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1989
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2006
John-Joshua Butts Obituary
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for John-Joshua Butts
Sponsored by Josh's Mom Wanda Jean Butts.
Wanda Butts
August 4, 2021
Almost 15 years ago that you left here..... I miss you like it was yesterday. Live oninParadise my son with our Heavenly Father
Wanda Jean Butts
August 5, 2020
Today is the 14th year with out you on this side of Heaven for me. Not a day goes by that I don’t think about you. I wonder how you would be and what you would look like at almost 30 years old! Not my boy anymore...but a grown man. I miss you sooo very much. You would be proud of Kelife your nephew. He has grown into a responsible young adult who is 25 now! Paul Parker is better....but still Paul. Chaunie has twin grandsons....that you would love. I am retired now so I sit at home a lot....The Josh Project Inc....has taught water safety and swimming lessons in your memory for the last 13 years. Thousands have been in the program and learned how to swim. All stemming from your life of 16 years here on earth. Your memory will live forever after I am gone...,,and I will love you forever and a day❤❤❤....moms
Amna Javid
August 4, 2020
In our thoughts & prayers
Laura Burnham
August 7, 2017
Remembering John Joshua and his beautiful smile and his mom Wanda Jean Butts with love from Gramma Laura
Tankeeya Butts
August 6, 2017
You're always in my heart.
Jazz
December 10, 2015
Happy Birthday Josh!
Save me a spot in heaven! lol I carry you in heart and spirit always! I can see you smile upon us!
Love You!
Wanda Jean Butts
December 9, 2015
Dear Joshie:
Twenty-six (26) today up in Heaven where you never grow old!! I know you are alright and in a much better place. It does not stop my heart and head from missing you and loving you. Today I celebrate your birth which is a holiday for me. I took a vacation day off to reflect. I will shed tears today and some laughter thinking about our time we had together down here. You always bring a smile to my face when I think of some of our adventures we had. We did a lot together in your 16 years on earth and I am grateful for all of that time. Your legacy still lives on and children and adults are learning how to swim and water safety life lessons because of you and your life. You are my HERO and you will live forever in my mind and in my life. I know where you are and I know you are safe and out of harms way. What more could a mother ask for? I love you so very very much and I always will. Live on in Paradise until we meet again!!!
Laura Burnham
December 11, 2014
Happy Birthday John Joshua, doesn't seem possible. We still love you and miss you. Love you Gramma Laura
Chaunie
December 10, 2014
Happy 25th Birthday my cou(son). I love and miss you so much! There was a hummingbird at the door this morning and I know it was you just dropping by to say "Hi Chaunie" on your birthday lol
Wanda Jean Butts
December 9, 2014
HAPPY BIRTHDAY JOSHIE!!! 1989 until 2014 - 25 years ago you were born and I was such a happy mother and today I still am! I am so very proud of the legacy you left. Your young life has touched so many young and old people down here - with such a positive message. Your life meant something. I love you so very very much. I took the day off work today because in my mind it is a holiday. I refuse to work on your birthday!! I spent most of the day with your sister. It is all about family! Family matters!! Continue to look down on me down here and I continue to live on earth. I will never stop missing or loving you. Live on in Paradise until I see you again up there!!!
Sheldon Rice
April 12, 2014
Happy Birthday 25th Josh till we all meet in Heaven keep watch over us!Selah
Wanda Butts
April 11, 2014
Hey Joshie!
I cant believe how long it has been since I have written in this book. I still talk to you everyday at home though. I love you and I am still keeping your legacy alive. We are growing and getting ready to start a new season of swimming lessons and water safety education in May. This will be our 7th year in operation. I cant imagine how many lives you have touched thru this program over the past 7 years. Continue to look down upon us and keep on talking to me. I still love you the most and always will. Live on in Paradise. Moms
Wanda Butts
December 9, 2013
Happy 25th Birthday Joshie!! I love you but God loved you best!! Live on in Paradise and keep looking down on me!! Moms
Sheldon Rice
October 31, 2013
Gone to soon.Keep a window open for us Josh when it's our time. Until then watch over us as God watches over you and smile from heaven as you did on earth when another child learns to swim. And may our endeavors not be in vain. Romans 8:28
Wanda Butts
August 6, 2013
Hi Joshie - 7 years today since you left and went to join Our Father in Heaven. I was told today that 7 is the number for completion. We are complete in our mission to save lives from your life. Now we must continue and take it to the next phase. Please continue to look down upon me and The Josh Project in your honor and memory. I believe that we are teaching swimming and water safety and making a difference in your honor!! I love you still - but God loved you best! Live on in Paradise my son - rest in Peace.......I will always love you.....moms
Wanda Butts
April 3, 2013
I love you Joshie!!!
Moms
Jocelyn Taylor
March 27, 2013
I am writing an essay on CNN.Heroes, and I came acrossed your inspiring story. I am very sorry for your death of your son. "May God be with you".
Donnie Ryan
February 15, 2013
May God bless you for this project. I have always felt very strongly that every child should learn to read and learn to swim. I am so glad to have come across your site and intend to support your cause. My deepest sympathy to you in the loss of your beloved son.
Rena Dahlkamp
February 1, 2013
The ripples of your love, vision and courage are saving so many from knowing a pain most parents can't even fathom. Thank you, thank you thank you Wanda and Tanquia! We'll do our part to lift up your work on the west coast.
Lauren Shumway
December 25, 2012
Dear Ms Butts, ,
Your story is truly inspiring: Where most would have caved in to grief and despair in the face of such an unbearably tragic loss, you courageously preserved. And you have created a foundation and a life thoroughly worthy of your beautiful son, Josh. Brava! I salute you,my dear . I will help as I am able.
Ros Williams
December 18, 2012
I am so thrilled that I have heard your story. I love to give to meaningful causes and with the Josh Project I have found another.
Akosua
December 8, 2012
I am so very touched by your effort to help African American children to learn how to swim. Congratulations for being a top ten CNN Hero! You're changing and saving so many lives
Kaley Pickett
December 4, 2012
Wanda, I was moved by your inspirational story on CNN Heroes Award. Your compassion for the greater good moved me to tears. Your son was and is a lucky guy to have you as his mom. I have wonderful memories on my childhood summers on swim team and as a result, I love the water. I hope your students begin a childhood of fun memories in the water as well. Sending lots of love
Kim Coleman
December 3, 2012
I just saw your story on CNN and I wanted to reach out to you. I want to 1st say Congratulations on the Hero Award.
My son just learned how to swim at age 16. Your story has touched me so much that I too am determined to learn how to swim at age 45.
I was raised in Philly and tried to learn several times but gave up after one of my friends almost drowned, in addition to the "Can't get my hair wet Syndrome." However, it is sooooo very important to teach individuals how to swim.
I currently live in Atlanta and want to overcome this fear of water. Your story has definitely inspired me and my daughter who is 9 to sign up for classes. I will keep you posted on how this works out.
Jae Collet
December 2, 2012
Your story is inspirational. Ive taken my 7 year nephew, 10 year old niece, 12 year old niece and 13 year old niece from inner-city west side Chicago to a water park and taught them how to swim.
Liz Norman
November 29, 2012
So blessed to have known such a great soul!! Yourv still missed terribly josh your laughter, your smile, your jokes!! Just wanted to know definitely haven't forgotten about you. May you continue to rest in paradise until we meet again! :)
wanda butts
November 28, 2012
Joshie:
In a few days we will be leaving to go to Los Angeles to represent you at the CNN Heroes All Star Tribute Show. You must know that all of this stems from you and your life here on earth. I am so very proud to represent you and your life! Keep on watching out for me down here and I try to do my best for you and others so your life will help others to live and learn how to swim and be safe in and around water. Live on in Paradise my son!! I love you and miss you more and more each day. Moms
Reggie Rolon
November 19, 2012
I almost drowned 2 years ago. When i saw The Josh project it made me cry to think how i was given a chance and how some don't. God bless you and all that you are doing to make a change.
Tamara Marshall
November 17, 2012
Bless you!
Courtney Redfern
November 17, 2012
You are a true inspiration. Your son must have been a wonderful young man. Your love for him lives on in the lives of everyone you are touching, now and for generations to come.
Suzanne Krause
November 17, 2012
You are an amazing person, Wanda. Bless you for your great work.
gwen pearson
November 16, 2012
swimming should be a part of the academic program in school and not when they are in high school but starting in grade 1.
Tara Hall
November 16, 2012
What an awesome gift you have given not once but twice. First the precious gift of John-Joshua himself. My deepest sympathies to you from one Mom's heart to another. And 2nd by the awesome gift of life you are bestowing on all the lives who learn how to swim through Joshua's project. My children have had one summer of swimming lessons a year ago but they are not where they need to be. Thanks to hearing about your Josh's Project on CNN, I will be more proactive in ensuring their swimming skills are up to par. Thank you for turning your heartache into hearwork. May God bless you always. Sincerely.
November 16, 2012
Congratulations to Wanda Butts and the Josh Project on CNN 2012 Heros of the Year award! Your story, your message, your hope and the poeple who contribute to the Jogn Project, are truly an inspriring gift to all! Thank you!
Kathleen Reilly
November 16, 2012
The Josh Project is a great example of what can be done in any community to teach children and families to swim and enjoy the water. Swimming is an important life skill; it not only saves lives, it is good exercise and great fun for everyone. Everyone should learn how to swim and all children should have an opportunity to become swimmers.
Thank you Wanda Butts
November 16, 2012
As a swim instructor, I commend you. I have taught for the local Make a Splash classes here in Memphis. You are right when you say that swimming is a life skill! You have my vote for CNN Hero of the Year!
September 21, 2012
Congratulations to Wanda Butts and The Josh Project for the worthy nomination of CNN hero 2012! Josh's life lit the candle of others' lives and will save lives through teaching others the importance of learning to swim and water safety. You live in the hearts of many John-Joshua, and we will for ever remember and love you.
Dr. TT
jada kamara
September 20, 2012
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Cee Peeples
August 30, 2012
What an awesome ministry to others you are doing in teachin children to swim in memory of Joshua. May God Bless your every effort.
wanda butts
August 6, 2012
My wonderful son Josh:
It has been 6 years ago today that you left me and went to a "better place." it still still feels like yesterday when we were laughing together, playing, talking and just being friends. Going places and meeting people. I am still not able to not cry on this day. I am trying to be strong and tell myself that you are up there looking down and watching over me. I am glad to have my own personal angel in you. Doesn't mean for one minute that I don't miss you and love more and more each day. A lot of good things have happened since you left. Your life really made a difference in my life and in the life of others. I now know that swimming is a life skill and believe me if you were born today - i would have you in swimmings lessons in 6 months!! I know now and love to share my knowledge with others! God Bless you Josh - Live on in Paradise - and I will see you when I get there. I love you dearly....moms
July 30, 2012
Hello John Butts - are we related - contact me please at: [email protected]
John Butts
July 29, 2012
i just heard of the Josh Project and
and would like to offer my sincerest condolence to Wanda and family. I am very proud of what she has done, And
look foward to geting involved.
I hope to speak with Wanda soon.
Erin Wagner
July 26, 2012
I was deeply touched by The story of Josh and his Mom this morning on CNN and will be proud to support your wonderful work. I would love to volunteer for an organization like yours - please let me know if you get something going in Southern California!
Sonja Crittenden
July 6, 2012
I just read your story on CNN. I am 40 years old and cannot swim. I do not have a fear of the water but lately I have been thinking I should take lessons & your story just inspired me to do that soon.
May God bless your family and thank you for sharing Josh's story!
July 6, 2006
Jasmin Gray
May 15, 2012
Dear Josh
How I miss you, cant believe its been 6 years! It seems like just yesterday you where escorting me to my graduation! We looked great! How about when we was watching First Friday lol that was your movie you knew every word...smh lol I miss you so much Josh! They planted a Peach Tree in your honor Josh lol and created a swim program in your honor and its amazing to see how many cant swim but leave swimming their hearts out! Miss and love you forever Josh!!!
-Jasmin
dgh
May 13, 2012
I am a 49-year-old, physically-active African-American female. I took it upon myself to learn to swim this year, knowing its importance to my overall fitness and water safety goals. This has been a difficult experience, to say the least, but I'm now swimming the length of the pool...learning to respect the water rather than fight it.
I've been humbled in my quest to learn this elusive skill. All told, learning to swim has taught me many lessons. One of the important ones: Have no fear. If you have doubt or fear, confront it and move beyond it. Be courageous.
I invited countless individuals to take lessons with me with no takers. But clearly swimming is a skill we all should master. I thank you for The Josh Project and your passion. Continue to be an inspiration.
May 12, 2012
JOSHIE-
Your face, your name, your story has reached the hearts and minds of others around the world. Your mother and your sister work tirelessly to make sure that children are empowered with the life skill of swimming and the knowledge of water safety. Your mommy is a CNN hero, and an inspiration to many. We thank GOD for your life and your legacy. Live on in paradise and smile. You are never forgotten.
VV
DR.T.T.
Valen Ford
May 11, 2012
I just watched on CNN heros the story of the Josh project. I think this is an admirable program, and a wonderful way to memorialize a beautiful life cut short. I am an African American Woman, I did not take swimming lessons until I was an adult, but I started my daughter in swim classes at the age of 5. Neither of us will make the olympic team, but we continue to practice the life saving skill. I will think of Josh now every time I go to the pool and will always encourage others to "learn to swim, it can save your life."
Dao
May 11, 2012
Hi Josh.
I just watched your mother on CNN.com. Your mother is such an inspiration! What a wonderful organization she started. And what a fabulous way to share your memory with other children.
I am a mother of a 7 year old who has never learned to swim. Just recently I started taking lessons with my daughter. I want her to be able to feel safe in the water. Hopefully by the end of summer we will both be swimming.
I will show my daughter your Mom's video to encourage her!
Wanda Butts
March 3, 2012
Hi Joshie:
We are getting ready to take our Josh Project to another level. We hope to reach even more children and expand our water safety program. Only God knows how far we will go in your memory. You will always live in my heart and soul. Not a day goes by that your name is not mentioned. I can see your smiling face and hear your voice calling my name. Live on in Paradise my son....you will never be forgotten down here. I love love love you..........yo mama
Laura Burnham
December 11, 2011
Remembering you John-Joshua on your birthday. I still think of you and mom and say prayers. We all still miss you and your smile; you make us all smile. Your mom has got a wonderful Project going on in your name and thousands of people have heard about you and your life story. Also, you have probably saved hundreds of other kids with your "John-Joshua Project" Love you Josh and miss your smiling face. Gramma Laura :))
a J
December 10, 2011
R.I.P Joush,
BY
Fajr Memorial Foundation
Wanda Butts
December 10, 2011
Happy Birthday my Joshie I love you the most. Every day my love for your grows more and more....your moms
Donnette Jackson
December 9, 2011
Happy Birthday Josh :) I love and miss you more then I could ever express! Not a day passes that I Dnt think about you or that smile! Continue to watch over The Josh Project, your Mother has done an amazing job :)
Madison Cochenour
November 18, 2011
I never met you josh, but when i hear a story like yours it brings tears to my eyes. i know your in a better place and relieved of all your pain. My grandpa up there with you Don Cochenour (he died of a motorcycle accendent in 1997) 2 years before i was born. i may of never met him or you but i love you and him. i hope you realize you are NOT forgotten!! 20 people read your story every day if you do the math that is 43800 in 6 years.
You'll NEVER BE FORGOTEN
..... .....
October 28, 2011
WE LOVE U JOSH AND MISS U DEEPLY NEVER FORGOTTEN
wanda jean butts
August 24, 2011
Joshie:
5 years on 8/6/11 - and on that very day I was at Roeper School in Bloomfield Hills, MI telling my story about you, your life and my journey since that day 5 years ago. The lady that invited me there saw our HBO segment and was moved to start a program like our in Michigan. I am grateful that so many good things are coming from you life and the 16 years you were here on this side. I love and miss you so much - but I know that I will see you again and I do believe that you are in a much better place. Live on in Paradise my son and Rest in Peace! Your life gave my life a mission and a vision from God!!I thank God for you and His vision - and for all the volunteers and supporters and especially our family that He gave us to help me with the Mission.............I love you my son..moms
Joelle Hamilton
August 19, 2011
Josh. I don't even know you and there are tears pouring down my face as I write this. I almost joined you last month had it not been for a godsend in the form of my eight year old brother.
Thrive in Paradise, Joelle Hamilton.
Amna Javid
July 7, 2011
Josh you are in a batter place the us and u must seen my 9 yr old little princess Fajr Javid(she drowned too)I know what your mother & family is feeling and glad to see this that they are doing some thing about this issue
make me & them lose a loved one.Wish I could have been here befor.
Fajrjavidfoundation.webs.com
wanda butts
April 14, 2011
ohhhhh - now a March date pops up - so it hadn't been since November. March and today is April - I feel better. I still miss you and still cry for you - even though I do believe that you are in a much Better place! You are where I will be one day - with our other loved ones where we can sit at His feet and be blessed. Lately Josh I have been feeling lonely. That is a feeling that it foreign to me. I am not quite sure why but God knows and He cares for me. And what and who He has for me - is for me. I accept and thank God every day and in every way for how He continues to bless me and keep me and our family. I feel like crying and I will cry - and I will Praise God in the midst of my tears. To God be the Glory. Good night my son - I love you the most - but God loved you Best. very very.. moms
moms butts
April 14, 2011
Joshie:
It has been way too long since I have written to you in here. I talk to you everyday and every night but November is much too long to write. I hope you will forgive me. Believe me I have missed writing/talking to you. So much has happened since November. We had our 4th Annual Soul Food Extravaganza, where the attendance was the best it had ever been. We did a special presentation to our students in the program and their parents. We had over 30 students in attendance. I think that is what helped to increase our attendance. We must remember that we are all about the children and saving their lives by teaching the sport of swimming.
wanda butts
March 14, 2011
Hello my son Josh:
The 80th Birthday Celebration yesterday for Mama was fantastic!!! I thank God for blessing the affair and answering all of the prayers that went forth before Him regarding the occasion. GaGa was just beautiful and almost overwhelmed. She received massive birthday cards, money and gifts. She was very grateful and humble. All 4 of her children were in attendance and grandchildren, cousins, dear friends and church family. It was definitely an affair to remember. Your sister chose to make sure you were represented there by reading you "Flame" poem that you wrote for and about your GaGa. I knew you would show up at the celebration because you were never one to miss a good party!!:)
Our California family was well represented, TT, Shaunie, Rac, Gammie, Alex & Bob were all here. I ask you to continue being my "guardian angel" up there and keep looking down on us!
Live on in Paradise and Rest in Peace.
I love you dearly.......your mama
wanda butts
February 2, 2011
Hello my son Josh:
It has been a long time since I have written - but make no mistake - you have been and always will be on my mind and in my heart daily! Today is a "snow day" and I remember that you always did love these days! I even got one today - so you know the weather is really bad. Good day to work on Josh Project! We are planning something big this year for our/your 5th year anniverssary. I am excited about what Jesus is going to do. We are also planning an 80th Birthday Celebration for Ga-Ga which is also very exciting too. Can't wait to see what Jesus has planned for that too! We are on a month break from swimming lessons - and with all of this snow it is right on time. Lessons attendance has been the best it has been for winter months. I think parents are realizing the importance of the childrens lessons now in the winter to prepare them for the summer months. I am very grateful! Your life gave my life meaning and is giving new life to so many others! I thank God every day for you and your lifetime of 16 years. I give God all of the Glory. Live on in Paradise son and Rest in Peace. moms
Stacy Cook
December 12, 2010
Thinking of you Wanda, you and Josh are an inspiration. You will both touch many children and save so many lives. I continue to wish you both the best on your journey.
wanda butts
December 9, 2010
Happy 21st Birthday my son!!Can you believe it? I know that there is no aging in Heaven and in my mind's eye you will all be 16 years old to me - but today is your birthday. We will celebrate on Sunday at the 3rd Annual Soul Food Fundraiser with birthday cake and all. I am so excited! Josh - you were chosen, called & faithful. Your legacy is a testimony to that fact! Everyday I thank God for you, your lifetime and The Josh Project which gives the gift of a lifetime by providing swimming lessons and teaching water safety in our community and other places!! I thank God for your life and legacy. God is Awesome and I am Grateful! Live on in Paradise and Rest in Peace!! I love you - mama
wanda butts
November 25, 2010
Hey Joshie:
Happy Thanksgiving to you! Another one without you physically - but I know you are here in Spirit!. I have so much to be thankful for this day. It would take me years to name everything I am thankful for. I thank God most of all for keeping me through it all. I thank you for being my Guardian Angel watching over me. I am thankful for my parents, my daughter, my grandsons, my sister, my brothers, and the list goes on and on and on.....Thank you God for Your Son Jesus! I am thankful for The Josh Project and ALL of the people who help and support it really tooooo many to name...........But I am grateful for all of them. Thank you, thank you, thank you. Rest in Peace my son and Live on in Paradise. I love so much b ut GOD loved you more!!!! Moms
wanda butts
November 12, 2010
Joshie:
I was in Nassau County New York yesterday doing a presentation on The Josh Project and of course talking about you!! It was a very emotional speech because I came up right after a 8 min video which I talked about 8/6/06 for about 3minutes. I made it through and at least 10 people came up to me to say encouraging and complimentary words about the speech and the piece. I know that I was meant to be there doing what I did. I was also able to adopt me another mentor in the person of the CEO Cassana who has lots of experience at what he does and gave me some direction as to where we can go with our JP. I am truly grateful for the mission and my journey. I love you so very much and I thank God for your 16 years here on earth. We celebrate 21 years this year. To God Be the Glory! Live on in Paradise Son and RIP.
Moms
wanda butts
November 7, 2010
Joshie"
I love you so very very much! I leave this Wednesday going to Long Island NewYork for the 2nd time this year regarding you and JP. I thank God for the opportunity and priviledge. I love you son and Oh How I Love Jesus
Rest in Peace - and live on in Paradise. Moms
wanda jean butts
September 20, 2010
Joshie - Don't you just love our new website!!! I do too!! God has truly brought us a long ways. I remember the beginning - when you first made your transition. I thought I would never be the same or ever stop crying. Well - I won't ever be the same and I will always cry for you. But I am better now - the wound is healing and I believe that you are "better off" where you are. I also look forward to seeing you again one day! I love you and I can't and I won't stop loving you. Your life, your legacy, your Spirit, your love, your light shines and will live forever because of The Josh Project and our Mission to save lives!!! Live on in Paradise my son - and Rest in Peace! moms
Tankeeya Butts
September 11, 2010
Love you brother
wanda butts
September 6, 2010
Hi Joshie:
I love you so very very much. The peach tree is doing very well and now is the time for me to put fertilizer on it so next year the peaches will be even bigger. This year it was fulll of peaches. They did not get as big as prior years - but it was fuller than I have ever seen it. Remember how you loved peaches!! Well...we reached our goal on our funderaiser this summer. The goal was 15,000.00 USA swimming donated $5,000 our church donated about 1,000.00 plus the facility, etc and just wonderful, kind compassionte people did the rest. I truly thank God for the Mission and the Message. Most of all I thank God for your life and your legacy!! Live on in Paradise son and Rest in Peace. Oh yes - this year for the 2nd time the Collard Greens Festival donated $200 to our Cause and for that we are thankful. Pat Williamson is one of our great supporters also along with so many others...................thank you one and all.....moms
wanda butts
August 5, 2010
8/5/10
Joshie I wrote that in parts because on the 1st of July or so - I wrote you a long page - but it is not here. I figure becaise ot was too long so I broke up the tribute from Larry into parts. I will write you again about the month of July. Right I am getting ready for tomorrow - the 4th year of your transition. We plan on going out together as a family to celebrate in your honor. Going to bed now - I am a little tired and it has been a long day. I love you soooooo much! Very Very Moms
wanda butts
August 5, 2010
cont'd
The next morning my brother Gregory who was at Wanda's house said that at 9:30 am the lights started blinking on and off and they felt it was Josh blinking them because his mother always had to tell him "boy turn off the lights." But not until the Hillsdale Sheriff called at 9:45 and said they brought him up out of the water at 9:30 were we positive of the fact. He was letting us know not to worry - he was in Heaven cause that could only have been a sign from above. So Meat - I know you are looking down on us now ande know we wilol always, always, always love you and I miss you!@!! Very Very Meat - R.I.P. from your Uncle Jak Fat!
wanda butts
August 5, 2010
(cont)
The Lord bade him to lay back and just float. As he was floating on the raft, I am told by his friends as he was getting further out they asked him was he ok? I can hear his words and tone of voice now: "Yea - I'm Ok." he said, and just floated on to Heaven!!! He didn't suffer, he didn't fight, he didn't scream - he just kind of drifted smoothly into the arms of our Lord.
wanda butts
August 5, 2010
He did know that he could not swim!! Yet and still after telling his friends that he was tired and telling his mom the day before that he wasn't going in the water because he could not swim. Yet and still in spite of those facts, something - no not something GOD told Josh to get on a raft knowning that he couldn't swim or paddle a raft.
wanda butts
August 5, 2010
Hi Joshie:
Today I ran across seomthing that your Uncle Jak Fat wrote. It is beautiful. He wrote it on 8/8/06 from the hospital I think. I will call it a tribute to you: It is entitled "Floating to Heaven" None of us know when our earthly journey will end or when God will call us home. My nephew John-Joshua who I called Meat - short for Meathead did not know.
wanda butts
June 13, 2010
Hi Joshie:
Well - yesterday the 1st day of Session #8 we enrolled a record 78 students!!! We would have had more but that is our capacity. that is the 1st time I can remember that we hit capacity. It was a beautiful sight to see so many brown faces in the swimming pool learning how to swim!!! I am sooo grateful to God for your life and your legacy. Look at all of the lives you are saving from your life. You were born for a purpose and you had a mission to do. You did it and now you are "safe in His arms." I love you so very much. Not day goes by that I don't think of you. Not a week goes by that someone comes in the office talking about you or somewhere. I thank God that You were my son. Rest in Peace - and live on in Paradise. I look forward to seeing you again and all of our loved ones one day!!! To God Be The Glory!! Moms
wanda butts
May 29, 2010
Hey Joshie:
Just wanted you to know about the interview yesterday with Christine Long of ABC 13 Action News. I met her at the SFHS Swimming pool and she shot pictures of me in the water. Afterwards we talked about you of course and the journey your life has taken my life and the lives of so many other people. I estimated that sine the beginning of The Josh Project in June 2007 we have touched nearly 500 lives!!! Isn't that amazing. I felt real good about the "piece" that was shown last night on the 11:00 news. Lots of people saw it tooo - because today when Pnut and I were out at the mall - a few people commented about having seen it last night. This Memorial Day Monday we are to be on World News tonight ABC talking about The Josh Project and what we do and why we do it. Naji in San Francisco did a 8.5 swim in the Pacific Ocean today in memory of you and what The Josh Project stands for and he is donating all proceeds to our mission. He is someone sent by God - to help us along the way. I truly thank God for him. Your life has made a difference is so many other lives. Especially my life - your drowning death gave my life meaning and purpose. Your death changed my life forever!!! I am so very proud of you and your life! Rest in Peace my son and live on in Paradise. I love you and Oh How I Love JESUS!!! Moms
wanda butts
May 18, 2010
Hi Joshie:
We were awarded an Northwest Ohio Black Media Award on 5/13/10. The event was at the Ramada Inn. The Josh Project had 2 & 1/2 tables there to represent us. I felt just like an eagle and just as proud. It felt like the very best award and the very best acceptace speech because my sister and my mother helped me write. I stood tall and I could the presence of the Lord standing with and I could feel your presence. I know you were smiling your kool aid smile. It was just beautiful. I am so grateful to God once more and again for His Power, His Presence and His Peace. I shall never forget.
Both my parents were there, my daughter, my Pastor, Derrick, Peanuts, Wilma Brown, president City Council, Barbara, Cynthia, Shirley - Keith Mitchell introduced me - It was just a night to remember - and it all stems from you my son - Josh whom I am so very very proud of. God Bless you Josh - Live on in Paradise.........your moms
wanda jean butts
April 25, 2010
Hey Joshie: Yesterday was enrollment day for session #7 for the Josh Projet swim lessons!!! We enrolled a record number of 61 students!!!!! What a blessing. I am so grateful for the "Kingdom work" that we are doing in JP. We also received a generous donation from Council President Wilma Brown for our lessons. I thank God for people like her that believe in our mission to save lives by providing swim lessons in our community! I thank God for your life and your legacy. I love you so very much - but God loved you more and the best. You are in a "better place." Rest in Peace and Live on in Paradise. very very...........moms
wanda jean butts
April 8, 2010
Hi Joshie:
Last week I was in Daytona Beach, Florida to receive an "Award of Merit" from the National Water Safety Congress for our work in The Josh Project. Let me tell you I was so very very proud to be receiving that award. That was the second award from that Organization. The first was a "Letter of Commendation" that we received in April, 2007. I thank God for the awards! I was able to walk the ocean and meet lots of kind friendly and encouraging people. Next week I have been invited to speak to parents at the Beach House, and we are going to the African American Festival, the Juneteenth Festival at the Art Museum, the Health Fair at Wayman Palmer UMCA and we are busy getting the word out about the importance of children learning the life skill and life sport of swimming. Your life is giving life to others!!! Today I saw this lady named Renai can't remember her last name but her children went to school with you at TAA. We spoke lovingly about you - as always. It brings that "kool aid" smile to my face when people come into the office and know you and speak highly about you. I use to cry - but now I don't feel sad - it makes me happy. I know it makes you happy too!!! I love you so much and always will............I am grateful to God for your life and for you being my #1 son. (only I know) Live on in Paradise - and Rest in Peace. I will see you again when I get there!!!
Moms
wanda jean butts
March 6, 2010
Hey Joshie:
I can't believe I haven't written since January! So much has happened. The Josh Project has been nominated to receive an "Award of Merit" from the National Water Safety Congress. I am going to Daytona Beach Florida on March 28 to receive the award!!! PTL I am very excited and grateful for the opportunity. We also are in collaboration with the 4H organization which is an affiliate of the Ohio State University who will provide free swimming lessons the the girls at Ella P. Stewart Academy School. We are starting with the kindgergartens. Their first lessons begin on March 20th. Also - at the last JP Board Meeting we established another attorney and television broadcaster to become supporters/board members! We are growing and moving upwards and for this I thank God and I give God all of the Glory!!! Attendance is steady on our lessons and I am able to be in the lane by myself and do my laps!!! I am still using fins and the kick board BUT I am in the water and I truly enjoy being there. Pnuts has been with me the last 2 or 3 weeks and is a great big help and supporter. I love her and oh how I love Jesus and of course I love you my best and onlyist son! Rest in Peace son - I am grateful that you are my own personal "guardian angel" watching over me. I love you so much and I am so very very proud of you. Live on in Paradise...................
wanda butts
January 17, 2010
Hey Joshie:
This Saturday at our Josh Project swim lessons I did 3 laps!!! Can you believe it? I am so grateful to God for the courage and the strength. I give HIM all the Glory. I use a kick board and fins BUT I go from one end of the pool to the other. It was a long time coming - but I made it. What an accomplishment for me. Also we have twin boys who gave me big hugs Saturday because of how far they have come in JP. When first came to JP they were afraid (like me) but now they have confidence in themselves and are swimming. It brings tears to my eyes to think of the lives and the good that is coming from your life. You were/are truly one of God's Angels!!! Your life was not lived in vain! I love you soooooo much!!! And Oh how I love JESUS!!! Live on in Paradise and Rest in Peace and keep watching over me!! very very
wanda jean butts
December 19, 2009
Well Joshie - GOD did it!!! Our 2nd Annual Winter FUNDraiser was a success!! We had over 200 people and raised oer $4,000 !!! We are truly grateful to God for His favor. The music & soloists was excellent! Everyone seemed to have enjoyed theirselves and the food. We had turkey, dressing, fried chicken, bar-b-que pigs feet, mac & cheese & more plus unlimited desserts. T thank God. We also had lots of publicity before a great article in The City Paper, the Sojurner Truth, a 25 minute segment on "Bridges"....it was wonderful. I would say awesome but I save that word for God only! I am sure you were please because I could feel your Spirit. The lady named Mary & her husband from Bird Lake told me she never left you and you were not alone and they looked for you that day God was calling you home. It was pleasure to meet her and it made me happy! It was God's will the way she found out about the event - it was just meant to be. I love you son and I often feel your presence.....Rest in Peace - To God Be The Glory.......In His presence, His power & His peace - I love you.moms
wanda butts
December 9, 2009
HAPPY 20TH BIRTHDAY JOSHIE!!! You are gone - but never forgotten. I remember the day I gave birth to you - I shall never forget. You were/are the son that I prayed for and God blessed me with you here on earth for 16 years and in my heart forever. Live on in Paradise - and Rest in His Presence and Peace. I'll love you forever - Moms
wanda butts
December 5, 2009
Hi Josh:
Swimming lessons today - Sissy went for me. I was with Ma all day running errands. We had fun! The munchkins and I put up the Christmas tree. I told them that you and I used to do it together so that made them want to do it all the more!! I know Christmas was your favorite time of the year and mine too. I am going to celebrate just as if you are right here with me and I believe you are in Spirit! I love you so very much. December 13th we are having the 2nd Winter Fundraiser SoulFood Extravaganza. I am looking forward to it again this year. I expect that this year will be better than the last. With God on my Side I cannot fail. Keep watching over me as I can feel your presence........Live on in Paradise and I will see you when I get there!!!
To God Be The Glory!!! Moms
wanda butts
November 26, 2009
Happy Thanksgiving Day!!! The family had dinner together today and we remembered you with a smile. I will never forget the year you asked for the "juice" to put on your food. Now - gravy is always called the juice because of you. We have so many prescious memories from you. Live on in Paradise and RIP. To God Be the Glory!!! I love you sooo much.....your mamma
wanda jean butts
November 8, 2009
Hi Joshie:
Today is one of my "missing you" days. I love and miss you - but I KNOW that you are "better off" where you are now than being down here. Keep watching over me down here and helping out in The Josh Project. It is truly a great legacy and many many people are reaping benefits from it. Live on in Paradise.....I love you and Oh - How I Love Jesus!!! Moms
wanda jean butts
October 19, 2009
My Joshie:
Saturday October 17, 2009 was the beginning of the 2nd session for the 3rd season of swimming lessons for The Josh Project, Inc. named in your honor. The Josh Project saves lives and The Josh Project saved my life. Your life is saving lives by teaching basic water safety and swimming to our community and to myself. I love you so much and I am so very thankful for the 16 years that God allowed you live here on earth. You live on in me and others and you will live in my heart and soul forever. Your life gave my life meaning!!! I love you my Joshie - Live on in Paradise and I will see you again one day. I give God Glory!!
Your Moma...........
wanda butts
September 16, 2009
Hi Joshie:
Tonight 9/15/09 we were on HBO Sports w/Bryan Gumble in a sgement on swimming diversity featuring Cullen Jones a Olympic Gold Medal winner (who I think favors you) and a great story about The Josh Project. I went to Bird Lake for the very 1st time with the HBO crew. I must say it was quite an experience. I saw where you were on that fatal day in August - where you probably took your last breath of life as we know it here on earth. It was a peaceful and beautiful place. I got to see where the picture of you is and how they tell the story of the ropes place there and why. It is very memorable and touching. I was very proud to be here as your mother telling the story about you and the Josh Project. How from the tragedy of loosing your life to drowning - from that we are triumphant in teaching swimming and water safety in your honor and memory. I love you Josh..........vv ma
wanda butts
August 22, 2009
My Joshie:
It has taken me this long to tell you about the 3rd Annual FUNdraiser of The Josh Project, Inc. It was fantastic and we are still collecting money! We had lots of food, good gospel music from a great gospl dis jockey, the TPD, Sheriff's Dept, US Coast Guard, YMCA, AT&T, Ohio Donate for Life, Health Dept & Safe Kids Smoke Trailer (that you and I went thru one year at Southern) we also had t-shirts that your uncle Fatjak sold to everyone that walked past his him. We had a ball - Jasmine, Kendall, Jonell helped from the church plus several adults from the church. We raised over Six thousand dollars - which is now up to seven thousand after this week plus our matching funds plus our church collection on Sunday morning plus......it goes on and on. I can't tell you everything because I know I would forget something or someone and I don't want to slight anyone. I just know that none of it would happen without The LORD. I thank God every day in every way for everything. I have a lot of cleaning to to now because HBO Real Sports is coming to my house on Monday to talk about you and The Josh Project. Again, I thank God for the opportunity to educate about the importance of everyone knowing how to swim and becomeing water safe. I know for sure that "swimming is a life skill". I love you Josh and oh how I love JESUS!
moms
Baomi Butts-Watson
August 6, 2009
Joshie:
It's been 3 years, but sometimes it seems like yesterday that our world was turned upside down by your transition from this life. We're soldiering on and your mother's strength, dedication, and vision has touched so many on your behalf. I know the love of GOD is surrounding you and I thank GOD for the time we had. You are ever in my heart.
Very, Very,
T.T.
Wanda Jean Butts
August 6, 2009
Joshie:
Today is the 3rd year anniverssary/celebration/memorial of your transition from earth to Heaven. I know that you are in a better place and better off. I do still miss you and love you - but I know that I must keep it moving and keep on living. Your life was not lived in vain - because of your life and death others are being educated to the facts of water safety and learning the importance of knowing how to swim. Swimming is a life skill that everyone should know. I know it now - and so do many others because of your life. I am so very very proud of you and proud to be your mother. I thank God everyday for you my son - and I thank God for Jesus His son who also gave His life so others would live. Live on in Paradise and Rest in Peace!!!!!!! I love you the Most!@! and OH How I Love JESUS!!@!
wanda butts
August 3, 2009
Joshie:
I am so very proud of you. I just got a $3,000 contribution pledge and 2,000 more if we raise our 5,000 which would meet our goal of $10,000.00 which would cover the cost for students, lessons, pool time & instructors for 6 months. I thank God for meeting our goal. We mailed out close to aroud 300 pieces of mail plus we have flyers posted is several places and I thank God now for all He has done is doing and is going to do. You did not die in vain or for no reason. You died so others could live and learn how to swim and the importance of water safety. It happens more than I ever knew about. Lately I have been crying alot for you because it is close to the time when I lost you. Thursday will be 3 years to the day - 3 days before my birthday. Always in 3's. Father, Son, Holy Ghost the Trinity!! I love you Josh my son and Oh how I love Jesus!! Live in Paradise - and Rest In Peace -
Wanda Jean Butts
July 3, 2009
Josh:
I love you, I love you, I love you. I thank you, I thank you, I thank you. I thank God, I thank God, I thank God.
We are getting ready for the 3rd Annual FUNDraiser of The Josh Project, Inc, - in your memory and your honor. I am so very proud of you and your life. Your life gave my life purpose and for that I thnk GOD and I thank you. Keep watching down on me and helping me - sometimes I can feel you just like we were riding in the car together like we did so much. I miss you Josh and I love so much. I thank God for you and your life. Live on in Paradise and rest in Peace. I give God the Glory...........Moms
wanda jean butts
May 17, 2009
Hey Joshie:
Last Sunday was Mothers Day. Of course I thought about my son Josh. I still have the Mothers Day card you made for me the year you went to Heaven. Mr. Steve found it somewhere in your class at Positive Choices and brought it to me. I didn't bring it out this year though. I focused more on my own mother and being grateful for her and my father. I cooked dinner for them and it was very good. Manne who now calls himself Monnie came over and brought me a long stem white rose which I thought was very nice and thoughtful. Of course we talked about you too. My swimming lessons are going good. Yesterday we signed up about 12 new students so The Josh Project is going strong teaching swimming and water safety. I have changed my license plate to "lyfsavr" because I am Toledo's LifeSaver and you are the reason why. I love you and I love Jesus. Live on in Paradise and Rest in Peace.
wanda jean butts
April 18, 2009
Hi Joshie:
Guess what? Today I took my first swimming lesson!!! I am going to learn how to swim. I am determined. I did very well today and it will get better and better for me. I think of you and think that you would be very proud of me for learning how to swim. I believe that swimming and aquatics are going to make a hugh difference in my life. It already has of course but even more so once I master the sport. Here again it is because of you and your life. What a difference your short life of 16 years has made - you touched so many and changed so much. I thank God for blessing me with you everyday. You are gone from this earth - but your Spirit, your life, your love and your legacy will live forever. To God be the Glory. I love you Josh - and Oh How I Love Jesus!!!!!!
wanda jean butts
April 6, 2009
Joshie:
Saturday was "April Pools Day" at Norfolk State University, Norfolk, Virginia. I was invited for the 2nd year in a row as their is a "Josh Project" there also. This is also their 2nd year. It was a hughe success. The attendance and participation was excellent. It was very well organized. Shaun Anderson whom I have adopted as my other son really has a passion for swimming and water safety for our youth. I just love him and I know you would too. Your life and legacy is known through out the United States. Next we are going worlwide with our swimming, water safety and all aquatics for miniorities. I give God all the honor and praise because I owe everything to Him. To God be the Glory!! I love you Josh and I love Jesus.
wanda jean butts
March 21, 2009
Hi Joshie:
Just talked to Jasmine - she is doing good - hadn't talked to her in a while. You know me I try to keep up with the old group some what. Haven't talked to Deon lately - I will have to check up on him soon. I went back to work this week - it was a good week. You know not a week goes by that someone doesn't come in the office and see your picture and say that they knew you!! It is just amazing. You did leave a legacy....and today we had 43 students for lessons!!! It is such a pleasure and a blessing for me to see all the little brown faces in the swimming pool learning to swim. And to think it all stems from you, your life and the Glory of God. I do give God Glory!! I love you Joshie more thank enough and forever and a day. Live on in Paradise and I will see you one day. Rest in Peace - your moms wanda
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