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Janis Rustad
September 11, 2023
I never met Arthur Barry, but I have been privileged to carry a memorial card bearing his name and photograph for 22 years now. Judging by the information I've received over the years I do believe I would like this young man. To his family and friends I offer my condolences. Yes, 22 years later they are still in mourning his loss, as am I and millions of individuals around the world. Arthur we pray every day for you and your compatriots. Your sacrifice will never be forgotten. Thank you and God Bless You.
Janis Rustad
September 11, 2021
Today the world is remembering the 11th of the 9th 2001. While I remember the moments of the day as seen through the eyes of the television camera, I also remember Arthur Barry. We had never met but I soon learned a lot about Arthur... because Arthur became a hero in my eyes that day, a fallen hero. To his family, his friends and all those who knew and loved him I send my deepest sympathy. For 20 years they have lived with only his memory. In my part of the world we remember Arthur because of a small green card with his name printed on it, along with details of his service as a New York City Firefighter. Thank you for your service Arthur. Requiesce In Pace.
Bart Chinnici
September 10, 2021
Nerer forgotten buddy. I am still telling stories about your advetures, people think I am making them up! I am looking at my Jeremy's sticker, with your favoriate saying on it, as I write this. You lived a lot of life in 35 years, more than most people do in a lifetime. Love you and miss you.
Cindy Roe
August 31, 2021
Remembering Arthur on the 20th anniversary of 9/11....
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Janis Rustad
September 11, 2020
It's been 19 years since 2001. And for each of those 19 years I have been honored to carry the name of Arthur T Barry on a card in my wallet. The card is somewhat the worse for wear as I try to share it with as many people as possible - to remind them - to ensure they will never forget the heroes that were born and died on 9/11. Arthur is my personal hero and today I remember him. We never met but I will forever honor his sacrifice on this date 19 years ago.
Janis Rustad
September 11, 2019
It has been 8 years; and the memories of 09/11/2001 are as strong as ever. Thank you for your sacrifice Arthur. We will never forget.
Grace LaPlante
September 11, 2019
Thinking of Arthur's family and circle of friends. We will never forget his sacrifice and service.
BART CHINNICI
September 10, 2019
You may be gone, but you will never be forgotten. When I look at your mass card and see that smile all the good memories / road trips come rushing back (Bert was right about the photo). I know you are looking down on us, watching our backs, a beer in your hand and a wise crack ready to go.
July 8, 2019
So heartbroken you are gone because of this horrible tragedy, man. But thank you for your sacrifice that horrid morning in New York City
Del Newberry
February 4, 2016
Saying a quick prayer today for Arthur's friends and family. We will never forget.
Much love from Texas
Mary Beth Coffey
October 22, 2015
Happy Birthday to my Favorite Fireman!
Janis Rustad
September 12, 2015
Arthur T. Barry represents all that is good and strong in America. He gave his life on 9/11 trying to help others. His picture is on the memorial card I still carry with me every day. Thank you again Arthur. And thank you to your family for raising you; and planting within you the love for and strength to help others. You will always be remembered.
Sherry
September 12, 2015
You will always be my firefighter. My memorial bracelet. Forever in my heart.
Kristi Fairlie Geddis
September 11, 2015
Arthur, I have thought of you often over the years. I knew you my whole life, but still wish I had taken a ride in the sidecar!
Katy Higgins
September 11, 2015
You were a few years a head of me at Blessed Sacrament and a friend of my brother's. I remember watching you dive with the "big kids" at Hillside. You were a big brother to all the Westerly kids. Rest in Peace.
Sherry
September 12, 2013
I keep my Arthur Barry 9/11 Memorial Bracelet on a stand in the livingroom. I'll never forget him.
Grace LaPlante
September 12, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Barry family and we remember Arthur's sacrifice. We will never forget.
Charlotte Barry
September 11, 2013
Uncle Arthur,
I think everyone agrees that you were taken too soon, I would have loved to have gotten to know you. Thank you for the sacrifice you made 12 years ago. I am so proud to have you as a member of the Barry family. We will never forget!
xoxo
Cicely T.
September 11, 2013
Thank you for helping the rest of us realize the hidden meanings within our ambitions.
I deeply hope that there is indeed a "resting place" for people like you, and that some kinds of divine interventions and intercessions do actually exist and effect us everyday. I may not be one of faith, but I do hold the most hope and faith in the human spirit--and so therefore, you have become a driving force for us, and within us all.
Janis
September 11, 2013
For 12 years I have kept in my wallet a small green card with the name of Arthur T. Barry. And every year on the 9th day of the 11th month I say a prayer for Arthur and every other soul that was lost in the World Trade Center. Thinking of your family today and crying as I read all the love that has been shared in this guest book. You will not be forgotten. Your bravery and that of your 'brothers' lives on in all our hearts. RIP
Mary O'Rourke & Family
September 11, 2013
Ar deis de, go raibh a ainm usuail - '"May his noble soul be at the right hand of God" Prayers sent to the Barry family from Dublin Ireland. So sorry you all have to go through such tradegy.
Margie Ingram
September 11, 2013
I think of the Barry Family on this day, 9-11. Your girls were so little then at Our Lady of Mercy. I'm sure they've come to know what a Hero your brother was for all Americans. Praying for you today. The Ingram Family
Stacy Meisel
September 11, 2013
Heroes live forever! You continue to live with us!
Clare Barry Skarda
September 11, 2013
Not a single day goes by...
Brianne Yontz
September 11, 2013
Prayers to your family today and always. God Bless you and keep you and may the perpetual light shine upon your face.
Barbara Boam
January 16, 2013
I walked a mile for you (mile #137) on 1/16/13 as a dedication to your life
Shayna
September 11, 2012
Dear Arthur,
I'm thinking about you today and how much I would have liked to get to know you. I never really knew you, I was so little when you died, but my dad loved you a lot and you are in all of our prayers on this day. You were a wonderful person and a true hero. I'm proud to call you my cousin.
Love,
Shayna
Ps: You're tool bench is still welded to the floor of your firehouse!
September 10, 2012
I put your picture on my Facebook wall today. It would have been an honor to know you, my cousin
Grace LaPlante
September 9, 2012
My nephew is climbing 110 floors today in honor of his fallen brother, Arthur. We will always remember the courage and bravery of those who died on 9-11 and we carry Arthur's memory in our hearts today.
Sharon Berry
July 3, 2012
I was the cousin you never knew. I wish we had met. Thinking of you today.
David Farrell
July 2, 2012
God bless all the brave firefighters that paid the ultimate price on that dark day for all peace loving people around the world.
Jill Bellospirito
October 9, 2011
Although we only dated for a short time, we had many great memories! I loved that van and the motorcycle with the side car...I have a great picture of us on that :) Everyone who met you, loved you. You were so special to me and I am so glad that you were in my life. Thank you Arthur, I will never forget you.
Devin Becker
September 17, 2011
I am a firefighter with Loveland Fire and Rescue department in Colorado. I climbed 110 stories in Denver, CO on 9/11/11 in memory of the 343 who sacrificed everything to help others. I was so humbled to climb with Arthur's Picture around my neck during the climb. People like Arthur make the USA the greatest place on earth to live. Freedom is not free, Thanks for everything.
Loveland Fire and Rescue remembering the ultimate sacrifice that firefighters like Aurthur displayed on the tragic day.
Devin Becker
September 17, 2011
110 Stories in memory of Aurthur and his sacrifice
Devin Becker
September 17, 2011
Tom Meisel
September 11, 2011
Thinking of you today.
jeremy Hromada
September 11, 2011
I am a charlotte nc firefighter. Today I climbed 110 stories in full gear in memory of you my fallen brother. I carried your picture and my emotions with pride. You are not forgotten and you are my hero.
Aunt Ronnie and Uncle Jeff
September 11, 2011
We think of you and pray for you every day. The years have softened the loss but not diminished the memories.
Sherry
September 11, 2011
10 years ago I bought a 9/11 Commemorative Bracelet ... it came with Arthur's name on it. He's my fireman.
Kymberli Colbourne
September 11, 2011
We hold you in our hearts.
Katherine O'Rourke Roarty
September 11, 2011
Arthur, I still remember standing in front of my house seeing you walking down Maine ave...I had injured my hand on the front door and was crying because no one was home and I was afraid...you helped me and carried me over the backyard fence to your house and your mom cleaned and bandaged my hand and gave me cookies ... You were so kind...rip
Karrie Wagner
September 11, 2011
Today I carried Arthur's name in a 911 memorial march in Portland Maine. We were asked to research our names and remember them. I never thought I would get to see a picture of such a handsome young man. My heart goes out to your family today. We were on a plane waiting to take off when the first plane hit... I will never forget all of the brave men and women.
Dee Vandenburg
September 11, 2011
We think of you every day and almost expect you to pull up in the driveway with something else to weld or fix, we miss you.
Grace LaPlante
September 11, 2011
Today, my nephew climbs the NH Stair Climb (110 storis) in memory of Arthur Barry. Our hearts are heavy for the loss of all those lost on 9/11, but today our thoughts are close to the Barry family. Brian is a 21 year old firefighter in NH, who carries Arthur's photo as he climbs in his honor.
Miguel Aguirre
September 11, 2011
Ten years later, I still miss you buddy. Prayers for you and your family.
September 9, 2011
I was Arthur's cousin. I never knew him. I'm from the Carlon family in Oregon. Wish I could have known him.
Sharon Murphy Berry (Berry is married name)
Arthur's memorial card.
Bert Barry
September 9, 2011
Mom never really liked the official FDNY photo that is posted everywhere, it looks like a driver's license photo. Here is one showing the real you. Bert.
Tania
September 8, 2011
Arthur, I was given a card with your name and picture on it. At first, I din't even know why I had been given this card.... I had to research you because, sadly, you were one of the many people that died on 9-11 )': You were a a good man. Wuilling to risk his life everyday for anyone who was under the danger of fire. You didn't deserve this. Rest In Peace Arthur...
Laura in
April 14, 2011
Gone but not forgotten for sure. Arthur, still miss you, man. Glad to have crossed paths with your delightful spirit.
April 13, 2011
love to have known you arthur.r i p sweetheart
September 14, 2010
In late 2001 I was given a card that held the name of a fallen hero of 9-11. Arthur T. Barry is the name; and, to this day, I carry that card with me. This year on 9-11, after rereading the brief facts I have learned about Mr. Barry, I said a prayer for his family and for the lives of his fellow firefighters. Although we never met, I will never forget you Arthur. Thank you for your service.
Perry LeDoux
September 13, 2010
Brother Arthur,
You do not know me but I am honored to have met your Mother & Father at Colorado Springs September 2002. I heard a lot about you.
I had the honor of presenting them a flag paying honor to your sacrifice at ground zero. May you rest in peace.
Sandra
September 12, 2010
Arthur,
Still think about the Friday nights on Forest Avenue and remember how much fun we had!!! Who would have thought the smartest guy in BSS was so freaking funny!!!! RIP...keep all the people upstairs laughing!!!
Meline Radenberg
September 12, 2010
Nine years later, your memory lives on. You will never be forgotten!
Jody Stolpinski
September 11, 2010
Rest in Peace Arthur Barry 9/11/01 BSS Famiy
CeCe C.Z.
February 7, 2010
Dear Artie,
I knew you for a short time, but as soon as I saw the towers fall I thought of you. I often wondered if you were really gone. You were so brave! Thank you! You are trully a hereo. So many times you made me laugh. I remember you Artie. May you rest in peace. It is my pleasure to have known you Artie.
Sharon Berry
September 30, 2009
Arthur, I am the cousin in Oregon you never knew. My mother was a Carlon. I am honored to be related to you but sad I never met you.
Sharon Berry
Stu Mark
September 13, 2009
I, along with 343 of my Firefighter brothers and sisters were part of a 9/11 Memorial climb for the FDNY Firefighers. I was honored with the opportunity to carry your name, BARRY, up 110 floors to the roof where your name was placed on a memorial and a bell rang in your honor.
9/11 Memorial Climb, 9/11/2009 Sacramento, Ca.
September 13, 2009
Up 110 floors to the roof for Arthur T. Barry and the FDNY brothers on 9/11/09
September 13, 2009
Greg Heck
September 11, 2009
Thank's for being a hero
September 10, 2009
Thank you Mr. Barry for being a brave hero. I was choosen for your name in my school for a report on hero's like yourself. I am sure you are very much missed by your family. God bless you.
Austin LeRette 14 years old Red Oak Iowa
Laura Lee (Bellospirito) Dong
May 11, 2009
Still thinking of you Arthur.
Caroline Schenk
December 3, 2008
Arthur,
I remember always riding my bike up the street as a kid and you would jump out and call my name. I would never see you because it was dark out or you were hiding. Then you would scream its me, Arthur Barry!
And i would laugh and say you scared me.
You would always wait till i wasnt looking or near past you,so i wouldnt see who it was.
We had some good laughs.
You told me later on you were too shy to say hello, face to face.
We both were so shy. Guess what i still am! lol.
It is so sad you lost your life so early. I read your guest book and
cried near all the way thru it.
I send light and love to your parents.
I wish we knew each other better we were only kids in grammar school and the neighborhood.
God Bless You!
Love always,
Caroline
With light and love,
Caroline Schenk
Michael Yuska
September 12, 2008
I worked with Artie in Elizabeth when he fixed machinery for our company. Just want to note here that I think of him every year and honor his memory and salute his heroism.
M P
September 12, 2008
Thanks or everything you did for our country, Mr. Barry and thanks for your sacrifice.
Monica DiGioacchino
September 11, 2008
Thinking of you today, cousin.
Grams
September 11, 2008
My family and I send our condolences to the beloved family of Arthur T. Barry, who lost his life in the line of duty while trying to save the lives of others. No greater offering can one human being make than to put oneself at risk to save others. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and to the families of all who died on that tragic day.
Cynthia (CeCe)
September 11, 2008
In honor of this young man and his family. God Bless and may you find peace!
Doug Abraham
March 11, 2008
God Bless Arthur and the other firefighters who gave the ultimate sacrifice on that horrible day!!!
Hartmut Reinsch
September 11, 2007
In memory of Arthur T. Barry and all fallen FDNY Fire Fighters!
Sept. 11th 2001
~Always remembered and never forgotten!"~
Greetings from
Firefighter poet Hartmut Reinsch
Toronto / CANADA
PS.>
please visit my Firefighter guest book, with more than 4600 Firefighter entries!
http://tinyurl.com/6muan
Tribute to Firefighters of FDNY!
In the battle against the beastly fire...
They stay together, ready to fight!
To help all the victims of every accident,
committed to rescue, by day and by night.
These are the courageous Firefighters,
In their cities and towns of every land.
They stand together as really true friends,
Routinely they're all working hand in hand.
Everyone of them looks after the other,
Their brotherhood knows no borders...!
They are ready to help in their unselfish way,
Without fear, they follow their orders!
Many of them gave their lives in New York,
On September the eleventh, two thousand and one...!
Firefighters everywhere will remember that day,
And their feelings of loss will never be gone.
Written by Hartmut Reinsch
(FIRE Fighter Poet)
September 16, 2001 Toronto Canada
May we always remember their sacrifice,
in their quest to help and save the lives of innocent victims,
on that tragic day of Sept. 11. 2001 in New York City, USA.
A word after..., from "ground zero!"
What we are left with,
surrounded by death and fear,
is our sense of loyalty and of duty...
which calls upon us
to place a shining beacon of hope in this world,
and to entrust the universal darkness
to the light of God.
H. Reinsch. Toronto 2001
Karen Milano
September 11, 2007
With every reminder of 9/11, and there are many..I think of Arthur and his zest for life, his sense of adventure, his dry sense of humor and talent for fixing anything, including my hair stuck in a bicycle chain (hard to explain that one). Arthur thoroughly lived all the days of his life, something that can't be said for everyone. He will always be remembered, and I continue to hold a sadness in my heart for the death-too-soon of the boy nextdoor. - Karen (Amoia) Milano
Bert Barry
August 10, 2007
I think of you every day. Everyone misses you.
Your brother.
Lynn Watts
November 24, 2006
I just wanted to say that I am proud to wear your name on a FDNY memorial bracelet. I wear it every day. I am glad to finally put a face with a name. God Bless you and your family.
Kristine
October 12, 2006
As I stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vane. We will always remember.
Evelyn B
September 13, 2006
Thank you for being the brave and true fireman that you were. Your sacrifice surely saved many others. May God Bless your family and help them find peace.
Tiffany Huntley
September 12, 2006
Just another Firefighter that gave his life for so many others!! GOD BLESS!!
Tiffany
Janis
September 11, 2006
For the past 5 years I have carried a small green memorial card in my wallet with your name on it - Arthur T. Barry, 35, NY - that is all I knew about you until I found this site today, 09/11/2006. Thank you for being there when you were so desperately needed. You will be in my thoughts and prayers forever.
Lacy Berry
September 11, 2006
Hi my name is Lacy Berry and I am 12 years old. I was in the second grade when the towers fell and it was my dad's birthday. This wasn't one of the greatsest gitft a person would want. I would like to thank you for helping the people in the world trade center. I know that most died but it did pay off for those who did live
Jackie Drew (Gaudet)
August 23, 2006
Hey Artie...You and me always sat next to each other in grammer school because we were the tallest it was there that you & I became friends...you were always joking around...doing things and never getting caught. Then we met again years later in the Odyssey Lounge and became friends again...then lost touch. Then I hear you are one of my brothers closest friends...strange how the world turns. Some people are just meant to be connected and I always felt that connection with you.
I'm sorry you didn't make it out...Think of you often...and Steve misses you too ! Watch over us Art...till we connect again !
P Tabbernor
August 21, 2006
In memory....
Jim Johnson
September 11, 2005
God Bless You!!!
Brian Gillen
May 18, 2004
Arthur- I know you are at peace... I think of you all the time.. I had about 50 firemen from E84 & H&L 34 looking for you on 9-11...we all did the best we could but I guess it wasn't good enough. I know Jake misses you as does everyone else who was lucky enough to ever meet you. Thank you for being a GREAT cousin and an even greater fireman. As long as I live , I promise that you and the other fireman who died that day will never be forgotton.I hope to see you, my father, grandfather, and Kevin someday where we can all smile and laugh again as we used to.
Brian G. H&L 34 FDNY
Bernadette Zullo
September 13, 2003
Dear Arthur,
You sacrificed your life in an attempt to save others. You are a true hero. You are in my prayers as well as the prayers of all americans. I lost a close family friend in the world trade center on that unimaginable day of death and destruction of so many innocent people and their families. God bless you. You are now an angel in Heaven.
James Langseth Jr.
September 11, 2003
Dear Barry Family:
Lloyd Berggren and I attended today's Memorial Breakfast at Jeremy's Ale House. On the bar was a lighted candle flanked by two beers - one each for Artie and Eric. We said a toast to their memory. You are in our thoughts often - especially today.
Christy Barry
September 11, 2003
God Bless you Arthur T. Barry. I know you are loved and at peace. You were a beautiful person in life and now have the Lord to keep you beautiful in death.
Christy L. Barry
Jill Davis (a.k.a. Donato)
January 6, 2003
I received a heartfelt e-mail from Jimmy Miller whom I hadn't spoken to in about a year and a half. He told me the news of Arthur as well as Tommy, both fellow classmates of Susan E. Wagner H.S. 1983 as well as a firefighter brother to Jimmy . I was so saddened by this news. I pray for his family. Arthur was a true hero and will never be forgotten. I know you all must be extremely proud of his efforts that day. He will wear a special crown in heaven for giving his life for the sake of others. God Bless.
Veronica Brown (7th Grade)
November 12, 2002
To the Barry Family:
His smile made me find out more about him. I found out that he was saveing other peoples lives...wich is a very herioc thing to do Mrs Barry, must be very proud.
I'll say a little prayer for you!
Mona (Barry) Moore
October 14, 2002
Seeing the surname Barry I was immediately drawn to the person behind the name. My heart goes out to the family of this brave man.
Please know that he and all the other firemen who died that day will not be forgotten and will always be in my prayers.
8th Grader
September 18, 2002
I think that what Mr. Berry did for the Sept. 11 victims was a very heroic thing. Although, im only 13 and im not to sure what he went through i know he did die for his Country. Thanks alot, and i will keep his family in my prayers.
Amber Riebel
September 11, 2002
Arthur,
In school today we have a prayer service. They handed out prayer cards with different people's name's on that died in the WTC attacks. It said that were a firefighter. You did a truly heroic thing by going into the WTC to help save other lives. I'm sure you will reamin forever ingraved in the hearts of your family, friends and the families of those you saved.
With deep sympathy,
Amber Riebel
PATTY MCLAUGHLIN-LAWRENCE
September 9, 2002
Arthur,
we all miss you...I'll never forget the summer of '95. brendan and you renting a room from frank and kathleen. every weekend, there was always a story...lol remember.."ding dong tron is gone"..lol frank always kept us posted on what you were up to...i'll always remember your laugh and smile...always full of life. we miss you arthur...god bless
Miguel Aguirre
September 7, 2002
Arthur, you were called alot of things when we hung out, hero was never one of them. Who knew? Thank you buddy you did a great job I will miss our conversations on the ferry. Rest In Peace and God bless
Paul Laparra
August 31, 2002
I have never seen you and I haven't seen you till now but I just want to say ,Thanks ,you guys are heroes you guys are the best.
Mary Barry Gray
June 27, 2002
To the family of Arthur Barry,
I saw the name Barry on the list of people lost in WTC.I know that we are not immediately related but we all grow up proud of the Barry family name.From one Barry to another I write you. I'm sure your son was a brave Barry and never thought once about the peril he was in, going to help others. I shall light a candle for him with special intentions.
sincerely, Mary Barry Gray
Kathy Melaragni
April 24, 2002
My grandmother's name is Barry also. When I saw the name, I had to write. I will keep you in my prayers Arthur...til we meet again!!
Angie Campbell
April 22, 2002
**********GOD BLESS YOU**********
Andrew Callari
April 18, 2002
Dear Arthur:
My brother sent me a 9-11 bracelet with your name on it. I am glad to have found a profile on you so that I can put a face, and a man, to the name. Although I never met you, I am proud to wear your name on my 9-11 bracelet in tribute to the brave firefighters that gave their lives to save others. Your bracelet seems to mean more, since you were from Staten Island. I lived in Great Kills from 1978 until 1985. God bless you, Arthur, and your family. Rest in Peace...
Andrew Callari
Andrew Callari
April 18, 2002
Dear Arthur:
My brother sent me a 9-11 bracelet with your name on it. I am glad to have found a profile on you so that I can put a face, and a man, to the name. Although I never met you, I am proud to wear your name on my 9-11 bracelet in tribute to the brave firefighters that gave their lives to save others. Your bracelet seems to mean more, since you were from Staten Island. I lived in Great Kills from 1978 until 1995. God bless you, Arthur, and your family. Rest in Peace...
Andrew Callari
Dawn Bowermaster
April 6, 2002
Arthur,
I am a distant cousin, my father was Barrett O'Neill, cousin to your mom & dad. I remember so well spending holidays with your family. When I'd heard that you were lost in the attacks, I was upset at the loss. Although I did not know you as an adult, I've read many things about you. You were a wonderful and caring person. I've prayed for your family and know that you will rest easy in God's arms. Sleep well, hero.
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