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Rachel Bender Obituary

Rachel was born and raised in Gardner, MA. She grew up with many life-long friends, cousins, aunts, and uncles. After graduating from Middlebury College, she taught upper elementary grades in Seattle, WA; Heidelberg, Germany; Lexington, MA; and Boulder, CO. Teaching in Germany encouraged her interest in travel to visit forty countries and forty-seven states. Music was important and she enjoyed playing several instruments. She also enjoyed singing with many choral groups. After drawing from an early age, she began watercolor painting and took lessons from many local artists. Wintertime saw her skiing or ice skating and summer was swimming or sailing. She is survived by her husband Jim, of fifty-seven years, and sons Phil (Kimie), Clark (Sarah), Bruce (Katherine), and grandsons Josh, Adam, Jay, Charlie, and Leo. Donations may be made to the Alzheimer's Association: Colorado Chapter at http://www.alz.org/co/donate.

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Published by The Daily Camera from Jan. 5 to Jan. 10, 2021.

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Willie Knierim

January 20, 2021

Jim and family, I am saddened and sorrowful to learn of Rachel's death. Your family and mine go back a long way and I remember fondly the times of shared delight, Being in a profession of sharing love as we taught young people to engage and relish the world though personal interaction is one of life's greatest gifts... perhaps second only to the incredible people with whom it is shared. Thank you for being one of those people along with Rachel. May you know peace, love, grace, and joy as you remember the richness of a life well lived.

Rick & Lori Allen

January 20, 2021

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived. We wish the best for you and your family, please take care!

Kevin Lowe

January 13, 2021

Rachel was always kind to me. As a young man who was friends with her children, she was a joy to be around and always treated us as members of the family. I will always remember her as a wonderful woman.

Barbara Bromby

January 12, 2021

Rachel was a wonderful kind and sharing person. Her love of art and music was amazing. Our family enjoyed spending many wonderful fun times together. She will always have a special place in our hearts. Barbara, Russell, Steven, & Sarah Bromby

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