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Marjorie Meares

1960 - 2011

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1960

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2011

Marjorie Meares Obituary

MARJORIE (MARGIE) L. MEARES

ASHEVILLE - On Monday, August 8, 2011, Marjorie (Margie) L. Meares took her last breath, having lived with cancer for three years. Margie will be held in the hearts of her loving partner and dearest friend Ruth Ostrenga, her siblings, nieces and nephews, the members of Anattasati Magga Zen Sangha, and a huge and diverse community of friends.

Born October 30, 1960, Margie once wrote of a dear colleague that the brightest stars often burn out first, little knowing she was one herself. Her professional life began with a degree from Duke University, and continued with counseling adjudicated youth at Camp Woodson, working with the Air and Water Quality Divisions of NCDENR and later becoming the Executive Director of the Clean Air Community Trust in Asheville, which transformed to GO Asheville. She worked as a proponent of the Clean Smokestacks Act, was appointed to the Community Energy Advisory Council, elected to the Woodfin Water Board and was the Chairman of the Evergreen Charter School Board of Directors. As Margie's work interests expanded to buildings and sustainability she developed one of the country's first Eco Development Programs for realtors. As a Senior Associate with Mathis Consulting Company she worked on numerous projects to improve the energy efficiency of buildings, teaching the provisions of the energy code to NC Building Inspectors and working with the NC Building Code Council to draft the NC 2012 Energy Conservation Code. On the day of her death she received a personal letter from NC Governor Bev Perdue thanking her for her work that led to the Governor's signing of State Bill 708 enacting the new energy conservation code for the state.

Some would say Margie's life work was to transform people's understanding of the importance of the environment and to help develop environmental mindfulness, but her greatest gift was in helping people understand themselves. Recently ordained as a Lay Teacher in the Buddhist tradition, she wove her true life's work of knowing and teaching the Dharma into all she endeavored. She was a natural teacher who sought first to make a connection and win the heart; then to present the issue. She will be remembered for seeing life as an adventure, her quick yet kind wit and her playful nature.

A memorial service in her honor will be held this Saturday at 3 p.m. at the Daoist Traditions - College of Chinese Medical Arts, 382 Montford Avenue in Asheville.

Donations offered in Margie's honor should be addressed to the Margie Meares Fund, P.O. Box 18055, Asheville, NC 28814. A portion of all donations will be given to two non-profit organizations that were very close to Margie's heart - the Center for End of Life Transitions and Green Opportunities (GO) Asheville.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Asheville Citizen-Times from Aug. 11 to Aug. 13, 2011.

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Linda Block

August 24, 2011

Just now hearing of Margie's death and I feel so sad. We shared an office when she was working for clean air and I, for clean water. I loved her humor and optimism. I also greatly admired her dedication to the care of her ailing father and the humor she brought to a challenging time. I admired the consistent and loving relationship she had with Ruth. Margie was definitely one of the good ones.

Malcolm Bartow

August 14, 2011

Bless you Margie, to have met you is to have loved you. I hope and pray everyone of us who did meet you in this life time can aspire to do half of what you did.
Much Love, Light and Peace to all of your family, friends and Sangha.
Love in All ways, Malcolm

Robert Eaton

August 13, 2011

Margie is gone, and it is an event too soon for our world.
Margie was a rare gift, her special uniqueness obvious to all she met. Clarity, honesty, intelligence, sensuality, acceptance define her for me. She challenged with kindness and purpose.

I am sad in this. My love to all of you in her family and in
her community. Special care to you, Ruth, and to Marilyn and Virginia.

Laurie Tyler Dodd

August 13, 2011

I knew Margie at Duke and after. What a joy to think back on the energy she embodied. She truly seemed larger than life. She will be missed.

Monica Wolgemuth-Causey

August 12, 2011

I am saddened to hear of Margie's passing for I know Ruth and her family will feel a great loss. Fond memories, her work and teachings will continue her presence, her energy..to benefit all beings.

Cori Maas

August 11, 2011

.Margie was a star in all her endeavors. Such a clear, forward thinker.
As well as a Compassionate Soul.. Margie was invaluable to me during Rick's illness.So much caring, love and generosity toward us during that time...a true class act.
Love, Cori Maas

August 11, 2011

Such sad sad news! I had the honor of meeting Margie at Marilyn & Jim's wedding and felt an instant sisterly bond to her. Over the years news of her life and work always made me smile. Now over the years to come memories of her will continue to make me smile. Holding all who knew her and loved her in my heart. - Mary Ellen Flaherty (Longmeadow, MA)

Jeremy McCarty

August 11, 2011

My deepest sympathy goes to Ruth and Margie's family and friends. Margie's work and humor will always be remembered. It was an honor to know her. My love and comfort goes to Ruth at this difficult time.

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