Thomas J. Cahill

Thomas J. Cahill

Thomas Cahill Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 10, 2001.
A Crowded 37 Years
Thomas Cahill knew his father, Jim, really wanted to win a recent golf tournament at the Metedeconk National Golf Club in Jackson, N.J. But that did not keep him from having some fun. He stuck a chunky cigar in his mouth, winked at the caddy and nonchalantly told his father: "Don't worry, big guy. It's all under control."

Then the younger Mr. Cahill sank the ball into a hole about 14 feet away. The Cahills, father and son, took home a trophy that day.

A natural athlete, the younger Mr. Cahill had skied in Utah and Colorado, trolled for fish in the Bahamas and putted on all the golf courses in Ireland by the time he was 37. He worked as a securities trader at Cantor Fitzgerald, and lived near his family in Franklin Lakes, N.J.

"He enjoyed life," said his mother, Kathleen. "And he fit an awful lot in during his 37 years."

Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on September 30, 2001.


Thomas Cahill, 36, skier and sportsman

Whether it was skiing in Utah or deep-sea fishing off the Jersey coast, Thomas Cahill enjoyed participating in sports and met many friends through his activities.

"He was outgoing, he made friends wherever he went," James Cahill said of his 36-year-old son, a securities trader who worked for Cantor Fitzgerald for the last 10 years. Thomas Cahill has not been seen since last Tuesday's attack on the World Trade Center. He would have been 37 last week.

He was born in Teaneck and graduated from Indian Hills High School where he played tennis, a sport he continued on the varsity tennis team at Johns Hopkins University in Baltimore, where he graduated in 1986 with a bachelor's degree in economics.

Thomas Cahill had a large, close-knit family and lived in Franklin Lakes, across the street from one of his sisters. He often hosted his relatives, particularly his nieces and nephew, at his swimming pool, his father said. "He was 'Uncle Tom' to everybody," his father recalled.

As a child he took up skiing, traveling with the local YMCA on bus trips to ski resorts and he improved as he grew older, taking ski trips to Utah in the wintertime, said his father.

"He was one notch below a professional," James Cahill said of his son, whose sense of adventure was evident by the way he liked to speed downhill on some of the ski trails.

Besides skiing, Mr. Cahill enjoyed golfing and completed a father/son tournament at the Metedeconk Golf Club two weeks ago. Though they didn't win, they did come in first in a section of the tournament and got to take home a trophy anyway, his father said.

Mr. Cahill also loved fishing with one of his brothers, James, who is a surgeon. The two brothers would take their boat out off the coast of Brigantine to fish for marlin, but always threw the fish back.

"They would tag and release," said their dad. "They were sportsmen."

Thomas Cahill also loved playing baseball and bicycling, his father said.

A Mass of remembrance will be held at 9:30 a.m. Saturday at Most Blessed Sacrament Church in Franklin Lakes, where he was a parishioner. Afterward, the family is hosting a reception at the Indian Trail Club at 830 Franklin Lakes Road. In lieu of flowers, the Cahill family has asked that donations be made in Thomas' name to the Tomorrows Children's Fund, a fund for needy children and families requiring medical care, affiliated with Hackensack Medical Center, 30 Prospect Ave., Hackensack, N.J. 07601.

Survivors include his parents, James and Kathleen of Franklin Lakes; his brothers, James of Franklin Lakes, and Christopher of Wyckoff; his sisters Kathleen Psirogianes and Kerry Kerin of Franklin Lakes; three nieces and one nephew.

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April 2, 2024

Brian Gummere posted to the memorial.

September 3, 2021

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September 11, 2020

Kimberly Mariano posted to the memorial.

Brian Gummere

April 2, 2024

I am a graduating senior at Indian Hills High School and I just came across the Tommy Cahill Memorial Scholarship. I came across this page as part of a Google search to learn more about the man behind this scholarship opportunity. Reading the many tributes, it is clear that he was someone who´s company I would have very much enjoyed. I see a lot of myself in what others write about him - from the close relationship with my brother, to being a natural born athlete, attending the same high school, passion for golf and fishing, and I´m now heading off to college to pursue a business degree in finance. My sincere condolences to his family and friends who I´m sure have still not been able to fill the void since losing him nearly 23 years ago.

Cindy Roe

September 3, 2021

Remembering Thomas on the 20th anniversary of 9/11....

Kimberly Mariano

September 11, 2020

Dear Tommy

After nineteen years, this does not get any easier! We love you and miss you so much everyday! Aunt Grace talks about you when you were small all the time. She remembers like it was yesterday! She loved you more than words can say. She tells me that she remembers you and little Jim waiting at the end of the drive way when you were small, waiting for her arrival, and she always had Hershey bars in hand! You both use to get so excited! She loved being an aunt to all the kids especially you! Sometimes she forgets and says to her grandchildren now come to Aunt Grace! I love hearing all my mom’s stories about you. I loved the laughs we shared at family weddings! You are such a kind, loving, handsome, and wonderful person. Our family suffered a tragic loss on this day nineteen years ago! But I know you are with Poppy, Grandma, Uncle Robert, Uncle Bobby,and Uncle Tom looking down from Heaven upon us! So on this day and everyday we will continue to remember the wonderful times and laughs we had with you on earth and look forward to when we are all reunited in Heaven! We miss you and we love you always! Until we meet again...

Love Always,

Aunt Grace, Michael, Ann, Kimberly, Alyson and Baby Brayden

September 11, 2020

I will always love you

The Kindred Family

December 21, 2019

Sending our deepest sympathy to your family. With each new day may God give the strength and comfort needed. Tommy is still so sadly missed and will always be remembered.

Fred Missel

December 15, 2019

Hello my name is Fred Missel, and I have read "How the Irish saved Civilization. I am saddened to hear of Mr Cahills death. See the tie in between the book and me being a reader for an Irish author.Wow. I do not know if anyone from Mr. Cahills estate reads these. But if yes. I would like to take to you.Thanks

Moira Cusick Jacobs

September 11, 2019

Ill never forget you Tommy. You made a lasting positive impact on my life, even though it was so long ago in our childhood days. Sweet and wonderful memories of grammar school recess games at MBS still bring a smile to my face. Seems like yesterday you were singing all those many commercial jingles you memorized and mimicked so well as we got through our schoolwork together. You made school more fun, you brought much joy into our shared childhood experiences. Its no surprise you grew up to be such a loving and giving friend to so many. May your spirit continue to shine in the hearts of all who were blessed to have known you. God bless your soul and your family.

Kimberly Mariano

September 11, 2019

Dear Tommy,

After eighteen years, we miss you so much!!! We love you and you live on in our hearts.We always remember your kindness, and how handsome you are! I know you continue to watch over us everyday with Poppy, Grandma, Uncle Robert, and Uncle Tom in Heaven. Until we meet again...Love always Aunt Grace, Michael, Ann, Kimberly, Alyson, and Brayden

Kathy Cahill-Psirogianes

January 2, 2019

Love you miss you xoxo

Kimberly Mariano

September 14, 2018

Dear Tommy,

Happy Birthday in Heaven. We all love you and miss you very much!!! There is not a day goes by that we don't think about you. We know you watching us from Heaven, with Poppy, Grandma, Uncle Robert, and Uncle Tom. I know you will take good care of Uncle Tom! We always remember your kindness, and how handsome you are! You live on in our hearts forever! Until we meet again.

September 13, 2018

Happy Birthday Tommy
Love you

Kathleen Psirogianes

May 20, 2018

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Kathy Psirogianes

March 21, 2018

You are always with us. Love you.

TD

October 30, 2017

May God continue to strengthen your family.

Kimberly Mariano

September 11, 2017

Tommy,

We love you so much! Sixteen years ago our family changed forever. We miss you everyday and not a day goes by that we do not think about you. My mom always shares stories that she has of you when you were young and I love hearing all the stories. As you know, she loved spending time with you, little Jim, Kerry, Kathy and Chris! You were so kind, handsome, loving, down to earth and generous. You had an amazing ability to make anyone laugh no matter who it was. I know you are in Heaven with Uncle Bobby, Poppy, Grandma, and Uncle Robert. I can only imagine the laughs and the stories that are going on up in Heaven. Not a day goes bye that we don't think of you! We love you and miss you so much! You live on in our hearts forever. There are days we try our hardest not to cry but the tears sometimes always get the best of you. We know you would not want that! We will wipe away the tears and know that we will meet again in Heaven. Until then you live on in our hearts! Love you so much!

Love Always,
Aunt Grace, Kimberly, Michael, Ann, Alyson and Brayden

Kathy Psirogianes

July 25, 2017

Tommy we miss you every day and every night. All of us love you and think about you all the time.

Kathy Psirogianes

February 6, 2017

Love you miss you always. Thx for the signs. Xoxo your sis Kathy

Kathy Psirogianes

November 8, 2016

Miss you love you.

Kathleen Psirogianes

November 8, 2016

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September 23, 2016

I love you and miss you Tommy.

Kathy Psirogianes

September 13, 2016

Your light continues to shine ...your memory is always with us. We love and miss you every singke day not just on 9/11. Mom Dad Jim ,Chris ,Kerry and myself we speak of you and love and miss you daily. We know you are in heaven and we know we will meet you there soon. Love you forever.

Kimberly Mar

September 12, 2016

Tommy,

We love you so much and not a day goes by that we do not think about you. My mom always shares the memories that she has of you when you were young and I love hearing all the stories. I write this tears come to my eyes but I know you would not want that. You are a wonderful person, kind, loving, down to earth and generous. You had the ability to make anyone laugh no matter who it was. I know you are in Heaven with Uncle Bobby, Poppy, Grandma, and Uncle Robert. I am sure you are up there making everyone laugh! Now that you have Uncle Bob up in Heaven, I am sure you and him are making a whole crowd laugh! You live on in our hearts forever. We love you and miss you so much! Until we meet in Heaven again- Love Always,
Aunt Grace, Kimberly, Michael, Ann, Baby Alyson and new Baby Boy

Kathy Cahill psirogianes

September 12, 2016

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September 10, 2016

I ran for you today in the Heroes Run...you are such a hero!

Kathy Cahill psirogianes

April 18, 2016

Tommy you are always with us and we hold you in our hearts forever xoxoxox

Kimberly Mariano

September 10, 2015

Dear Tommy,

We love you so much and we miss you so much!!! Not a day goes by that we don't think of you!!! You are such a wonderful person. I know you are in Heaven with Grandma, Poppy and Uncle Robert smiling down on us. You are one of the most kindest, handsome, funny, down to earth and loving person that I have ever known. My mom is fortunate to have you as nephew and I fortunate to have you as a cousin. You live on in our hearts forever !!! My mom loves to tell me stories about when she use to stay and baby sit you. She always says that she can picture you in the carriage like it was yesterday or when you were a little bigger, she could see you at the end of the drive way waiting her arrival.

As I write this to you, I can't help but have tears in my eyes but I know you would not want that so I am going to stop and I am going to remember the good times especially at family weddings and continue to enjoy hearing the stories about you when you were little. We love you with all our hearts and we will all meet again in Heaven. Until then you live on forever in our hearts. Please give Poppy, Grandma, and Uncle Robert a big hug for me. Not a day goes by that we don't think of all you!!! We love you so much Tommy!!! Until we meet again in Heaven

Love Always,

Aunt Grace, Kimberly, Michael, Ann, and Baby Alyson

September 10, 2015

I love you and miss you Tommy

Our Tommy

Kathy Cahill- Psirogianes

August 19, 2015

Never Forget

Kathy Cahill- Psirogianes

August 19, 2015

Dick Cahill

August 1, 2015

I just visited the 9-11 memorial . I saw the picture of Thomas . My name is Dick Cahill and family I have lost contact with were from Troy and Albany NY. I must say I spent 4 hours there and I needed to sit down and let my emotions settle back down . I am unsure if we may be related. I do feel this event was the Pearl Harbor of my generation .

Kathy Psirogianes Tommys sister

March 28, 2015

Thank you for walking it means alot. I will tell my family and my parents. Thank you !

Barbara Boam

March 27, 2015

I walked a mile for you (mile #325) on 6/2/14 as a dedication to your life.

Anonymous Anonymous

September 14, 2014

Happy Birthday Tommy. Always think of you.

Kimberly Mariano

September 11, 2014

Tommy,

We love you so much and not a day goes by that we do not think about you. My mom and I talk about you all the time. She always shares the memories that she has of you when you were young. Then this morning we were talking about how you made us laugh at every family function. As I write this tears come to my eyes but I know you would not want that. You are a wonderful person, kind, loving, down to earth and generous. You had the ability to make anyone laugh no matter who it was. I know you are in Heaven with Poppy, Grandma, and Uncle Robert. You are probbaly making them all laugh right now. You live on in our hearts forever. We love you and miss you so much! Until we meet in Heaven again- Love Always,
Aunt Grace, Kimberly, Michael, Ann and Baby Alyson

John E

September 11, 2014

Thinking of Tom today, as I have many times over the past 13 years. He was a football teammate (#13), 2 years younger than I, at IHHS. Always a good kid--charismatic, funny, and with a wry smile that kept you from taking yourself too seriously. I didn't know Tom that well, but his loss has lingered with me these many years and I will always remember him in a positive way.

Kathy ( your sis )

September 10, 2014

Your soul is very near just around the corner , you are still you ...just in heaven. We walk on without you , but you are living in our hearts every day and on in our children's hearts. You were .....no you are ...still amazing. Im sure you are helping God with something very important , you are helping children. You are making people laugh up there. You are still you. You are still popping in to keep an eye on all of us. You probably laugh at us. We love you Tommy we always will forever !!! Xoxoxo We all miss and love you and send you our love. Our family chain will re link in heaven. !! We know you are with your friends and our relatives up there. I miss my brother and I'm so so proud of you always. Xoxoxoox

Kathy Psirogianes

September 9, 2014

Thanks Brian it means a lot. He lives on in all of us his family ,his friends and all our children in his immediate and extended family. We love and miss Tommy every day. Thank you for telling your children about him !!! Xo

Brian

September 8, 2014

My twins who were two months away from birth in sept 2011 just interviewed me about my recollection of 9-11 for their seventh grade project. That day will always be about my cousin. I just showed them his photos and a nice artcile about his golf outing with his father. It was a very special bonding moment for me and my boys, much like the day on the links for jimmy and tommy. His memory lives on in all of us...even in those like my children who never had the privlidge of meeting him.

anonymous

April 6, 2014

I am so grateful for having known Tommy. Never met nicer, funnier, generous, genuine great person and probably never will. He made me a better person and I treasure our friendship my great friend. Cant wait to tee it up with you in heaven.

Kathy

December 26, 2013

You were with us at Christmas we lit a candle for you xoxo

Kathy

November 8, 2013

Thank you it is often that people reach out in wonderful ways. God bless you and your son in Texas ! Our Tommy is missed every day and we know we will meet him again one day. Until then we must carry on how we know he would want us to with integrity and strength ! Please tell your son we thank him.

Natalia V

November 7, 2013

This year when my son learned about the devastating 9/11 he came home with an angel he was remembering that day. The name on that angel was Thomas J. Cahill of NJ. I looked up his name out of curiosity and when I found he was real my heart just melted. It's been so long but some wounds never heal. My prayers go out to his family and loved ones. May he always be remembered and in your hearts.

kathy

October 29, 2013

Some losses you never get over I will never ever get over losing you. I miss you we all miss and love you ! I honor you Always!!! Xoxo your little sister Kathy.

Kimberly Mariano

September 11, 2013

Tommy,
Today and everyday we remember you and honor you as our hero. We love you very much and we know you are up in Heaven with Poppy and Uncle Robert looking down upon us. You were one of the most wonderful, kind, and loving person that we have ever known. Words cannot describe how much we miss you!!!
We love you so much!!! Until we meet again!!!

Love Always,
Aunt Grace, Kimberly, Michael, Ann and baby Alyson

Kathy

July 18, 2013

Tommy We speak of you on a daily basis. We all miss you so. We are getting videos together to show the kids in our family it will be so hard but they all know you and miss you. The pain from losing a person ,a brother like you never ceases but we have no choice but to walk with it daily. Ive been talking to you alot lately and I know you see hear us. I told my son about you and he smiled. He sleeps with your pillow case and cherishes it. I also told him how you would ski so well and played sports so well. He always says "mom im so mad cause i wanted to know him " I know you see him and all of our family. I miss you as do we all especially Mom and Dad. Xoxo

March 13, 2013

Tommy, I will always love you.

kathy Psirogianes

September 19, 2012

Every year its hard for all of us without you...you shine in all of us ,your family and friends your nieces and nephews...You were and will always be the best!! Be at peace my beautiful brother.....Kathy

n

September 14, 2012

Happy Birthday Tom

September 14, 2012

To The Cahills I am the granddaughter of Dorothy Finnegan maiden name Cahill- my nanny is the sister of Buck - she is now 91 and still speaks of Thomas - though i have never met him i have always thought of him especially on 9/11 -sounds like you had 37 years of a wonderful son, grandson, brother and uncle and nephew - just wanted to let you all know that we are all thinking of him -

Kerrie Azzariti -

September 11, 2012

To the Cahills-
Much love to all of you! I frequent the FL memorial and enjoy the waterfall and garden. Each time, I say a prayer and think of you. Take care .... Especially Kerrie and Kathy :)
XO
Nina Sese Meeks

Kimberly Mariano

September 11, 2012

Dear Tommy, the most kind, intelligent, down to earth, and handsome nephew and cousin a family could have...We love you with all of our hearts. We miss you so much but we know that you are up in Heaven with Poppy, Grandma, and Uncle Robert looking down on us...You live on in all of our hearts. Until we meet again...We love and miss you so much!!! Our thoughts and prayers are with the rest of our family...Love always... Aunt Grace, Kimberly, Michael, Ann and baby Alyson.

Ashley

September 10, 2012

Uncle Tommy
I never imagined i would be able to miss someone so much. I need you here now more than ever to help me with colleges and partying and being able to balance eveything, and youre not. I know that youre guiding me from heaven but i wish i could have spent more time with you. six years wasnt enough for me. you are the best person ive ever met. there was no other man like you. a lot of my teachers that i have now know you and the only thing they do is talk about how amazing you are. i am honored to be your niece, and i hope that im making you proud down here. Im doing my best to think of the decisions you would make, because you somehow always made the right one. Its so hard for me to see these videos of 9/11, thinking of you at the same time. But i know you were the one helping everyone and i know youre in a better place now. I love you so much and i hope youre having the best time up there in heaven. You truly are the best uncle a girl could ask for. i love you

May 4, 2012

To The Cahill Family,
It's been over 10 years since the horrific day of 9/11. However, the pain of it all still is presnt. I did not know Mr. Thomas J. Cahill but I still would like to express my deepest sympathy to you. God bless you.

Sincerely,
Mr. Terry of NC

Kathy Psirogianes

April 11, 2012

Today I spoke to students at your high school to tell them who you were. I am so proud of you . We miss you every day . I spoke about our family and what you were to all of us . I spoke about your values and who you were as a person. I hope I did you justice. I love and miss you Tommy. Your sis ,Kathy

kathy psirogianes

September 14, 2011

Tommy today on your birthday we send you our love ... We miss you every day and thank God for the gift of you in our lives ... Ten years and it feels like yesterday. I am living my life in tribute to you ...xo Kathy

Kimberly Mariano

September 11, 2011

Dear Cousin Tommy...We love you very much...not a day goes by that we dont think of you...we know you are up in Heaven with Poppy, Grandma,and Uncle Robert watching over us...we miss you...You live on in our hearts until we meet again...Aunt Grace, Michael, Ann, Kimberly, & Baby Alyson

ashley

September 10, 2011

uncle tommy i miss you and love you every day. even though you were only my uncle, you were a huge part of my life. Its weird how most of the memories i have from when i was little are with you. Whether it was you saying Britney Spears was your girlfriend, or telling me to flirt with aunt kim for you, i remember all of those times almost perfectly. i only got the chance of knowing you for 7 short years, but i feel like i learn more about you every day from all of the stories from our family and your friends. living in your house is a little hard sometimes, but it makes me remember you even more. I wish you were still here to chill my mom out a little sometimes when it comes to parties and things like that, cause she always says you knew how to make her feel happy. I feel terrible for nanny and poppy, cause they lost a son like you. Just hearing some of the things you said makes me laugh and think of how great of a person you are at the same time.Anyway i love you and miss you very much. and hope youre having a great time up there, because were all missing you down here

Leigh Ann Walters

September 9, 2011

I will be representing Thomas in the Las Vegas Unity and Remembrance 9.11 k on September 10, 2011. I wish your family love and peace during this time.

May 4, 2011

got him !! love you miss you !

Kathy

November 30, 2010

The thought of you and Terry doing the Santa crawl... made me laugh tonite..I miss you ..love you..always...

kathy psirogianes

September 12, 2010

Tommy we love and miss you every single day...This year was especially hard....you were a rare beautiful soul...simply one of a kind...all the kids miss you as do mom dad and all of us....I am grateful you are my brother....xoxowe all love you...Kathy

Kimberly Mariano

September 11, 2010

Dear cousin Tommy,

We love you very much and not a day goes by that we do not think of you. You will live on in our hearts forever here on earth. I know you are up in Heaven watching over us with Grandma, Poppy and Uncle Robert...We miss you everyday...We love you so much...Love Always cousin Kimberly and family.

September 10, 2010

I miss you and love you Tommy

August 21, 2010

Dear Tommy,

My father had a rough summer and you finally met him August 11. Both of you are such kind gentle kindred spirits. I miss you both so much. Take good care of him!

Kathy

May 25, 2010

missing you always Tommy...know you are in heaven watching over all of us ...love you...

March 9, 2010

Tommy, not a day goes by when I don't think about you..I will always love you and thank God for you in my life

September 15, 2009

Happy birthday Tommy you will be with us always ...I miss everything about you as do we all.....Life will never be the same...we are all trying to make you proud... Your spirit still lives with us and in us and always will...I love you...kathy

September 14, 2009

Happy Birthday Tommy. I miss you every day. There is still such a void in our lives and in our hearts. God Bless you.

Kimberly Mariano

September 11, 2009

My dearest cousin Tommy, we all miss you and love you very much!!! We think about you everyday and know that you are up in Heaven watching over us with Uncle Robert, Poppy and Grandma...Our family suffered such an unimaginable loss the day you were taken from us...you will always live on in our hearts here on earth...till we meet again...We love you!!! Your cousin Kimberly and family

September 11, 2009

Hi Tommy

Just wanted to say hello and that I am thinking of all of you up there today and always. Now you finally got to meet my "mother" and "brother". I have spoken to my mom about you all the years we worked together and now you finally both got to meet,and I am sure she loves you...Like all your friends and family do. I miss you Tommy, your friend Clarkey

Hope

September 11, 2009

Thinking of you today, and thankful for the friendship we shared. Real men do eat quiche, right? All my best, Hope

July 17, 2009

Tommy we all miss you and think of you all the time ...the kids all miss you and love you....my son said to me yesterday "mom you just have to live without him " and I said yes honey but hes still watching us from heaven...Not a day goes by that we all dont miss you... xoxo Kathy and the entire family

christina polizzo

July 16, 2009

How sad...as soon as I read his name, I could picture him perfectly and us crossing in front of St. Joes and laughing...he had the best smile and was SO sweet.
I'm sorry for the family's loss!

January 31, 2009

Tommy, I feel your presence and thank your for watching over all of us who love you so dearly. You rock and always will!

kathy

December 21, 2008

Merry Christmas Tommy missing and loving you... always......xoxo

family

September 14, 2008

Happy Birthday Tommy..love you

Diane

September 12, 2008

It is still 9/11 on the West Coast. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you...love you always.

d

Kimberly Mariano

September 11, 2008

Tommy, not a day goes by that we don't think about you-We love u very much and we miss you!!!- Aunt Grace, Kimberly and Michael

Donna

September 11, 2008

Hi Tommy it is me, just wanted to say hello and that I am thinking of you today, well I think of you all the time, I am sure you know that.
Well just want to let you know you are very missed and will always be very special to me forever and ever.

Thank you for giving me fun memories at cantor, always will have a chuckle when I think about the stories of all of us.

chris haag

September 11, 2008

tommy , thinking of you, johnny & al miss you guys

peace
boog

kathy psirogianes

September 10, 2008

Tommy.....missing and loving you thinking of all the FUN WE HAD THAT MOSTLY YOU PROVIDED..... "Tom is great Tom is cool " you used to make us say it over and over and when we had to get up for school you'd tease "Got to get up so early early early in the morning...: I taught my son that one .... there is so much I miss and we all do.... Not a day goes by that I dont think of you and I know our family and all of your friends feel the same .... God Bless you and all your buddies you are with ...and all lost on 9/11...xoxo kathy

kathy

February 3, 2008

I guess you are watching the giants from heaven I miss you today thinking of how you loved football games with your friends.... missing you kathy

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