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Benito Valentin Obituary
Anyone who ever heard the message on Benito Valentin's cellphone knows something about how he chose to live life, always looking for a laugh and a little fun. Ever the comedian, Mr. Valentin, 33, who worked for American Express, teased his callers with a message that said: "Hello, hello, how you doing? Oh, this is a recording."
Now Grissel Valentin, the woman he married on Valentine's Day 11 years ago, the mother of his three girls, calls to hear his voice two, sometimes three, times a day. It is a link to the man who, when he was not making people laugh, rushed home from work to talk baseball and dance salsa with his daughters, Danyelle, Jailene and Alyssa. "He was our life of the party," Mrs. Valentin said. "As long as I can hear his voice, I have hope that he isn't lying somewhere crushed but just trapped. We miss him too much to believe he's gone."
169 Entries
Nikki
May 11, 2025
Just writing to let you know that I did not know you, but I came across your name in a Time magazine article from Sept 24, 2001 that had your missing poster. All these years later, you are not forgotten. Thinking of you and your loved ones.
Windsor Santiago
September 18, 2023
Remembering a great father, friend and over all a great human being. Every year around this time, names are called ,memories shared and stories told in remembrance of all those we lost. But it's more than just reading names of loved ones. It's reliving the pain of that day. Rest well my friend,for one day we will all be together again. Peace to everyone who knew and loved you.
Ivonne
September 16, 2023
Although I didn´t know Benito well, we did have a class in Julia Richman H.S.. What I did remember was his kind face and his name... When I saw his face in a newspaper as one of the one´s missing, I said..That´s Benito....It´s been 23 years.. faces are never forgotten and I know my God Jehovah doesn´t forget them either...
Sandra Acosta
September 11, 2022
I went 2 elementary school w Benito. I remembered Benito was a sweetheart n kind. Benito was also very funny. Broke my heart 2 hear of Beinto's passing. I heard Benito was a great husband n father. I am not surprised. 2 Benito's wife n daughters I am so so sorry. Blessings 2 u always.
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Grissel Valentin
July 9, 2020
Yesterday was a rough day. The memory of you just took over from the very beginning. God only knows how much you are still loved and missed.
Deirdre O'Callaghan
September 11, 2019
Mom misses you mr Valentin- Joann Hylens daughter
The Lucas Family
December 5, 2018
We send our heartfelt condolences to your family for this great loss. Everyday may God continue to give the help needed.Words can never remove the pain of losing someone special but they show that others still do care. Benito touched the lives of many people and will always be fondly remembered.
TROY YOUNGBLOOD
September 12, 2018
WOW! BENITO, MY MAN! WE GRADUATED FROM JULIA RICHMAN HIGH SCHOOL IN JUNE OF 1986. DESPITE LOSING CONTACT, YOU, I AND THE REST OF THE CLASS WOULD BE TURNING "50" I JUST FOUND OUT THAT YOU PASSED AWAY. 17 YEARS AFTER THE FACT. FOR YEARS, I LISTENED TO THE MEMORIAL READING OF NAMES AND IT WAS JUST TOO LONG TO FULLY COMPREHEND. WHEN I HEARD A YOUNG LADY SAY YOUR NAME. I WAS FLOORED! I HAD TO CHECK, ONCE I SAW YOUR PHOTO, I KNEW IT WAS YOU!
YOU AND I WERE BOTH FUNNY, BUT I BELIEVE YOU WERE FUNNIER! SOMETIMES I DRIVE BY YOUR PROJECT AND WOULD THINK ABOUT YOU AND WONDER WHY DIDN'T YOU TRY TO LOOK ME UP IN THE FACEBOOK ERA. FYI, I AM OLD SCHOOL VERY LITTLE SOCIAL MEDIA, LOL. NOW, I KNOW WHY! BENITO.
WE HAD A LOT OF LAUGHS, MAN, BROTHER I LOVE YOU! THE SOUL BROTHER AND THE PUERTO RICAN. WE HAD MANY JOKES AND STEREOTYPES THAT KEPT US IN STITCHES. I AM PROUD OF ALL OF THE KIND WORDS THAT HAVE BE WRITTEN ABOUT YOU. IF ANY OF YOUR FAMILY WANTS TO GET IN TOUCH WITH ME, MY CELL PHONE IS 914-523-7455. NOW, SEPTEMBER 11, 2001 HAS AN EVEN DEEPER MEANING TO ME! FYI, I FEEL LIKE THE CLOSING SCENE IN THE MOVIE COLEY HIGH, WHEN PREACHER IS TALKING TO COCHISE IN THE GRAVEYARD. IT'S SO HARD TO SAY GOODBYE TO YESTERDAY!
SINCERELY,
TROY YOUNGBLOOD
TROY
Jailene Valentin
August 23, 2018
Hey Dad,
This past year I've been thinking about you a lot, my birthday was on Father's Day again this year & it was kind of hard. I kept fighting back tears because my last birthday with you was also on Father's Day and it was really special to me. I know there's been a few birthday/Father's Day for me since... but I don't know this one was hard. I turned 26! I'm getting old. Mommy let have a party for my birthday & it was nice, wish you could have been there, you would probably think I'm your weirdest child, party theme was Unicorn Aliens in space...yea I know. We also went back to Disney World , it was really fun but also my feet still hurt from the trip (JK). of course whenever we go there I think of you, well because that's the only vacation we ever got to have with you. I miss you every single day it hurts. I thought the pain would not be so painful at almost 17 years later but it does, nothing can ever fix it. I just wish you were here, I wish you could see how amazing Danyelle & Alyssa are(of course we still fight, but we get along so much better now) I love them more then they know. I wish you were here so I won't have to be sad anymore. I wish you could still make me laugh... sometimes I feel lost because you're not here, I know that sounds awful. But it's true. I also wish we were close to your side of the family still... I miss them a lot too. It sucks that we don't see them... Anyway, I just want you to know that I love you and miss you & that I will never forget you.
Israel Valentin
July 9, 2018
I visited Eagle Rock Reservation today and wanted to see if there was someone with my last name. I saw the name Benito Valentin and Santos Valentin Jr. I looked up their names on google and found this posting.
I didn't know Benito nor Santos but, after reading some of the short stories here about both men gave me a sense of their lives. I know it's difficult losing someone unexpectedly but, with GOD on your side things are better.
September 12, 2016
To my brother that I missed dearly gone but not forgotten i & the family miss u love u until we me agian my brother ur brother chino
Gilbert Maldonado
September 11, 2016
To my brother that I missed dearly gone but not forgotten i & the family miss u love u until we me agian my brother ur brother chino
LUCY MALDONADO
September 11, 2016
MAY YOU REST IN PEACE
FROM YOUR 103rd STREET FAMILIA
Maria Ortiz
September 11, 2016
He was a great human being and an awesome dad. I tell you he was one of the best dad in the Leggett program. Always there for his 3 princess. S.I.P Benito got but never forgotten. Sending my prayers to you and the girls. ❤
Janet Laboy
September 11, 2016
My condolences to the families...
My prayers are with you..I will always remember. ...
Leila Negron
September 11, 2016
Benito, I never had the chance to meet you. But I did have the honor to meet your wife and daughters. Them coming into my life in such a tragic moment was actually a spectacular special moment. I wish I would have had the chance to meet you. But having your wife and daughters in my life, makes me very thankful in an awkward way. Benito may you rest in peace. Until we meet someday. Love you gri gri, dany, Jailene, Alyssa. Muah. My heart and soul is with you.
Esther Garcia
September 11, 2016
To my very dear friend Benito continuing Rip 105th family miss u we will never forget u candles was Lit for u today my luv at 105th Esther & the 105th crew.
Eileen Valentin
September 11, 2016
To my cousin Benito....Rest in peace and I will always remember our younger years together. Love u cuz and sleep in peace.
waleska Wally Figueroa
September 10, 2016
To my brother that I missed dearly gone but not forgotten i & the family miss u love u until we me agian my brother ur brother chino Showing love to his Family Ana juan Chino GOD BLESS YOU ALL
Pedro Gonzalez
September 10, 2016
To my brother that I missed dearly gone but not forgotten i & the family miss u love u until we me agian my brother ur brother chino
Grissel Valentin
June 27, 2016
Benito,
I just spent the last 3 hours looking for pictures to add to the 911 museum in your honor. I have been avoiding this for a long time. Not because I didn't want to but because it just brings up alot of feelings I can't control. I miss and love you so much and it pains me to realize how much time was stolen from us with you.
Looking at all our times together makes me cherish them even more than I already do. I don't know what our lives would have been like if you were still here but I do know they would have been some awesome funny and happy stories to share.But for the times and moments we did share I am grateful and I thank you because your words live on my mind and I live my life to best I could following the guidance you set for us so many years ago. How I wish I could be saying this to you in person but fate has decided this is how our lives would be.
Alyssa will be 22 yrs old tomorrow and that was our baby. She has not seen you since she was 7 yrs old. Wish you were here in person to celebrate but I know you are watching us and are always there.
Always and forever, you and me.
Miss us celebrating together, always.
Grissel Valentin
February 15, 2015
Yesterday would've been our 25th wedding anniversary. Words can't explain the pain and agony I felt. Had this song on my mind all day figured I would just share the lyrics that played over and over in my head:
Mi amor, mi buen amor, mi delirio
No pretendas que te olvide asi, no mas
Que tu amor fue mar cuando sedienta
Me arrime a tu puerto a descansar
Que tu amor, amor, solo el que un dia
En tu pecho, vida mia, me dio la felicidad
Hay amores que nos llevan al abismo
Hay amores que jamas se nos olvidan
Los que dan toda ternura y fantasia
Son amores de los buenos, como tu..
Happy Anniversary Benito, I miss and love you every single day. "Valentin" Day has never been the same without you.
Windsor santiago
September 20, 2014
R.I.P Benito. Tell my mami I said hi. I know she's in good hands with you in heaven. Peace my brother.
Wil Santiago
September 12, 2014
Rest in peace my friend..
My Gof father/tio with me and my sister
Crystal Hernandez
September 10, 2014
Grissel Valentin
May 15, 2014
I was 16 and you were 19. We were on a date and decided to walk up Madison Ave. We stopped at a jewelry shop and you asked me to point out a piece I liked. I thought you were crazy and it was out of our league. You told me there was no such thing and we could eventually get what we want. Next thinng I know you bought the bracelet for me as a surprise several months later. I found it yesterday while I was fixing my things. I still remember that night, i can still hear your words. God only knows how much I miss listening to your plans for us and how much I miss you. Until we meet again.
Always and forever
SONIA FUENTES
September 11, 2013
today is been 12 yrs and its take me a while to write in here we really missed benito we had so much fun when we get together he was so funny always with his 45 he love it . your daughter are so big and they are grown into a beautiful young ladies your wife is an amazing woman that been thru alot but is an strong woman wish im very proud of been my friend and sister ,we always have you in our hearts R.I,P. BENTO
Forever in our hearts.
Grissel Valentin
September 11, 2013
Grissel Valentin
September 11, 2013
Thinking of Sept. 10,2013. Our last day together . We met at mommies house after work, listened to my sister's funny stories from vacation and on the way home you introduced us to " In The End" by Linkin Park blasting your new CD in the van..I can still see you and the girls shaking your heads up and down like crazy rock stars. I remember our big plan to give the girls a better life, you were taking on another job so I could return to school. I still remember your main concern that night was would I be ok, would I be able to handle everything by myself because 2 jobs meant we would only have the weekends to really spend time together. I told you I was wiling to sacrifice for awhile just like you so we can start the road to our new life. Little did we know our new lives would start the very next day separately. Little did I know when you told me I would be alone with the girls it would be a forever thing in this crazy world of today. I know your watching, I know your guiding but it still hurts like hell to know you were not able to physically participate in our grand plan. We miss and love you every single day.
Always and Forever you and me +3
Jodieann Fuentes
September 11, 2013
I remember when the Valentin family used to have parties and Benito was the center of attention. He used to make everyone laugh so hard. He was the life of the party. Benito u are truly loved and missed. You were a loving husband, father and friend.
Danny Acosta
September 11, 2013
I don't really remember Benito at all, but my parents told me that he cared so much for both my family & I. At the time, I was clueless and confused so I didn't feel much. Now that I learn about all this and about Benito, it really pains me to know he's gone. RIP Benito?
Maria Hernandez
May 11, 2013
I still can't believe my beloved brother-in-law Benito is no longer with us. I loved him dearly. He always accepted me with open arms as everyone in his family did. When Benito left this earth he took a piece of my heart. Until we meet again my Brother. Love, Tutie
Julio Flores
January 20, 2013
We used to have great times together with the fellows lito,Danny ,nacho,crackies,conejo,victor we missed those times our prayers goes out to you on this special day we didn't forget about you at all you always be remember always for the kind and genuine person you was R.I.P
Grissel Valentin
January 20, 2013
Happy Birthday Benito. We spoke so much about you last night at Nellie's house. Many tears and many laughs. Twelve yrs without you and you still are the life of the party, the friend everybody loves and laughs with, the unforgotten legacy many proudly cherish. I wish things were different but this life and its curve balls decided to put us on different fields for now. One day we will celebrate the home runs together, side by side; just like old times.
Missing and loving you , Always and Forever.
Grissel Valentin
April 19, 2012
Thinking of you today. Always bitter sweet. Thought we would be sharing smiles and happy tears when looking at post cards and pictures of the girls traveling abroad. Yeah, nyel was in London living the life you wanted so much for her Jai and Alyssa. But you already knew that. Miss you.
Always and forever... grissel
Lisandra Perez
February 3, 2012
I didn't know you but, I always remember him a quite person coming to Settlement with thier precious girls to pick up Grissel his beautiful wife. Still, I can't believe it especially when, I see pictures of Grissel and the girls. Benito you are looking down even thou I'm not living in NY but, I know you are watching over them and you are a proud dad of how Grissel has been able to raise your lil girls that now they are young adult in the way you would of do the same. Benito you are missed and will always be remembered. Don't worry your family are doing just fine. Just R.I.P. and you will never be forgotten.
Benito you finally have a descent resting place.
Grissel Valentin
September 19, 2011
Words cannot express the pain and loss I still feel whenever I think of you and visit this page. I know my dad is with you now and I can now say I have my two guardian angels watching over us. As painful as this yr has been we are extremely touched and overwhelmed with emotion over the beautiful memorial created to honor all our loved ones lost on 911. Benito you and all the other loved ones who have not been found finally have a descent resting place. Although it is extremely painful I have a bitter sweet feeling whenever I look at the memorial created in your honor. It gives me some type of consolation to know you will be honored thru eternity by the whole world as you are by your loving family and friends. We love and miss you dearly. You will Forever be in my heart and you will always be UNFORGETTABLE ?
william selby
September 18, 2011
The name of your loved one is featured in my video (A Visit to the WTC MEMORIAL). I thought you might want to see it. It's a peaceful tribute to those who lost their lives that day. Thank you, and God Bless...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UKA1VZsU7Jw
September 17, 2011
Jennifer Rodriguez
September 11, 2011
Dios te salve, María, llena eres de gracia, el Señor es contigo.
Bendita tú eres entre todas las mujeres, y bendito es el fruto de tu vientre, Jesús.
Santa María, Madre de Dios, ruega por nosotros, pecadores, ahora y en la hora de nuestra muerte.
Amen
Que estes descansando en paz compadre.
Wiandy Santiago
September 11, 2011
God bless Benito in heaven and God bless your family. We will never forget all those lives lost on September 11, 2001. May there be peace in our hearts and our world. On behalf of my parents Wini and Carlos.
E N
September 11, 2011
http://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2011/09/11/us/20110912_Anniversary_gobig.html?ref=nyregion#9
Elizabeth Matias
September 11, 2011
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your girls today. I pray that God gives you all the strength to get through this hard time and I know that your beloved angel Benito is watching over you. God bless you and your girls. R.I.P
Milly Miranda
September 11, 2011
Benito you and I went to school together. We were very good friends. You were always joking and smiling. I miss you a lot and I will never forget you. Rest in peace.
September 11, 2011
My friend Benito,
God has a place for you. From the hatred of those who toppled the Towers, a great big love and resolve has grown from the families and friends who lost loved ones! May god bless your family. Benito, we know you are at peace. May your family have closure and peace as well. Till we meet again my friend!
windsor santiago
September 11, 2011
Wassip Benito.
Tricia Mattingly
September 11, 2011
10 years and we still miss you... You memory will live on forever in all the lives of those who knew you... God Rest your soul ~ Family Friend
Mildred Maneiro
September 11, 2011
The little I knew you was enough to know what kind of person you are. You will never be firgotten
Millie 218
catherine Franceschi-Paluch
September 11, 2011
You and grissel were always smiling that is the most important thing I remember the happiness. ten years have gone buy and the pain does not get any better.. But the strenghth the lord gives your Girls to move forward and Grissel to get up each morning to continue is amazing. I will remember the great times and not focus on you been gone for your love lives in every heart you have touched.. R.I.P.
esther garcia
September 10, 2011
Ray,Esther and Lil Ray miss u we never will forget u yes u was a party animal and fun to be with your birthday and my son is the same day Jan.20.Your wife is the strongest woman that i never met god bless her it not easy raising three little girls alone you have chose the perfect woman and mother for your daughters i know u proud of them god bless them and you.
yvette thomas
September 10, 2011
Hey ben I am thinking of you and bridget and the rest of the gang. Can't. Believe 10 yrs have gone by and know that u r gone. I sawyour daughters they look so much. Like you. You would be proud of them. Take care of my sis. Miss ya.
Jailene Valentin
January 3, 2011
Happy New Year Daddy, you are always in my heart. love you, Jai Jai
aury bracero
September 18, 2010
Benito i love u and miss u! U will always shine in my heart!!
veronica barreto
September 15, 2010
i miss u benny....love always ur cousin veronica....
windsor santiago
September 15, 2010
wassup benito,miss you brother.peace
Sonia Fuentes
September 14, 2010
Ben was a beautiful person , he was a good husband , a great father , a son and a good friend, we missed you and always you will be in our hearts for ever. He always make me laugh
Wiandy Santiago
September 14, 2010
God Bless Benito in heaven and God Bless your entire family. Our thoughts were with you and your family on September 11th. We will never forget.
me and my cousin benny back in the 80's..having fun..i miss and love u dearly..
Veronica Barreto
September 13, 2010
Jennifer Rodriguez
September 12, 2010
One day we'll rejoice in HIS light.
MONICA SANTIAGO
September 12, 2010
R.I.P BENITO... YOU ARE TRULY MISSED.
Grissel Valentin
September 12, 2010
Thank you for being the light that guides me on a daily basis.
Grissel Valentin
September 12, 2010
It's been 9 yrs since I last saw you standing in front of me. God only knows how much I miss having you around and how I wish and pray this nightmare would just go away. The pain of losing you has grown and as usual all I can do is stand by Ground Zero and cry. So much has happened, so much has changed. The only thing that remains the same is the love I have for you always and 4ever.
Catherine Paluch
June 11, 2010
Missing you kiddo!!! Love and prayers
October 16, 2009
catherine paluch
October 5, 2009
the years my go be like the wind threw a hurricane but the thoughts and the memories of the family with you is al ways standing still we tink of you everyday. You have been a big insperation in my life and I continue to stive though the odds are against me. We miss you so much.. hugs and kisses from the kids and me.. love you forever...
Yvonne Pagan-Rodriguez
September 11, 2009
Hey Ben its been 8 years and the memories and stories have you never stopped. I have learned what a GREAT man and father you were and still are. Although you are not with us in body, you are definitely with us through the eyes of your wife and your daughters. Each of your daughters have a part of you ~ the jokester, the sensitive one and the strong minded. Keep watching over your family and know that we will all be reunited one day. GOD BLESS!!!
Wiandy Santiago
September 11, 2009
Benito,
God Bless you and God Bless your family. I remember you on this sad anniversary and pray that we find peace in this world and that something like this never happens again. On behalf of my parents and my family who knew you when you were younger, may you rest in peace.
artelia carter
September 11, 2009
hey Ben....i will always remember u....how could anyone forget ur funny sense of humor. i will never forget that new years u kept wanting me to dance with u & u kept on calling me Whitney Houston.....makes me laugh every time i think about it.....miss u Ben.......god bless you Benito.....BBEA
windsor santiago
September 11, 2009
wassup benito 8 years have passed and i still cant believe youre no longer with us in body but i know youre still around in spirit.god bless you and your family.you are missed.
Jennifer Rodriguez
September 11, 2009
Dear Ben, I pray that you hold the hands of loved ones that are in need of solace and comfort; I pray that you provide some sort of guidance when a loved one veers off the "path"; I pray that those of us left behind will always walk the path of integrity,and dignity so that your legacy will never be mired. Remembering you Always, not just today. Love you, Comai.
sonia
September 11, 2009
its been 8 yrs that we lost ben but he is always with us in our heart and mine ,went you see the girls you see something of him on everyone of them ,they are funny and always happy, im always will be with my friends griss and the girls they are my second family our pray to ben and whatever you are we know you looking at us god bless you always from sonia & fam
This is a great family. Im honered to be part of it
Jose (Bebo) Marrero
September 10, 2009
As told before, many years have past and still he is still alive in our hearts. His soul roams around us and watchs us as we move and become the strong and beautiful family that we ar today. Me personaly, Benito was the man to count on. Him being such a roll modal for many and a great God Father to my brother Victor. He was the guy who made you laugh when you was mad at the world. And he was the greastest friend a man/woman can have. No man i have met has been more hard working and responsable then this wonderful man which you see above. God Bless You Benito!!!!!
1989-Las Villas
Grissel Valentin
September 10, 2009
I can not believe that tomorrow marks eight years of you being out of our lives physically. It seems like yesterday, and there is no doubt in my mind it will always feel this way. The pain and sorrow never goes away and it grows stronger with every special event we are unable to hug you or see you. All we can do is remember all the special times we had and smile up at the sky because spiritually and mentally you have never left our sides and you will forever live in our hearts. I used to sing so many songs to you at home, so here is one for old times sake ..
This romeo is bleeding
But you can't see his blood
It's nothing but some feelings
That this old dog kicked up
It's been raining since you left me
Now I'm drowning in the flood
You see I've always been a fighter
But without you I give up
Now I can't sing a love song
Like the way it's meant to be
Well, I guess I'm not that good anymore
But baby, that's just me
And I will love you, baby - Always
And I'll be there forever and a day - Always
I'll be there till the stars don't shine
Till the heavens burst and
The words don't rhyme
And I know when I die, you'll be on my mind
And I'll love you - Always....
Noemi Sister In Law
September 9, 2009
So much time has passed. But yet it still feels like day one. 8 years. I always sit and wonder. What if you were here? How would things be? Upon this anniversary I pray for the strength of my family. My sister, I know this has been the hardest on her. You were her life. My nieces, all different personalities. But they all carry pieces of you. They are beautiful, loving and they are clowns. Lol. I know your guidance follows them and helps them with who they are. You will always live through those girls. I love them so much. We are a strong family. We are always there for each other in all we can do. I pray almost everyday hoping you are fine where ever you are. It hurts like crazy. Looking at my sister and the girls thoughts of you always come to mind. It hurts so bad to think of what happened. But thinking of you and your funny ways always helps to ease the sadness. My family has so many memories of you. You are a big part of us and we will never forget you.
Doug Abraham
January 20, 2009
Happy Birthday!!!
Peter Santiago
September 14, 2008
May GOD bless you and your family. May the peace of Jesus live and flourish with your loved ones.
P. Santiago
windsor santiago
September 12, 2008
whats up benito its been 7 years and it still hurts the same god bless you and your family and may he give them the strenght to carry on your name. you will always be in the hearts of those you touched and made smile .peace ...
Zoraya corde
September 12, 2008
To Be's family,
I pray that time has eased the pain of your loss. I worked with Ben at Y&R until I left to have my first child. I remember Ben always talking about his girls and how proud he was when his oldest (i believe) went to kindergarden. He always made me laugh. He spoke often of his girls. He was a true gentleman. God bless him.
Yvonne Pagan
September 11, 2008
Dear Ben,
Another year has passed and although you are not physically here trust me all the things you did are living through your daughters and wife, especially Alyssa. May god bless and now you will always be safe in his arms.
Yadira
September 11, 2008
Benito, 7 years has now passed and the sentiments are still the same {YOU WILL BE MISSED AND THOUGHT OF FOREVER}... I just can't forget about all of the times you came to the block to visit your family and friends and you was always telling your jokes, telling us of your latest pranks or you was just getting on somebody. You & your sense of humor are greatly missed. To the Valentin Family "You Are In My Prayers Everyday".
Doris Torres
September 11, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Dan Nigro
September 11, 2008
To the dear Family of Ben,
My thoughts are with you today, 7 years after the profoundly tragic events at the WTC in our New York.
I worked with Ben for some years on the Y&R account. We sat next to one another for some time before the account was lost and Ben moved on to his position at the WTC, at which point I transfered to Long Island to be closer to home. A stressful job we had, and I was always astonished at how Ben managed to stay calm through the worst days. What I remember most, though, is how I was always struck by how gently and endearingly Ben spoke of his family and home life. He was a guy with a heart, and you, his family, are fortunate to have him in yours.
God bless,
Dan
Robin Valentin
September 11, 2008
Ben it is another year without you and it feels like it did the day you were taken away from us. I miss you and love you so much, I will never forget...I see you every day I look at your brother, he hurts everyday
Yvonne Pagan
January 23, 2008
Although you're gone trust me when I say your legacy will continue to live through your three beautiful daughters. RIP and Happy Birthday.
GRISSEL VALENTIN
January 20, 2008
BEN,
I'm lost for words right now..... just know that your always in our minds, hearts and souls. Happy Birthday! I love and miss you so much...
LOVE YOU BABY!!
Doug Abraham
January 20, 2008
Happy Birthday!!!
violeta
January 18, 2008
Rapper's Delight the theme for your birthday bash. Family and friends together in celebration...Today instead we remember Rapper's Delight and how you touched the hearts of many. Mine was one and for this I am richer, thank you.
Danny
January 18, 2008
Compi it's a shame that we were not able to grow old together. As of December 23rd one of our friends has joined you in heaven. Conejo is by your side now. When my time comes at least I know that good friends will be waiting for me with open arms. I love you Ben and I miss you dearly. You have always been a great friend and like a brother to me. God Bless! CCMC
Nancy
January 17, 2008
Dear Ben,
I never had the privilege of meeting you but have had the privilege and honor of meeting and getting to know your family. I know you must rest in peace knowing you chose a strong, wonderful women to be the mother of your children and that they are (and will be) safe and secure under her watch. Through you and Grissel three beautiful and gifted spirits have entered the world. I know they will each make their mark on this earth as you have.
Jennifer Rodriguez
January 17, 2008
Compi, while you are in the glory of our Father, the rest of us are here sharing your story. Your loved ones will pass on your legacy for generations to come. The World knows your Name. R.I.P Love You Always, Comai.
Noemi Rodriguez
January 3, 2008
It's 2008 and I sit and wonder where you are at times. I miss your jokes and seeing you with the girls and my sister. I have not written in this book for a while now b/c no matter how much time passes by the feelings are still the same. No matter what. I still feel a void. My nieces are doing better at times and my sister. But I always wonder about when and if you were here. I know with our memories you will always be but it will never be the same. I miss you and wish you were here with us. I hope you look over us and may this new year be a good one. Please look over my family and keep us from any harm in this New Year. I wish I could give you a big hug right now. XOXO
Missing You. I hope you are at peace where ever you are.
windsor santiago
September 15, 2007
wassup benito its now been 6 years since you went away from us . but i take confort in knowing that your up there waiting for us.well hang out again .to your family i send them all my blessings.may peace be with you much love windsor santiago
Peter Santiago
September 14, 2007
On this 6 anniversary i am wishing the best for your family. I know that your smile is lighting up the Heavens.
God bless,
Peter Santiago
kenya and alexis sabater
September 12, 2007
alexis sabater
September 12, 2007
to a dear friend and friendly family member thats always thought of and sincerely missed we will never forget love you always jessica kenya and alexis sabater
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