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Joseph Ryder Obituary

Joseph Alfons Ryder, of Roanoke, Virginia, died at home on Sunday, January 17, 2010. He was born on August 8, 1922 in North Haven, New York, a son of the late Alfons and Kamila Ryder. He was a graduate of Pierson High School, Sag Harbor, New York, and Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute, Troy, New York. He was a veteran of World War II, having served in the Pacific Theater. He retired in 1985 following a lifelong career as a metallurgical engineer with General Electric in Schenectady, New York and Salem, Virginia. He was also preceded in death by his sisters, Stephanie Danowski of Riverhead, New York, Nell Marciniak of East Hampton, New York; and his brothers, Anthony Ryder of Massilon, Ohio, Stanley Ryder of North Haven, New York. He is survived by his wife, Jeane Devins Ryder; two daughters and one son-in-law, Elizabeth Ryder of Roanoke, Rebecca Ryder and Gordon Hogg of Lexington, Kentucky; three sons and two daughters-in-law, Joseph Ryder, Jr. and friend, Brenda Hayes of Newport, Virginia, Gregory and Adrienne Ryder of Blacksburg, Virginia, Thomas and Jacqueline Ryder of Roanoke, Virginia; eight grandchildren, Jesse Dukes of Charlottesville, Virginia, Joseph III, Amy, and Holly Ryder of Newport, Virginia, Andrew and Jeane Marie Ryder of Blacksburg, Virginia, Samuel and Callan Ryder of Roanoke, Virginia; one great-granddaughter, Makaya Hagan of Newport, Virginia; and his sister, Jean Melton of North Haven, New York. A funeral service will be held at 2 p.m. Wednesday, January 20, 2010 at Oakey's East Chapel with the Rev. Msgr. Thomas Miller officiating. Interment will follow in Old Dominion Memorial Gardens. The family will receive friends on Tuesday from 6 to 8 p.m. at Oakey's East Chapel, 540-977-3909.

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Published by Roanoke Times from Jan. 18 to Jan. 20, 2010.

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Clifton Janney

January 25, 2010

Jeane, My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. Of all the jobs I held during my career, I treasure my time at General Electric working with Joe in the metallurgical Lab.. I recall the times we had at lunch setting in the chemical lab at the window looking over the parking lot and all of us teasing Curtis about his staunch Democratic Party ties. Joe was a great person to work for. I am sure he will present a great void in the hearts of his immediate family, relatives, close friends, as well as yourself. My thoughts will be with you in the days ahead as you recall the beautiful adventures you two had together and seek to overcome the void left in your heart. I wish you well.

Clifton E Janney

Pat Ferris

January 19, 2010

Libby,

Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss. You have been a faithful daughter, and I know that your father was VERY proud of you, and appreciated all that you've given in return. He was a remarkable man, and has left an extraordinay legacy.

My thoughts and prayers are with you my friend. If you ever need me, I'm just a phone call, or an email away. Please don't hesitate to call ... if for nothing more or less than a laugh (LORD knows I can usually give that just out of being myself).

My love,
Pat

Mark Perkins

January 19, 2010

Joe, my thoughts and prayers are with you and the family at this time. Mark Perkins - Pearisubrg, Virginia

Sandra Marcus

January 19, 2010

Dear Thom and family,

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Mille, Leo, Ryan and Karin

January 19, 2010

Dear Becky and Family -
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Michelle Goad

January 19, 2010

Libby,
Please accept my deepest sympathy in the loss of your dad. I see that you followed in his footsteps with your career. I know he was proud of you! Remember with fondness, the special moments, the laughter, the influence he had upon your life and share this with your loved ones during this time of reflection. Fondly, Mickey

Pat Wood

January 19, 2010

Thom, Jackie and family. I am deeply sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts.

J.O. Wallace

January 19, 2010

I can't "imagine" this world without Mr. Joe Ryder having passed through it. He outplayed me at golf easily but did it with class while giving away 35+ yrs, His sons and daughters and grandchildren have helped me "imagine" for the past 30 years.

Here's to Mr. Joe Ryder having made the world a better place for me and so many others.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y9GiAu4Z40U.

Ross Family

January 19, 2010

Dear Ryder Family,

Joe/Grandfather was such an amazing man and we feel lucky to have had him as an influence in our lives. We are so sorry for your loss and our prayers are with you now and for the days to come. We will miss the twinkle of his eyes, his sense of humor and his warm hugs.

Andrea, Jacob and Jacqueline

January 19, 2010

Libby,(Sister)
My heart goes out to you and your family at this time. Love,"Sister" Kelly

Adam Rupert

January 19, 2010

May God be near and comfort like only He can at this time for the entire Ryder family, our condolences The Adam Rupert family, Pam, Adam, Paul, Philip and Peter

Anita & Greg & family

January 18, 2010

Dear Becky and family: our deepest condolences to all of you; we're all so sorry for your loss.

January 18, 2010

Thom, Jackie, and all,
We know this is a tough time for you all and we will see you on Wednesday. We are thankful Joe didn't suffer and we pray Jean will be at peace and all the arrangements will be made smoothly and with like mindedness. Love, Paula for all the Petreys

January 18, 2010

Our sincere condolances to all Joe's family at his passing.
Carola, John, John Patrick and Lauren Enriquez
Bakersfield, CA

January 18, 2010

Tom, Jackie and family; So sorry to hear about Joe's passing. I'll be thinking of you.

Beth Vaught-Jenkins

January 18, 2010

Libby
If there is anything that Don or I can do let us know.
Sorry for your loss.
Love,
Don and Pauletta Smith

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