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James "Jim" Stansell

1923 - 2014

James "Jim" Stansell obituary, 1923-2014, Bellingham, WA

BORN

1923

DIED

2014

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James Stansell Obituary

James Overton Stansell, "Jim", went home to his Lord on August 11, 2014, after 91 years. Jim was born in Dillon, Montana on May 19, 1923 to Overton Anderson Stansell and Lyda Bell Peer. He grew up in hard times, helping his father prospect, ranch and homestead. From an early age, he took on adult responsibilities, building or devising anything needed to help support his family. He joined the Civilian Conservation Corps in 1940, serving at the Great Falls, Montana camp, building state parks and trails and studying surveying. He enlisted in the U.S. Navy in January 1941, and headed for duty in Hawaii on the U.S.S. Hull, a destroyer based in Pearl Harbor. On December 7, 1941, Jim was getting ready to go ashore for church, when the attack on Pearl Harbor began. For three-and-a-half years, he saw action as part of the Anzac Forces in the Coral Sea, including battles at Bougainville, Guadalcanal, Attu and Kiska. He served on the U.S.S. Caution, a minesweeper, and was assigned to the amphibious forces during the invasion of Saipan. Jim spent 40 years as a heavy equipment operator and job superintendent on highway construction throughout the west, including several dams. He met and married a widow, Arlene Gawrys, in 1974, in Bellevue, WA and became a stepfather to her three daughters. Arlene was the love of his life. In 1993, Jim and Arlene moved to Bellingham to be close to their grandchildren. Jim became president of the North Cascades Chapter of the Pearl Harbor Survivors, an active group of more than 25 members at the time. Jim cherished this group, and meticulously collected each survivor's tale for posterity. He and Arlene spent their retirement years at craft shows around the county. Jim liked to work with his hands and made furniture and toys for his grandchildren. He made the most of what he had, and had a knack for making things work better. He enjoyed being useful and busy. Clever as always, Jim became competent on computers when he was 80, and wrote his own autobiography, That Is How It Was, which he had printed and distributed, complete with photos and updated a few years ago. Jim sent emails to several friends and family members every single day. We already miss those happy morning messages. Broken-hearted after Arlene died in 2005, Jim reached out and made many new friends, far too many to list here. He especially valued his association with the NAS Whidbey people, Pearl Harbor Survivors and friends, his Friday morning coffee group, the Ram Construction crew, neighbors and mall walkers. Despite several medical setbacks, he remained positive, outgoing and mentally sharp, with an exceptional memory. He felt grateful for his family and his life. He never asked for anything, and was embraced by his diverse group of friends and his beloved animals, kitty Spooky and dog Maggie, both of whom he arranged for new homes before he died. Jim is survived by daughters Susan Cole (Craig), Sally Andrews (Stuart) and Sandra Jones (James). He is blessed with seven grandchildren: Jacquelyn Cole, Christina Cole, Shanna Cole Jones (Perry), Sarah Whelchel (Matt), Kristen Jones, Madeleine Crabtree (Jared), Natalie Andrews and Mike Andrews. He has three great-grandchildren: Bria Crabtree, Mason and Easton Whelchel. In lieu of flowers, gifts in Jim's memory can be made to Faith Lutheran Church or the charity of your choice. Services will be held on Saturday, August 23 at 1 p.m. at Faith Lutheran Church, 2750 McLeod Road, Bellingham. Rev. Sharon Swanson will be officiating. You may share memories with the family at www.westfordfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Bellingham Herald from Aug. 13 to Sep. 11, 2014.

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Lisa Anderson

September 8, 2014

What a blessing it was to know Jim and to have countless memories to carry forward as our lives continue. Though our time shared was only 7 years, it seems like a lifetime. We shared Memorial Day, 4th of July, PH meetings, birthdays, lunches and even a trip of a lifetime to Pearl Harbor. He generously shared his love, his wisdom and his wit. He helped to mold our son into a man, and encouraged the heart of our daughter. He was a treasure we will always hold at high value and our hearts overflow with thankfulness that God wove our lives together - at the perfect time. Until we meet again! Much love for him and thankful also to the family that allowed us to be adopted!! :) Steve, Lisa, Erling & Genny
(photo of Jim and Erling at the USS Utah Memorial after raising and lowering the flag. December 2011)

Jeanne Chadwick

September 8, 2014

Sue, Knowing your father for just a few of his last years was a great pleasure for me. After having him speak at our Whatcom Co. School Retirees' meeting I would stop occasionally to visit him. After visiting him one time at Mt. Baker Care, I bought his book and have enjoyed reading his story.My last impromptu stop was the day he passed away yet he managed a big smile and hug. May your fond memories help you in the days ahead.

David Sullender

August 23, 2014

I loved the visits we had when I would go with my Mother, Thaylia (his cousin) to visit him and Arlene. When Arlene passed, we still went to visit Big Jim. It was always special to see him. A very brave man who grew up in a very violent time in history. He will always be a hero to me. When I last saw him,a few weeks ago,I told him he and "bubbles"(Arlene) would be together soon! He smiled from ear to ear! I will always remember that.
I will miss our visits.
R.I.P. Jim.

GRANDPA'S AUTOBIOGRAPHY--IN ITS THIRD OR FOURTH PRINTING!

August 19, 2014

John Sanders

August 18, 2014

Jim and Arlene - Best Neighbors Ever, you will be missed. Rest is peace

Gayle Vyskocil

August 18, 2014

Jim was a dear soul, totally dedicated to his family and friends, selfless in his devotion. Our friendship thru the Pearl Harbor Survivors chapter was very special. He and my late husband liked and respected each other so much, and Jim S. carried those feelings forward to me when my dear Jim died. I was honored to carry that mantle and never wanted to let him down when he asked for my help. He was a great example of courage and grace in his last days. I shall miss him very much.

Michelle Klein

August 18, 2014

A man of great history and of great heart. Jim was a very special man and will be missed.

Trish Lane Anderson

August 17, 2014

Rest in peace, Jim. You will be missed. Trish Lane Anderson

Nancy Jenkins

August 16, 2014

So glad I got to know you better these last few years. Enjoyed visiting with you when Thaylia (my mom, your cousin)would come up. May you RIP.

Ron Martinson

August 14, 2014

Lost a great guy. RIP Jim

Jeri Jeri Johnson

August 14, 2014

You will allways be in my heart forever and I know we will see each other again.Love you dad.Jeri

Filip Johnson

August 14, 2014

Very proud to call you my grandfather, wish we had known each other better. Rest In Peace Jim.
Filip Johnson, Grandson

Jeri stansell-Johnson

August 14, 2014

I' so glad we were able to spend time together.I did love you dad very much.I will miss our time together.Rest in peace.

Eric Johnson

August 14, 2014

I will miss you Jim and I am glad that we got to spend time together and learn about each other lives. Think of you often - Your grandson

August 14, 2014

SO Sorry to here this. Jim was a wonderful human being. I loved hearing him talk about his Pearl Harbor experience and I will NEVER Forget Jim and Arlene! Wonderful Americans!
Marty West

Cindy Stansell/kimball

August 13, 2014

My father, you were loved from a far. You will always be the Dad I loved as a child. I will hold you in my heart forever.

August 13, 2014

Jim you always were,and always will be,our favorite customer from our Cost Cutter days...from there you became a good friend, and a surrogate grandpa, because we missed our own so much...you were truly one of the greats, whose mold was broken...gentleman like you are few and far between. We were so impressed that even though you were "old school", you were computer savvy, and will miss your "daily update" emails...thanks so much for your friendship Jim...you will never be forgotten. Love Dina, Tricia, & Cara

Randy & Kathy Cross

August 13, 2014

You will be missed, we loved you very much. Randy & Kathy Cross

he had the best smile going,

katee wowk

August 13, 2014

Our Good buddy, How we will miss stopping by to see you
Kstee and Gene

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