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Gary Rusing Obituary

Gary M. Rusing, age 75, of Bellingham, Washington passed away peacefully on December 28, 2018. Gary was born December 1, 1943 to Oliver and Mabel Rusing. He was born and raised in Bellingham, Washington and graduated from Bellingham High in 1961. After high school Gary was employed by the U.S. Forest Service and worked hard to pay his way through college and law school. He attended Willamette University and graduated from Western Washington State College (now Western Washington University) and University of Oregon Law School. Gary practiced law in Bellingham for 47 years; he also taught Economics at WWU. Gary is survived by his sister, Judy Ryan of Bellingham, his children Christopher Rusing of Jupiter, Florida, Garrett Rusing, Justice Rusing and Grace Rusing, all of Bellingham; and nieces Tami Thetford (Jay), Juleigh Vandermeid (Mark) and Taylor Thetford (Kyle), along with several great-nieces and nephews. He is preceded in death by his parents and his son Michael. Gary was an avid handball player, and won a Canadian National Doubles Championship in 1991, among other tournaments including a father-son handball tournament in Spokane in 1998 with son, Chris Rusing. He also loved skiing, mountain biking, hiking, karaoke, hosting barbecues at his home and spending time in Hawaii. Gary was an excellent attorney and very well-respected by his peers. He had an immeasurable love for life and life experiences, and had a genuine love and generosity toward his family, friends and staff. At Gary's request, there will be no funeral. He was cremated and his ashes will be spread in Maui, Hawaii. Grief never ends, but it changes. It's a passage, not a place to stay. Grief is not a sign of weakness nor a lack of faith, it is the price of love.

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Published by Bellingham Herald on Jan. 5, 2019.

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January 16, 2019

A great Man...Allways made me smile

Holly and Rico Salvarria

January 14, 2019

My thoughts and prayers to all of his famiily and loved ones. Gary will always have a special place in my family's heart for the help and support he offered us in a grave time for us. Gary was an amazing man, lawyer and friend. God Speed Gary, may you be at
Peace and know the Love of the Lord! ♡

Howard Webstad

January 11, 2019

We had alot fun skiing,Sun Valley,Mt. Baker.Lots of good memerys RIP. Old friend.

Donna Ross

January 11, 2019

To everyone that was loved and touched by Gary... I offer my love and prayers. The grief, shock and disbelief are still very deep. I personally am leaning on the assurance that we will meet again. We have all lost a great man.

January 8, 2019

long ago dear friend RIP. Gary see you again
some day. Bob

Byron Sprague

January 7, 2019

Chris & Family,
So sadden by our loss of Gary. My life was made more enjoyable because of meeting and getting to know Gary. While I enjoyed golfing with Gary on many occasions, the part I enjoyed most was the time we spent talking as we played golf. As others have said, Gary was an up beat person and fun to be around. He loved his children and was always telling me how proud he was of them. He excelled at everything he did, excercising, handball, practicing law, and entertaining. If Gary had a party, you would not want to miss it! I was always amazed at how long and hard Gary rode his bicycle, if he did something he would give it all he had.
I will miss you my dear friend and remember the time we spent fondly.

The Stones

January 6, 2019

Although we only met in recent years it was a pleasure getting to know Gary and his legacy is certain to carry on through his wonderful family and friends. RIP

Ken Colvin

January 6, 2019

Gary was a very good friend all through junior high, high school, college, and after. I will always remember our many experiences together (skiing, hiking, handball, motor biking, Hawaii, and December parties). I will miss his loyal friendship and great sense of humor.
My condolences to Chris and the rest of Gary's family.

Steven Duppenthaler

January 5, 2019

RIP GARY , it was a honor to know you and visit with you !

Mark Biondi

January 5, 2019

I am sadden by the lose of a good friend and a tremendous attorney gary.a person who was always positive and upbeat.gary was always in great shape as we worked out at the same gym back in bellingham.he will be sorely missed by my family and myself.rip buddy

Dianne Mitchell

January 5, 2019

Rest In Peace my friend.

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