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October 29, 2017
May you find rest Tommy.
October 20, 2017
The Varsity Boys Soccer family was greatly saddened to hear of Tommy's passing. As an upperclassman, he was kind and welcoming to the younger players. Whether it was laughs at soccer practice or a hello in the hallways, Tommy was someone people wanted to be around. He brightened their lives with that smile and his generosity of spirit. As the boys move on to the playoffs tomorrow, they honor Tommy's memory and hold him in their hearts.
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. May you find comfort in knowing that he will live on forever in the hearts and minds of his teammates, and the entire soccer community. Your family will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers.
Tresor Rugimbanya
October 20, 2017
I really am sorry Tommy for posting this late, you were the baby brother I had. I was and still am in shock of your passing hence my last report. I knew you since we were kids. You were never my friend you were and always be my brother. I love little broskie you are the best souls God put in my life. You were honest with people about how you felt about them and that is the quality I liked in you. We are related not by blood but by spirit.
It was great you confided in me and I in you either be about God, Life choices or anything you used to call me (Chuchuri my brother from another mother) You left too soon Oct 12 will forever be imprinted on my heart as the day I lost a baby brother. MAMA Tommy and Thereza I love both you and wanted to let you know that God got him in his presence. God bless and forgive his iniquities AMEN. Rest easy and in peace broskie
Tigisti Berhe
October 19, 2017
My heart goes out to you and the rest your family at this tragic time. Such a spirited young man! Can't imagine how this could have happened? May his soul Rest In Peace!!!
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Rebecca Vogel
October 19, 2017
Dear Mrs. Alex,
My heart goes out to you and the rest of your family at this tragic time. My name is Rebecca Vogel and I was so lucky to have had the opportunity to attend the Snowball Dance junior year with Tommy. He treated me with such respect and kindness, I couldn't have asked for a more perfect date. From what Tommy told me, he only had so much love and admiration for you and your family. You truly raised a extraordinary man who touched so many lives in his life.
Nakumuryango Jean Nepo
October 19, 2017
Please God help Mama uwanyirigira to be strong in this moment
Jackson Seminega
October 19, 2017
No one can prepare you for a loss; it comes like a swift wind. However, take comfort in knowing that Tommy is now resting in the arms of our Lord. My deepest condolences to Kanyana and Gromo's family.
Jackson Seminega
Tharcille Uwarurema
October 19, 2017
Marie Grace, we only met once, but your kindness now shows me who is your Angel Tomy now in heaven next to God!
May the only Almighty God relieve and re-comfort you, dear mom, all the families and friends.
I pray for you
Hassina Coucou Umutesi
October 19, 2017
My heartfelt condolences to Kenyana, Teresa and your entire family. May God receive the beautiful soul of our lovely Tomy.
Ebenezer Lang'at
October 18, 2017
Tommy was more than a friend, he was a brother. We met in high school where we became great friends as we were both the only African men in school. He was always full of joy and happiness. He would bring light to a dark room. We hung out plenty a times and made memories that i will never forget. May his soul Rest In Peace
Tasha Mwanakalando
October 17, 2017
May God ease your pain and keep you in this difficult time. Tommy had such a beautiful soul and he will be forever missed. May his soul rest in eternal peace.
Donna Gupta
October 17, 2017
Tommy was one of the brightest people I had ever met. He always had a smile on his face and made everyone laugh. Everyone who ever knew Tommy knew that he was such a smart, funny, and kind hearted person. I'm extremely saddened by his loss & I know he will be missed so many people. Rest in Peace Tommy
Lwiyo Mwanakalando
October 17, 2017
Will you embrace the angels who grace the gates of eternity? A kiss on the forehead for all, that they may feel a soul, yours. Pinky promise me that your dashiki will remain the perfume of your flesh in spirit form. Your 4a type hair be the handkerchief that extends itself in an effort to absorb my escaping tears. Our tears... the mixture of internal wells expanding to soften the memories of you. May your wings stretch as wide as the grasses and grains of your homeland. Love eternal. Alex.
Kabasinga Florentine
October 17, 2017
Tomy your death broke our hearts for ever.We shall always love u❤❤❤❤❤.Flo, Julia, Louis,Charles et Hubert
Madeleine Van de Ryt
October 16, 2017
So very sorry for your loss! We will keep your family in our prayers.
October 16, 2017
My sincere condolences to the Alex family. May you find comfort and hope in the promise Gods word provides at Psalm 68:20.
Gwendolyn
Susan Cargill-Collura
October 16, 2017
Grace & Family-- We are so very sorry to hear that Tommy has left us. While he and his father, our cousin Greg, are reunited, it is a great loss to all of us that such a vibrant young man has left us too soon. Our hearts ache for you. Many prayers and much love.
Susan, Santo, Nicole, & Ivy Anne XOXO
A goofy pic from 12-101 prior to walking out for commencement...
Adam Lumish
October 16, 2017
To Grace, the Alex family, and all of Tommy's teammates over the years, neighbors, classmates and those he touched in 19 years with his smile and laughter...
My family and I are so saddened to hear of Tommy's passing...I was blessed to have started my mornings with Tommy over four years in high school as his homeroom teacher. Although it was a rare treat to have Tommy arrive by 8:00 when the late bell rang, the real treat came when Tommy flashed his smile around 8:03 (or even later) and said, "C'Mon Mr. L...can you cut a brother a break today!!!???" By senior year I would most mornings -- I had the pleasure of teaching Tommy in class and even had Tommy over to the house to help him prep for his SAT/ACT exams...even our daughter got to know and love Tommy when she opened the door on some nights to let him in for tutoring, or when Kayla came in for "bring your child to work day" -- he always loved and wore her bracelets that she made for him!
I still remember the BEAR HUG he gave me when I called his name on graduation night...unlike my tears right now, the tears we shared that night were flowing with great joy and a sense of accomplishment by graduating from Mt. Lebanon High School. He was so proud! Tommy...we are all so proud -- for you made our lives better and happier for knowing you! May God bless you and your beautiful family and Rwandan community here in Pittsburgh forever....I love you, brother!
Adam, Jen & Kayla Lumish
Patricia Richardson
October 16, 2017
Sending my sincere condolences and love. May GOD keep Thomas in the palm of his hand. Patti
October 16, 2017
I am very sorry for your family's loss. Remember that you are never alone during times of loss. God promises to be with you in difficult times, 'to give you thoughts of peace and a hope'. Jeremiah 29:11,12
October 15, 2017
I am so sorry for your great loss. May the God who "binds up the brokenhearted," and "comforts all who mourn," sustain your family during this challenging time. Isaiah 61: 1, 2 With heartfelt sympathy.
Andrew Ross
October 15, 2017
Tommy was the most special person I ever had the privilege of coaching. He came from worlds away and brought sunshine into our lives. For years our teams carried a sense of brotherly love that Tommy helped to create. I will never forget the happy fall afternoons we all shared. Tommy you are our brother and you will always be a part of our team. We love you forever
Christine Bossi
October 14, 2017
David and I extend our deepest sympathy to you Grace and Teresa as well as the extended Alex family. Tommy was a light in life and will be remembered always. May the memories of his smile and gentile persona bring you comfort and peace. With love and condolences, Chris and David
Alan Sezibera
October 14, 2017
I still can't believe it. Tommy was by far the nicest and most genuine person I knew. He was the type of person to be on both sides of a dispute in an attempt to end it. May he rest in peace.
October 14, 2017
Please accept my sincere condolences for your loss.PSALM 91:2.
Anonymous Person
October 14, 2017
Tommy was one of the kindest and wisest young men I've ever met. The goodness he brought into the world will last forever. Rest in peace.
October 14, 2017
Marie, my name is Dora Pecoraro. My son Aidan was friends with Tommy. I just learned of Tommy's passing and wanted to let you know my heart is very heavy for you and your family. I had the pleasure of meeting Tommy and he was a beautiful soul. Again, I am so sorry.
C T
October 14, 2017
May God sustain the family during this time. Please also find comfort from God's word. Luke7:11-15
Monette Shuttleworth
October 14, 2017
May peace beyond human understanding be with your family in this most difficult time. Thomas was a kind and gentle friend of my son, John Chick.
In sympathy, Monette.
Sarah Erlichman
October 14, 2017
We are terribly saddened to hear of Tommy's passing. We will always remember him as a sweet, bright little boy in Rwanda, and as a handsome, kind, strong young man when we last met in Ottawa. Our deepest condolences to the whole family. We are with you in spirit. With love from Sarah, Abraham, Noah and Cecilia
Serge Sandrali
October 14, 2017
Hey Tommy
I know you are watching us from up there. I will always remember the kindness you showed everyone and how much of a genuine person you were. Sometimes it seems that life is not fair but I know You are in a better place. Jesus wanted you so badly he could not wait. Its not good bye but see you later. I am excited to join you at home with Jesus one day. I love you bro. Rest in eternal peace.
Mercedes Sanchez
October 14, 2017
Im very sorry for you loss . Tommy was one of the most up beat and genuine people I knew. Im so glad for being able to know him..even if it was only for a short time.
Prayers go out to all of your friends and family.
Maia Van Groesbeck
October 13, 2017
I am at a loss of words. Tommy was one of the sweetest guys I had ever had the pleasure of knowing. He was never seen without a smile on his face. He was kind, funny & always lit up any room he walked into. He will be missed so much by everyone who knew him. Rest In Peace Tommy
Melissa Van Groessbeck
October 13, 2017
I am so very sorry for your loss. Prayers to all of you. Tommy was a HS friend of my daughter, Maia, and she has said he was a kind and sweet soul. Prayers and love.
Noah West
October 13, 2017
I never saw Tommy without a smile on his face and his happiness and positive energy transferred to the entire team. He was the most genuine and kindest person I knew. Being able to be his friend and teammate throughout highschool is something I'll never forget. I have so many great memories with him and the rest of the team. You'll be missed greatly Tommy.
Eli Holtschlag
October 13, 2017
Tommy was one of the nicest people I'd ever met. He made soccer more than a game, he made it fun.
Nathaniel Fagan
October 13, 2017
The passing of Thomas is a disappointing one, reminding us all of the mortality of our human nature. While his whole future was practically set in stone at this point in his life, he will be remembered in his end as someone whom; no matter what character; spread happiness to whoever accepted. I had worked on many school projects and even sat with him during lunch for a semester, and always had a healthy relationship with him due to his kind nature.
Noah Donald
October 13, 2017
I am heartbroken to hear of Tommy's passing. He was an amazing person, teammate, and friend and he had a talent for bringing a smile to the faces of those around him. I have so many great memories of Tommy since he came here in middle school and I am truly grateful for the time we spent together both on and off the soccer field. My thoughts and prayers are with his family during this difficult time.
Sammy Binkin
October 13, 2017
Tommy was one of the nicest, kindest, and funniest people I've ever met. He was in my home room in high school and every morning as I walked in half awake and miserable, I'd see his smiling face and he would just brighten my day and make it 1000x better. He had this radiant glow around him that just made life enjoyable.
I will never forget Tommy. He will live on forever in all of our memories. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Stacey Franklin
October 13, 2017
We are all heartbroken over the news of Tommy. We all have such happy memories of Tommy on the soccer field and off. Always a smile on his face! Thinking you the entire extended family during this difficult time.
Dave, Stacey and Jake
John Chick
October 13, 2017
He was the kindest and most genuine person I have ever had the pleasure to know. I'm lucky that I was able to call him a friends. He will be greatly missed.
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