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Eileen Flecha Obituary
Eileen Flecha opted to be on time for work on Sept. 11, which is why she won the debate she had with her stepfather, who worked nearby on Wall Street, over whether they should vote in the mayoral primary that morning — his preference — or wait until after business hours. Ms. Flecha was a stickler for punctuality, and her job as a junior trader at Fiduciary Trust came first. So she got to the office early; they never made it to the polls.
Ms. Flecha, 33, lived in the Kew Gardens section of Queens with her mother and her stepfather, Robert Morris, and the family dog, Hannibal, a 102-pound bruiser. "Now every time he sees a green car pass the house, he thinks it's her," Mr. Morris said. "He misses her terribly." A Yankees fan and a horror-movie aficionado who collected scary videos, she was engaged to a co- worker, Ivan Perez. As a wedding present to themselves, they bought a home in Kew Gardens. As a surprise wedding present, Ms. Flecha's parents bought them enough furniture to feather the new nest. Now the house sits empty, the furniture remains in storage, and Mr. Perez is listed among the missing, too.
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Elise Jones
September 11, 2023
Eileen, when I visited the memorial for the first time, I took a single picture, and it was of yours and Ivan's names. They stuck in my mind and I thought of both of you every year. It wasn't until recently that I learned that you were engaged to him. The two of you existed together in my memory for all of those years before I had any clue that you had been a couple. Death has not part you.
My condolences to Eileen's family and friends. She is not forgotten.
Cindy Roe
September 13, 2021
Remembering Eileen on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...
Francisco Pena
September 11, 2020
You will never be forgotten by your family and friends. Rest in Heavenly Peace.
Bianca Flecha
September 10, 2020
Eileen was my cousin. As the Flecha girls were always together. I wish you were still here. I miss you.
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Pete Iacurto
December 23, 2019
Rest In Peace Eileen. Miss you. God bless you and your family.
Alexander
December 22, 2019
Eileen did not die in vain at the twin towers...rest peacefully
Francisco Pena
September 12, 2017
Rest In Peace. Eileen. I want to believe in an afterlife so that there is something better for everyone that passes on. So that there is more to our existence than what happens in our short time on earth.
Francisco Pena
September 13, 2015
I read your name listed in the newspaper today. God Bless you and your family.
courtney mart
September 11, 2015
Friends and family of Eileen Flecha, I am sorry for your loss.
Francisco Pena
September 11, 2014
God Bless you and all the rest of the victims of that fateful day. May there not be another day like that one, that took so many from their loved ones. RIP Eileen.
Francisco Pena
September 11, 2013
I was unable to watch the 9-11 ceremonies this year. I had to work. While I was standing in a subway tunnel enduring 90+ degree heat. I remembered you. You are not forgotten. I have to give your sis a call. God Bless you always.
peter iacurto
September 11, 2013
I knew Eileen and her sister growing up in our teens. Great people. Eileen was my high school girl friend and she will be in my heart forever. You will always be apart of me. Love you and miss you.
Leon Scholte
June 14, 2013
Message to Eileen;
Dear Eileen,
Last year I had the privilege to visit New York with my wife and children again. The 9/11 Memorial was on top of our list. We took some pictures and on one of these pictures your name popped up. On the photo stream at home it is still showed. Running your name through the legacy.com site we learned about your life.
Eileen, we will honor you and all the other victims of this cruel act of terror for the rest of our lives. We will never forget you!! God bless all the families, relatives and friends of the deceased ones!!
New York was our honeymoon destination in 19994 and we feel connected to NY 4ever.
With our deepest respect,
The Scholte family from the Netherlands
Francisco Pena
September 27, 2012
Sorry, I am late. My computer was down. It's been 11 years since that day. Just wanted to let you know you are not forgotten. God Bless.
Francisco Pena
December 23, 2011
I am Gladys and Bianca's cousin Francisco "junito" "junior" Malda's brother's son.It was way back '81-'82. I looked for you guys at Bianca wedding(1995?) but your father said you didn't attend it.
Francine DiNucci
September 11, 2011
I was lucky enough to call Eileen & Annie my friends. We always had so much fun whether we walked up Liberty Ave. or hung out listening to music. I truly treasure those memories and it saddens me deeply to know I will never see Eileen again. An Angel in life is now an Angel in Heaven!! God Bless you Eileen!!
Steve Cooper
September 11, 2011
Hey Eileen, It has been 10 years since you were sadly taken from us. You are sorely missed. God bless you and hold you always.
Francisco Pena
September 11, 2011
Well It's the Tenth anniversary of that fateful day. I started to think about the days in the 80's at Lefferts Blvd. How you were just a teenage girl doing teen stuff. And then one day it's all over. Your life came to premature end. Life can be unfair and unpredictably short. I almost died myself last year. I had a heart- attack. It made me reflect on the mortality of man. Our time comes for us all. I just hope that you and all the other people didn't suffer much and are in a better place (heaven) now.
Francisco Pena
September 11, 2010
I watched the 9-11 ceremonies on TV today. I saw them read your name and show you picture. I started to wonder what you would have done in your life that you didn't get to do. If there would have been any reunions with your cousins Bianca and Gladys. God Bless.
Francisco Pena
September 11, 2009
The T.V.shows of the terrorist attack have more of an affect on me knowing that someone I had once known never came home that day.But then I remember when we saw "Dawn of the Dead" in the theatre that is no longer there. Listening to the Go-Go's and Men at work, playing Pac-man in the store and hanging out w/Bianca and your sister Anne. I wish there were a way to reverse that day, and bring all of those people back. God Bless you.
Francisco Pena
March 4, 2009
I knew Eileen & her sister Ann. I'm Bianca & Gladys' cousin. I am working @ lefferts and was wondering about eileen & ann. I am saddened to discover what happened. May God bless her.
Doug Abraham
February 14, 2009
Happy Valentine's Day & Happy Birthday!!!
Doug Abraham
February 14, 2008
Happy Birthday & Valentine's Day!!!!
Sarah Coffey
June 5, 2007
Eileen,
Although I never knew you, you came into my life through the form of a black labrador. Our little Fflecha won't be a explosion detection dog, but she carries on your name and memory.
Doug Abraham
February 14, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
Kristine
October 25, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
October 6, 2006
In memory....
kenneth flecha
January 21, 2006
My deepest condolences to the entire family, and strenght to move on you never be forgotten.
God Bless Us All
Brigid Fahy
September 11, 2003
In Memory of Eileen Flecha, Krissy's friend who is sorely missed.
Gladys Branson
March 15, 2002
We were known as the Flecha sisters and nobody messed with us, (Ann, Eileen, Gladys, & Bianca). You will be missed but never forgotten!!
JENNY FLECHA
March 13, 2002
THERE IS NOT A NIGHT THAT I DO NOT PRAY TO GOD TO COMFORT ALL IN THEIR LOSS FOR EILEEN.
EILEEN, MAY YOU REST IN PEACE AND BE WITH IVAN.
LET US NOT FORGET 9/11
Ray Hammer
January 21, 2002
The loss you have suffered is felt around the world. We share in your pain. May God bless you all.
Anonymous
January 18, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON EILEEN
FLECHA AND IVAN AND MAY THEIR SOULS
REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HER FAMILY AND
FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW
YORK AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01.AMEN
Teresa Jahn
January 1, 2002
We are deeply sorry for your loss of Eileen and for the love of her life, Ivan Perez. Such a deep burning tragedy. May Eileen and Ivan's love and lives continue living in those who love them. May the wonderful memories of times together lighten the pain in your hearts. Our hearts cry with you for your loss.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Musser Hall @ Ursinus College
December 5, 2001
We wanted to tell you that we all are in sorrow and believe that you are resting in peace.
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