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DAVID A. HOBEL

David A. Hobel, beloved husband, brother, Mankind Project brother, and friend, 68, passed away on Thursday, December 3rd due to a car accident in Taos Canyon. Born in Phoenix, Arizona, to Florence Bena and John Allen Hobel. David was one of the "3 hobos" as he and his two older sisters, Mary and Jeanne, affectionately called themselves. After graduation from East High School, he enlisted in the U.S. Army on October 15, 1972, and served for 7 years. David first served at Fort Lewis, Washington, from 1972-1975, where he earned an Army Commendation Medal and a Good Conduct Medal. He attended Welding School in Tacoma, Washington and Airframe Repair School at Fort Eustis, Virginia. After that, he worked as an Airframe Repairman at Fort Richardson, Alaska until he was Honorably Discharged in July of 1979 with the rank of Sergeant and meritorious achievement and exemplary performance.
In 1979, David followed his sister Jeanne to Santa Fe, New Mexico, where he worked as a carpenter. He worked with Wood Design in Santa Fe for 18 years and became a Master Carpenter and Cabinet Installer and a jack of all trades. David strove for perfection in all he did and was the "caretaker" of the shop; he maintained the dust collector and other machines necessary for production.
David was a brilliant and talented craftsman, able to figure out the complicated projects from spiral to visually unsupported staircases and beyond. David was that little boy who took Mom's toaster apart, but then made it better. He made everything better. He was visionary and inspired in all three houses he completely remodeled during his life; carpentry was his true calling. David was married twice during these years. David's car passion was the 1965 Corvair he rebuilt, he was always sad he let it go.
In the early 2000s, David was initiated into the Mankind Project, a men's initiation group that ran Men's Support Circles in the Southwest area. He became a skilled facilitator and dedicated staffer. David's natural and intuitive facilitation was highly valued and respected by many members over the years.
In 2008, he met his present wife, Valerie Morningstar of Taos, New Mexico, at a Men's Celebration Circle in Santa Fe, as she was a member of the sister group called Woman Within. They were joined in marriage in 2010 and lived in Santa Fe until 2015 when they moved to Taos, New Mexico.
David will be remembered for his quick wit, kind generous spirit, fun puns, hard work, and his gentle soul.
He is survived by his wife, Valerie Morningstar and their dog, Tessa, of Taos, NM, his two sisters Mary Jenkins of Phoenix, AZ, and her children and their families, and Jeanne Trachta of Cedar Crest, NM, and her children and families.
In lieu of flowers, you may donate to the Southwest Reservation Aid 1310 E. Riverview Drive, Phoenix, AZ 1-800-811-6955 SWRAprogram.org.
David was passionately committed to Refuse, ReUse, and Recycle, especially the ReUse in his building practices. Please do so in his memory.
There will be a private celebration of David's life.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Santa Fe New Mexican from Dec. 12 to Dec. 13, 2020.

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George Mandel

December 6, 2023

May your memory be for blessings, David. You are missed and remembered.

Steve Hess

December 6, 2022

What a good guy. We miss you David.

Arthur Panaro

December 6, 2022

I spent many evenings with David and other good men sharing Mankind Project inspirations and customs.

Wayne Lee

December 6, 2022

Brother David, you are so missed! You made a difference in this world with your passion, commitment and artistry. Blessings to you wherever you are on your path.

Juniper

December 15, 2020

David.... You were so important to my children, especially my son Nasia ... His first words were spoken with you. May you rest in peace.

Galen Blum

December 15, 2020

David...dearest David...thank you for our years together...your with Florence and Johnny now...our hearts reach out to your family and especially your wife...peace ... endless peace

George Mandel

December 14, 2020

I will miss you David. You were a wonderful facilitator in My I Group back in 2013. I really appreciate who you were, and what you did for me. You will be missed, and your memory will be my blessing.

Craig Simmons

December 12, 2020

I'm deeply saddened by David's passing. I came to know and consider him a role model like an older brother in 2008 while experiencing my initiation into the Mankind Project's New Warrior Training Adventure where David was staffing. Something I never told David is that one particular role he presided over that weekend, positively impacted the rest of my life from that point to the time of my last breath. David's kind and generous spirit always palpable when in his presence, he's an unwitting and unassuming role model for me and I suspect many others whose great privilege it is to know him. He will be missed by all who know him and I will have an empty space where the mere awareness of his existence with us here in this realm lent some solace in the knowing of a faithful friend and brother.

Eli Levine

December 12, 2020

A brilliant man that helped me on my journey in ways I can't describe!

Wayne Lee

December 12, 2020

OMG, I'm so saddened to hear of David's passing. He helped initiate me into the ManKindProject, helped train our new men's circle in facilitation practices and accompanied me on my very first staffing in Arizona. David was intensely committed to men's work and helped so many men on their journey to becoming the best man they could be. That's what David did. My condolences to Val and all of David's family and loved ones. Blessings on your crossing, brother.
Wayne Lee,
Santa Fe

CAROLINE MURPHY

December 12, 2020

David was the epitome of hard work, honesty and true grit! He will be incredibly missed at Wood Design.

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