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Ronald Comer Obituary
Perhaps Ron Comer should have been an astronaut instead of an insurance executive. Pursuits that shifted conventional perspective drew him, but if he lacked a view from space, he did get to take Earth's measure from above the clouds and below the waves.
His wife, Cindy, whose first flight was with him at the controls of a Cessna when they were college students, suspected that her solitude-seeking husband flew because "only birds can be up there, not people."
Not many people in the deep, either. On a scuba vacation in Mexico in February, Mr. Comer, 56, who worked at Marsh & McLennan, descended to a watery limestone otherworld the Mayans called a cenote, essentially viewing the planet from within. He told his wife it was "the dive of a lifetime."
Not all his experiments were so satisfying. He had a habit of rearranging shrubs and trees in the garden when he decided that a plant needed to be over here, say, instead of over there. Mrs. Comer had teased, "I can't go to church without coming back and a bush is gone, a tree is gone." A favorite perspective was from the village dock at home in Northport, on Long Island, even after his daughters, Kate, 26, and Lauren, 23, no longer played in the park there. He would gaze at the birds and the boats, the water and the horizon. Mrs. Comer plans to put a bench there in his memory.
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Carol Van Schaick
September 7, 2021
The last time I spoke with Ron he was talking about retirement. We were at his nephews wedding. He is in my daily prayers each day and know he is in a wonderful land fulfilling his dreams.
Cindy Roe
September 4, 2021
Remembering Ron on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...
Del Newberry
March 18, 2021
Saying a special prayer today for your friends and family. We will never forget.
Jan van Dasler
October 29, 2017
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Carol Van Schaick
September 17, 2016
I listen for your name each year as it is read on 9/11 at the site of the the World Trade Center. Bob is enjoying your company.
September 11, 2016
I just saw your name mentioned on today the 15th anniversary of 9/11. My daughter married a Raymond Andrew Comer. We live in Montgomery County MD. Don't know if there is a family relationship or not but my thoughts and prayers are with you and all your loved ones. May you RIP.
Kerrie Comer
August 27, 2016
You do not know me however I have just been in New York for a few days and my family and I went to the 911 memorial site to pay our respects to everyone on that dreadful day. I took a photo of a flower placed in the memorial there were many flowers but I was drawn to this one in particular, it was cream rose and although slightly fading it still looked beautiful. Sitting quietly in reflection I looked at my pictures and then took in the names around the flower... Right below was the name Ronald Edward Comer and I knew exactly why I was so drawn to that flower and that one only.
My name is Kerrie Comer.... Your Mr Ron Comer knew which picture I was meant to take. God bless you.
June Jenkins
February 19, 2015
Is their hope for our love ones that we have lost in death. "The righteous themselves will possess the earth, and they will reside forever upon it" Psalm 31:29
Andrew Plischke
September 11, 2012
Well here I sit in my office, 11 years after this whole big mess, thinking about how my Aunte Cindy, and my cousins Kate & Lauren must be doing today... and I come across this wounderful page! dedicated to my Uncle Ron, I have read everyone of these messages from people around the world, and it just brings this peace, and tremendous sence of joy to me that you are still so loved and still bare this lasting impression on so many! You're the Man!
love you guys
Andy
Sharon Wilson Ferrante
September 13, 2011
My prayers are with all of you.As I watched I had hoped I may see Ron's Name and there it was only seconds later.I send my love and please Take care of yourselves
Barbara (Comer) Hafer
September 13, 2011
Like others on this page, my husband actually saw "Comer" as we were watching the 10th anniversary. My maiden name is Comer and though probably not related, you do feel a kinship towards others with the same last name. I was riveted to the television all day, just like I was 10 years ago, listening to the stories. My heart goes out to everyone that perished that day. Take care and God bless!
Debi Comer
September 11, 2011
To the family of Mr. Ron Comer, my prayers are with you and your family today. I cannot even try to imagine the loss you have felt during the past 10 years. I also share your same last name (by marriage) and wanted you to know that Ron will never be forgotten. God bless you always.
Jacob Comer
September 11, 2011
I was watching the news on the 10 year anniversary of 9/11 and as the camera swooped by the memorial fountains i caught site of Rons name especially his last name Comer as i have the same last name as him. I do not no much about my fathers side of the family but i remember being told a little when i was a child and that when my family moved from Ireland, uk they split up and a hand full of my relatives moved to America. I am not sure if our names are related in anyway at all but i am a strong believer that certain things happen for a reason so i researched the name and found this site. I would be very interested in learning the origins of your family as i believe Comer is quit a rare name and you just never know. I completly understand if i am completly off the mark with my train of thought and would hate to upset anyone but if my story in anyway matches up to your history i have subscribed to recieve email updates of this blog so feel free to get in touch if you so wish to. I would just like to offer my deepest condolences and greatest sympathy from all these personal staments i have read he seems like a great man who touched many lives.
Yours sincerely
Jacob P Comer
Nicky Pye
September 11, 2011
Hi i am in the UK. I have just watched the 10 pm news. On the tribute at Ground Zero i saw engraved the name of Ronald Edward Comer. My mum and dad are Bernard and Dorothy Comer. I dont know if we are related but our thoughts are with you today xxxx Nicky
Carol Van Schaick
March 11, 2011
Julie always says how Keith is just like you, so devoted to work and so conscientious. You were a great uncle and an inspiration to him although not knowing it at the time.
I remember talking with you about retireing and how very apprehensive you were of the thought. You will always be remembered as a terrific and caring person.
Doug Abraham
February 17, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Kristine
October 30, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
September 13, 2006
In remembrance....
Julie Berson Tornabene
September 11, 2006
While I did not know Ron Comer, his wife Cindy, was my 1st and 2nd grade teacher. I am now 43. Even after all these years, I still clearly remember what a warm and caring teacher Mrs. Comer was. After reading the different tributes to Ron, I see that Ron and Cindy have made a difference in many lives. Ron and his family will continue to remain in my thoughts and prayers.
MELISSA LEROUX
August 31, 2006
I would like Ron's family to know that I've always had great respect & admiration for Ron. After high school I went to secretarial school for a year. Upon graduation, I was interviewed by Ron at Marsh at Ave. of the Americas. I will never forget that he took a chance on hiring me because I was only 19 yrs. old, very young looking (5 ft) and very quiet (shy). He always told me how glad he was that he hired me and that I was his best secretary so far. Thank you Ron for letting me prove myself and giving me my first real job. Miss you. - Melissa (formerly) Santivanez
Paul Simpson
October 10, 2005
I picked up a braclet at my church back in 2001. The name on mine was Ronald Comer. I felt so helpless to do anything for the people who lost loved ones in such a tragic scensless way, all I can do is pray and I do to this day. My father died just the month before, but I got to say goodbye and I love you.
So much has happned since 9/11 and I want the family to know, I still pray for you and I still have my braclet and even though I don't know Ronald Comer, I will never forget him. John 14:1
Susan T.
October 25, 2003
Thanks for the nice letter you sent Terry reguarding the tatted heart you received.
I was also one of the tatters who made hearts and it is good to know they were appreciated. It was only a small thing for us to do, but it made us apart of the grief and renewal .
Wish you enough, Susan
cindy comer
October 22, 2003
Today I received in the mail two badges worn by two people who participated in the Rolling Requiem last Sept.11th. One was from Tucson AZ and one from Tacoma WA. It was because of these badges that I was drawn to this site. I wish to thank those two people for surrendering the badges they wore as they sang that day. I held them to my heart and tried to feel Rons energy.
To all of you who wrote a message, I thank you from the bottom of my heart. Two years after that fateful day, it brought tears to my eyes to know others are still thinking of that wonderful man. It means so much to me, that you have taken the time to share a bit of the Ron you knew.
I have learned so much about him from these remembrances and I will treasure each and every memory.
God Bless you all. Cindy
liz
September 11, 2003
Today, tomorrow and always I will be praying for you and your families.
Maria C. Gabbe
September 11, 2003
Thoughts and prayers.
Kevin Oliver
September 11, 2003
I'm sitting here in my office with my door closed two years to the minute from that day I will never forget. Coming home and going to Ron's house hoping against hope that he made it out. Not knowing what to say but trying to offer Cindy words of encouragement.
I will always remember you, Ron, as a good friend.
May God bless you and your dear family.
Vince Allen
September 10, 2002
Ron, Thanks for everything. You were the best Boss I ever knew. Marsh will never be the same. God bless your family and watch over them.
Larry Bliss
September 10, 2002
I too have been wearing a Mercy Band for Ron, since February. From others' comments, I can tell he was a man I would like to have known. Cindy, Kate, and Lauren, I pray for all of you as often as I can, especially on the eve of the anniversary. I hope all of you, immediate family, relatives, and Ron's many friends in all walks of life, may find peace inside God's ever-present grace.
Wallace McFarland
July 11, 2002
Ron was a `confrere` in our world of insurance claims. A man of integrity - knowledgeable, and reasonable - steadfast in support of the fair settlement. While I was the tour director for our Grand Canyon visit, Ron was the driver for my birthday celebration. He is sorely missed from the ranks of the professionals in his business life. May he forever live on in our memories.
dominick alfieri
May 19, 2002
Ron is a tough guy to forget! From our days at the Travelers and the days that followed, I shall never forget "the pipe" and his infectious laugh and our occasional meetings on the LIRR. Mackey and I think of you often.
Barbara Spinelli
March 27, 2002
I am a business associate of Ron's and saw him last summer. Over the years he was the kindest problem solver in the business. We worked on the same accounts and he always came to every situation with a sense of cooperation and integrity. I have tremendous respect for him and I am privileged to have known a little bit about him from our conversations and working relationship. May you find peace and joy knowing what a blessing he was to all who knew him.
Sincerely,
Barbara
Carolyn Berger
March 11, 2002
Cindy and Family - you remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Ron remains in our thoughts here at Air Products, he was more than a business associate, he was a friend.
Sherry Kolpack
February 26, 2002
I just wanted to say that I am so sorry for your loss. I bear Ron's name on a "Mercy Band" that I wear on my arm everyday in his memory, of the tragic day he was taken from you. I pray for him and your family every day. May God always be with you and your family. I am sure that Ron is smiling down upon you and watching over you every day.
jerry passman
February 26, 2002
Ron and I worked together at The Travelers many years ago and remained friends and collegues as the years went on. Please accept my prayers and thoughts.
Linn Robinson
February 20, 2002
I will always remember Ron telling me whenever I visited his office,"you are always welcome here".I will never forget the last time I saw him when we went to a pro golf tournament together.
If a fund is established to create the "bench" memorial in Northport, I would be glad to contribute.
Teresa Jahn
January 5, 2002
We are deeply sorry for your loss of Ron. As you sit upon his "memory bench" may you feel the warmth of his love radiate into your hearts. May his sense of adventure, his life and love live on in you. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
alex pastic
January 3, 2002
dear lauren,
it's been a long time since i've talked with you, but know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. i'm so sorry that you were affected by this horrible tragedy.
delta love and mine,
alex pastic
December 31, 2001
DEAR GOD BLESS RONALD (RON) COMER AND MAY HE REST IN PEACE WITH GOD
AND HIS ANGELS...GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS.GOD BLESS AMERICA
AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01
Michael Mangino
December 4, 2001
Ron and I only had a working telephone relationship, but we reminisced about life in New York after I moved to Chicago to work for Amoco Insurance. And after the BP takeover, he offered to be an employment reference and I was touched by this generousity and his appreciation for the difficulty of being out of a job.
Pete Duncan
November 9, 2001
I knew Ron through business and found him to be intelligent and understanding. The tribute showed me an even more interesting side of Ron.
A friend,
Pete Duncan
Teri Pavia
November 7, 2001
God never challenges us in a single day with more that he thinks we can handle. You are not alone or forgotten during this time of healing. We remember Mr. Comer fondly through his daughter, our friend, Katie. Take care of yourselves and each other.
Dianne Purdy
November 4, 2001
My Prayers continue for your family. My heart aches for your great loss.
leslie miller
October 22, 2001
Please find comfort in wonderful memories. I am so very sorry for your loss. You're not alone.
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