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RALPH SHELTON Obituary

Ralph W. “Pappy” Shelton, 80, “Major U.S. Army Retired ” of Sweetwater, died Tuesday, June 29, 2010, at Sweetwater Hospital. A native of Corinth, Mississippi, he was a son of the late William M., Jr and Elma Hilburn Shelton and was also preceded in death by 2 sisters, Quiba Moore and Gladys Price, and 1 brother, Bill Shelton, Jr. Major Shelton, a member of the Army Special Forces, is perhaps best remembered as the man who trained the Bolivian Troops who captured the revolutionary Che Guevara. Shelton joined the U.S. Army in 1948 and served as a sergeant in the Korean War, earning the Silver Star for valor. Shelton entered the U.S. Army officer’s training school, finishing first in his class in 1958. In 1961, after Ranger and Airborne training, he joined the Special Forces. His Mobile Training Team served much of its time behind enemy lines to train natives of other countries to fight insurgencies around the world. His team fought Laotian insurgents in Southeast Asia before he was assigned in 1967 to train Bolivian troops to capture Guevara. After leaving the Army, he earned a bachelor’s and a master’s degree from the University of Memphis. He taught 12 years of JROTC in the Memphis City Schools and served five years as director of Operations Wilderness, a summer experience modeled after the Outward Bound Program. He also served 14 years as training director with the U.S. Office of Personnel Management in Memphis. He was a member of the First United Methodist Church of Sweetwater, where he had served on the Administrative Board. He was a member of the Sweetwater Kiwanis Club, He was a member of Memphis Lodge #722 F&AM, he was a 32nd Degree Scottish Rite Mason, and was a member of the Shrine of Memphis. He served as a Sweetwater City Commissioner, was also involved in Sweetwater Tourism, and was awarded Monroe County’s Tourism Person of the Year. He is survived by his wife; Susan Vestal Shelton, of Sweetwater and formerly of Athens, four daughters; Janeene Larkin of Memphis, Robin Poole and her husband Randy of Gallantin, TN, Piper Browning, and Brandi Maddox both of Nashville, one son; Ralph W. Shelton, Jr. and his wife Phyllis of Dayton,TN, and one stepson, Robert Forrest Torian of Memphis, and eight grandchildren. A funeral service will be conducted, 3:00 P.M., Friday, July 2, 2010, in the chapel of Smith Funeral Home with the Rev. Julian Walton and Rev. Carl Oakes officiating. Interment will follow in Cedar Grove Cemetery with full Military Honors at the graveside. The family will receive friends at the funeral home from 1:00-2:30 P.M., Friday prior to the service. If you are unable to attend this service or visitation, you may sign the guest register at www.jerrysmithfuneralhome.com Smith Funeral & Cremation Service of Athens (423)745-3013

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Published by The Commercial Appeal on Jul. 1, 2010.

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Brandi Shelton

February 10, 2026

MY DADDY
MY HERO
...I love and miss you every day!
Love ,
Your Daughter,

Brandi Shelton Matlock

Bob Wirt

September 26, 2010

Major Shelton was a good and decent man who performed the tough tasks that most others would not. Pappy was a warrior and a true leader in the fight for freedom around the world, toiling in the dark places so the rest of us could live peacefully in the light. He will not be soon forgotten. de Oppresso Liber

CSM James Norris

July 8, 2010

Like so many others, MAJ Shelton was a tremendous influence in my life. I lost track of him for about 20 years and then found him through the internet while on a recent deployment overseas. Susan, thank you for helping arrange for me and my wife to get to visit with him in the hospital in May. I still remember all the words to "Put another log on the fire" thanks to the MAJ. He will be missed but never forgotten.

Tim Taylor

July 3, 2010

I would like to offer my sincere condolences to the family of Major Shelton. He had a great influence on me when I was under his command in ROTC at Kingsbury High School in the late 70’s and also on his first Operation Wilderness trip in the Tennessee mountains. His leadership training was invaluable to me in my life. Major Shelton is one of those people who everyone remembers with respect and wishes they could have spent more time with. He will be greatly missed.

kevin myers

July 3, 2010

Major shelton was my ROTC instructor at kingsbury high school. i was in it for 4 years. i loves it because he knew how to get through to people when noone else could....he was a very special person and my heart goes out to his family..god bless his family and a big salute to Major Shelton..

Rev. James Morgan Jr.

July 3, 2010

Major Shelton was a honorable man of class and dignity and one who shaped many as well as myself lives from childhood to adulthood. Although I lost connection with him over the years his teaching still remains. I pray that God will continue to comfort the Shelton family and remember we shall see him again!

John Harper III

July 3, 2010

I was a member of the ROTC program while at kingsbury High School, during the 70's, and Major Shelton was our leader, such an example of Love, Respect, Pride, for the program and for the Military. I can remember the dignity he demanded while you where a part of his program, and you had to be the best, and look the best. Major was a great man and Loved his country, Your family should be very proud even during this home going time. I thank God for sharing this man of yours, with student like me, he cared, he cared, and God Bless his memories, for ever. Thank you again for sharing this man of valor, class of 79, RIP, SIR.

Lisa Boyle

July 2, 2010

My sincere sympathy goes to Major Sheltons family. This was a great man he was my ROTC Major in high school at Kingsbury he is the reason I decided to be a member of the girls drill team. He got a kick out of my initials he signed my yearbook to Lisa cod.. That is what he called me. This world has lost a great leader who was loved by all of us. Lisa O'Daniel Boyle

Kevin Kutz

July 2, 2010

As a young JROCT student in the late 70’s I had no idea how much influence you would have on me. I remember sitting through many of your lectures being amazed at your experiences and wisdom. You are single handedly responsible for teaching me about love of country, and respect for our freedom and the American flag. Thank you Sir! May God give comfort to your family.

Rene Jackson

July 2, 2010

I will always remember Major Shelton. He was my ROTC instructor at Kingsbury High school. He was a special man! I loved him!

Regis Murphy, A-503, 5thSFG

July 2, 2010

"A man is not dead unless he is forgotten" 'Pappy' Shelton will be with us for a long, long time!

Rosemary Shelton

July 2, 2010

I did not know Mr.Shelton but happened upon his obituary and could not help but thank him for all he has done for our country.I am sure he was a wonderful man and will be sorely missed.Please excuse me for intruding but I felt I needed to express my regards and thanks to someone who risked their life for me and served our country so selfishly.Rest in peace now Mr.Shelton and may The Good Lord be with all those left behind and give them your peace...

John McCallum

July 2, 2010

Dear Susan,

I am saddened to hear of Pap's passing. He was a great soldier and a good friend. From our time in Laos together till the last time we had the pleasure of dinner with you two in Sweetwater he always made me feel special.

I am proud to have known him and call him my friend.

RIP Pap

Johnny Mc
Former 7th SF Group (ABN)

Dana Trent

July 1, 2010

Ralph has always been one of my favorite patients. He always made me laugh with jokes and stories from the past. I was always impressed with his respect and love when he spoke of Susan. I will miss you so much my friend. Susan and family, you will all be in my thoughts and prayers.
Dana (Dr. Moore's office)

John Burton

July 1, 2010

Ralph was the warrior of warriors. He threw himself 100% into everything he chose do. He was truly a great American and a true patriot and he was my best friend. We shared an enthusiasm for tourism and he worked diligently to bring about changes to enhance the betterment of the community. Goodbye my friend and may your soul rest in eternal peace.

July 1, 2010

I am saddened to hear of the passing of this great American Patriot, and Special Forces Officer. Several years ago here at Bragg we had the honor to hear his account of the legendary MTT that changed the course of history. His was a life well spent in selfless service to our nation and others.
May God bless him and the family. Bob Seals, USA SF Ret. (Raeford, NC)

CHUCK HILLING

July 1, 2010

JULY 01,2010:

DEAR SUSAN:

IT IS MY PRAYER THAT YOU FEEL GOD'S LOVE, HIS GRACE & HIS MERCY IN THIS YOUR TIME OF NEED & IN DOING SO YOU WOULD HAVE COMFORT & PEACE TODAY & DAYS TO COME.I AM SO VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSE.

WITH SINCERE REGARDS:

CHUCK HILLING, BRASELTON, GA

Dixie Barron

July 1, 2010

I am saddened to learn of the passing of this great lion warrior. Major Shelton was one of my favorite people. His sense of humor was unrivaled and his courage had no boundaries. In short, he was simply the BEST! He and his family are in my prayers.
Sincerely,
Dixie Leigh Barron
Hernando, MS

Rita Tipps

July 1, 2010

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

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