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Charles D. Palmer

1931 - 2014

Charles D. Palmer obituary, 1931-2014, Seattle, WA

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1931

DIED

2014

Charles Palmer Obituary

Charles D. Palmer

Major General (AUS Ret.)

"I am sure there are those who feel it is presumptuous of me to write my own obituary but who better to chronicle my triumphs and foibles? I stuck my tent, stood my last retreat formation and listened to Taps for the last time a few days ago (Jan. 7th) as a result of natural causes (Jack Daniels, 3 star Asian food, garlic pizza and good cigars). I have included the picture above because I could not get clearance to use the one that did me the most justice (Clint Eastwood at the age of 45).

My earliest triumph was being born to my wonderful parents, Kitty and Vance Palmer on Jan. 5th 1931 in Sioux City, IA. They had to contend with my foibles for the next 18 years. My next triumph started upon enlisting in the US Navy Reserve on my 17th birthday, and continued through a 43 year career of active and reserve military service, which culminated in my retirement from the US Army Reserve as a Major General in 1991.

My greatest triumph was meeting Lyn, the love of my life and best friend, in Boston in 1953 and marrying her in 1955. The 54 years that we had together, like good wine, did get better with age.

The military career was coupled with a 33 year career with the Boeing Company, which included highly gratifying assignments on the Bomarc, Minuteman, Apollo Integration, 747, and Boeing Computer Services programs.

In both of these endeavors I had the good fortune to be associated with many good friends. A number of them have already passed beyond. When Charon has ferried me to the other side of the River Styx, I'm sure they will be waiting on the far shore with a double JD on the rocks.

Well, like all other good things, this too should come to an end. There will be no services but those of you who are still on this shore of the River Styx can gather together for a libation and swap a few remembrances as those of us on the other shore will be doing. As I read back through this I find that not much time was spent on foibles. Hopefully they were minor and did no great disservice to others."

Chuck is survived by his Son, Steve Palmer; Daughter, Melinda (Gil) Erickson; Grandchildren: Catherine, Michelle & Ruben; Cousin: Connie Post and former Daughter-in-Law: Mona Zuill. The Gathering for Chuck will be held at a later date. The family asks that donations in his memory be made to First Place School, PO Box 22536, Seattle, WA 98122.

"In closing I am reminded of a quote from Sir Winston Churchill: I have taken more out of whiskey than whiskey has taken out of me." - Charles D. Palmer

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Published by The Seattle Times on Jan. 19, 2014.

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Dianne March

January 7, 2015

Rest in peace Uncle Chuck.. You were a good decent man. I have many fond memories of you and Aunt Lyn. Sending my most heartfelt sympathy to Melinda, Steve, your grandchildren and all who loved you..

Mo

August 31, 2014

Funny man. Great attitude. 1cor 15:26

January 25, 2014

My father CW4 (Ret) William R. Johnston, since has also passed and myself SFC (Ret) Jerry Johnston had the pleasure of serving under your Command of the 3rd Bde 104th Tng Div. My Dad will also be joining you for happy hour.

SGM PAUL KALNINS [USA-RET]

January 23, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with you.
"NUM 6:24-26"

Marian Folsom

January 22, 2014

Steve,Melinda and families,
Steve and I were shocked to hear of Chuck's passing.
We spent wonderful times at the big house on Queen Anne. Chuck would always prepare a feast. He seemed so natural in the kitchen. The results were always superb.
Your dad was proud of all of you, your careers, the wonderful people you had become (how could you be anything else with Lyn and Chuck as parents) and your children's successes.
I know you will miss your dad everyday. May you find peace knowing that Lyn and Chuck are on the back deck, enjoying a libation watching the kids in the pool.
Love,
Marian Folsom & Steve Kerns

Christie Harvey

January 22, 2014

Bon Voyage Chuck. You are one of a kind! Your humor was always appreciated and you will be missed.

Colonel (Ret) James A Manning

January 22, 2014

To the Palmer Family my heartfelt condolences on the passing of my friend and colleague,MG Charles Palmer. Chuck as he was fondly known by the many members of the 124th ARCOM will be always be remembered for his willingness to have a great party and good food. It has been many years since I last saw him but I never will forget the genuine person that he always was. Rest in Peace, Old Warrior.

Marvin Kitts

January 21, 2014

Charlie was a good friend and great commander.

SGM Joe LeBlonde

January 21, 2014

We are all at the time of life when we will be meeting our acquaintances In a better place.

Colonel (Ret) James A Manning

Colonel (Ret) James A Manning

January 21, 2014

Henry Duvall

January 21, 2014

Lyn and family,

I was saddened to hear of MG Palmer's passing. He and Colonel Bill Benoit were responsible for my decision to remain in the 104th Division in the early 1970s and remain in uniform for a 30 year tenure. MG Palmer's mentorship was a major factor in my military career. Please accept my sincere condolences Lyn for you and all of your family.

Henry Pat Duvall, Col, USA, Rtd

COL (Ret) Tom Bonorden

January 21, 2014

I am deeply sadden by the news. MG Palmer was a great role model, outstanding leader and meant so much to my career. Lisa and I extended heartfelt condolences to Lyn and the family. COL (Ret) Bonorden

Joseph Barrow, Col. USA (Ret)

January 20, 2014

Please accept my deepest sympathy. MG Palmer will always be remembered with the greatest respect by all the men and women who served with him.

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