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jermaine B
January 7, 2024
After hearing of another classmate passing, I think of all our classmates that have gone to early and thought about how long ago it has been since i have seen Swede. we had a marketing class together his first year and beside me liking him as a person, when I heard about his business, I knew who I wanted as a partner. He was helpful, funny and smart. I was down there that day and always wish I had seen him on his way to work and made him alter his routine somehow. Will always be remembered!
Sanjeev Misra
November 3, 2023
Today in Chicago, I was sitting in a coffee shop, writing in my journal and a young man walked on the sidewalk in front of me. I could have sworn it was Swede. He looked identical to the amazing friend and next door neighbor of mine in the dorms at Cornell.
I realized how long it has been and how much I missed Swede. He was such a charismatic, smart and caring person. Fully of crazy energy and life and even thought it has been so long, I remember him so fondly.
My heart breaks yet again as it does every few years knowing that he did not get the chance to do the things he should have.
I have a few photos of Swede from our freshman year that were really fun. If there are family members that would like me to scan and send, please let me know.
Sanjeev Misra
Dave Kelly
September 11, 2023
Swede; Thinking of you and your family today. Can't believe its been 22 years. I brought my son Joseph to your memorial in Middletown - he was excited to see he shares a name with you. His fearlessness reminds me of your all the time. God Bless you and Danny...abiit autem non sum oblitus
Daria Obiedzinski
September 5, 2021
Please get in touch with me. I have something that belongs to him.
Daria
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Cindy Roe
September 4, 2021
Remembering Swede on the 20th anniversary of 9/11....
Daria Obiedzinski
January 15, 2021
Please get in touch with me. I have a memorial bracelet with Joseph´s name on it. My name is Daria.
Del Newberry
October 27, 2020
Swede did more in his 26 years on earth than many of us have done who have been blessed with many more years before we are called home. I am praying today for a special blessing for his many friends and family. We will never forget. Much love from Texas,
Nicholas Guilbert
September 12, 2020
Remembering you, Swede
Rob Z
September 11, 2020
Thinking of you, Swede.
Alex
November 12, 2019
Gone so terribly soon. RIP Joseph...
September 11, 2017
Rest Easy Swede.
Fiona Boyd
September 11, 2014
Miss not seeing you.
Forever in my heart.
Love Fiona
Fiona Boyd
September 11, 2014
Oh Swede how I missed seeing you grow into a young man.
I have enjoyed seeing your sisters grow into wonderful young ladies and as always stayed close to your Mom, Elaine. They are such special, strong women and I love them all. Love Fiona
September 11, 2014
We'll never forget....
Sheila Ranson
September 11, 2014
My thoughts are with all the family today, such a tragic loss to this lovely family.
Dave Kelly
January 8, 2014
Stopped by at the memorial today before leaving for med school to find your and Danny's names. May God Bless you and your families.
Peggy Peters
September 22, 2013
I saw your name and took a photo of it this morning while visiting the 911 Memorial. After reading your bio, I realize what a special person you were and the great loss your family has suffered. Rest in peace Swede. You've not been forgotten.
Barbara Allen
September 12, 2012
Prayers going out to the family of
Swede Chevalier.
Dave Kelly
September 11, 2012
Thinking of you and your family.
barbara finch
September 9, 2012
I think of this sweet little boy I met once when he was about five.His family worshiped him God love you.
Robert Zazzali
June 13, 2012
Swede and I went to kindergarten together many years ago. I distinctly remember playing at his house as a child. We went to separate grade schools and lost touch. I've lived in L.A. for 13 years and took some time off in May to visit my family in NJ. I spent a day at the memorial, and searched for Swede's name. I found it and wanted his family to know that I was thinking about him, and that I always will keep him in my thoughts and his loved ones in my prayers. His face in this photo is the same one i remember when we were 5 or 6 years old. God bless.
Olivia Soto
September 11, 2011
may you rest in peace
Dave Kelly
September 11, 2011
Ten years may have past, but you are not forgotten. May God grant your family strength during this difficult time.
Laura Andelman-Allen
May 9, 2011
To Swede and his family,
I am thinking of you and wish you the best.
Sincerely,
Laura
Joshua Pincus
May 4, 2011
Thinking of you this week, Swede.
Jannet Quackenbush
May 2, 2011
We acheived a small victory last night. May the battle continue so none of you gave your lives in vain.
Tracey (Bargloski) Adams
September 11, 2010
Thinking of you and your family.
God Bless
Nicholas Guilbert
September 11, 2010
Remembering you and your family, Swede.
RIP
Dave Kelly
September 11, 2010
Thinking of you and your family...God Bless you, your family and all the other victims
February 4, 2010
my name is rikki and i will remember you(:! r.i.p!
Dave Kelly
September 11, 2009
Thinking of you and your family...Rest in Peace my friend and may God bless you family.
Doug Abraham
January 13, 2009
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
A friend
September 11, 2008
Although days pass and time moves on, your memory continues to live on through those of us who knew you. God Bless you, your mother and your sisters; may He keep all of you in the palm of His hand.
Seth Beardsley
September 11, 2008
I feel honored to have had a few beers and watched some hockey with you near the end of your life. You were a great man and I still can't believe you are gone. I hope there is a rink in Heaven.
Seth
Robert Detch
September 8, 2008
I met Swede when we lived together on the same dormitory floor freshman year at Cornell, and considered him a friend throughout our college years. I am now on active duty service with the military serving in Afghanistan, and I think of Swede and others lost on 9/11/01 often. Swede, you will not be forgotten.
Gare Allen
September 11, 2007
The Believe the Miracles!
Dave Kelly
September 11, 2007
Thinking of you and your family...
Chris Fedorka Tomalin
September 7, 2007
Every time I see a row of mums as september settles in around us I think of your son. I remeber how Brittany told me about his love of raising his mums and how they worked so hard together in his business. You are all in my prayers and my thoughts every day.
I feel as though his spirit lives on in those beautiful fall flowers.
My best to you as the anniversary approaches
Chris Fedorka Tomalin
Kristine
October 27, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Dave Kelly
September 11, 2006
Although five years have passed since that terrible day you and so many others were taken away, your spirit continues to live on in the hearts of those of us who had the great honor and privilege of calling you a friend. You will never be forgotten.
P Tabbernor
September 9, 2006
In remembrance....
The Kelly Family
September 15, 2003
You're always in our prayers and our hearts. You will never be forgotten. May God bless you and your family
Boys of CBA
February 22, 2003
Swede-
we'll see you on the other side...dont be late. rest easy buddy. we miss you
Keith Watkins
September 11, 2002
I want to let you know that I pray for your son daily. Know that he didn't die in vain. Because of this tragic event people have changed. The loss of a child, brother, sister, cousin, friend etc. will always leave a scar on your heart. Memories will help the scar fade. God Bless all of you.
Carissa Mirra '98
September 10, 2002
Swede and I lived on the same floor freshman year of college. Although we did not run with the same circle of friends, I will always consider him one.
The Swede I remember was always kind and considerate to me. Even after we moved out of the 4th floor of the Class of '22 hall, he always said hi with a smile.
I'll remember that smile and that kindness always. God Bless you Swede. @>--`--,---
Ashley Cooper
September 7, 2002
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Chevalier and family,
I do not know you nor do you know me. However I was roommates with Kari Batch at Bucknell University, and came to know Swede during our Freshman/Sophomore years. I am very sorry for your loss - but I want you to know that you raised a complete gentleman, a kind and respectful person, and a wonderful soul. I remember how Swede could light up a room with his smile and his laugh...the laugh that would make you double over in joy, and as his parents and family, I want you to know that for as little as I knew him, I truly believe he lived life to its fullest each and every day - always caring about those he loved...With all my thoughts...ATC
Robi Kellerman
June 4, 2002
Swede-
I miss calling Peter everyday and hearing your sweet voice and all the bad food my husband was eating. You guys were a great team and Peter loved you so much. You were suppose to come plant trees with us in the country. This year I will plant one for you and Peter. I still have the basket you sent us. I miss you guys so much. I hope you are together in Heaven watching over all of us!! My heavy heart thinks of your family all of the time! Peace!!!
Jannet Quackenbush-King
May 28, 2002
Rest in peace cousin Swede. God only takes the best
godspeed.......
The Quackenbush Family
BUTCH & JO-ELLEN MARKS
May 10, 2002
SWEDE, YOU ARE IN OUR HEARTS, FROM THE YOUNG MAN WITH THE PICKUP TRUCK AND THE LANDSCAPING. TO THE MAN THAT YOU BECAME - ASKING HOW WE WERE - HOW MATT WAS, AND YOU AND YOUR MOM TELLING US THAT MATT WOULD BE IN BOTH YOUR PRAYERS AS HE WAS IN THE MILITARY. SWEDE, YOU, YOUR SISTERS, YOUR MOM AND DAD WILL ALWAYS BE IN OUR PRAYERS AND IN OUR HEARTS BECAUSE WE WON'T FORGET YOU -EVER.
Brittany Chevalier
April 21, 2002
Swede, words can not express the way I feel without you. Every day I look at your room across the hall from mine, it seems so empty and bare without you. I miss you soo much it hurts. You were not only my brother, but one of my best friends. I think about the last weekend we spent together so often that I'm frightened that it will become numb and I will forget it. But I know i won't because memories can not be lost. I Love you more then life
Love Britta
Frank and Elaine Tambone
April 19, 2002
Of all the people Swede touched in his life, we are probably the people who knew him the least, or maybe the most. We only know that we feel priveledged to have known him even for only such a short time and we always reveled in his successes as we came to know of them. He was an inspiration to us ever since we first met him, and he continues to be so. After that tragic day we had an American flag placed on our front lawn. Not just to show our American pride, but more to remind us each and every day that we see the flag, of Swede and the others who are forever lost. I hope that Swede's family can someday find peace in knowing how positively he touched so many people and what an inspiration he will always be to my family. May he rest in peace.
Teresa Jahn
January 6, 2002
Some very powerful mottos to live by as that which Swede had. May his mottos, his life and love live on in those who love him. May the sorrow your heart feels be lightened by warm memories of times together. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Kate Dudonis
January 4, 2002
Swedey-pie- I miss our elevator rides to the cafe on 101 and how we always seemed to be on the same schedule. You were a sweetheart and I cant imagine the loss your mom and sisters feel. I know you were their world as they were yours. I miss you buddy, watch over us all. I'll be seeing you, someday...
Susan (Gressman) Lynch
January 3, 2002
To Swede's family & friends....
May the Lord grant you peace in this very difficult time.
And know that you are not alone.....
Swede, rest in peace with the Lord.
Anonymous
December 23, 2001
DEAR GOD IN HEAVEN SHINE YOUR LIGHT
ON SWEDE JOSEPH CHEVALIER AND MAY HE
REST IN PEACE WITH THE ANGELS..GOD
BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS.GOD BLESS AMERICA AND GOD BLESS NEW YORK.MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01
Joseph Damiani
November 30, 2001
To Swede's Family and Friends:
I would like to pass along my prayers and heartfelt thoughts to you all. My only connection to Swede is that I was also a Phi Delt at Cornell, Class of 1981. As a brother in that extended family I promise I will keep him in my memory and honor him in every way I can. As an airline and Air National Guard pilot, I am reminded of the tragedy each day and each day I will remember Swede.
"May God bless you and may God keep you"(A.Hardaway)
Sincerely
Joe Damiani '81
Lori Lundy
October 26, 2001
Your neighbors send you our deepest sympathies and hopes for you and your family to have a peaceful tomorrow. Respectfully, The Lundy Family
leslie miller
October 18, 2001
Please find strength in knowing so many, many people care. Our hearts are with you, always.
Dione Sackman
October 6, 2001
I am very sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you.
A friend of RCDS in memory of Swede
September 26, 2001
With song and gladness and laughter through the happy hours each day, we kept our comrade spirits in our work as in our play...and we will keep you in our memories always, Swede. May your family find comfort in the days to come. Rest in peace.
Barbara Bolin
September 23, 2001
My thoughts and prayers go out to you all.May God bless you all.Swede may you rest in peace.
S Lowe
September 19, 2001
Our sympathy,thoughts,and prayers go out to this brave soul and his family. May God bless all of you
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