of his life. From Danielle- the noni that she cherished to get to know and shared her life with - and from Dennis and I the wonderful person that you were.
I think about having five more minutes with you. To give you the biggest kiss and hug and feel your skin that was so soft.
Rest in peace my mama. . .
Love Margie, Dennis and Danielle Judge
Jim Swaim
July 13, 2011
For the photograph entered today titled "Last Re-enlistment": This photograph was taken on 27 April 1976 where SFC Swaim re-enlisted for 3 years by LTC Rubin of DIO. Fort Devens, MA.
Last Re-enlistment
Jim Swaim
July 13, 2011
Josh and Chantale's wedding, July 2,2011, at Cardigan Lodge in Alexandria, NH
Debbie Garone
July 13, 2011
Hi Mommy,
Jessica and Dan are on their way back to Australia. They came out for 3 weeks to visit and to attend Josh and Chantale’s wedding. I sure wish you could have been here. You would have been so happy and proud of them as a couple, and would have heartily approved of Josh’s choice of a wife! They’re like 2 peas in a pod, both sweet and very cute together! If you had come, then Daddy would have come, too. Jessica and Dan wished they could have seen him while they were in the states. We really missed not having both of you here. I’m so glad that you both were able to be at Jessica and Dan’s wedding. It helps me to visualize the pride and joy you would have felt at this wedding, too. Chantale says she’s really looking forward to meeting “Grandpa Jim” hopefully sometime soon!
The wedding was on a beautiful summer day. No rain, an answer to prayer since the ceremony was outside, like Jessica and Dan’s. But this one was in the woods at a more remote location. It was nice because Cardigan Lodge, where it was held, also has sleeping accommodations which was a big help especially for the out of town visitors, of which there were many since Chantale’s family came mostly from Canada, and further. It was relaxing because since several of us were there from Friday afternoon ‘til Sunday afternoon, there was also time to just hang out, enjoy a bonfire, go hiking, etc. Plus all the meals were taken care of. Anyway, it was a special occasion, and the newlywed couple are now on their extended honeymoon, camping, kayaking, hiking, biking and just generally loving the great outdoors together!
And it was really nice to get to know Chantale’s family better. We had met and spent time with Chantale’s parents previous to the wedding. They’re a lot of fun! One of the memorable times was at Josh and Chantale’s graduation from Calvin College in Michigan on May 21. We have some great pictures of the 2 of them in their caps and gowns that I need to get to Daddy.
Things have been extremely busy for the past month with many more people in the house and various houseguests, as well as organizing a bridal shower and big backyard party the week before the wedding! The house needs a major going through: putting things away, organizing, getting rid of things and cleaning as well as some fixer-up projects! It’s back down to Pete, Caleb and me with Caleb working full time and taking an EMT class 3 nights a week 'til the end of August, Anyway now that there is a little breather I wanted to write to you about the wedding. We really missed you! I plan to write in here again this week – on July 15th.
Will always love you lots and lots,
Your daughter, Debbie
July 11, 2011
Now, as every time I open the guest book I look at your picture and I can not help but remember the good times spent together with you your jokes and your laughter engaging.
Grace will be a year next week and believe me when I say
that we miss you, I wanted to return to harlong and hug and
talk with you in our dialect, which you liked so much.
I am saddened that I can not come to the ceremony, but I'll be there with my love and affection I have for you and Jim
(you were right when you said you were lucky to have Jim as a husband the love he has in his heart for you is great.
how was your big for him, which is very difficult today.)
is admirable!
Hello Grace, I love Mario and Trieste
postscript forgive me for my badEnglish I hope you
understand what I wrote I greet all those who loved and still
love a warm hug from GRACE
MARIO Cattarini Trieste
Margie
July 10, 2011
Mama, today is Danielle's 22nd birthday. It brings back so many memories from last year. That was the last weekend that we shared together. I remember Dennis cleaned and detailed your car for you and he hurt his lower back. I pulled the weeds out front while you were just trying to get from the bedroom to the living room without struggling. We went to a wedding last night at the Peppermill with dad. We all stayed together. I wish you could have been here. You would have had fun with me.
I love you and miss you. I can here you sign Hey Danielle it's your birthday. . . .just like on the tape that you and dad bought her so long ago.
Your in my thoughts everyday and I just want to give you big hugs and kisses.
Love Margie
Jim
July 10, 2011
Today 10 July 2011 is a special day for a special person who we know as Danielle Judge, our beautiful grandaughter.
Remember when we use to be walking along with her between us, swinging her back and forth, singing "skip-skip to the barber shop," taking her home for the weekend and spoiling her rotten? When you and Danielle together went visiting her Aunt Debbie and Uncle Chris and cousins in Massachusetts and New Hampshire. Today she is a young lade of Twenty-two years and almost a college graduate @ UNR. I am sure you would/am proud of her. I know you are looking down on her and wishing her the best in life as I do. We know you are here and always will be, IN SPIRIT.
God be with you. We MISS you so much --Your Legacy lives on. Your loving husband-JIM.
Margie
June 15, 2011
Well mom, today marks your 11th month anniversary. Sometimes it still doesn't seem real or possible. I miss you lots and will love you forever.
Margie Judge
May 9, 2011
Happy Mother's Day Mom. I am a day late. Dennis and I had to go to California to his mother's memorial service since she passed two months ago. Yesterday was quite a difficult day. Mom, you were the best really. I miss your companionship, your advice and your laughter. I miss your humor and your presence in our lives. Thank you for being the mom that you were and all the mother's days we were able to spend together. I love you. Dennis and Danielle love you too!
Jim Swaim
May 8, 2011
Hi Graziella:
This is a special MOTHERS DAY. This day has been one which I am flashing back the 55 years we had together. Love, there's only one way to put it - YOU ARE MY HERO. My Best Friend that will live for ever. You were the best MOM and even DAD during my absence during my Military absence. Thank you. No one could ever ask for anyone as devoted to the family as a MOM and WIFE. You are here in SPIRIT and your Legacy will Live on FOREVER. Your Loving Husband - Jim/Honey "Rest In Peace"P.S This Msg is written 1020 PM Pacific Standard Time
Debbie Garone
May 8, 2011
Happy Mother's Day, Mommy!
Just want to say how much I love you and so appreciate all you have been and will continue to be in my life! Thank you for your understanding, honesty, and caring. I'm planning to be out in Herlong this week visiting Daddy. I'll miss you not being there in person, but we'll still celebrate you and you'll be ever present in our thoughts and hearts.
We love you and miss you!
Debbie
Debbie Garone
April 19, 2011
Dear Mommy,
Today is Josh’s 22nd birithday. I’ve been meaning to write in here since December. On November 30, 2010, Josh proposed to his girlfriend, Chantale Andree, and they’re planning to get married this summer! One of the things I’ve been wanting to mention was about something you said last June, just after Josh left from visiting you and shortly before I left. It was one of the last “deeper” things that you said to me. You said something like, “I know Joshua does things you ask him to because he doesn’t want to disappoint you, but I can see he has a mind of his own and I like that.” That was one of those honest kinds of communications that I really miss. I know I treasure that little exchange and I shared it with Josh. I do miss having those kinds of conversations with you.
So along that theme. Josh and Chantale called us the night of Nov 30. I asked them if they did anything special that day for Chantale’s 21stbirthday. He told me a long list of things they did. He said, “We went to a wine tasting, went to the Meijer Botanical gardens, went out to dinner at a country club [(where they had a buy 1/get one free coupon), maybe there was something else in there, too,] and then we went over to the nature preserve [where Josh has worked] and I proposed to Chantale!” I said, “What?” He had bought a diamond ring and everything. He hadn’t talked to us or her dad or anything! I thought Chantale could very likely be the one, but the timing took us all by surprise! But he had given lots of thought to that, too. They both were finishing up with school that semester and especially since Chantale is from Canada, it was important to have a plan. Josh certainly does have a mind of his own!
As Josh told me when I saw him in Herlong in June, I’ll say to you, “You’d really like her.” You’ll get a chance to meet her in person some day! Because of the immigration stuff, planning the wedding has been very complicated. They were planning to have it in Canada in July, but they may need to move it to the USA and do a super-simple version. That’s all being talked through right now. Anyway, on this occasion of Josh’s birthday, I thought I should stop procrastinating and write this down!
I love and miss you!
Debbie
Margie
April 18, 2011
Mama, today is Dennis's 59th birthday. Dad, Dennis and I and some others had a get together at our house and celebrated his birthday. Wish you could have been here. We all had a good time. The weather was plesant.
I Love you.
Margie Judge
March 30, 2011
Hello God,
I called tonight
To talk a little while
I need a friend who'll listen
To my anxiety and trial
You see, I can't quite make it
Through a day just on my own.....
I need your love to guide me,
So I'll never feel alone.
I want to ask you please to keep
My family safe and sound.
Come and fill they're lives with confidence
For whatever fate they're bound.
Give me faith, dear God,to face
Each hour throughout the day,
And not to worry over things
I can't change in any way.
I thank you God, for being home
And listening to my call,
For giving me such good advice
when I stumble and I fall.
Your number, God is the only one
That answer every time.
I never get a busy signal,
Never had to pay a dime.
So thank you, God for listening
To my troubles and my sorrow.
Good night, God, I love you too,
And I'll call again tomorrow!
- Found on mom's computer by my dad on March 29, 2010.
I miss you mom so much. Love Margie
Margie and Dennis Judge
March 15, 2011
Hi Mom. Today marks your 8 month anniversary since your passing. I am purchasing two long stem red rose bushes and dad is going to plant one in the front and one in the back of the house. This is in your memory. I know that those were your favorite. We love you and miss you.
Danielle Judge
February 13, 2011
Hi Noni! It's been awhile since I've written on here but that's ok. I just wanted to come and tell you that I love you and I miss you so much. I wish you were here to see that I'm finally doing good in math...haha.I wish you could see my new place! Grandpa saw it and he seemed to like it :) Guess what? I think I am going to try to make pasta fagioli! Watch over me with that endeavour! Maybe some day I can make one as tasty as yours. I'm also taking sewing lessons soon. My first project is an apron which I'm really excited to make since I've always wanted to anyhow. I really miss you...It still seems strange to me that you are not here but I know that you are always with me. ALWAYS. I hope you are on the shores of Trieste with your mom watching over us.
I love you,
Your grand baby
Danielle
Jim Swaim
February 12, 2011
Ciao Graziella.Today marks our 12th anniversary, commemorating our appearance at the RAI - unomattina TV appearance in Rome, Italy. along with Ugo Borsatti (the photographer) who took the famous photo of us as we(the GI's) were leaving Trieste for Leghorn, Italy by train. The Legacy is recorded in the history books and will live for ever. Your spirit is with me/us each day and your Legacy lives on for ever and ever AMEN. I/We miss you very much. Rest In Peace. LOVE YOU. Your loving Husband "JIM/HONEY"
Jim Swaim
February 1, 2011
Ciao Graziella.
Remember where we were this day in 1978? We were on our way west to my new employment @ Sierra Army Depot which was also my birthday. Our last travel day, (4th) which was the 4th of Feb, was traveling from Rawlins, Wyoming to the big town of Doyle California. Approximately 900 Miles. I was ready to sleep anywhere after that long journey. Well guess what, when we woke up the next morning the first question "where in the heck are we". Remember where we were on 1 Feb 2003. We had a surprise on my 70th Birthday when Debbie and Chris appeared out of nowhere at Margie and Dennis'es home in Carson City, Nv. They flew in from the east coast to make it a true family get-together. How wonderful it was to have the entire family together once again. I am sure, MY LOVE those memories will last for ever. GOD BE WITH YOU, MY LOVE. REST IN PEACE. Your Loving Husband. Jim
Margie, Dennis and Danielle Judge
January 15, 2011
Happy six month anniversary mama. It really just seems like yesterday that you were here. We all miss you everyday but know you are looking down upon us all. We still love you so much! I hope with time the sense of loss will be a little less.
Love,
Jim - Your Loving Husband
January 1, 2011
Mom, this is an entry for your husband and honey, my father - Jim. He wanted to make sure that you know he is at the Peppermill carrying on tradition celebrating the new year - like you guys have done often. He has you next to his heart with a photograph that was taken when you both attended the New Years Eve Peppermill party. I am making this entry for him since he is unable to get WiFi. You are in his thoughts, heart and presence today and everyday.
With Much Love from Your Honey. Happy New Year 2011 Graziella!!!!!!
Margie and Dennis Judge
January 1, 2011
Hello Mama. Happy 2011! I hope this year is better than last year. You are in our thoughts today and everyday. We miss you and love you.
James Swaim
December 25, 2010
Hello Graziella. Yesterday Your sister Gianna called me and we talked, wishing me a Merry Christas. We talked about yester years. It was fifty seven years ago that I and my two friends were invited to the house of, who became my future wife for 55+ years. This day / was celebrated at Margie
and Dennis'es house in Carson City, Nv. You were with us, today my love, in spirit. After Danielle and her Fiancie departed, Dennis, Margie and I spent a little recreation time at a casino and I was a winner because you were with us, cheering us on. I had several photoes, expressing events over the last couple of years, with us during the evening. Debbie and Chris sent their greetings. Thank you, my love for the many lovely years of memorable events. We miss you and you will always be in our hearts. We will be together again someday. Our Love from tne whole family. I/WE LOVE YOU MORE THAN YOU WILL EVER KNOW. Your Loving Husband Jim / Honey
margie and dennis judge
December 25, 2010
Dear mom
Today is Christmas,and we had a wonderful day missing you along the way. You are always on our minds and in our day and in our hearts. We had pictures of you posted around the house. You were with us in spirit today and we love you lots! The attached photo is a rememberance of you.
Marriage Certificate 1954
James Swaim
November 28, 2010
Happy Anniversary, My Love. Just a few short years ago (56yrs) we stood in front of the Magistrate, sort of like the Justice of the Peace and said the equivilant of " I DO", we recorded our names in the Ledger and the rest is history. This all happened in Leghorn, Italy 28 Nov 1954. I just finished talking to Annie Northcutt. They were in line to be the next to get married after us. Bill, her husband passed a few years ago but we have managed to stay in touch all these years. Graziella, it has been a beautiful journey and I count my blessings every day to have our wonderful loving family. Both children and Grand children. I know you had the lords prayer in your every day life and I would like for you to remember it this moment. "Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be Thy name, Thy Kingdom come, Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread, and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory forever. AMEN" LOVE YOU GRAZIELLA _ REST IN PEACE> Your Loving Husband and Best Friend< Jim
Debbie Garone
November 28, 2010
I want to write a little something today, November 28, 2010, in honor of the anniversary of my mom and dad’s marriage 56 years ago today in Livorno, Italy. I feel like this year I have a much deeper sense and appreciation of the love they shared for each other. In the past I would sometimes notice little things they did that seemed to slightly annoy the other and cause the other to say, “Honey!” No big deal and I knew they loved each other. How could they not, being together for all those years!
But this year, I’ve been able to see things on a much deeper level. First, with my mom, while she was going through her illness. She said several times, “I’m not afraid to die, I’m just concerned for your father if I’m not here.” She seemed to be more concerned for my dad’s welfare than her own! Well, I’m thankful to say, Mommy, that it seems like Daddy is doing OK, considering the terrible sense of loss and loneliness I know he’s felt. I think a lot of that is because Margie, Dennis and Danielle have been there for him, something I’m so thankful for!
And to watch how my dad cared for my mom during those difficult days, always encouraging and giving hope, and being patient – labors of love. But one thought that’s been coming to my mind the past few days is something related to a passage in John 11:35,36 in the Bible. Jesus’ good friend Lazarus had died and Jesus went to the village where Lazarus and his sisters, Mary and Martha, had lived. Even though he was about to raise Lazarus from the dead the passage says: “Jesus wept. Then the Jews said, “See how he loved him!” I won’t go into a long theological exegesis of this, except to simply say, that’s how I’ve felt about my dad’s love for my mom.
So, I’m so thankful for my mom and dad and for their marriage and I want to say, “Happy Anniversary!”
Love,
Debbie
P.S. See their wedding photo in my dad’s Thanksgiving entry!
Jim
November 25, 2010
Hi Graziella, HAPPY THANKSGIVING.
We Miss you very much. Today is only Dennis, Margie and I. Isn't it somthing, in the past it has been the "Cirrincionies", your brother and sister-in-law ( Reno & Anna) , the Judges W/Danielle. The Swaims, (Chris, Robyn, Kyle). Before that, A neighbor, Anne Samoski. Life has been a real journey. Can you imagine, in 1974, which was a venture with the Special services to a Island of(Siapan). It was in conjunction with our 20th aniversary "28 Nov 54" while stationed on the Island of Guam. The trip included, Me (Jim)., you (Graziella), Debbie and Margie. This Mini vacation also represented our Anniversary. (Our 20th) We Had a wonderful time. We took a tour of the island which included a trip to the suicide cliff. The cliff became a memorial for the japenese. This was a results of the Amreican invasion of the island. We are trying to have a traditional thanksgiving, but it will never be the same without you. We Love You and Miss you Graziella. Jim, Dennis, Margie. Rest In Peace. We will be together again Someday. Your loving Husband, Jim
Margie
November 16, 2010
Mom, yesterday was four months since your passing. I think of you often and miss you a bunch. Next week is Thanksgiving which Dennis, Dad and I are going to share together in Herlong. I am going to cook a turkey, gravy, and the traditional stuff we usually have. The pie won't be the same but I'll try. Especially your apple pie and pumpkin pie. Your gravy was extra special too. I sure miss you mom. We appreciate dad doing well and coping with what he can. He gets frustrated and overwhelmed I think sometimes with doing all the things that you use to do and very rarely complained.
I love you. Happy Thanksgiving and Happy Anniversary....
Danielle Judge
November 15, 2010
Noni,
I haven't visited this page in awhile but today I decided to. As I was reading through all the beautiful entries I came upon one from Valnea and guess which one it was? :) The one that you used to tell me about wanting to go with your mom somewhere but you would have to by a ticket to go so you pretended that you couldn't walk because you had bad knees! HA! and you got to go! only someone as sweet as you could have pulled that one off. I'm so grateful of all the times I got to spend with you and eternally grateful to my parents who loved me enough to move to Carson just so I could get to grow up with Grandparents. Yesterday grandpa visited me at work. It was nice to see him. I miss him all the time. Guess what he bought me? (it would be us but that's ok), NUTELLA! yum. Everytime I go up there I always eat some in your memory. Everytime I'm up there I can always feel you around me. When I go to bed it seems like I can hear your walk down the hallway to say goodnight, your soft footsteps and your braclets making noise. I miss you terribly but I know that you will always be with me. I asked grandpa to get me sewing lessons for Christmas so I can learn to be as good a seamstress as you were! There are many things that I hope I can learn so I can walk in your footsteps. Ryan and Ethan are doing well. I'm glad I have Ryan around becuase he always cheers me up and makes me the happiest which would make you the happiest.
On Friday we all went down to Carson to have dinner at mom and dad's and it was great! I made stuffed manicotti (which was delicious) and mom made the salad. I seasoned it just the way you taught me. I feel like I could go on forever...just like mom, I miss talking to you often and I miss your opinion. I would like to go through all the old movies like we wanted to sometime. I also think I am seriously going to learn italian. Before too long I want to go visit all your family in Italy...who knows, maybe I can even get grandpa to go!
Grandpa is trying really hard to cope with you not being around. We're all proud of him. You should have seen this tomato bush noni! It was LOADED with green tomatoes. It was like this one bush supplied all the tomatoes for the season. So, we cut them off and took them home to ripen. Maybe I can find a green tomato recipe.
Well, I guess that's it for now. It was nice to let out some of these things. And I'm glad Valnea posted that story. Hopefully more stories come out as time passes...those ones are my favorite.
I love you,
your baby's baby
Danielle
Josh Garone
November 6, 2010
Nona,
Another year has passed… and your presence lives on. Although we find a piece of the world missing and we will forever feel the effects of that void, parts of you will always prevail. The love you have expressed still showers over over us and you have made such differences in so many lives. We miss you and long for a time to see you again, immersed in perfect love and unity.
-Josh
Caleb Garone
November 5, 2010
Happy Birthday Nona! As I think about what I would like to say to you, a great feeling of peace has washed over me. Somehow I know that this feeling is your presence. I want to thank you for all the strength you have shown and that love you still continue to rain down upon me. Your joy and energy live on inside of me- I cant thank you enough for this comfort. You gave everything you had. Thank You.
I Love you.
Dennis Judge
November 4, 2010
Happy Birthday Gracie, we all miss you.
November 4, 2010
Good Morning MY LOVE. This is your Beautiful day, 4 Nov but this time IN SPIRIT. Danielle and I have already celebrated your BIRTHDAY a day early because she is here and must leave early to return to colledge. We had a memorable time remembering the good times. I bought one of your favorite cakes "Panetone Milanese". I made a sort of a display on your favorite step ladder, placed it in front of the piano, placed the cake on the top step. I hung a sign on the second step reading 4 Nov 34 "76" 4 Nov 2010 wishing you HAPPY BIRTHDAY, to My Darling Graziella - MOM - NONI - IN SPIRIT. Third step - A Birthday card from ME - The one that Misses you Very Much. I also extended a feature out from the top of the ladder and hung a 9 x 12 Photo of you standing by the front gate with a beautiful Pink rose. Along side that I hung the photo of you and Daniell, Danielle was about 3 yrs old and you blowing out the candles for her. Daniell's favorite photo. TODAY IS GOING TO BE A GREAT DAY. Your Loving Husband Rest In Peace
Debbie Garone
November 4, 2010
Dear Mommy,
We will all be thinking about you today, Nov 4, 2010, on what would have been your 76th birthday. I just want you and Daddy to know how much I treasure the time I got to spend in Herlong with the 2 of you this year. It was a real gift. 7 1/2 weeks with both of you and another 2 with just Daddy: 1 week in Jan with Pete there; 3 weeks in Feb/March; 3 1/2 weeks in June when Naomi came up for 4 days from San Diego; and after you went home to be with the Lord, about 2 weeks with Daddy. That time is something I will treasure forever!
It was a very difficult time, with pain management, trying to get you to eat and drink enough, hospital stays due to dehydration, diverticulitis and when you had the vertebroplasty done; dealing with the oxygen, getting you to breath "in through your nose, out through your mouth", putting the back brace on, using the walker, etc. But God gave us all his grace to get through each day.
I'm so thankful that I had the flexibility to do this since I didn't have work outside the home. Also it was very sad when we had to put Penny down on Feb 12 due to liver failure at 13 1/2 yrs old, but I believe God had his hand in that timing, too. It enabled me to be out there without wondering who was taking care of Penny.
It was a very unique opportunity to spend that much time with you guys in my adult life, with an "empty nest" and no real kid responsibilities, except for those a mom feels for her kids her whole life, even when they are grown and married. I knew Pete would be fine. It was an opportunity to "give back" for all the years you gave to us kids.
I came to be a help and a blessing and I was blessed! I treasured praying with you, us both reading our "Daily Breads" to be encouraged from God's Word, saying grace before dinner together. I thought it was very sweet that during one of your hospital stays, after we had gotten back to Herlong and we were having dinner, that Daddy suggested we call you so you could participate with us in saying grace.
And you would be so proud right now of how Margie, Dennis and Danielle are taking care of Daddy. I think it's great that Danielle tries to come up every other Wednesday to spend the night in Herlong and spend some time with Daddy. And how they've all gone and got wood and are helping out with cleaning chores when they visit. I think they would all agree that you were the "cleanie" of the 2 of you!
I know Daddy misses your daily companionship terribly, but hopefully the pain and sadness will ease and I think it has some. You would be proud of him and how he's striving to find a new "normal", taking it one day at a time, and taking care of daily responsibilities. There are better days and harder days. I'm glad he's feeling free to express his sadness. That's healthy and will help with going through the necessary, healthy steps of grieving.
I miss you, too, Mommy. But I'm so thankful for the hope we have in Jesus Christ of being united in heaven one day! Thank you for all you did for us. We love you and want to wish you a Happy Birthday today!
Debbie
Wendy Matuszak
November 3, 2010
Happy birthday, Gracie -
Gianna
November 3, 2010
November 03, 2010
graziella dear, tomorrow was your birthday I want to tell you that most 'time passes and more' me manchi.so that you are near me that I am consoled by a po.ti always carry in my heart rest in peace your gianna.
~ Gianna, trieste
Anna & Rino
November 3, 2010
From Anna and Rino:Italian to English translation:
November 2, 2010
Because there is no SMALL, QA EVEN IF YOUR PRESENCE SO FAR AND STILL WE MISS YOU,, YOUR MISSING THE LAUGH TOMORROW Nov. 4 THE DAY OF AGE, YOU FEMATA BUT I WILL CONTINUE TO SEND OUR HEART ALWAYS WITH LOVE AND AFFECTION A ADDRESS A BIG HUG,,, ANNA AND YOUR RINO Big brother
Margie
November 3, 2010
Dear Mom, tomorrow, November 4th is or would have been your birthday you would have been 76 years old. I wanted to wish you a happy birthday and tell you that I miss you and love you so much! Dad and Danielle are having a little party for you tonight. Shhhhh! It's a secret.
gianna
November 3, 2010
cara ggraziella,domani sarebbe stato il tuo compleanno voglio dirti che piu' passa il tempo e piu' mi manchi.so che mi sei vicina questo mi consola un po.ti porto sempre nel mio cuore riposa in pace tua gianna.
November 2, 2010
qUANTO MANCHI PICCOLA ,QA ANCHE SE TANTO LONTANO LA TUA PRESENZA E SEMPRE IN NOI TU MANCHI ,,MANCANO LE TUO RIDERE ,DOMANI 4 NOVEMBRE IL GIORNO DELLA VECCHIAIA ,TI SEI FEMATA MA IO CONTINUERO A MANDARE SEMPRE CON IL NOSTRO CUORE AFFETTO E AMORE UN SALUTO UN GRANDE ABBRACCIO ,,,ANNA E IL TUO FRATELLONE RINO
Margie Judge
October 29, 2010
Yesterday, Dad, Danielle and I attended the memorial in memory of those people who passed away in July, August and September at St. Mary's Hospital in Reno. The place was "standing room only". I realized that there are so many others that are missing their loved ones just as we are. Dad had the tri-fold displays up and your wedding picture was right up in the front of the whole audience. We lit candles for you. A lady who attended the service that sat behind us told me that you must have been very elegant. I would say that my mama always had class and a lot of it!I do miss you mama. I want to call you, talk to you, ask your opinion of things and share things with you as we did so many times but realize that I can't do that. I know that Dad is trying real hard to cope with you not being here. The house is empty and quiet. Coping comes and goes. I kind of compare it to a roller coaster ride sometimes. We have been in the woods and got 7 loads of wood - always looking for you to limb the branches or take the bark off which you always liked to do. I know that you are in a better place and at peace. No more suffering, no more pain. Pleae know that we are taking care of dad and are doing the best we can. I know that you were worried about that. It is and will be alright. We are all going to get through this in our own way. Remember that you touched our lives in so many ways. We love you mucho and miss you.
Valnea Riva
October 29, 2010
October 27, 2010 Written by Graziella's sister, Valnea, of Torino, Italy:
Dear graziella, six went forth and here we stayed three. I am sure you will have met MOM and sara, I hope your. every person who goes away leaves a vacuum and many regrets. I want to remind an episode when you were little. our mammatutti months ranged in the city centre to cash the money orders of allowances that we waited. regolache one of us was the same, then we had to eat a Mussel soup and drink a capuccino. tu graziella won't you presented that you bring with you and you cried and said, MOM please take me with you. Mama replied can't 'cause otherwise had to pay a ticket in piu ' and this was costing. tu you had devised a plan, when you salivate on tram you bent knees so not to reach the meter in height. the conductor you felt it and said to her mother, Lady told the girl to stay straight. tu you answered I can't because I have bad knees. thus did the free trip and eri happy. graziella I remember like a shout all day and then we will remember a thousand things lived together. Hello graziella ci vediamo. your sister valnea.
~ Valnea
Valnea Riva
October 27, 2010
Written by Graziella's sister, Valnea, of Torino, Italy:
cara graziella,sei andata via e qui siamo rimasti in tre.sono certa che avrai incontrato mamma e sara, lo spero proprio.ogni persona che se ne va lascia un vuoto e tanti rimpianti.io voglio ricordare un episodio di quando eri piccola.nostra mammatutti i mesi andava in centro citta' per incassare il vaglia degli assegni famigliari che ci aspettavano. era regolache uno di noi la accompagnasse,poi ci portava a mangiare una pastina e bere un capuccino.tu graziella non ti rassegnavi che non ti portasse con lei e piangevi e dicevi, mamma ti prego portami con te.mamma ti rispondeva non posso perche' altrimenti doveva pagare un biglietto in piu' e cio' era un costo.tu avevi escogitato un piano, quando salivi sul tram piegavi le ginocchia in modo di non raggiungere il metro di altezza.il bigliettaio si accorgeva e diceva a mamma, signora dica a la bambina di stare diritta.tu rispondevi non posso perche' ho male alle ginocchia.cosi' facevi il viaggio gratis e eri contenta.graziella voglio ricordarti cosi'.un giorno ci rivedremo tutti e allora ricorderemo mille cose vissute assieme.ciao graziella ci vediamo.tua sorella valnea.
Anna Buzan
October 11, 2010
Translation:
Hello,,, today I am happy, and then wanted to talk to you .. I'm fine, I think where you Tovi you too '.. Graziella Sunday I went to the cinema and I enjoyed it so much, a nice Italian film and continues .. to recommend to go see. I'm fine,, well you know he'll RINO and I think he does understand when we speak, you souvenirs when you were all that fun in TRIESTE, we went to dance at Bottega del Vino and will be the old dancing the bughi bughi give me so many souvenirs a kiss, Cogne. ANNA
~ ANNA Buzan, TRIESTE
ANNA BUZAN
October 6, 2010
Ciao ,,,oggi sono felice ,,e allora volevo parlare con te ..io sto bene ,penso dove ti tovi pure tu '..Graziella domenica sono andata al cinema e mi sono tanto divertita ,un simpatico film italiano ..e continua a consigliare di andare a vedere .io sto bene ,,pure RINO tu sai lui ti pensa e me lo fa capire quando parliamo ,,,ti riccordi quando tutte voi eravate a TRIESTE che allegria ,,siamo andate a ballare alla BOTTEGHA DEL VINO e SARA la piu vecchia che ballava il bughi bughi che bello tanti riccordi un bacio ,,COGNIATA. ANNA
All Your TOPS Friends
September 24, 2010
Grace,
For the many years that you were in TOPS, you brought such encouragement to all of us. We enjoyed hearing your stories and you could always make us laugh. You were always there to help at group functions and ARD trips were a lot more fun with you there. Your smiling face and positive attitude will truly be missed by all of us who were blessed to know you.
Mario Cattarini
September 21, 2010
September 21, 2010
Dear grace strange thing is that we met through my yahoo years ago, perhaps because they spoke the same dialect, perhaps because I knew your friends and
relatives but by priority when I spoke with you I felt I was born comfort.così a friendship was beautiful, still remember the times spent with you the laughter and
your jokes, but above all the love and adoration for your jim. I thank the hospitality was when I came to you. I understand why so much love around you can not be
otherwise, and now I am part of this love and I too will remain in my heart forever .. do not forget you my dear Triestina from MARIO
September 21, 2010
Hi Graziella:
I want everyone to know who James and Byron is. I am the same one who married the lady (Grace). Thank you Peggy for your gracious rememberance. Thanks for all the memories created over the years. My sister-in-law, Peggy and David, my older brother have a place in our hearts for ever. God Bless. (Byron)-(James)-(Jim)-(Honey)-(Dad)-(Grand-Pa) Your Loving Husand, Jim
Peg Swaim
September 20, 2010
From the first time we met Grace, I felt like she was the sister of my heart.
When the four of us got together we always had such fun.
There was never anything phony about Grace. She was a very warm and caring person.
I have always thought James and Grace had a marriage made in heaven. When you were around them you could feel the love they had for each other.
I feel she's up there watching over James and wanting him to remember all of the happy times they had together.
Byron, you have our love.
David and Peg Swaim
September 18, 2010
Translation from Giana CirriHello Graziella, six was a sister so dear. I miss you, no words can express the void that I have in my heart. I am missing our long clear conversations and your laugh when I told thee conatagiosa jokes. Six been brava and courageous in your disease an example to us all. I am reassured to know that you more, I hope you rest in peace alongside nostar dear MOM and to Sara. You always in my heart, in every moment of the day. I put on my bedside table with a photo of yourself in your arm Danielle very small. You have an expression so sweet while the watch and so that you'll want to remember. Thanks for the good that I've wanted, your Gianna.
~ Gianna Cirrincione, Trieste
[Automatically translated by Microsoft® Translator]ncione of August 7, 2010:
September 18, 2010
Translation from Rosanna:
I knew graziella through my friend Gianna, have seen it only once during a trip to Trieste, but atrraverso words of sister I known some more. I consrvato her photos in the newspaper of Trieste, photo symbol for that period and for his life. many times I saw Chris his son a good man and polite. With Gianna I followed unfortunately the evolution of the disease and his death is arrived too soon because it was hoped to win. Her husband, that I have ever heard of a good man that wanted very well say my thoughts at this time so difficult. Rosanna-Trieste
[Automatically translated by Microsoft® Translator]Rossana's Entry:
Danielle Judge
September 15, 2010
Noni,
I was just thinking about you. I am studying for an exam tomorrow in the library and I got the urge to see you or communicate my thoughts. I know this is a little different than writing you a personal message because everyone can read it but I don't really care. I just wanted to say that I loved and do love you so much. I will always remember that, "we use to have such a good time" when I was little. Even for the last year I always enjoyed talking and being around you. You are my favorite person and someday I'd like to go meet the rest of the family in Italy. That is a part of you I never knew but I know that I'd fine a lot of you in them. I miss you terribly. Everyday I ride past the hospital and there is not a moment that I don't hold my breath and think of you. I know you are always with me. There is no way you couldn't be, I was your baby's baby you know :) I hope you are having a great time watching over us. Thank you for helping grandpa put in the sprinkler system! He does the things he does in the memory of you. I hope that these little coincidences of you keep popping up..like the E.T. doll and the stereo. Well, I have to get back to studying but I thought I'd come on here and write something. I love you, and don't worry, we're taking care of grandpa. He couldn't be in better hands.
I will keep you with me and I love you
Danielle
September 15, 2010
Grace,
We have many great time at our ARD in TOPS. Our meeting are not the same with out you. We think about you every meeting. We know you are in good and loving hands.
Karen Jones Herlong Ca.
Terri Laughlin
September 15, 2010
Grace,
You were such an important part of the TOPS group. You are missed and I personally will always remember our Italy stories. I will remember the belly dancing. Most importantly, I will remember your energy and loving spirit. Ciao, god bless
September 7, 2010
Ho conosciuto graziella tramite la mia amica Gianna, l'ho vista solo una volta durante un suo viaggio a Trieste, ma atrraverso le parole della sorella l'ho conosciuta un pò di più. Ho consrvato le sue foto sul giornale di trieste, foto simbolo per quel periodo e per la sua vita.Molte volte ho visto Chris suo figlio un uomo buono e gentile. Con Gianna ho seguito purtroppo l'evolversi della malattia e la sua morte è arrivata troppo presto perchè si sperava di vincere. Al marito, di cui ho sempre sentito parlare di un uomo buono che le ha voluto molto bene rivolgo il mio pensiero in questo momento così difficile. Rosanna - Trieste
paolo apollonio
September 7, 2010
Dear Graziella, you will be always in my heart, and when i think about you, i see the imagine in Longiaru Mountain when we walk togheter and play Cotecio..... so this is what i want remeber, you and us that we smiling under a beatiful sky from where you are looking us, now. I love you Paolo
Gianna Cirrincione
September 7, 2010
Ciao Graziella, sei stata una sorella tanto cara. Mi manchi, nessuna parola puo' esprimere il vuoto che ho nel cuore. Mi mancano le nostre lunghe telefonate e la tua risata conatagiosa quando ti raccontavo le barzellette. Sei stata brava e coraggiosa nella tua malattia un esempio per tutti noi. Mi consola sapere che non soffri piu', spero che tu riposi in pace assieme alla nostar cara mamma e a Sara. Ti porto sempre nel mio cuore, in ogni momento della giornata. Ho messo sul mio comodino una tua foto con Danielle piccolissima in braccio tuo. Hai un'espressione cosi' dolce mentre la guardi e cosi' che ti voglio ricordare. Grazie per il bene che mi hai voluto, Tua Gianna.
September 6, 2010
My Darling Graziella:
Today is Labor day, Sept 6 2010 and what a lovely day. One person missing is YOU.
I wanted to give an update on a very nutorius event. I sent Ogo Borsatti two e-mails, expressing my appreciation for his life-long association as "The Photographer that started the world renound Photo taken by him in 1954. I would like to convey his very kind compassionate thoughts. Quote From Ugo Borsatti. "Dear Jim, I received your two e-mail; they really moved me. Graziella had become a member of our family and it seems almost impossible to me and my wife Bruna, that she is no longer with us. Not only to us. You cannot imagine how many persons, friends, cutomers, neighbors have been close to you when they knew the sad news about Graziella.
Dear Jim, we remember with affection the beautiful evening spent with you all in the day of your anniversary. 50th.
An affectionate hug your UGO." End of e-mail quote. I have invited Ugo to sign the guest book. Thank You UGO and God speed.
I love You Graziella. Your loving Husband, Jim "I MISS YOU VERY MUCH"
Jessica Ashton
September 1, 2010
Hi Nonna,
I miss you a whole lot but I feel lucky that I got to know you, even if most of it has just been in the past couple years. As a kid I have fond memories of visiting you and Grandpa in Herlong and you coming to visit us. It was always exciting with the walks in the desert and all of the fruit trees. I just wish those visits had been more frequent. In the past couple years is when we really got to spend some time together. I really appreciated getting your opinion on things and hearing the stories that you had about when you were growing up. You have lived an amazing life and touched a lot of people. It's hard to think that next time we're in California you won't be there. I'm glad that you got to meet Dan and approved of him. He loves you and misses you as well. We were so lucky to have you as a grandmother. Love you
Wendy Matuszak
August 31, 2010
I met Gracie 31 years ago at the Commissary in Herlong. She became a wonderful friend, and a very special person in both my life and that of my very young son. Margie became Jeremy's long-time baby sitter, and Gracie came with the package - she read to him, played with him, and was an integral part of his young life. Gracie scolded, loved, and protected all she loved with equal fervor, and I am both lucky and blessed to have known and loved her. I miss you, Gracie, and I will never forget the part you played in my life.
Anna and Rino
August 29, 2010
Translation from Anna and Rino:
August 26, 2010 thanks de to have been my cogniata in order thus much time. Me riccordo before the time THAT I HAVE KNOWN to YOU YOU WERE MUCH BEAUTIFUL one AND AVVEVI ALREADY 2 CHILDREN LITTLE ONES, SIX ARRIVED FROM gERMAGNIA WITH ALL your FAMILY, I HAVE STILL BRIVIDI RICCORDANDO THAT MOMENT .io AVVEVO 15 YEARS NOW OF it I HAVE 64 QUANTON EPASSAto TIME and then we are seen still, I Co you have avvuto a sweet relationship you I was always thus optimistic sorridente I .mi riccordo when we have come from you we are I remained a po from you and we have cooked the gniocchi and Daniel played papers with RINO, then the day of the thanks never I have not always seen while still alive my turkeys thus large, and then thanks to you and aGim we have gone after 50 years to CJCHO to see my cousins IVANO thanks and many thanks. I have the heart that cries in thinking that not there are, wonders, because, you a good daughter sister and wife and a great Graziella mother far thanks of being remained much neighbor anoi thus and never lacked a your telephone call do not have our birthdays the augugi aNata them a thought. .le long you telephone with your sister who today not c' e' piuso that you pssavate in thinking your youth, and, then iltuo great love your Rino brother that it always took to you ingiro, and you always repeated that must portarti respect because you are oldest, but you know that it always jokes, I you know that you have left for along travel and we will look at but you have been special cogniata, you you have left bellaq a family, your sons your grandsons who you loved year and will love you always x you have been the company of a mewraviglioso man who we cannot dimentcare it because it makes part of we and knows that it wants, not to forget to us well to us amorew watches dall' high and prottegici thanks, annba and rino
Mauro Zoch Translation
August 27, 2010
English translation:
August 26, 2010 some years ago, in Trieste, I think in 2004, I had the pleasure and two wonderful people, Graziella and Jim.
A beautiful couple, with a story behind it worthy to be told in a book or a film.
Remember, with what color and enthusiasm Grace told the elapsed and this with his great love, Jim.
Nice, tender, cheerful, simple manner and in speaking, sent only positive sensations.
There is so much sadness in me now, I think it may suffer in this time Jim.
Sò definitely you will watch and listen anytime he is close and will remain forever.
Mauro, Trieste, Italy.
Mauro Zoch
August 26, 2010
Qualche anno fà, a Trieste, penso nel 2004,ho avuto il piacere e la fortuna di conoscere due persone stupende, Graziella e Jim.
Una bellissima coppia, con una storia alle spalle degna d'esser raccontata in un libro o in un film.
Ricordo, con che colore ed entusiasmo Grace raccontava il trascorso e il presente con il suo grande amore, Jim.
Simpatica, spigliata, semplice nei modi e nel parlare, trasmetteva solo sensazioni positive.
C'è tanta tristezza in me ora, penso a quanto possa soffrire in questo momento Jim.
Sò sicuramente però che lei lo guarda e lo ascolta, in ogni momento gli è vicina e lo sarà per sempre.
Mauro, Trieste, Italia.
grazirlla
August 26, 2010
grazie de esser stata mia cogniata per cosi tanto tempo .Mi riccordo la prima voltA CHE TI HO CONOSCIUTO ERI MOLTO BELLA E AVVEVI GIA 2 BAMBINI PICCOLI ,,,SEI ARRIVATA DALLA gERMAGNIA CON TUTTA LA TUA FAMIGLIA ,,HO ANCORA I BRIVIDI RICCORDANDO QUEL MOMENTO .io AVVEVO 15 ANNI ORA NE HO 64 QUANTON TEMPO EPASSAto e poi ci siamo viste ancora ,,io co te ho avvuto un dolce rapporto tu eri sempre cosi ottimista sempre sorridente io .mi riccordo quando siamo venuti da te siamo rimasi un po da voi e abbiamo cucinato i gniocchi e Daniel giocava carte con RINO ,poi il giorno del ringraziamento non ho mai visto in vita mia tacchini cosi grandi ,e poi grazie a te e aGim siamo andati dopo 50 anni a CJCHO a vedere mio cugino IVANO grazie e tante grazie .Io ho il cuore che piange nel pensare che non ci sei ,,mi domando ,,perche,,tu una brava figlia sorella e moglie e una grande mamma Graziella grazie di essere rimasta tanto vicino anoi cosi lontani non e mai mancata una tua telefonata hai nostri compleanni gli augugi aNatale un pensiero ..le lunghe telefonate con tua sorella che oggi non c'e' piuso che ve la pssavate nel pensare la vostra gioventu ,,e,poi iltuo grande amore tuo fratello Rino che lui ti prendeva sempre ingiro ,e tu ripetevi sempre che deve portarti rispetto perche sei la piu vecchia ,,,ma tu sai che lui scherza sempre ,io so che tu sei partita per un lungo viaggio e ci vedremo ma sei stata una cogniata speciale ,, tu hai lasciato una bellaq famiglia ,i tuoi figli i tuoi nipoti che ti anno amato e ti ameranno x sempre tu sei stata la compagnia di un uomo mewraviglioso che noi non lo possiamo dimentcare perche lui fa parte di noi e so che lui ci vuole bene ,non dimenticarci amorew guarda dall'alto e prottegici grazie ,,,annba e rino
Vivian Peterson
August 8, 2010
In 1998 I joined a group of local ladies who walked through the desert and around the Herlong dump each morning at 7am. Minta Young, Lavonne Shaff, Grace and I spent many hours walking, talking, and joking like school girls. We often marveled at the natural beauty of God's creation.
In January of 2001 Grace accepted a position with West Patton Village. On her first day of work Grace said, "Oh, by the way, I'm taking a vacation to Italy for a few weeks". One month later Grace returned ready for work.
Grace never worked as an administrative assistant in an office before. Every task was new to her. One day I answered the phone. It was the BOP calling. They explained that they had just received a large FAX from us; 23 blank pages. Grace was a fast learner. I never again had to say, "Grace, turn the pages face down".
Grace always found the most efficient way to accomplish any project or task she was given. She adored her financial responsibilities and loved working with the West Patton Village customers.
I was always amazed by Grace's unique ability to remember the smallest detail of any event that occurred years before.
The collection of monthly customer payments was a large part of Grace's job. Each time she succeeded in collecting an overdue payment I would tell her, "Good work Grace, you are SO mean". She would always reply, "I wasn't like this until I started working with YOU"!
Grace will truly be missed by everyone in the Herlong community.
Grace Swaim - April 27 2005
Vivian Peterson
August 8, 2010
Debbie Garone
August 5, 2010
I miss Mommy, too. It hits me at different times. Today I came across the anniversary card that she had picked out in June. It was really pretty. And it was special, but sad, knowing that was the last anniversary card that would come from "Mom and Dad". But I think it will be like that, some thoughts will bring smiles, others will bring tears. But I guess that's all part of living and loving and remembering. Thank you, Mommy, for all that you were and always will be to us, those of us who love you and who you loved. I look forward to seeing you again one day!
James Swaim
August 5, 2010
To My loving wife to whom I contribute this message. You were the best friend, and a partner who made my life complete. We will be together again, my love. Love you for ever. Rest in Peace. Your loving Husband. Jim
james Swaim
August 5, 2010
My darling wife Graziella and I had a wonderful and a full life. I am honored to have shared the many years together. I miss you very much and I know we will be together again someday. My love, Rest In Peace. Your loving Husband JIM
Margie Judge
August 4, 2010
My mama. I miss her so much and love her. She was someone that I looked up to and asked advice of. What gets me through sometimes - even if it hour by hour and day by day is the knowledge of knowing that she is not in pain or suffering anymore. I understand that she really is in a better place. She always will be in a place of my heart that no one can fill - except my mama.
Stephanie Waters
July 27, 2010
Hi Chris, I was so sorry to hear about your loss! My thoughts are with you and your family during this very difficult time. Please accept my deepest sympathy.
sue bethurum
July 23, 2010
I met grace at Dr. koss office, i had just fishish with chemo, and started radation, she came up to me, an ask about me, we hugged,and from that moment she moved me. She loved my hat, so i went and bought her one like my,she was a angle,an my eyes, i will always remember you Gracie ,your friend always Sue.
Joe Pizzi
July 22, 2010
Hi Chris, My sincere condolences to you and your family. God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Mike Acord
July 21, 2010
Jim, I am very sorry for the loss of your loving wife. I remember both of you well since we were a family in Sogel, Germany, many years ago. I feel so fortunate to have known both of you. God bless.
Mike Acord (162nd Ordnance Co.)
Peter,Kristi Chase
July 21, 2010
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Kristi Chase
July 21, 2010
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
July 21, 2010
Hi Chris,
Sorry about the loss. We are with you in mourning and prayers to give you courage to overcome this loss.
Sincerely,
Praveen S Pillai
Brad Griffin
July 21, 2010
Chris and Swaim family ... my sincere condolences. May you be richly blessed with wonderful memories in this time of sorrow.
Steve Gendron
July 21, 2010
Chris, Robyn and Kyle,
We are very sorry to hear about the loss of your Mother and Grandmother. We will be thinking about, and praying for you during this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Steve and Kate Gendron and family
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