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ROGER RUE Obituary

Roger Lamar Rue April 11, 1934 - November 24, 2014 Roger died in the company of his family, at home, as a result of head and neck cancer. Born in Warren, Pennsylvania to Harland and Ora Rue, Roger graduated from Severn Prep School in Maryland in 1952. He obtained an advanced degree in Architecture from Penn State University on a NROTC Scholarship in 1957. Upon graduation he married Nancy Shafer, and together they had two children, Neil and Ann. Following his tour of duty in the Navy as a Gunnery Officer, Roger moved to Tacoma, Washington to pursue his career and his passion for sailing. After being widowed, he wed Cheryl Torchio in 1962 and the family grew with the birth of daughter Sheila in 1967. He established his own architectural firm with college classmate Thomas Butler. During this partnership of almost 25 years, their firm specialized in the design of schools and earned several awards. Professionally, he was involved with the local chapter of AIA and was a Member of the Washington State Architectural Licensing Board. Further, he was a Director of the National Council of Architectural Registration Boards (NCARB). Roger was an active supporter of his adopted community during more than five decades in the Tacoma area. This included the local PTA, The Jaycees, GYRO, and Board Membership for the Pantages Theater, Annie Wright School, and Foss Waterway Seaport. He also supported and volunteered for the Jr. Sailing Program and the Prison Pet Partnership Program. Reflecting his passion for sailing, Roger was Commodore of Corinthian Yacht Club; a long-time member of the Tacoma Yacht Club, serving on numerous racing and club committees; a member of the San Juan Island Yacht Club and the Cruising Club of America (CCA). He raced in and won many sailing competitions throughout the Puget Sound and Canada, competing in 25 consecutive Swiftsure Race events out of Victoria BC. Skippering his own boat in the Vic-Maui Race in 1982, he was Navigator in the same event in 1984. He also enjoyed the Old Salts and the Taco Tuesday groups of long time boating friends. "Rue's Rules," an illustrated book of sailing rules, exemplifies his wit and sense of play along with his artistic talent. Also a cruiser, beginning in the 1970s, Roger explored the Western Hemisphere through extended sailings and authored "Circumnavigating Vancouver Island." In addition to his cruising guide, he shared his experiences by penning several articles for sailing and cruising periodicals. He helped initiate "Three Sheets to the Wind," a dinner and program group to share cruising experiences before setting off on his own passage through the Panama Canal and throughout the Caribbean. A seeker of adventure, Roger learned to SCUBA dive and he became an airplane pilot, flying his Cessna 172 for the final time on his 80th birthday. Roger was preceded in death by his parents and brother Harland Joseph II (Buzz). He is survived by his wife of 23 years, Judith Alleman Smith, his three children, Neil (Karen), Ann Katsikapes (Hazli), and Sheila De Cotaeu (Randy), stepsons Troy Smith and Torgun Smith (Peggy), thirteen grandchildren, and three great-grandchildren. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to Foss Waterway Seaport or your favorite charity. There will be a Celebration of Life at the Tacoma Yacht Club on Sunday, December 7, at 4pm, followed by refreshments. Arrangements by Mountain View Funeral Home. Remembrances may be shared at www.mountainviewtacoma.com.

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Published by News Tribune (Tacoma) on Nov. 26, 2014.

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Stef & Marilyn Thordarson

November 29, 2014

Our first 'meeting' with Roger was when he and Nancy crewed for us on our 26' Thunderbird on the Vashon Island Race (in the early 60's) complete with peanut butter and jelly sandwiches. This was the beginning of a long and memorable friendship. One time we were having dinner at Stanley & Seaforts and he casually sketched a pen & ink drawing on a small salad plate which I cherished for years. We're grateful we were privileged to see him and Judy one last time in sunny Arizona last summer. Love and prayers to Judy and family. Stef & Marilyn

November 27, 2014

Roger will be missed, but not forgotten. Thank you for the many sailing adventures and memories we have shared.
Joanne and Bob Gaido
Irvine, California

Rob & Jill

November 27, 2014

Thinking of you and your family Judi, wishing your hearts will be filled with sweet memories of lives well-lived. Peace be yours in all the days to come. Rob & Jill

Chris McCoy

November 26, 2014

Never forgotten

Kathy and John Horne

November 26, 2014

Oh Roger how you will be missed.. Your witty personality along with your heart of gold and your love for life , you will be missed but never forgotten. How does a family say thank you for the special things you helped bring into there lives. You came into our son Chads life through the Prison Partnership Program and helped Chad to receive the gift of his second service dog Parker and between you and Judy you took Chad under your wings and helped him so much and we could never say thank you enough.
Our family is sending your family all of our love and praying for peace knowing the memories you have left behind for so many to cherish. Until we all meet again Roger..
Love and blessings;
Kathy and John Horne and family
Mother and father of Chad Norris.

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