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How sorry I am to hear that Jerry is no longer among us. He was my friend at Hall High as I worked in the garden, making his rounds, checking the doors, sometimes sharing a chuckle, or admonishing me for leaving a door open. He had a gentle and quiet mann
Laurel Hoskins
August 13, 2016
How sorry I am to hear that Jerry is no longer among us. He was my friend at Hall High as I worked in the garden, making his rounds, checking the doors, sometimes sharing a chuckle, or admonishing me for leaving a door open. He had a gentle and quiet manner that served to challenge me to see how I could get him to loosen up and crack a smile while he was on the job. He told me that he was a little embarrassed to accept a tomato or pepper from the garden if he did not do anything to deserve it. I am so glad I had the opportunity to set him straight on this to tell him that he deserved many more tomatoes that our school garden could possibly grow! I will miss Jerry.
William Keehner
July 6, 2016
Dear Jim and the Lavery family
I was deeply saddened to hear of Gerry's passing, and regret that I was out of state and could not atten his services. Gerry and I grew up in our law enforcement careers together, and I will always remember his as a trusted friend and colleague. Please accept my sincere sympathy and kind thoughts for the family in this difficult time. Bill Keehner, Deputy Chief of Police (ret.), Rocky Hill Police
michele lawrence
July 2, 2016
My condolences to the family of officer Lavery . Your kindness and smile will be missed at the Citgo station on Cedar St .. You will always be Officer Lavery to me .. one of the best .
Michele Lawrence
Terri
July 1, 2016
My condolences to Gerry's family and friends. I am so sad to have lost him. I work at Hall and was lucky enough to have lunch with him a couple of years ago. Sometimes we just ate quietly, but more often I had the pleasure of hearing his stories. There is no one like him. We will miss him dearly.
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July 1, 2016
The Lavery Family and the Stack Family were neighbors on Roberts Street in Newington. All the kids played together and visited each others homes. We are sorry to learn of the passing of Jerry. Sincerely, Larry, Martha and Jackie Stack
Kai-Dee Beach
July 1, 2016
I give my condolences and sympathy to Kate and her family. It is tough losing a loved one and I hope they find peace during this difficult time.
Tricia Snodgrass
June 30, 2016
I always enjoyed talking to Gerry, listening to his stories, and to his insights on working with our students. I will miss his presence at Hall High School dearly. With deepest sympathy,
Tricia Snodgrass
Lisa & Brendan Fitzgerald
June 30, 2016
With deepest sympathy and heartfelt condolences to the entire Lavery family. I was proud to have known Gerry, and thankfully his brother Peter, for years in Newington. I was always impressed with how quiet, professional and caring Gerry was. May his soul, and those of his predeceased family be at peace in Heaven. A true loss to so many.
Semper Fidelis,
Carlie Dailey
June 30, 2016
I enjoyed listening to how proud Gerry was of his family. He will be sorely missed by his Hall Family.
June 30, 2016
Gerry was a gentle soul who quietly endeared himself to many of us at Hall. He will truly be missed by his Hall family.
My deepestcondolences to your family and may your memories bring you peace in the days to come.
Sincerely,
Shelley Solomon
Sue Curnias
June 30, 2016
Gerry was the salt of the earth. I was always inspired by his kindness and support of his colleagues, teachers and students. He had such a calming presence. As a teacher, coach and most recently an attendance para we have engaged in so many conversations over the last 14 years. He was so proud and loved his family so deeply and would get a sparkle in his eye when speaking of all their accomplishments. I love Gerry and will miss seeing him daily. Prayers and condolences to the Lavery family and friends.
Sarah Kroll
June 29, 2016
My son Adam (A student from Hall) loved Gerry!!
Gerry would often be the sweet recipient of coffee made by my special son.
Such a lovely soul.
So sorry for your loss.
God bless
steve carragher
June 29, 2016
Sincere condolences to the Lavery family.
Norman Burtness
June 29, 2016
I always enjoyed talking to Gerry at school. He had a great heart. I will miss him.
Norman Burtness
Susan Gilmore
June 29, 2016
My condolences to the Lavery family. It was always nice to see Gerald Lavery on the watch at Hall and I know my children were fortunate to have his kind, generous, and protective presence there. He always greeted us with a smile. Thank you!
Liz Bennett
June 29, 2016
So sorry to hear of Gerry's passing - My best to all of you at this time. I so remember all the Lavery Boys..!
Bruce Fairclough
June 29, 2016
Saddened to hear of Gerry's passing. He truly was one of the "good guys" in this world. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire family.
Carol Blejwas
June 29, 2016
I loved working with Jerry and will miss him greatly. Over the years we shared many quiet "hallway conversations" about life and work and people and family. He was observant, clear sighted, kind, and wise. He was also an amazing listener - a truly rare quality. I left every conversation feeling heard and - more importantly - understood. Over the years I practiced listening as well as he did. In doing so, I learned of his bedrock pride in his family - particularly his children. I will miss him and always be grateful for the chance to have worked with and learned from him.
Dorothy Chmielewski
June 29, 2016
Pat, Devin and Kate, I am sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Always, Dorothy Chmielewski
Newington Memorial Funeral Home Duksa Family Funeral Homes
June 29, 2016
With deepest sympathy during your time of mourning.
Jeremy Martins
June 28, 2016
Very sorry for your loss.
Devon Hightower
June 28, 2016
Sorry for your lost God Bless
Thimas Ledvorowski
June 28, 2016
Gerry, the halls of Hall will feel your absence. You were loved by faculty, staff and students . Watch over us from above! May you rest in peace in the arms of God!
Jessica Montez
June 28, 2016
So sorry about the loss for his family and friends he was my sercurity guard at Hall High and he was such a nice an easy goin guy been outta school for ten years and Cnt believe it rest easy
Gail Marino
June 28, 2016
Pat and family, We were so sorry to hear of Gerry's passing. Our prayers are with you and your family during this time of sadness. Gail & Albert Marino, Berlin
Meg Sautter
June 28, 2016
Jerry was such a confident, quiet man. I'm honored to have spent my career working with him and his brothers. Pat, I'm so sorry for your loss. I know your memories will bring comfort. Rest assured he is in Heaven and at peace.
Marc Kotler
June 28, 2016
I am sorry to hear about your loss. I had the honor and the privilege to work with Jerry for many years at West Hartford Summer School program. During those years I learned about the love and pride he took in his family and his career. I will miss him.The community will miss him. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.
Marc Kotler
Susan Mannix
June 28, 2016
So sorry for your loss. May God bless the entire Lavery family.
Elizabeth Devine
June 28, 2016
Jerry was such a wonderful guy. He was so supportive of my efforts to bring veterans into my class at Hall High and he would always stop by my room to introduce himself to the vets. He always had a smile! Hall will miss him.
Liz Devine, retired Hall High Social Studies teacher
Pamela & Edward Czelazewicz
June 28, 2016
It's never easy to lose a good soul, however God also needs the good ones. May your memories and the love of your family and friends bring you comfort during this difficult times. Sincere condolences.
Samantha Grady
June 28, 2016
Uncle Jerry will forever be in our hearts and prayers. I will always cherish the memories we have shared together. What a sweet, thoughtful man.
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