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Ralph Howard "Bo" Mills

1962 - 2017

BORN

1962

DIED

2017

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Cremation Society Of Kentucky

4059 Shelbyville Rd

Louisville, Kentucky

Ralph Mills Obituary

Mills, Ralph Howard "Bo",

55, recently passed away. He was born April 15th 1962 in Louisville, to Ralph J. and Cecilia F. Mills. He graduated from duPont Manual High School class of 1980 and attended Centre College, where he studied marine biology. He served in the US Army from 1982-1985 in the 82nd Airborne. After leaving the Army, he was employed by the City of Louisville as Title Abstractor in the Law Department for 14 years.

He loved music - especially the Allman Brothers Band. Ralph was an early adopter of the internet, and before the age of social media, used his writing skills to become friends with a wide variety of fellow fans from all walks of life. Those friendships led to Ralph travelling widely for some years to Allman Brothers concerts across the country with friends, who recall Ralph's gentle spirit, musical literacy, and endlessly creative sense of humor.

He struggled with bipolar disorder most of his adult life. Much-loved and well-remembered, Ralph is keenly mourned. Ralph was known as a punmeister's punmeister with a lightning quick wit. He also had a lifelong love of fishing - it didn't matter if he caught anything - he never gave up and enjoyed the experience. We hope he is now at peace listening to his favorite band and catching fish to his heart's content.

In addition to his parents he leaves behind a brother Allen Mills (Twila), a sister Alexis Mills, and a niece Virginia Reams along with other loving family members and friends.

In lieu of flowers donations to Wellspring of Kentucky in his name would be appreciated. They were a critical piece in providing care during his battle with bipolar disorder.

May the circle be unbroken.

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Published by Courier-Journal on Dec. 17, 2017.

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Thomas Weber

March 25, 2018

To the Mills Family,

One of the reasons I made it through high school is Ralph was my friend. I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you.

John hewitt

March 15, 2018

Having grown up on the same quiet street as the Mills my memories of Ralph were during the second half of the 1970s. Ralph was the oldest and tallest of all the kids- the big brother. I remember shooting a lot of baskets up at their house. I always remember Ralph as being A very kind, pleasant, friendly, sincere person during that time.

January 5, 2018

I am sorry. For me he will always be in his twenties, handsome, and cheerful.

Charlie Heaberlin

Jill Heaberlin

January 4, 2018

Sending my love to all. This loss of Bo is so very sad. My best hopes that you find the strength you need for this, and eventual peace.

Margaret Berryman

December 23, 2017

Thinking of family and sending my love.

Peter Andrews

December 23, 2017

To The Friends and family of Ralph: Please accept my heartfelt condolences. I know that your many fond memories will provide you with comfort now and in the future.
Every Best Wish,
Peter

Brian Moore

December 22, 2017

I will greatly miss talking sports and politics with Ralph. He was a sharp follower of politics both local and national. I have been deeply touched by his steady gentle spirit. I find myself thinking of him often.

George Rapp

December 20, 2017

I send my sympathies and hope this brings peace to you. George

Barbara Dierolf

December 20, 2017

Our deepest condolences. May you find comfort that he is at peace.

Katharine Dobbins

December 18, 2017

Ralph was a kind and gentle man. He was always willing to lend a hand to others in need. I am glad that I had a chance to know him. I will remember him fondly.

B J Speed

December 16, 2017

So sorry for your loss. Cherish the good memories.

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