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Gary Zarr Obituary

Gary A. Zarr DuanesburgGary A. Zarr, 74, of Duanesburg, NY, passed away unexpectedly at home on Tuesday, March 25, 2014. Gary was born the son of the late Anthony and Mary Zurinskas in Danbury, CT. He was a graduate of Danbury High School and the University of Bridgeport. Gary had an early career as an actor in theater as well as TV and in the movies. He became an internationally renowned interior designer for Jackie Kennedy, Leonard Bernstein and others. He was a thoroughbred horse breeder who renovated several horse farms in New York State. Gary is survived by his sister, Janet Frazier and her husband, B. J.; and several nieces and nephews. Friends are invited to a celebration of his life at Gibby's Diner, Quaker St., Duanesburg, NY on Monday, April 7, from noon to 2:30 p.m. Donations can be made in his loving memory to the Thoroughbred Retirement Foundation, P.O. Box 834, Saratoga Springs, NY 12866, trfinc.org.

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Published by The Daily Gazette Co. on Apr. 1, 2014.

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Bob Bowers

May 3, 2024

Gary was an amazing human being who helped many people, including me, in my early days of sobriety. He was a power of example and so much fun to be around...I still miss him.

Gerardo Fink

October 3, 2020

I met him in Venezuela, such a great person, always with a nice humor, a gentleman, rest in peace!

Gerardo Fink

October 3, 2020

I met him in Venezuela, such a great person, always with a nice humor, a gentleman, rest in peace!

Gerardo Fink

October 3, 2020

I met him in Venezuela, he was such a great person, with a nice humor, a Gentleman, rest in peace.

Gerardo Fink

October 3, 2020

I met him in Venezuela, he was such a great person, with a nice humor, a Gentleman, rest in peace.

Gerardo Fink

October 3, 2020

I met him in Venezuela, he was such a great person, great humor, a gentleman, Rest in peace!

March 22, 2019

I Still have many fond memories of Gary and his friendship. My husband passed away in 2012 before Gary. They both loved the horses and I am content that they are now on the backstretch in Heaven together. God bless them both.

Losha Ramey

June 1, 2018

The world will miss you. A great person to be around. A true mentor of life and a true friend. Taught me so much in such a short time it seems. May you rest in peace Gary. God Bless You. I wish we had many more days together.

April 26, 2014

I'd like to say "Gary Zurinskas". I teased him about changing to Zarr. But it rhymed with "star" and that's what he was. Aunt Irene and uncle Ed were very proud of him and saw all his plays, and even with Grandma Stella. She was so proud too and I know she, Ed, and your parents well be so happy to be with you again. Goodbye Gary.

Carolyn Marcell

April 16, 2014

Gary was an extraordinary person.........intelligent, talented, compassionate, and a great friend to all who were lucky enough to have crossed his path! He lit up a room just by walking into it. His love and devotion to his horses, cats, and all furry four-legged creatures was a window into his soul. The world is a darker place without him. Rest in peace, dearest Gary.

Virginia Mangold

April 11, 2014

After years of hunting for a country home we finally settled on Westwinds (at the time a complete diseaster but Gary, the determined man he was, turned the entire farm into the beautiful property it is today .. This from your "old" realtor, Virginia Mangold ..

JOAN EVANS

April 10, 2014

YOU WILL BE SADLY MISSED IN SO MANY WAYS. A GOOD FRIEND WITH A GREAT PERSONALITY. REST IN PEACE.

April 7, 2014

Gary will be missed. Always looked forward to seeing him at Gibby's. He will be fondly remembered. Linda

Theresa Church

April 6, 2014

Gary was always a bright light and a happy face to see at Gibby's Diner in Quaker Street, NY. My family and I have gone to Gibby's for years, it was always a highlight of my day to see Gary there. I will miss his enthusiasm and joyful smile. My prayers and sympathies to his friends and family.
Theresa and Joel Church

Herb Hintze

April 4, 2014

Gary will be missed by many. He was a true friend and will never be replaced.

Darlene Rovegno

April 4, 2014

Jan and family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I did not know your brother but reading the notes left here I wish I had. It seems his life was full of happiness, love and laughter and that he left a lasting impression on everyone he came to know. May you hold your memories close and find comfort in them. Sending love and prayers to you and your entire family.

dawn burdick

April 3, 2014

Gary was a very important person in my life
My prayers to his family he will missed

April 3, 2014

Ken & Evie Card are very saddened by Gary's passing. He was a dear friend. Janet may God's kindness and grace give you and your family peace.

Patricia Baker

April 3, 2014

The Baker Family is deeply saddened by the news of Gary's passing. We had many good times together upstate at our farm in Cornwallville. He was a remarkable man and such fun to be with.You are in our prayers dear friend.

Elizabeth Gillum

April 2, 2014

Hi Janet.
Gary was a true friend and an inspirational mentor for our family in the thoroughbred industry. Such a talented and fun-loving, wonderful man. We will truly miss him! Wishing you peace as you reflect on the love of life that he shared with everyone he met.

Patrick

April 2, 2014

Thoughts and prayers for the family,may the hearer of prayers grant you the strength and solace to carry on at this difficult time

Roger & Lynne Crowe

April 2, 2014

Dear Janet & BJ,
We are so shocked and saddened by Gary's passing. We enjoyed him stopping by 3-4 times a week telling us stories. He was part of our family, and we always had a good laugh. He will be greatly missed.

Don DeFranco

April 1, 2014

So sorry to hear of Gary's passing. He lived life to the fullest and made the world a brighter, happier place when he was around. My sincere condolences to his family.

Colleen Baker

April 1, 2014

Shocked and saddened by the news of Gary' passing the world was a much more colorful place with him in it. He was a true friend when I really needed one and I will miss him. My thoughts and prayers are with the family during this difficult time. God bless and rest in peace.

Bob Eberle

April 1, 2014

I was shocked to hear the news of Gary's passing. Your entire family is in my thoughts and prayers.

April 1, 2014

Dear Jan, BJ & Family.
Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. We will all miss Gary, a very gracious and sweet person.
With my deepest sympathy and love.
Clemencia Ruiz

April 1, 2014

My sincere condolences to the family, as we await the time when " no resident will say I am sick" Isa 33:24; JF

Eileen Mirabelli Elsbree

April 1, 2014

What a shock to hear of Gary's passing. I have so many fond memories. I am very thankful to have known him. His personality certainly did fill a room! I will never forget his sense of humor, the way he went directly to the fridge when he came to the house, and the way he made people feel special.
My condolences to his family and his close friends.

Romine & Heather Davenport

April 1, 2014

We are so shocked and saddened by the loss of Gary. He will be greatly missed

Gay Judd

April 1, 2014

Gary has been a good friend since high school.He truly was so much fun to be with. It's hard to believe such a vibrant person could leave us so quickly. He made me smile every time I saw or heard from him. I will forever miss him .

Gary on the backstretch

Mark and Jean Connolly

March 31, 2014

We'll miss Gary on the backstretch of Saratoga Race Track. A day at the track is always great but it was always better when Gary showed up. He always had a good story and a passion for his horses.

Gary on the backstretch at Saratoga

Mark Connolly

March 31, 2014

Peter O'Hara John Garofalo

March 31, 2014

Dear Jan and B.J.
We were devastated to learn of Gary's death. We will always remember his wonderful laugh and love of everything that was fun; he was larger than life.
Our deepest sympathy to you and the family.

Carol Emmens

March 31, 2014

Will miss his company and stories; he was always good for a laugh.

March 31, 2014

Janet and BJ,
We are so saddened at the loss of Gary, he never missed a Zurinskas family event, family was a priority and you always could count on him to be there. Most of all we will miss his vibrant personality, humor and holiday cards of his beloved horses. Our memories are found and are hearts are heavy.

Leslie Z. Mather,
Reg ,Jane, Ron and Lauren Zurinskas

Lynne Matthews

March 30, 2014

Gary was certainly fun to be with, especially at the lake. Lots of laughs. Saw Gary last at our 50th class reunion but spoke many times after on the phone. Gary had a great sense of humor. He will remain in my thoughts forever

Gary Zarr, Brend Burdick, Rob Hepner 70's?

March 30, 2014

Rob Hepner

March 30, 2014

Dearest Janet and BJ,
I am so sorry. I am also devastated. It wasn't a party until Gary showed up. Just got a card from him wishing me well, how ironic. He will never be forgotten and always be missed.

Cousin Gary - The life of the party.

Carey Z Sams

March 29, 2014

Kathleen Zuris

March 29, 2014

Gary, you will be missed.

Here's to you, Gary!

Kathleen Zuris

March 29, 2014

March 29, 2014

We are so sorry to hear of Gary passing on. He was such a vibrant, genuine person, with so much personality! Our hearts go out to you. We're keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Faith and Ozene Dean

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