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Henry Joseph Gai Jr.

Henry Joseph Gai Jr. obituary, Holliston, MA

Henry Gai Obituary

GAI, Henry Joseph Jr. 80, of Holliston passed away suddenly Thursday May 4th. He was the loving husband of Paula A. (Marchio) Gai. Hank was a graduate of the University of Connecticut, and later received his master's degree from Western New England University. He began his career at Pratt & Whitney where he was instrumental in the development of the Univac Computer, one of the first computers. He would later develop one of the first computer systems at Boston University. He founded International Consulting Services, a computer consulting firm. Hank was a passionate Red Sox fan and avid golfer; he was a longtime member of Framingham C.C. and Pinecrest C.C. in Holliston. Since 1999, Hank has been an ambassador at Sugarbush Ski Resort in Vermont where Hank and his family enjoy their vacation home. Hank was a life master at bridge; in 1962 he and his partner came in second in the National finals. He enjoyed many bridge tournaments in the New England area. Hank especially enjoyed being Papa to Elena, Justin and Olivia.

Hank was proud to serve his country as a Lieutenant in the United States Army from 1958 to 1962. He was a longtime member of the Holliston American Legion.

In addition to his wife, Hank is survived by two daughters, Alisa Wade and her husband Matthew of Hopkinton, and Krista Egan and her husband James of Hopkinton, three grandchildren, Elena, Justin, and Olivia Wade, two brothers, Robert Gai and his wife Patricia of Palm Beach Gardens, FL, and Thomas Gai and his wife Sheila of Billings, MT, and several nieces and nephews.

A funeral Mass will be celebrated Wed. May 10th at 10:00am in St. Matthew's Parish, 103 Southville Road, Southborough, MA. Calling hours will be held Tuesday from 4:00-7:00 PM in the Matarese Funeral Home, 325 Main Street, ASHLAND, MA. In lieu of flowers donations may be made to The Jimmy Fund - Dana-Farber Cancer Institute, P.O. Box 849168, Boston, MA 02284-9168. www.mataresefuneral.com

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Published by Boston Globe from May 6 to May 7, 2017.

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Kurt Prof. Dr. Scharnbacher

December 9, 2017

Dear Paula and Family
I wish to express my deepest condolences to the Gai family. I met Henry more than 50 years ago in the Bank&Trust Company in New Britain where we wrote computer programs. He was my teacher and advisor - he always had a smile and an open ear for the german student - later we met him in Boston and in Germany. He was a deeply good friend an will be sincerely missed.

Jeffrey Galin

July 1, 2017

My deepest condolences to the Gai family. Hank was one of the warmest people I have met in my lifetime, I will forever remember his kind nature and his love for his family, golf, and the Red Sox. Miss you deeply good friend.

Joe DiBlasi

May 14, 2017

I wish to extend my deepest condolences to the Gai family. I worked with Hank at Boston University and Compunetics. No matter how challenging the work, he always had a smile an a cordial manner. He will be sincerely missed.

Pauline Passanisi

May 9, 2017

Dear Krista and Family: I would like to express my condolences on Hank's passing. He was a great guy! Everybody is in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless.

bill niedzwiecki

May 8, 2017

Krista,I'm so sorry to hear about your father ,my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

eleanor schwager

May 8, 2017

Prayers for all of the Gai family.

May 7, 2017

So very sorry to hear about the passing of my golfing buddy for many years. My deepest sympathy to Paula and the children....Bob Galin , Palm Beach , Fl

Burt Robinson

May 7, 2017

Sorry to hear about Hank's sudden passing. My condolences go out to the entire family. I met Hank at FCC and played golf occasionally together. Nice man, good person and very good golfer. Blessings to all

Angela Hyman

May 7, 2017

Krista, words may not suffice to express the heartfelt sorrow that I feel for the passing of your father. Please accept my condolences. May God bring you peace and comfort during this painful time.

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