Swede Joseph Chevalier

Swede Joseph Chevalier

Swede Chevalier Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 18, 2001.
Not Going Halfway
What is the point. . . .

. . . of doing something if not all the way?

So at 10, Swede Joseph Chevalier plants pumpkin seeds, then sells his harvest to nursery schools around Middletown, N.J.

At 16, he starts a landscaping business that he keeps going by commuting home weekends from Cornell, and throughout his time at Cantor Fitzgerald, where he was, at 26, an assistant equities trader.

Don't just join a fraternity: be president for two years and then get inducted into Cornell's honor society for campus leaders.

Don't just admire cars: trade up four in six years and drive them too fast.

Don't sit back and watch sports: fling yourself at them, especially speed-and-thrill ones like ice hockey and mountain biking.

Do define crash-dieting as a day fueled by 10 puny power bars, and a dinner that begins with lasagna, hamburgers, sausage and chicken and keeps on going.

Do choose a favorite song from a new CD, play it loudly, over and over, until everyone sings it in their sleep, regardless of whether they actually like it.

Do be overprotective of your mother, Elaine; sisters, Tylia and Brittany; girlfriend, Melissa Markewich.

Gamble big. Lend happily. Love fully. Never sit still.

Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on December 31, 2001.


CHEVALIER-Swede Joseph. 26, of Locust, NJ, an equities trader at Cantor Fitzgerald, died September 11 at World Trade Center. Graduate of Cornell University, 1998, The Peddie School, Christian Brothers' Academy, Rumson Country Day School. Member of Phi Delta Theta and Sphinx Head Honorary. Visitation will be held Wednesday, September 19, 7 PM, at St. Mary's Catholic Church, Colts Neck, NJ and a funeral mass will follow on Thursday at 9 AM. Contributions may be made in his memory to Cornell University, Attn: L. Robinson, 55 Brown Road, Ithaca, NY 14850
Paid Notice published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on September 18, 2001.


Swede Joseph Chevalier, cultivated mums

When Swede Joseph Chevalier turned 16, he bought himself an answering machine at Radio Shack and received a small dump truck from his grandfather.

He turned the gifts into a thriving landscaping business based on his family's 15-acre estate in the Locust section of Middletown Township in Monmouth County, where he lived. A diligent worker, he continued the venture part-time even after he joined the white-collar business world.

Mr. Chevalier, 26, went to his day job Tuesday morning as an equities trader at Cantor Fitzgerald, where he worked on the 104th floor of the World Trade Center.

Now, his younger sisters, Tylia, 20, and Brittany, 15, are left to tend to 7,000 chrysanthemum plants without him.

Family members described Mr. Chevalier as their "rock," whose witty remarks and self-effacing humor made them laugh.

During an Independence Day celebration about 10 years ago, he saved his youngest sister from flames engulfing her dress while she was playing with sparklers.

"He was an extremely courageous kid," said his father, Vernon. "Swede took her and with his body, rolled her on the dirt."

He attended Christian Brothers Academy in Lincroft for two years and graduated in 1994 from the Peddie School in Hightstown.

A 1998 graduate of Cornell University's College of Agriculture and Life Sciences, Mr. Chevalier spent two years as president of his fraternity, Phi Delta Theta, and was inducted into Sphinx Head, an honorary society for campus leaders.

He shared a love of adventure with his father, who remembered mountain biking down a single-track path from the top of Pikes Peak in Colorado with his son several years ago. It was a narrow path with 300-foot drops.

"It was dangerous, but he loved it," his father said.

Mr. Chevalier also loved golf, and was a frequent player at Navesink Country Club.

In addition to his father and sisters, he is survived by his mother, Elaine, and his companion, Melissa Markewich. He is also survived by his maternal grandparents, Joseph and Helen Polguy of Sayreville, and his fraternal grandfather, Vernon Chevalier Sr. of Sayreville.

Visitation will be at St. Mary's Church in Colts Neck tomorrow from 7 to 9 p.m. A funeral Mass will be celebrated at the church at 9 a.m. Thursday.

Donations for a memorial scholarship at Cornell University may be sent to L. Robins, 55 Brown Rd., Ithaca, N.Y. 14850.

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January 7, 2024

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November 3, 2023

Sanjeev Misra posted to the memorial.

September 11, 2023

Dave Kelly posted to the memorial.

jermaine B

January 7, 2024

After hearing of another classmate passing, I think of all our classmates that have gone to early and thought about how long ago it has been since i have seen Swede. we had a marketing class together his first year and beside me liking him as a person, when I heard about his business, I knew who I wanted as a partner. He was helpful, funny and smart. I was down there that day and always wish I had seen him on his way to work and made him alter his routine somehow. Will always be remembered!

Sanjeev Misra

November 3, 2023

Today in Chicago, I was sitting in a coffee shop, writing in my journal and a young man walked on the sidewalk in front of me. I could have sworn it was Swede. He looked identical to the amazing friend and next door neighbor of mine in the dorms at Cornell.

I realized how long it has been and how much I missed Swede. He was such a charismatic, smart and caring person. Fully of crazy energy and life and even thought it has been so long, I remember him so fondly.

My heart breaks yet again as it does every few years knowing that he did not get the chance to do the things he should have.

I have a few photos of Swede from our freshman year that were really fun. If there are family members that would like me to scan and send, please let me know.

Sanjeev Misra

Dave Kelly

September 11, 2023

Swede; Thinking of you and your family today. Can't believe its been 22 years. I brought my son Joseph to your memorial in Middletown - he was excited to see he shares a name with you. His fearlessness reminds me of your all the time. God Bless you and Danny...abiit autem non sum oblitus

Daria Obiedzinski

September 5, 2021

Please get in touch with me. I have something that belongs to him.
Daria

Cindy Roe

September 4, 2021

Remembering Swede on the 20th anniversary of 9/11....

Daria Obiedzinski

January 15, 2021

Please get in touch with me. I have a memorial bracelet with Joseph´s name on it. My name is Daria.

Del Newberry

October 27, 2020

Swede did more in his 26 years on earth than many of us have done who have been blessed with many more years before we are called home. I am praying today for a special blessing for his many friends and family. We will never forget. Much love from Texas,

Nicholas Guilbert

September 12, 2020

Remembering you, Swede

Rob Z

September 11, 2020

Thinking of you, Swede.

Alex

November 12, 2019

Gone so terribly soon. RIP Joseph...

September 11, 2017

Rest Easy Swede.

Fiona Boyd

September 11, 2014

Miss not seeing you.
Forever in my heart.
Love Fiona

Fiona Boyd

September 11, 2014

Oh Swede how I missed seeing you grow into a young man.
I have enjoyed seeing your sisters grow into wonderful young ladies and as always stayed close to your Mom, Elaine. They are such special, strong women and I love them all. Love Fiona

September 11, 2014

We'll never forget....

Sheila Ranson

September 11, 2014

My thoughts are with all the family today, such a tragic loss to this lovely family.

Dave Kelly

January 8, 2014

Stopped by at the memorial today before leaving for med school to find your and Danny's names. May God Bless you and your families.

Peggy Peters

September 22, 2013

I saw your name and took a photo of it this morning while visiting the 911 Memorial. After reading your bio, I realize what a special person you were and the great loss your family has suffered. Rest in peace Swede. You've not been forgotten.

Barbara Allen

September 12, 2012

Prayers going out to the family of
Swede Chevalier.

Dave Kelly

September 11, 2012

Thinking of you and your family.

barbara finch

September 9, 2012

I think of this sweet little boy I met once when he was about five.His family worshiped him God love you.

Robert Zazzali

June 13, 2012

Swede and I went to kindergarten together many years ago. I distinctly remember playing at his house as a child. We went to separate grade schools and lost touch. I've lived in L.A. for 13 years and took some time off in May to visit my family in NJ. I spent a day at the memorial, and searched for Swede's name. I found it and wanted his family to know that I was thinking about him, and that I always will keep him in my thoughts and his loved ones in my prayers. His face in this photo is the same one i remember when we were 5 or 6 years old. God bless.

Olivia Soto

September 11, 2011

may you rest in peace

Dave Kelly

September 11, 2011

Ten years may have past, but you are not forgotten. May God grant your family strength during this difficult time.

Laura Andelman-Allen

May 9, 2011

To Swede and his family,
I am thinking of you and wish you the best.
Sincerely,
Laura

Joshua Pincus

May 4, 2011

Thinking of you this week, Swede.

Jannet Quackenbush

May 2, 2011

We acheived a small victory last night. May the battle continue so none of you gave your lives in vain.

Tracey (Bargloski) Adams

September 11, 2010

Thinking of you and your family.

God Bless

Nicholas Guilbert

September 11, 2010

Remembering you and your family, Swede.

RIP

Dave Kelly

September 11, 2010

Thinking of you and your family...God Bless you, your family and all the other victims

February 4, 2010

my name is rikki and i will remember you(:! r.i.p!

Dave Kelly

September 11, 2009

Thinking of you and your family...Rest in Peace my friend and may God bless you family.

Doug Abraham

January 13, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

A friend

September 11, 2008

Although days pass and time moves on, your memory continues to live on through those of us who knew you. God Bless you, your mother and your sisters; may He keep all of you in the palm of His hand.

Seth Beardsley

September 11, 2008

I feel honored to have had a few beers and watched some hockey with you near the end of your life. You were a great man and I still can't believe you are gone. I hope there is a rink in Heaven.

Seth

Robert Detch

September 8, 2008

I met Swede when we lived together on the same dormitory floor freshman year at Cornell, and considered him a friend throughout our college years. I am now on active duty service with the military serving in Afghanistan, and I think of Swede and others lost on 9/11/01 often. Swede, you will not be forgotten.

Gare Allen

September 11, 2007

The Believe the Miracles!

Dave Kelly

September 11, 2007

Thinking of you and your family...

Chris Fedorka Tomalin

September 7, 2007

Every time I see a row of mums as september settles in around us I think of your son. I remeber how Brittany told me about his love of raising his mums and how they worked so hard together in his business. You are all in my prayers and my thoughts every day.
I feel as though his spirit lives on in those beautiful fall flowers.
My best to you as the anniversary approaches
Chris Fedorka Tomalin

Kristine

October 27, 2006

As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.

Dave Kelly

September 11, 2006

Although five years have passed since that terrible day you and so many others were taken away, your spirit continues to live on in the hearts of those of us who had the great honor and privilege of calling you a friend. You will never be forgotten.

P Tabbernor

September 9, 2006

In remembrance....

The Kelly Family

September 15, 2003

You're always in our prayers and our hearts. You will never be forgotten. May God bless you and your family

Boys of CBA

February 22, 2003

Swede-



we'll see you on the other side...dont be late. rest easy buddy. we miss you

Keith Watkins

September 11, 2002

I want to let you know that I pray for your son daily. Know that he didn't die in vain. Because of this tragic event people have changed. The loss of a child, brother, sister, cousin, friend etc. will always leave a scar on your heart. Memories will help the scar fade. God Bless all of you.

Carissa Mirra '98

September 10, 2002

Swede and I lived on the same floor freshman year of college. Although we did not run with the same circle of friends, I will always consider him one.



The Swede I remember was always kind and considerate to me. Even after we moved out of the 4th floor of the Class of '22 hall, he always said hi with a smile.



I'll remember that smile and that kindness always. God Bless you Swede. @>--`--,---

Ashley Cooper

September 7, 2002

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Chevalier and family,

I do not know you nor do you know me. However I was roommates with Kari Batch at Bucknell University, and came to know Swede during our Freshman/Sophomore years. I am very sorry for your loss - but I want you to know that you raised a complete gentleman, a kind and respectful person, and a wonderful soul. I remember how Swede could light up a room with his smile and his laugh...the laugh that would make you double over in joy, and as his parents and family, I want you to know that for as little as I knew him, I truly believe he lived life to its fullest each and every day - always caring about those he loved...With all my thoughts...ATC

Robi Kellerman

June 4, 2002

Swede-



I miss calling Peter everyday and hearing your sweet voice and all the bad food my husband was eating. You guys were a great team and Peter loved you so much. You were suppose to come plant trees with us in the country. This year I will plant one for you and Peter. I still have the basket you sent us. I miss you guys so much. I hope you are together in Heaven watching over all of us!! My heavy heart thinks of your family all of the time! Peace!!!

Jannet Quackenbush-King

May 28, 2002

Rest in peace cousin Swede. God only takes the best



godspeed.......



The Quackenbush Family

BUTCH & JO-ELLEN MARKS

May 10, 2002

SWEDE, YOU ARE IN OUR HEARTS, FROM THE YOUNG MAN WITH THE PICKUP TRUCK AND THE LANDSCAPING. TO THE MAN THAT YOU BECAME - ASKING HOW WE WERE - HOW MATT WAS, AND YOU AND YOUR MOM TELLING US THAT MATT WOULD BE IN BOTH YOUR PRAYERS AS HE WAS IN THE MILITARY. SWEDE, YOU, YOUR SISTERS, YOUR MOM AND DAD WILL ALWAYS BE IN OUR PRAYERS AND IN OUR HEARTS BECAUSE WE WON'T FORGET YOU -EVER.

Brittany Chevalier

April 21, 2002

Swede, words can not express the way I feel without you. Every day I look at your room across the hall from mine, it seems so empty and bare without you. I miss you soo much it hurts. You were not only my brother, but one of my best friends. I think about the last weekend we spent together so often that I'm frightened that it will become numb and I will forget it. But I know i won't because memories can not be lost. I Love you more then life

Love Britta

Frank and Elaine Tambone

April 19, 2002

Of all the people Swede touched in his life, we are probably the people who knew him the least, or maybe the most. We only know that we feel priveledged to have known him even for only such a short time and we always reveled in his successes as we came to know of them. He was an inspiration to us ever since we first met him, and he continues to be so. After that tragic day we had an American flag placed on our front lawn. Not just to show our American pride, but more to remind us each and every day that we see the flag, of Swede and the others who are forever lost. I hope that Swede's family can someday find peace in knowing how positively he touched so many people and what an inspiration he will always be to my family. May he rest in peace.

Teresa Jahn

January 6, 2002

Some very powerful mottos to live by as that which Swede had. May his mottos, his life and love live on in those who love him. May the sorrow your heart feels be lightened by warm memories of times together. Our hearts cry with you.

America Cries

We see your sorrow-

and our hearts cry....

We can not erase your pain

but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-

-the American people-

are beside you.

We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,

the strength that gives you courage,

and the words to lighten your spirits.

And when we are left speechless

may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts

to ease your sorrow.

May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-

-the American people-

face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn

Dixon, IL

Kate Dudonis

January 4, 2002

Swedey-pie- I miss our elevator rides to the cafe on 101 and how we always seemed to be on the same schedule. You were a sweetheart and I cant imagine the loss your mom and sisters feel. I know you were their world as they were yours. I miss you buddy, watch over us all. I'll be seeing you, someday...

Susan (Gressman) Lynch

January 3, 2002

To Swede's family & friends....

May the Lord grant you peace in this very difficult time.

And know that you are not alone.....

Swede, rest in peace with the Lord.

Anonymous

December 23, 2001

DEAR GOD IN HEAVEN SHINE YOUR LIGHT

ON SWEDE JOSEPH CHEVALIER AND MAY HE

REST IN PEACE WITH THE ANGELS..GOD

BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS.GOD BLESS AMERICA AND GOD BLESS NEW YORK.MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01

Joseph Damiani

November 30, 2001

To Swede's Family and Friends:



I would like to pass along my prayers and heartfelt thoughts to you all. My only connection to Swede is that I was also a Phi Delt at Cornell, Class of 1981. As a brother in that extended family I promise I will keep him in my memory and honor him in every way I can. As an airline and Air National Guard pilot, I am reminded of the tragedy each day and each day I will remember Swede.

"May God bless you and may God keep you"(A.Hardaway)

Sincerely

Joe Damiani '81

Lori Lundy

October 26, 2001

Your neighbors send you our deepest sympathies and hopes for you and your family to have a peaceful tomorrow. Respectfully, The Lundy Family

leslie miller

October 18, 2001

Please find strength in knowing so many, many people care. Our hearts are with you, always.

Dione Sackman

October 6, 2001

I am very sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you.

A friend of RCDS in memory of Swede

September 26, 2001

With song and gladness and laughter through the happy hours each day, we kept our comrade spirits in our work as in our play...and we will keep you in our memories always, Swede. May your family find comfort in the days to come. Rest in peace.

Barbara Bolin

September 23, 2001

My thoughts and prayers go out to you all.May God bless you all.Swede may you rest in peace.

S Lowe

September 19, 2001

Our sympathy,thoughts,and prayers go out to this brave soul and his family. May God bless all of you

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