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Bert McCabe Obituary

Bert M. McCABE (SOB: Sweet Old Bert) passed away February 8th, 2010, the day after his 84th birthday. He slipped off the raft comfortably at home, surrounded by his wife and his four kids. He was a salty oldfella - much loved by those who could handle his particular type of raunchy humor and his curmudgeonly disposition - with a quick wit and a heart of gold. Scruffy Bert arrived in this world in the town of Pomeroy, in southeastern Washington, on February 7, 1926. He popped out at 12.5 pounds and, not surprisingly, his mother decided he would be the last of five children. Just the way he came into this world, he lived out his days seemingly bigger than life. WWII arrived while he was in high school, and even with a dismal scholastic record Bert was, at 17 years of age (claiming to be 18), accepted in the Navy Air Corps. He looked dapper in his leather flight helmet, in an open cockpit bi-plane with a white scarf flapping over his shoulder, tied with a stylish knot beneath his chin. He looked good but did not fly good, so the Navy sent him off to spend the rest of the war in college at the University of California at Berkeley where he pledged Phi Delta Theta fraternity. Upon graduation from UC Berkeley Bert accepted a commission as a reserve officer in the Navy - primarily because he loved the look of the blue uniform with all that gold trim. A very short time later the Korean War broke out and Bert was called on to active duty on an ugly ship off the Korean coast. He packed away his fancy new blue uniform, put on dreary khakis, and gained sea legs for the next few years. Returning to a life post-war Bert entered the business world in southern California where he held marketing positions with such corporations as Swift & Co, PaperMate, Avery-Dennison, and several not-very-successful miniscule companies. Upon retiring Bert made his way back to the Seattle area, eventually settling in La Conner where he continued to embrace his love of sailing, skiing, Bombay Gin martinis, and where he revived his passion for watercolor painting within that noteworthy arts community. His work was displayed in the world-renowned Tate Museum in London for almost twenty minutes before the security guards had it removed. His final adventure was living with cancer. When diagnosed six years ago, Bert decided to chronicle his experience in a watercolor sketchbook, with the resulting journal packed with Bert's offbeat humor and his joie de vive. Demand for copies of his sketchbook grew, compelling Bert to publish his final work last month. "Laugh Away Cancer Blues" is in print and available for purchase at www.lulu.com, with profits from book sales donated to fund cancer research. Bert is survived by his wife (Mindy McCabe of La Conner); his four children and their spouses (Sean McCabe of Huntington Beach, CA; Pat & Lisa McCabe of Seattle; Maggi & Doug McClure of Vashon Island; Molly & Dan Black of Seattle); his stepson (Grant Olin of Orange, CA); his six grandchildren and countless nieces, nephews, friends, admirers and the occasional yahoo who just didn't like him at all. A celebration of Bert's crazy life will be held 11:00 AM Saturday, February 13 at Sacred Heart Catholic Church in La Conner, immediately followed by a good ol' Scots-Irish wake at the Shelter Bay Clubhouse in La Conner. Memorials can be made to Skagit Valley Hospital's CancerCare Fund at [email protected]. We'll miss you, Papa. Cheers to you on the next leg of your voyage.

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Published by The Seattle Times from Feb. 10 to Feb. 11, 2010.

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Gwen Johnson

February 19, 2010

I only "met" Bert from reading interesting obituaries and I have since been trying to buy his book but so far have not had any luck. I got into the Lulu website and I fill out all the info and that's as far as it goes. Please let me know how I can buy the book - I'm 85 and was diagnosed in April with multiple myeloma - so far it's been slow in any progress but I definitely want to read Bert's book - that's exactly how I feel about cancer too. Gwen Johnson
[email protected] or telephone 206-362-3366.

February 12, 2010

Bert was a bright, humorous shining light to Henk and I. We first met Bert when my husband was a patient at the Skagit Valley Cancer Care Center. It was our first day, Henk's first
treatment and of course we were very nervous about the whole ordeal. Bert came strutting into the room greeting
the patients he obviously knew, chair by chair. When he came to Henk's chair he simply said (in a loud booming voice) "Who the hell are you" Well, how could you not just crack up ??!! Then Henk stood up to get coffee and again Bert chimed in "Wow you are big and ugly too" Thus Henk's nick name from that day forward was "Big Ugly". Bert brought to us a sense of hope and comfort amidst
a world of unknown. His sense of humor made "Chemo Days" bearable and lightened our spirits. The first thing Henk would ask when he arrived for treatment was "Will Bert be here today?"
So here's to you Bert, say "Hi" to "Big Ugly" for me.

Cindy

February 12, 2010

I am so saddened that I only knew Bert briefly. I did know right away here was someone special. An incredible handsome,witty guy who could make you die laughing or find those sore spots and tease you about them. You wanted to come back for more because he was so infectious.
Mindy we are all in awe of you, the love and care you gave him was exceptional.
I am glad to be your friend and I hope we can get much closer and you can tell me more about your wonderful Bert!!!

Love from Jackie McKean and Larry too!!!!

Karl Olson

February 12, 2010

Mr. MCCabe will be greatly missed. It was always a pleasure to chat with him around LaConner and at events when I attended LaConner Highschool with Molly in the Late 80's. He was always quick to lend his car to us for homecomming and full support in sports. I must say the first time I said hello to him as " Mr MCcabe" he told me " hey, Im not that old so call me Bert". My feelings are with the McCabe family at this time.

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Barbara Stockwell

February 11, 2010

Bert, you know how to bring out the best in everyone with your probing outrageous challenges in behavior, sayings, and actions. I’ve never liked being called a “Pushy Babe” before tackling the experience of taking your sketches from your five years of cancer journal to print. We did it Bert! Many benefit from your humorous slant to the journey – “Laugh Away Cancer Blues”. Just being in your presence, feeling the deep love and respect for Mindy as you hand in hand walked through difficult and happy times with upbeat humor joyfully bantering back and forth has been a privilege. I miss you!

Vanessa & Greg Finch

February 11, 2010

Bert has been a source of inspiration, entertainment and enlightenment for us. His love for Mindy and the pride he had for his family was as evident as the delight he took in raising eyebrows. And boy, could he ever do that ... wearing his kilt "commando style", cheering on Cal in the land of Dawgs, keeping those christmas lights on regardless of he season. We're going to miss you, Bert! Thanks for showing us how to live and love every day.

Kathleen Lumiere

February 11, 2010

Bert, you could warm up a whole room. I miss you already, and will live and work with more spark because of you.

Joanne Merriman

February 11, 2010

Bert helped me through some very difficult times...just like him wasn't it? He was bigger than life, twice as funny, and more than dear.

February 10, 2010

Sail on Bert, you will definitely be missed and definitely not soon forgotten. Mindy our thoughts and prayers (such as they are) are with you. Tony and Julie Urban (Mount Vernon, formerly Shelter Bay)

February 10, 2010

A great neighbor who will be missed by all who knew him. Whit and Judy Hansen

Linda Winslow

February 10, 2010

My deepest condolences to Bert's family. Although I never met any of you, Bert told me all about you-----he
was crazy for his kids. Crazy fun too--outrageous. We had alot of laughs.
I will miss knowing that he's there but wherever he is, I'm sure he is adding a ton of spice!
Ciao McCabe---

Linda Winslow, Sausalito California (now)

Jaimie White

February 10, 2010

Bert will always have a huge place in my heart. I first met Bert when I was 16, about 11 years ago, while working in a LaConner Deli. I have many wonderful memories of Bert…the one that sticks out the most is when he came to get coffee wearing a full Scottish Kilt and loudly declared he wasn’t wearing any underwear so don’t get to close! We were stuck together with a group of customers during a power outage at the same deli, those of you who knew Bert can imagine what a funny time that was. Throughout my college years in NY and Philadelphia, I frequently returned to LaConner to work or just to visit all the locals I love so much. It seems that every time I was home I was lucky enough to run into Bert and get a good dose of his personal kind of humor. I got the best reactions out of him when I gave him huge hugs! Upon my last few visits home I got to meet Mindy and could truly see what a great pair they made. Bert would stare at Mindy across the table and tell me to look at his wife and say “Isn’t she beautiful” and say how lucky he was (probably with a few other words included) with that big Bert grin on his face. Thank you Mindy for taking such good care of Bert through such a difficult time for both of you and your families. Bert aka “Spike” was definitely a fighter…and stubborn! My heart goes out to all of you, I will greatly miss Bert. The town of LaConner will never be the same without him.

Sue Shuler

February 10, 2010

My heart goes out to the family.
I met Bert when he and his daughter sold us a little house in Monroe WA.
I loved Bert's sense of humor.

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