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Throughout his life, Stephen P. Lefkowitz was always doing something for somebody: participating in the Big Brother program as a young man, buying his parents a car, providing someone in need with a place to stay. "He always had time for other people even if that meant he didn't have time for something he wanted to do," said Eric Migdal, who was 10 when Mr. Lefkowitz became his "Big Brother" and who remained in touch even as an adult.
But after his marriage five years ago when he was 45, Mr. Lefkowitz seemed to expand his reach as he raised his son, Daniel, and became more active in family, politics and Judaism. A mediator with the New York State Department of Taxation and Finance who worked at 2 World Trade Center, he had helped organize a solidarity march for Israel in his Belle Harbor, Queens, community during the summer and had volunteered as co-treasurer for the City Council campaign of Lew M. Simon in the fall. "In many ways," said his wife, Sara, "he was just starting his life."
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Ally G
August 29, 2019
I pray for the family, that Stephen Lefkowitz is in Heaven and being blessed for his good deeds as a father, husband, and activist, and also for the rest of the victims of the September 11th attacks and their families.
You are in our prayers, a student from Shanley high school
September 14, 2016
I hope the family is doing well, and that they know that they are in our prayers especially around the time of the memorial.
Your friend from Shanley,
Eric E.
S j. Friscia III
May 4, 2014
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With Honor & Respect.
Madeline Spencer
September 13, 2011
Received Stephen's name this 9/11/11 anniversary at the San Francisco Giants' memorial at AT&T Park in San Francisco. I was proud to hold his name card in a "We will never forget" ceremony. I held his name high during a moment of silence at the singing of the Star Spangled Banner before the game and at the 7th inning stretch during the singing of God Bless America. We will always remember and honor Stephen and all those who lost their lives ten years ago.
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Gary Spinner
September 12, 2011
More than a friend, more than a brother. A real human being and a credit to humanity. I miss him greatly, but he will live on in my memory forever.
Michael Kamins
September 12, 2011
I knew Steve as a student at Baruch College in the 1970's. He was a calm collected person who was always willing to serve as a Go between to solve arguments between friends. It is not surprising that he served as a mediator in later life since he always seemed to be the voice of reason. I lost contact with him after school but always remembered him, since he had a positive impact on me when I was a young adult.
I met him once in the 1990's at a party in NYC, at the time he was working in Albany. It was great to see him again, who knew that this was the last time. So terrorism came into my life, I would never have thought a friend of mine would have been killed in this way, or be killed in any way.
In his short 50 years he did things others would be proud to do..serving as a big brother, adopting a child, being a leader and a mensch. Here on this day 9/11/11 it is ten years since he died, but his memory should remain in everyone's heart forever.
Eric Migdal
August 28, 2011
I haven't posted anything on any of these memorials yet but since Stephen is in my heart and mind, I will now. I miss Stephen terribly. To all that have posted here and other places, you well wishes are felt deeply.
P Tabbernor
December 5, 2006
In remembrance....
Kristine
November 13, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Barry Fertel
May 5, 2003
I just found out that Steve was killed on September 11 from his brother Danny. I am so sorry. I remember what a nice person he was. Please accept my heartfelt condolences.
Barry Fertel
Amy Nathans
October 1, 2002
To the family of Stephen Paul Lefkowitz,
I sang in the Columbus, Ohio performance of the Mozart Requiem, also called the "Rolling Requiem", on September 11, 2002. I wore a heart badge in memory of Stephen. I was one of 17,000 singers worldwide who participated in this event to honor those who died on this date last year. I was honored to wear his name on my heart. May his name be a blessed memory always.--Amy Nathans, Columbus, Ohio
Nicole Parrish
September 10, 2002
At my school, St. Pius X, we were given wrist bands with the name of someone who died on September 11 on it. Stephen Lefkowitz is the name on my wrist band. I want everyone to know that I am praying for and thinking about Mr.Lefkowitz's family and friends. My heart goes out to you, and everyone at my school cares and prays for you every day. May God bless you and keep you safe.
Marcia Jamison
August 15, 2002
In memory of my dear cousin Stephen. I wish that I could have seen you more often over the years. I was always kept up to date on your life, and I am so glad that it was a wonderful life filled with love. You are missed by all of us in the family. We are all proud to have had a gentle,kind family member.
May your memory be blessed forever.
Angie Campbell
May 3, 2002
May God BLess you and watch over the family and friends that you left behind on 9/11/01. Rest in peace..........
February 20, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS WONDERFUL MAN STEPHEN LEFKOWITZ AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..MAY GOD AND ST.STEPHEN GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Mike Lang
January 15, 2002
Sorry for the loss of your loved ones. America will never be the same but never forget the tragedy of 9/11.
Teresa Jahn
December 25, 2001
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Marisa St. John
November 23, 2001
I did not know Stephan very well but I had the pleasure of having a wonderful conversation with him at this years'Brotherhood Luncheon. I found him to be intelligent, wonderful and personable. Heaven's benefit is our loss. He will be missed. My condolences to his family.
Daniel Lefkowitz
November 15, 2001
To my beloved brother. I miss you so much. I love you. When my time comes, I will meet you in Heaven.
Daniel
Charles Weg
November 15, 2001
What a good guy. A tragedy. Baruch Dayan Emes.
jerry & Ilyce richter
October 28, 2001
always in our thoughts and our hearts.
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