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Brian Gummere
April 2, 2024
I am a graduating senior at Indian Hills High School and I just came across the Tommy Cahill Memorial Scholarship. I came across this page as part of a Google search to learn more about the man behind this scholarship opportunity. Reading the many tributes, it is clear that he was someone who´s company I would have very much enjoyed. I see a lot of myself in what others write about him - from the close relationship with my brother, to being a natural born athlete, attending the same high school, passion for golf and fishing, and I´m now heading off to college to pursue a business degree in finance. My sincere condolences to his family and friends who I´m sure have still not been able to fill the void since losing him nearly 23 years ago.
Cindy Roe
September 3, 2021
Remembering Thomas on the 20th anniversary of 9/11....
Kimberly Mariano
September 11, 2020
Dear Tommy
After nineteen years, this does not get any easier! We love you and miss you so much everyday! Aunt Grace talks about you when you were small all the time. She remembers like it was yesterday! She loved you more than words can say. She tells me that she remembers you and little Jim waiting at the end of the drive way when you were small, waiting for her arrival, and she always had Hershey bars in hand! You both use to get so excited! She loved being an aunt to all the kids especially you! Sometimes she forgets and says to her grandchildren now come to Aunt Grace! I love hearing all my mom’s stories about you. I loved the laughs we shared at family weddings! You are such a kind, loving, handsome, and wonderful person. Our family suffered a tragic loss on this day nineteen years ago! But I know you are with Poppy, Grandma, Uncle Robert, Uncle Bobby,and Uncle Tom looking down from Heaven upon us! So on this day and everyday we will continue to remember the wonderful times and laughs we had with you on earth and look forward to when we are all reunited in Heaven! We miss you and we love you always! Until we meet again...
Love Always,
Aunt Grace, Michael, Ann, Kimberly, Alyson and Baby Brayden
September 11, 2020
I will always love you
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The Kindred Family
December 21, 2019
Sending our deepest sympathy to your family. With each new day may God give the strength and comfort needed. Tommy is still so sadly missed and will always be remembered.
Fred Missel
December 15, 2019
Hello my name is Fred Missel, and I have read "How the Irish saved Civilization. I am saddened to hear of Mr Cahills death. See the tie in between the book and me being a reader for an Irish author.Wow. I do not know if anyone from Mr. Cahills estate reads these. But if yes. I would like to take to you.Thanks
Moira Cusick Jacobs
September 11, 2019
Ill never forget you Tommy. You made a lasting positive impact on my life, even though it was so long ago in our childhood days. Sweet and wonderful memories of grammar school recess games at MBS still bring a smile to my face. Seems like yesterday you were singing all those many commercial jingles you memorized and mimicked so well as we got through our schoolwork together. You made school more fun, you brought much joy into our shared childhood experiences. Its no surprise you grew up to be such a loving and giving friend to so many. May your spirit continue to shine in the hearts of all who were blessed to have known you. God bless your soul and your family.
Kimberly Mariano
September 11, 2019
Dear Tommy,
After eighteen years, we miss you so much!!! We love you and you live on in our hearts.We always remember your kindness, and how handsome you are! I know you continue to watch over us everyday with Poppy, Grandma, Uncle Robert, and Uncle Tom in Heaven. Until we meet again...Love always Aunt Grace, Michael, Ann, Kimberly, Alyson, and Brayden
Kathy Cahill-Psirogianes
January 2, 2019
Love you miss you xoxo
Kimberly Mariano
September 14, 2018
Dear Tommy,
Happy Birthday in Heaven. We all love you and miss you very much!!! There is not a day goes by that we don't think about you. We know you watching us from Heaven, with Poppy, Grandma, Uncle Robert, and Uncle Tom. I know you will take good care of Uncle Tom! We always remember your kindness, and how handsome you are! You live on in our hearts forever! Until we meet again.
September 13, 2018
Happy Birthday Tommy
Love you
Kathleen Psirogianes
May 20, 2018
Kathleen Psirogianes
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Kathleen Psirogianes
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Kathy Psirogianes
March 21, 2018
You are always with us. Love you.
TD
October 30, 2017
May God continue to strengthen your family.
Kimberly Mariano
September 11, 2017
Tommy,
We love you so much! Sixteen years ago our family changed forever. We miss you everyday and not a day goes by that we do not think about you. My mom always shares stories that she has of you when you were young and I love hearing all the stories. As you know, she loved spending time with you, little Jim, Kerry, Kathy and Chris! You were so kind, handsome, loving, down to earth and generous. You had an amazing ability to make anyone laugh no matter who it was. I know you are in Heaven with Uncle Bobby, Poppy, Grandma, and Uncle Robert. I can only imagine the laughs and the stories that are going on up in Heaven. Not a day goes bye that we don't think of you! We love you and miss you so much! You live on in our hearts forever. There are days we try our hardest not to cry but the tears sometimes always get the best of you. We know you would not want that! We will wipe away the tears and know that we will meet again in Heaven. Until then you live on in our hearts! Love you so much!
Love Always,
Aunt Grace, Kimberly, Michael, Ann, Alyson and Brayden
Kathy Psirogianes
July 25, 2017
Tommy we miss you every day and every night. All of us love you and think about you all the time.
Kathy Psirogianes
February 6, 2017
Love you miss you always. Thx for the signs. Xoxo your sis Kathy
Kathy Psirogianes
November 8, 2016
Miss you love you.
Kathleen Psirogianes
November 8, 2016
Kathleen Psirogianes
November 8, 2016
Kathleen Psirogianes
November 8, 2016
Kathleen Psirogianes
November 8, 2016
Kathleen Psirogianes
November 8, 2016
Kathleen Psirogianes
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September 23, 2016
I love you and miss you Tommy.
Kathy Psirogianes
September 13, 2016
Your light continues to shine ...your memory is always with us. We love and miss you every singke day not just on 9/11. Mom Dad Jim ,Chris ,Kerry and myself we speak of you and love and miss you daily. We know you are in heaven and we know we will meet you there soon. Love you forever.
Kimberly Mar
September 12, 2016
Tommy,
We love you so much and not a day goes by that we do not think about you. My mom always shares the memories that she has of you when you were young and I love hearing all the stories. I write this tears come to my eyes but I know you would not want that. You are a wonderful person, kind, loving, down to earth and generous. You had the ability to make anyone laugh no matter who it was. I know you are in Heaven with Uncle Bobby, Poppy, Grandma, and Uncle Robert. I am sure you are up there making everyone laugh! Now that you have Uncle Bob up in Heaven, I am sure you and him are making a whole crowd laugh! You live on in our hearts forever. We love you and miss you so much! Until we meet in Heaven again- Love Always,
Aunt Grace, Kimberly, Michael, Ann, Baby Alyson and new Baby Boy
Kathy Cahill psirogianes
September 12, 2016
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September 10, 2016
I ran for you today in the Heroes Run...you are such a hero!
Kathy Cahill psirogianes
April 18, 2016
Tommy you are always with us and we hold you in our hearts forever xoxoxox
Kimberly Mariano
September 10, 2015
Dear Tommy,
We love you so much and we miss you so much!!! Not a day goes by that we don't think of you!!! You are such a wonderful person. I know you are in Heaven with Grandma, Poppy and Uncle Robert smiling down on us. You are one of the most kindest, handsome, funny, down to earth and loving person that I have ever known. My mom is fortunate to have you as nephew and I fortunate to have you as a cousin. You live on in our hearts forever !!! My mom loves to tell me stories about when she use to stay and baby sit you. She always says that she can picture you in the carriage like it was yesterday or when you were a little bigger, she could see you at the end of the drive way waiting her arrival.
As I write this to you, I can't help but have tears in my eyes but I know you would not want that so I am going to stop and I am going to remember the good times especially at family weddings and continue to enjoy hearing the stories about you when you were little. We love you with all our hearts and we will all meet again in Heaven. Until then you live on forever in our hearts. Please give Poppy, Grandma, and Uncle Robert a big hug for me. Not a day goes by that we don't think of all you!!! We love you so much Tommy!!! Until we meet again in Heaven
Love Always,
Aunt Grace, Kimberly, Michael, Ann, and Baby Alyson
September 10, 2015
I love you and miss you Tommy
Our Tommy
Kathy Cahill- Psirogianes
August 19, 2015
Never Forget
Kathy Cahill- Psirogianes
August 19, 2015
Dick Cahill
August 1, 2015
I just visited the 9-11 memorial . I saw the picture of Thomas . My name is Dick Cahill and family I have lost contact with were from Troy and Albany NY. I must say I spent 4 hours there and I needed to sit down and let my emotions settle back down . I am unsure if we may be related. I do feel this event was the Pearl Harbor of my generation .
Kathy Psirogianes Tommys sister
March 28, 2015
Thank you for walking it means alot. I will tell my family and my parents. Thank you !
Barbara Boam
March 27, 2015
I walked a mile for you (mile #325) on 6/2/14 as a dedication to your life.
Anonymous Anonymous
September 14, 2014
Happy Birthday Tommy. Always think of you.
Kimberly Mariano
September 11, 2014
Tommy,
We love you so much and not a day goes by that we do not think about you. My mom and I talk about you all the time. She always shares the memories that she has of you when you were young. Then this morning we were talking about how you made us laugh at every family function. As I write this tears come to my eyes but I know you would not want that. You are a wonderful person, kind, loving, down to earth and generous. You had the ability to make anyone laugh no matter who it was. I know you are in Heaven with Poppy, Grandma, and Uncle Robert. You are probbaly making them all laugh right now. You live on in our hearts forever. We love you and miss you so much! Until we meet in Heaven again- Love Always,
Aunt Grace, Kimberly, Michael, Ann and Baby Alyson
John E
September 11, 2014
Thinking of Tom today, as I have many times over the past 13 years. He was a football teammate (#13), 2 years younger than I, at IHHS. Always a good kid--charismatic, funny, and with a wry smile that kept you from taking yourself too seriously. I didn't know Tom that well, but his loss has lingered with me these many years and I will always remember him in a positive way.
Kathy ( your sis )
September 10, 2014
Your soul is very near just around the corner , you are still you ...just in heaven. We walk on without you , but you are living in our hearts every day and on in our children's hearts. You were .....no you are ...still amazing. Im sure you are helping God with something very important , you are helping children. You are making people laugh up there. You are still you. You are still popping in to keep an eye on all of us. You probably laugh at us. We love you Tommy we always will forever !!! Xoxoxo We all miss and love you and send you our love. Our family chain will re link in heaven. !! We know you are with your friends and our relatives up there. I miss my brother and I'm so so proud of you always. Xoxoxoox
Kathy Psirogianes
September 9, 2014
Thanks Brian it means a lot. He lives on in all of us his family ,his friends and all our children in his immediate and extended family. We love and miss Tommy every day. Thank you for telling your children about him !!! Xo
Brian
September 8, 2014
My twins who were two months away from birth in sept 2011 just interviewed me about my recollection of 9-11 for their seventh grade project. That day will always be about my cousin. I just showed them his photos and a nice artcile about his golf outing with his father. It was a very special bonding moment for me and my boys, much like the day on the links for jimmy and tommy. His memory lives on in all of us...even in those like my children who never had the privlidge of meeting him.
anonymous
April 6, 2014
I am so grateful for having known Tommy. Never met nicer, funnier, generous, genuine great person and probably never will. He made me a better person and I treasure our friendship my great friend. Cant wait to tee it up with you in heaven.
Kathy
December 26, 2013
You were with us at Christmas we lit a candle for you xoxo
Kathy
November 8, 2013
Thank you it is often that people reach out in wonderful ways. God bless you and your son in Texas ! Our Tommy is missed every day and we know we will meet him again one day. Until then we must carry on how we know he would want us to with integrity and strength ! Please tell your son we thank him.
Natalia V
November 7, 2013
This year when my son learned about the devastating 9/11 he came home with an angel he was remembering that day. The name on that angel was Thomas J. Cahill of NJ. I looked up his name out of curiosity and when I found he was real my heart just melted. It's been so long but some wounds never heal. My prayers go out to his family and loved ones. May he always be remembered and in your hearts.
kathy
October 29, 2013
Some losses you never get over I will never ever get over losing you. I miss you we all miss and love you ! I honor you Always!!! Xoxo your little sister Kathy.
Kimberly Mariano
September 11, 2013
Tommy,
Today and everyday we remember you and honor you as our hero. We love you very much and we know you are up in Heaven with Poppy and Uncle Robert looking down upon us. You were one of the most wonderful, kind, and loving person that we have ever known. Words cannot describe how much we miss you!!!
We love you so much!!! Until we meet again!!!
Love Always,
Aunt Grace, Kimberly, Michael, Ann and baby Alyson
Kathy
July 18, 2013
Tommy We speak of you on a daily basis. We all miss you so. We are getting videos together to show the kids in our family it will be so hard but they all know you and miss you. The pain from losing a person ,a brother like you never ceases but we have no choice but to walk with it daily. Ive been talking to you alot lately and I know you see hear us. I told my son about you and he smiled. He sleeps with your pillow case and cherishes it. I also told him how you would ski so well and played sports so well. He always says "mom im so mad cause i wanted to know him " I know you see him and all of our family. I miss you as do we all especially Mom and Dad. Xoxo
March 13, 2013
Tommy, I will always love you.
kathy Psirogianes
September 19, 2012
Every year its hard for all of us without you...you shine in all of us ,your family and friends your nieces and nephews...You were and will always be the best!! Be at peace my beautiful brother.....Kathy
n
September 14, 2012
Happy Birthday Tom
September 14, 2012
To The Cahills I am the granddaughter of Dorothy Finnegan maiden name Cahill- my nanny is the sister of Buck - she is now 91 and still speaks of Thomas - though i have never met him i have always thought of him especially on 9/11 -sounds like you had 37 years of a wonderful son, grandson, brother and uncle and nephew - just wanted to let you all know that we are all thinking of him -
Kerrie Azzariti -
September 11, 2012
To the Cahills-
Much love to all of you! I frequent the FL memorial and enjoy the waterfall and garden. Each time, I say a prayer and think of you. Take care .... Especially Kerrie and Kathy :)
XO
Nina Sese Meeks
Kimberly Mariano
September 11, 2012
Dear Tommy, the most kind, intelligent, down to earth, and handsome nephew and cousin a family could have...We love you with all of our hearts. We miss you so much but we know that you are up in Heaven with Poppy, Grandma, and Uncle Robert looking down on us...You live on in all of our hearts. Until we meet again...We love and miss you so much!!! Our thoughts and prayers are with the rest of our family...Love always... Aunt Grace, Kimberly, Michael, Ann and baby Alyson.
Ashley
September 10, 2012
Uncle Tommy
I never imagined i would be able to miss someone so much. I need you here now more than ever to help me with colleges and partying and being able to balance eveything, and youre not. I know that youre guiding me from heaven but i wish i could have spent more time with you. six years wasnt enough for me. you are the best person ive ever met. there was no other man like you. a lot of my teachers that i have now know you and the only thing they do is talk about how amazing you are. i am honored to be your niece, and i hope that im making you proud down here. Im doing my best to think of the decisions you would make, because you somehow always made the right one. Its so hard for me to see these videos of 9/11, thinking of you at the same time. But i know you were the one helping everyone and i know youre in a better place now. I love you so much and i hope youre having the best time up there in heaven. You truly are the best uncle a girl could ask for. i love you
May 4, 2012
To The Cahill Family,
It's been over 10 years since the horrific day of 9/11. However, the pain of it all still is presnt. I did not know Mr. Thomas J. Cahill but I still would like to express my deepest sympathy to you. God bless you.
Sincerely,
Mr. Terry of NC
Kathy Psirogianes
April 11, 2012
Today I spoke to students at your high school to tell them who you were. I am so proud of you . We miss you every day . I spoke about our family and what you were to all of us . I spoke about your values and who you were as a person. I hope I did you justice. I love and miss you Tommy. Your sis ,Kathy
kathy psirogianes
September 14, 2011
Tommy today on your birthday we send you our love ... We miss you every day and thank God for the gift of you in our lives ... Ten years and it feels like yesterday. I am living my life in tribute to you ...xo Kathy
Kimberly Mariano
September 11, 2011
Dear Cousin Tommy...We love you very much...not a day goes by that we dont think of you...we know you are up in Heaven with Poppy, Grandma,and Uncle Robert watching over us...we miss you...You live on in our hearts until we meet again...Aunt Grace, Michael, Ann, Kimberly, & Baby Alyson
ashley
September 10, 2011
uncle tommy i miss you and love you every day. even though you were only my uncle, you were a huge part of my life. Its weird how most of the memories i have from when i was little are with you. Whether it was you saying Britney Spears was your girlfriend, or telling me to flirt with aunt kim for you, i remember all of those times almost perfectly. i only got the chance of knowing you for 7 short years, but i feel like i learn more about you every day from all of the stories from our family and your friends. living in your house is a little hard sometimes, but it makes me remember you even more. I wish you were still here to chill my mom out a little sometimes when it comes to parties and things like that, cause she always says you knew how to make her feel happy. I feel terrible for nanny and poppy, cause they lost a son like you. Just hearing some of the things you said makes me laugh and think of how great of a person you are at the same time.Anyway i love you and miss you very much. and hope youre having a great time up there, because were all missing you down here
Leigh Ann Walters
September 9, 2011
I will be representing Thomas in the Las Vegas Unity and Remembrance 9.11 k on September 10, 2011. I wish your family love and peace during this time.
May 4, 2011
got him !! love you miss you !
Kathy
November 30, 2010
The thought of you and Terry doing the Santa crawl... made me laugh tonite..I miss you ..love you..always...
kathy psirogianes
September 12, 2010
Tommy we love and miss you every single day...This year was especially hard....you were a rare beautiful soul...simply one of a kind...all the kids miss you as do mom dad and all of us....I am grateful you are my brother....xoxowe all love you...Kathy
Kimberly Mariano
September 11, 2010
Dear cousin Tommy,
We love you very much and not a day goes by that we do not think of you. You will live on in our hearts forever here on earth. I know you are up in Heaven watching over us with Grandma, Poppy and Uncle Robert...We miss you everyday...We love you so much...Love Always cousin Kimberly and family.
September 10, 2010
I miss you and love you Tommy
August 21, 2010
Dear Tommy,
My father had a rough summer and you finally met him August 11. Both of you are such kind gentle kindred spirits. I miss you both so much. Take good care of him!
Kathy
May 25, 2010
missing you always Tommy...know you are in heaven watching over all of us ...love you...
March 9, 2010
Tommy, not a day goes by when I don't think about you..I will always love you and thank God for you in my life
September 15, 2009
Happy birthday Tommy you will be with us always ...I miss everything about you as do we all.....Life will never be the same...we are all trying to make you proud... Your spirit still lives with us and in us and always will...I love you...kathy
September 14, 2009
Happy Birthday Tommy. I miss you every day. There is still such a void in our lives and in our hearts. God Bless you.
Kimberly Mariano
September 11, 2009
My dearest cousin Tommy, we all miss you and love you very much!!! We think about you everyday and know that you are up in Heaven watching over us with Uncle Robert, Poppy and Grandma...Our family suffered such an unimaginable loss the day you were taken from us...you will always live on in our hearts here on earth...till we meet again...We love you!!! Your cousin Kimberly and family
September 11, 2009
Hi Tommy
Just wanted to say hello and that I am thinking of all of you up there today and always. Now you finally got to meet my "mother" and "brother". I have spoken to my mom about you all the years we worked together and now you finally both got to meet,and I am sure she loves you...Like all your friends and family do. I miss you Tommy, your friend Clarkey
Hope
September 11, 2009
Thinking of you today, and thankful for the friendship we shared. Real men do eat quiche, right? All my best, Hope
July 17, 2009
Tommy we all miss you and think of you all the time ...the kids all miss you and love you....my son said to me yesterday "mom you just have to live without him " and I said yes honey but hes still watching us from heaven...Not a day goes by that we all dont miss you... xoxo Kathy and the entire family
christina polizzo
July 16, 2009
How sad...as soon as I read his name, I could picture him perfectly and us crossing in front of St. Joes and laughing...he had the best smile and was SO sweet.
I'm sorry for the family's loss!
January 31, 2009
Tommy, I feel your presence and thank your for watching over all of us who love you so dearly. You rock and always will!
kathy
December 21, 2008
Merry Christmas Tommy missing and loving you... always......xoxo
family
September 14, 2008
Happy Birthday Tommy..love you
Diane
September 12, 2008
It is still 9/11 on the West Coast. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you...love you always.
d
Kimberly Mariano
September 11, 2008
Tommy, not a day goes by that we don't think about you-We love u very much and we miss you!!!- Aunt Grace, Kimberly and Michael
Donna
September 11, 2008
Hi Tommy it is me, just wanted to say hello and that I am thinking of you today, well I think of you all the time, I am sure you know that.
Well just want to let you know you are very missed and will always be very special to me forever and ever.
Thank you for giving me fun memories at cantor, always will have a chuckle when I think about the stories of all of us.
chris haag
September 11, 2008
tommy , thinking of you, johnny & al miss you guys
peace
boog
kathy psirogianes
September 10, 2008
Tommy.....missing and loving you thinking of all the FUN WE HAD THAT MOSTLY YOU PROVIDED..... "Tom is great Tom is cool " you used to make us say it over and over and when we had to get up for school you'd tease "Got to get up so early early early in the morning...: I taught my son that one .... there is so much I miss and we all do.... Not a day goes by that I dont think of you and I know our family and all of your friends feel the same .... God Bless you and all your buddies you are with ...and all lost on 9/11...xoxo kathy
kathy
February 3, 2008
I guess you are watching the giants from heaven I miss you today thinking of how you loved football games with your friends.... missing you kathy
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