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Ebony Mack
January 19, 2016
To the Strianese family,
It saddens me to learn of the death of Professor Strianese. I had him in multiple classes when I attended Schenectady County Community College for my Culinary Degree. He taught me a lot and how to be a stronger student. He will truly be missed. I send my condolences to your whole family.
Love, Ebony Mack (his former student)
Kathy Collins Funk
January 5, 2016
Pam, I am so sorry for your loss. As a fellow "foodie" I enjoyed my conversations with you and Toby.I could always count on a new restaurant recommendation and I cherish the signed copy of your textbook. Terry and I really enjoyed the day we had lunch in the SCCC dining room as the students were being tested and you both gave us a tour of the facility. Toby loved life and it showed.Please take care of yourself.
Bob Testani
January 5, 2016
Pam and Family. I was saddened to hear of Toby's death. He was a great friend and fraternity brother. I will always remember his kindiness, contagious laugh and smile. I regret having lost contact with him over the years.
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Francyne Feinberg
January 2, 2016
We we were saddened to learn of Toby's death. We send our thoughts and prayers to the entire Strainese family and anyone who was touched by his sweet and gentle nature.
He will be sorely missed.
Josh Feinberg
December 31, 2015
To the Strianese Family,
Our deepest condolences for your loss. Toby was an amazing person and will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Sincerely,
Ted, Fran, Jenn, Josh & Aaron Feinberg
Luke Crisafulli
December 31, 2015
Professor Strianese was a great guy. I had him as a teacher in Wines of the World and thought he was very knowledgable and made class fun. He will be missed.
Carol and Ron DeLorenzo
December 31, 2015
Pam and family:
I was shocked and sadden when Cousin Judy sent me the news about Toby. Ron and I are in Florida. I'm so sorry I didn't have a chance to say goodbye to him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. It was so wonderful reading all the condolences. He was very well loved and respected, but that doesn't surprise me one bit. We love you and your family.
Cousin Carol DeCocco DeLorenzo and Ron
December 30, 2015
To professor Strianese's wife and family.my sincere condolences.He was a great teacher and mentor.He was one of my teachers 1997-1998 and I enjoyed his classes.He will be missed! Richard Plaske,Phoenix,Arizona.
B DiNovo
December 30, 2015
He was a devoted teacher and very instrumental in making the Culinary and Hospitality Programs at SCCC the fine ones that they are. I loved being a student in his wine class.
Amy Salamon Waite
December 29, 2015
Dear Mrs. Strianese Larry and family,
My thoughts and prayers to you all with the loss of your husband and father. He was such an amazing man who touched so many lives including my own.. Im so very sorry for your loss.
Kristina Coonrad
December 29, 2015
I had him for math and marketing last yer for the spring semester. He was a great teacher who helped you when needed. He will be greatly missed.
Lorna Otty
December 29, 2015
So sorry for your loss. I had him for only one class at SCCC and I learned a lot from him. The way he taught made you want to learn. Rest in peace.
David Ucci
December 29, 2015
My sympathies to the Strianese family. Professor Strianese always encouraged me to do what I wanted to do in life. With his encouragement and insight I recently completed my MBA in Sustainable Business from Marylhurst University. He always preached to the class that you are never too old for a career change and one should always keep on learning. Truly a man of great wisdom.
December 29, 2015
I graduated from SCCC In 1990 and was blessed to have him as a teacher , mentor and friend. I went to Walt Disney World after he convinced me I'd be great at it! It was scary at first, but he sent me letters of encouragement to help me get through it! It was the best experience- he was right! I still have all of the letters he wrote me! My heart goes out to the family at this difficult time. Take comfort in knowing all of the lives he has touched through the years- Thank You for letting him shape mine! - Penny Falbo
Greg Barton
December 29, 2015
Larry and family, I am so sorry for your loss.
Though I never met your dad, from the stories you shared, he sounded like he was an amazing, hard working and all around great man!
My condolences!
Pam Tobin
December 29, 2015
My condolences to the entire family. Toby was a great man dedicated to promoting the Capital Region and providing the greatest experience to his students. He will be deeply missed.
Cory Reed
December 29, 2015
Toby was always so kind to me when I worked at the Albany cvb from 1994-2003. He always had a smile and a twinkle in his eye. May he rest in peace.
December 29, 2015
Thinking of the Strianese family, our wonderful and kind neighbors for many, many years - you are in our thoughts and prayers. Karen, Chris and Joanne Golden
Gina Mintzer
December 29, 2015
I feel so very privileged to have known Toby and his students over the years. His light and spirit shines on in all those he touched.
Donna Garzone-Snay
December 29, 2015
May Your fond memories help you through this difficult time. Mr. Strianese was by far a man in which will always be remembered. He influenced and guided so many in the Hospitality Industry, including myself. May you Rest In Peace my favorite Mentor. SCCC Class of 1998
Lynda Kelly - Corcoran
December 29, 2015
Please accept my condolences. I will remember him guiding me through my college experiences, mentoring me through the Disney College experience, and even visiting me to check in with me to see how I was doing. He always made time and answered as many questions you needed from the very first day I met him, registering for classes! He will be greatly missed, and remembered.
Christopher Tanner
December 29, 2015
Pam, Jessica and I offer our condolences to you and your family. The world will never be without Toby though as he has influenced so many thousands upon thousands of not only students but professionals in the hospitality and culinary industry, his legacy lives on through them and the program he truly formed at SCCC. I will certainly miss his mentorship and friendship, without him I would not be where I am today.
Teresa Smith
December 28, 2015
Professor Strianese was the welcoming face I needed when I started at SCCC. He made me feel welcome and was confident that I was making the right choice. While at the NYSHTA Gala, he proudly introduced his students to guests that we could only dream of meeting. I only had him as an instructor for a few short weeks. However, I learned more about Wine in those few weeks than I ever knew possible. I wish I had been able to experience more of his fabulous stories. He was truly one of kind and will be great missed. SCCC, 2015
Warren Cook
December 28, 2015
To the family of professor Strianese
I had Prof Strianese as a teacher at Schenectady county community college for math for food services and wines of the world and I learned a lot from Mr.Strianese and he was a great man and a great teacher he will be missed by his community and by his colleges and his students Sccc lost a great teacher and a great mentor.
Warren C Class of Hotel and culinary arts 2013
Kelly Donoghue
December 28, 2015
Rest in peace
Warren Cook
December 28, 2015
To the family of professor Strianese
I had Prof Strianese as a teacher at Schenectady county community college for math for food services and wines of the world and I learned a lot from Mr.Strianese and he was a great man and a great teacher he will be missed by his community and by his colleges and his students Sccc lost a great teacher and a great mentor.
Warren C Class of Hotel and culinary arts 2013
Ken Legasse
December 28, 2015
My thoughts and prayers go out to the family. Toby was a very caring, and wonderful professional. I was a part of the first "Disney program" organized and lead by Toby, and was proud to say he was a mentor and friend. He will be missed by many!
Meranda
December 28, 2015
I'm so sad to hear the passing of Professor Strianese. Please know my thought, prayers, and love are with you at this time of sorrow. Professor Strianese was one of my favorite teachers at Sccc, I always enjoyed being in his class,'he had a quirky sense of humor, that I will never forget! He made the culinary arts department a great learning experience, and will be missed greatly.
Peter and Mary Lou Huebner
December 28, 2015
Pam,
We are so glad to have had a chance to visit with you and Toby in July. It meant so much to us. Toby was a wonderful friend that we both will miss. Mary Lou and Peter
Paul Wixted
December 28, 2015
Pam,
I heard today about your loss (our loss). Toby has always has been a friend and a mentor of mine. I would not be where I am without his influence. He has touched so many lives. My prayers are with you and your family.
December 28, 2015
Dear Mrs. Strianese and Family,
A professor, Mentor and Friend throughout the years, Toby was a driving force behind my decision to follow in his footsteps to become an educator. I will surely miss our conversations, his words of wisdom and just knowing that he was there when needed. My heart goes out to you and your family.
Sincerely,
Keith Buerker, 79'Hotel Technology
Celia Fulfs Finnen
December 28, 2015
Toby your passing is a loss that leaves a hole for many. Your kindness and generosity will not soon be forgotten. So grateful to have known you. May your family find peace in the joy you gave so many. Celia & Bill Finnen
Ted zorn
December 28, 2015
We just learned of Toby's passing. We are deeply saddened and shocked. He was a wonderful friend and we spent many great times together. Our sincere condolences to Pam, Mike, Larry and family. Ted and Debbie Zorn
December 28, 2015
Dear Mrs. Strianese and Family:
My condolences to you, family and close friends. It was an honor to meet Mr. Strianese and know him as a colleague and Board member. He was a great friend.He will be missed.
Sincerely,
Fatena Q. WIlliams
Theresa Nocerino
December 28, 2015
Tony was an amazing man; always smiling, always caring. He loved what he did and he was the consumate professional! I served on NYSHTA's Board with him for many years. He made a difference!!! No matter where we were he made his way over to say hello and see how I was. His work with the students was admirable! His love for hospitality was encouragable. I am sure there was a bigger plan for him and I know he will always be with us as he is unforgettable. My sincerest sympathy to his wife Pam and his family.
Rick DiVita, Jr
December 28, 2015
Pam and family I was sadden to hear about your loss. Toby was a great man. I treasure the time I spent working with him on the NYSTHA Board, he was a voice of reason and a great advocate for his students. I enjoyed our conversations about the hospitality field and life in general. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Bill Dowd
December 28, 2015
Pam & Family:
Because Toby will be missed by so very many people, I hope that is a comfort in the times ahead. It was a pleasure knowing him and knowing that his love, passion and friendship will continue to be shared by the people whose lives he touched.
Glenn Gray
December 28, 2015
Toby was a great teacher and friend of mine. I attended SCCC as well as played soccer in the Clifton Park program. He was instrumental in helping me get started in what is now a 30 year career with Marriott. I saw him last summer when he attended my fathers funeral. Awesome trailblazer, he will be missed!! Thoughts and Prayers to all!!!!
December 28, 2015
Dear Mrs. Strianese and family:
I was so sorry to hear of Professor Strianese passing. He was such a wonderful compassionate teacher. He was so supportive during my time at SCCC. He will truly be missed.
Sincerely,
Samantha Van Vleck
Robert Redmond
December 28, 2015
To the family and friends of Toby Strianese,
My acquaintance with Toby began during his tenure as the coach of my son's soccer team in Clifton Park. His commitment to my son, Ryan, and to the other members of the team in the pursuit of a positive experience was a source of inspiration for the parents, as well as the players. I also enjoyed the fruits of his labors as a frequent guest at The Casola Dining on the campus of Schenectady County Community College where Toby served as Chairperson of the School of Hotel, Culinary Arts and Tourism. Whatever he did, Toby did well. Although now gone from our midst, Toby will remain a source of inspiration for everyone he touched along the way. Please accept my sincere condolences on the passing of a good man.
Bob Redmond
December 28, 2015
Prof Strianese was such a great mentor and friend. In the classroom, he made learning so much fun.His smile led us to caring, sharing, and being educated together as a SCCC family.
Amy Masick-Class of 1986-AAS HOTEL MANAGEMENT
Dave Cameron
December 28, 2015
Mr.Strianese was a great man and a great teacher. Cared about his students and their future.
Rachael Littlejohn
December 28, 2015
My condolences to his family and close friends. It was an honor to learn a great deal from him as a student at SCCC. He was a great story teller!!
Catherine Castro
December 28, 2015
So sorry to hear of Professor Strianese's passing. He was an amazing teacher who cared deeply for his students. Rest in peace.
Cindy Yonkers
December 28, 2015
Toby was a caring and special person, and a wonderful mentor to me and so many other SCCC students and graduates. He will truly be missed. My condolences to the family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Pam Casscles
December 28, 2015
It is with heavy heart to heat of Professor Strianese's passing - his courage and conviction was inspiring. Speaking as a graduate of SCCC, Toby built a proud legacy that the college will always benefit from and build on for many years to come. My prayers and condolences to the Strianese family - you will always be remembered in Clifton Park.
Patricia Novo
December 28, 2015
Our deepest sympathies to the Strianese family. His legacy will always live on through his teaching and the students who loved him so. May he rest in peace.
Cynthia Melendez
December 28, 2015
What a great loss. To the family my deepest sympathies and condolences! He was my mentor from my time at SCCC. He encouraged me to continue on my quest. So many memories I have and will never forget. He also assisted me with Walt Disney World. A great man was lost but his memories will live within each one of us!
Ray Fox
December 28, 2015
To the Strianese Family my deepest sympathy for your lose. Toby was a special person and will be missed by all.
Louis Sisto
December 28, 2015
Pam and Family,
I was sorry to hear about Toby's passing. We spent a great deal of time together growing up in Mechanicville and I'm sure he will be missed by all who came in contact with him. My condolences to you and your family.
December 28, 2015
Professor Strianese was a sweetheart, very caring professor who cared deeply about the success of all of his students. He was well respected by his colleagues and students. He told us on many occasions of how we students were the reason he got up and went to work everyday. Anyone who knew him is blessed! I am deeply heartbroken over his passing, but at least he is not in any pain anymore. God Bless the Strianese family!
Lorraine Kaifer
December 28, 2015
My sympathy. I am saddened to hear of your loss. I was one of the thousands of students that was lucky enough to have him as an instructor and mentor. May he rest in peace.
Chris Brucculeri
December 28, 2015
Great man and teacher you will be missed
December 28, 2015
great man and teacher you will be missed .rip
chris brucculeri
December 28, 2015
Great man and teacher,you will be missed .
nancy varrisle
December 28, 2015
Pam my deepest sympathy to you and your family.I have many wonderful memories of Toby at summit lake.rest in peace. Nancy Varriale,
Gina Casey
December 27, 2015
I had Prof. Strianese in the 90s. Such a great teacher and mentor.
-Gina Longhurst Casey-
Clifton Park, NY
Josh Pangburn
December 27, 2015
Professor Strianese words can't express what I am feeling. I will always remember what you did for me as a student of the Culinary Arts program. You took so much time in your office to set out a plan for my education. You convinced me to go for my bachelors degree when I didn't think that was possible. You encouraged me to achieve more that i ever thought possible. You really made a difference in my life more than you may know. For that, I will always be grateful.
Dawn Johnson
December 27, 2015
Toby, "Prof Strianese" was a great teacher, mentor and friend. I will always remember him and his role in guiding my career, especially with Disney. He will be greatly missed. Thank you for being such a positive role model Prof! RIP
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